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Men, do you sincerely think that women over 30 are "undesirable"? (Page 3)
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30s too hold for me... at age 50 she becomes grandma.. 50-30=20 (so I could only enjoy her for 10 years until she hits age 40s & loses total beauty for making enough love & sex in life of a man) I'd rather marry someone in 20s, so that I can enjoy her youth for very long (20+ years) till we both age together!
I am nearly 42 and I have just as many men try to get to know me, hook up with me and whatever else may be on their agenda. It has nothing to do with your age, it's your confidence, looks and personality that attracts
Exactly , Or is out right unattractive from the inside out. Except composure , personality and character from most women these day's out right suck for the better term.
So you lied on profile age?
That's because you're a doll. And a future chopper pilot.
@Crapless_WU no, I thought I typed nearly 43 (I can't edit like I can on Facebook when I goof up)
@jdrrichmond thanks for comment!
In this hook up culture, many men think that oder women had dozens and dozens of men (not very appealing for some men). Also.. Older women seem not have respect to younger men. Like:"i already had so much experience. Dont dare to rule me. I dont need you at all. So you do as i say or its over and you dont get any sex" i am 22 and find older women attractive, but.., ehm i better dont write more.. or i get mad. I just had a bad experience (without sex) feel free to reply
Yup, never marry older women, they will treat you like shit because they think they have bigger brain because they're older
I think she meant Sex in first place. My motto :"Dont respect me and we are done" and both know that its mainly about sex, when there is such a high age difference. If she can't handle the fact or if she can't deal with it.. then she is not as mature in her mind as you think. She should actually say then, that she wants to find a serious relationsship. The most younger guys will decline then. Also.. Many men think that women in their early 30s are planning for a family -> undesireable for men who are still building up their lives.
True! Tell them birches who waits so long for "the right guy" to come in their lives
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90% are fuck and dumps cause they are just to damaged for a relationship. It is so much easier to find a good woman after 30 if you wait to have sex till your married and say that on your dating profile or to them. That gets rid of so man girls that are just a waste of time and are not marriage material.
Ummm... All my friends who got married in their 20s are divorced! So what is the point?
I think getting married in your 30s is better. You are young enough to enjoy everything you enjoyed in your 20s but you are old enough to be wiser than when you were in your 20s. So what is the rush?
If anyone tries to convince you otherwise just ignore them and do your thing. We all age so whoever is trying to make you feel bad about it is going through the same process of aging.
I'm 24 right now and so many people I know are getting married. Most of them have kids before they even marry, its honestly really weird.
Big problem is that so many women don't put much effort into their looks at any age. So after 30 when they are fighting nature+their bad habits, they really aren't attractive looking. But if you're working out, keeping your hair long, taking care of your looks--then no, 30 is not the end.
Your other main problem is that a 32 year old guy might want to date a 30 year old woman... oooor he might be feeling like he'd rather get a 24 or 25 year old if he is indeed a catch.
There's a lot of women that are undesirable in their 20s and 30s. Just as long as you take care of yourself, don't let yourself go, and don't go all fucked in the head, then guys should still be willing to do date you. However, for some women, this is definitely not possible and it shows, which is why 20 somethings are more desirable, at least up to a certain age.
I thought they said older ladies would be more "experienced" in many areas in life? Don't see what the problem is. Whoever said they are undesirable is just probably making up some bullshit or maybe it has something to do with their own cultural beliefs, or their customs and traditions.
Your ex is just trying to get to you. Also guys getting close to 30 would probably prefer marrying a girl in her 30’s than marrying a 21 year old.
Can you tell me your opinion on my question?
Does this make a guy gay or bisexual? ↗
I’ve only rarely been attracted to women that are more than a year or two older than myself. When I was a teenager, I didn’t even notice women over 30. Fast forward a couple decades. Now that I’m in my late 30’s and divorced, I’m open to the idea of dating a woman in her early to mid 30’s. Eventually, I would like to get remarried if I find the right person.
The only difference that i see with a older women than a younger one is the fact that sex is not a big issue for them. So older women are sexier in my opinion because they are more mature about life period. But when it comes to looks and natual tightness (body and face)... Young will always win. Just so you know.. i perfer older older women's.
We *prefer* younger than ourselves usually, but that doesn't mean we wouldn't like ever consider or check out girls that are older. The main issue is almost never her physical age-- it's usually that she has kids, since she's older. And that's a no for me.
Undesirable? certainly not. Most women I've been with were older than me and yes over 30.
But marrying them was something I didn't even imagine.
Why would a man marry you after your 30's when there are plenty of fresh young chicks willing to marry in a young age?
Yes, you can still find a man. Chances are he will be someone thirsty and desperate which will never make you happy. Or he will be some rich guy and you will marry him for his money.
20s, 30s, 40s... doesn’t matter. Most women in the 30s are much more experienced and have their shit together by then, than women in there 20s. I’d rather be with an older women who knows what she wants, keeps herself looking right, and has her shit together. Than sacrifice for a 20 something that is depending on a man to take care of them...
I feel like women over 30,
Most the time they screwed around too much, partied, acted stupid, treated their good guy like crap, left him, didn't pursue their dream...
Most women want babies and marriage by the time they are 30.
Which if they don't, that's perfectly fine, nothing wrong with partying if that's what you want to do...
But girls that actually do want that family, and they are 30 get more desperate and more problems come out
It's not that they're "undesirable." It's just that girls in their 20s have SOOO much going for them. They're younger and therefore generally hotter. They have an incredible energy about them. They're less jaded and cynical and more spontaneous and fun. And of course, they'll have less relationship baggage and less urgency to immediately lock down a man and start a family. Basically pretty much everything about dating a girl in her mid-20s is more fun than dating the same girl in her 30s.
Puhleese, I am 18, and most girls I've seen my age are nothing special. They come to lecture wearing muumuus and granny sweaters. A person can be beautiful at any age, regardless. If you say 20s, wow, I should be worried. I'll be "undesirable" in 10 years or so. besides, my mom is 50, and she is hotter than 85% of "young" women. she looks better than most "models without a speck of makeup. and I think she has about 2 wrinkles (around her laugh lines, from smiling too much). I have em too.
also, we're all going to wake up one day with saggy boobs and cellulite and greying hair. It is a natural cycle of life. Why do we all freak out so much over aging? Sheesh. Yes, looks may fade, but they don't have to. if you eat well and take care of yourself, heck, you can be the hottest 70 year old out there. past the age of 60, I don't think i'd care that much about looks. Hopefully by then I will fulfill all of my major life goals.
I disagree, women in there twenties still need some growing up to do.
Also, Diana hit the nail on the head.
@DianaWest So, as I said in the first line--it's not that they're "undesirable." They aren't. BUT (and you reiterate this point as well, so I think we're in agreement here) women in their 20s, as a group, are younger and therefore tend to be hotter than women in their 30s. As you say, eventually all women will have saggy boobs, cellulite and greying hair. But that hasn't hit yet for most girls in their 20s. That's why it's great to date a girl in her prime and get older with her.
Now the whole point that women in their 50s, 60s or whatever can be hot is true, but not really the point I'm making, which is that as a group, women in their 20s tend to be hotter, and have less baggage than older women.
@dkcrum Thank you. :)
@DianaWest you're talking about girls but I think he was talking about women. Every girl is dumb at 18 and all boys are tards aswell, which is why you're still being called a girl or a boy until you've grown into a woman or a man.
Op. Owner is right, women in their mid 20ies have way more energy and are more "free", as in "less preoccupied about building a familly" which is something many guys find attractive. When you grow older it's up to you to maintain this attractivness, and if you're clever about it, no saggy titties, cellulite or grey hair will stop you from finding men.
@PeLLepel Well said!
@PeLLepel Okay, now I understand why so many women above 35 give me death stares. Like don't worry sweetie, i'll feel your pain in 10 years.
@DianaWest LOL! You should tell them that! :D
Ha ha, no, they'll probably freak. ;)
@DianaWest Oh they definitely might! The amount of hate that some women in their 30s have for younger, hotter, happier girls is kind of frightening to behold! lol!
Women in there 20s are way more desirable then women in there 30’s. Women’s looks depreciate very quickly and most women ride the cock and run out of time quickly when they should be looking for a good mate. Men’s desierablity goes up In life with statues and can land young women even when they are older that’s why men when the dating game. sexual liberation for women is screwing them later in life.
I do not care for her age but i would rather not have one with kids yet which obviously is more likely with older girls/woman not because i hate kids but i just don't want them yet and am not even sure if i ever wan't them.
I find this question to be offensive, so all men regardless of age want a 20 yr olds? i dont believe that n if so its probably for sex and not a relationship. Women usually hit their prime in their 30s.. whoever told you this coulsnt be that old
Nah this is wrong of course you be able to get someone at 30 if i was 25 or higer i would denfintaly go with 30. Also your age don't matter that much if you got a great personaitly. And looks also help