Well if thats your mindset that your never going to do something then it definitely won't. I'd say learn to keep more of an optimistic mindset. And before you know it you could find some one who is just perfect.
No way!!! A woman who is smart, passionate about her work and if we get along well!!! I wouldn't care much if she is 32.. But yeah a girl who is about 36 for me would be a no -no because of the age gap. But if I was older, then hell why not?
At my age, 30s look youthful yet more mature and solvent. But they're going to want kids. 20s are too young and are going to want to play around. If I were 20 something, I would think differently perhaps but I'm glad I'm not.
Connection is more important to me than age. I just turned 30 and if I had to pick between a 23 year old and a 35 year old who were equally attractive to me I'd pick the one i had a better connection to
please your ex is a total moron. it isn't matter of ever but who. after you hit 30 you become a bit more picky (not in a bad way) and so do guys. It just takes you finding the right person.
I'm 39 years old, I have 21 year olds that hit on me sometimes. I'm not trying to sound egotistical, I am an attractive male and look to be about 30 to 33 years old. I have found over time that women over 30 are much more desirable because they're smarter, they're experienced, and they know what they want.
our age is just a number with out any special meaning. A young boy/Girl in 20s could be as disappointed as the one who is 80 s and the 80 s could be as energetic and optimistic as 20s. SO don't waste our time by this number. I think it would be better to focus on some other criteria like how they act regardless to their age!!!
I think women in their thirties are very desirable. It's actually my dating preference. Your ex is an asshole by the way.
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I think I'm reaching an age where the range I'm interested in dating isn't going up. I'm 26 but don't want to date over 24yo people. Plus that makes sense to me personally: Given the complications that arise with older women as mothers, if you're going to develop a relationship naturally (albeit still kinda fast) then she'd need to be around 24 to pop all the kids out by the time she began to move into that risky zone to be a mother in.
@GracefulCharm what, 31? Okay, I think women start losing their youthfulness by 35. SO why the hell would someone say 30? Man, that's when (35) the white hairs start sprouting and when the wrinkles come out. Damn damn wrinkles.
@DianaWest The photo Jjpayne displayed is Rachel Platten. She's currently 36. I think the reason most women lose their attractiveness when they get older because they aren't taking care of their health. They don't care about their hormonal levels and this results in many problems including bad moods. At my age, I already notice a few of my friends are going to be ugly when they reach 40's. They don't eat healthy, they don't exercise and they love to indulge in alcohol. They already have beer bellies and higher than average body fat.
Life is what you make it, it doesn't matter what age you are. I met a 50 year old lady who had wrinkles and white hair but I found her so sexy because she was very fit and athletic. She was also a natural blonde, which I prefer in my women.
Personally, I like to date close to my age, which is 25. So I'd date someone in their early 30's now. Once I get older I'd be willing to date older women.
If there was a 30 year old attracted to me and physically attractive by my standards I would hands down go for them. Maturity and composure are extremely attractive qualities that generally come as a package with those aged 30 and up.
Right now, yes, but I am only 22. When I am 30 I will think 30 year old women are the best lol Your ex is just trying to hurt you, probably bitter or jealous.
Yes and no. I don't rule out a woman cause she is in her 30's but yes in general younger women are more attractive, and are less likely to have children. Which is a bigger "undesirable" for a man usually.
Your ex is a tool, women in their 30s are as fantastic as any other woman, although the life experience has brought them confidence, which is incredibly attractive.
Already married someone 5 years younger than me (I'm 29). It makes sense when you really think about it. We have a huge amount of time to figure out if we want kids. If she were older, this would not be the case.
My aunt married after 40. Your friend knows nothing about life. It does get harder for women to get married after a certain age but definitely not impossible
I haven't been with a woman under 30 in 10 years. I was with a 34 year old about 6 months ago. I actually prefer a more mature, experienced woman. One that's adult, and knows how to have fun of all kinds.
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Well if thats your mindset that your never going to do something then it definitely won't. I'd say learn to keep more of an optimistic mindset. And before you know it you could find some one who is just perfect.
Women do *not* become undesirable in their 30s. He was just saying that to you to lower your self-worth.
No way!!! A woman who is smart, passionate about her work and if we get along well!!! I wouldn't care much if she is 32.. But yeah a girl who is about 36 for me would be a no -no because of the age gap.
But if I was older, then hell why not?
At my age, 30s look youthful yet more mature and solvent. But they're going to want kids.
20s are too young and are going to want to play around.
If I were 20 something, I would think differently perhaps but I'm glad I'm not.
Connection is more important to me than age. I just turned 30 and if I had to pick between a 23 year old and a 35 year old who were equally attractive to me I'd pick the one i had a better connection to
please your ex is a total moron. it isn't matter of ever but who. after you hit 30 you become a bit more picky (not in a bad way) and so do guys. It just takes you finding the right person.
I'm 39 years old, I have 21 year olds that hit on me sometimes. I'm not trying to sound egotistical, I am an attractive male and look to be about 30 to 33 years old. I have found over time that women over 30 are much more desirable because they're smarter, they're experienced, and they know what they want.
our age is just a number with out any special meaning. A young boy/Girl in 20s could be as disappointed as the one who is 80 s and the 80 s could be as energetic and optimistic as 20s. SO don't waste our time by this number. I think it would be better to focus on some other criteria like how they act regardless to their age!!!
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I think women in their thirties are very desirable. It's actually my dating preference. Your ex is an asshole by the way.
I think I'm reaching an age where the range I'm interested in dating isn't going up. I'm 26 but don't want to date over 24yo people. Plus that makes sense to me personally: Given the complications that arise with older women as mothers, if you're going to develop a relationship naturally (albeit still kinda fast) then she'd need to be around 24 to pop all the kids out by the time she began to move into that risky zone to be a mother in.
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Friend from pro model mother moved to a college town when married, age ~32 and those guys would follow her all over town!
She looks pretty good right? I feel like I know her from somewhere...
She's pretty, she's over 30.
@GracefulCharm what, 31? Okay, I think women start losing their youthfulness by 35. SO why the hell would someone say 30? Man, that's when (35) the white hairs start sprouting and when the wrinkles come out. Damn damn wrinkles.
@DianaWest
The photo Jjpayne displayed is Rachel Platten. She's currently 36.
I think the reason most women lose their attractiveness when they get older because they aren't taking care of their health. They don't care about their hormonal levels and this results in many problems including bad moods. At my age, I already notice a few of my friends are going to be ugly when they reach 40's. They don't eat healthy, they don't exercise and they love to indulge in alcohol. They already have beer bellies and higher than average body fat.
Life is what you make it, it doesn't matter what age you are. I met a 50 year old lady who had wrinkles and white hair but I found her so sexy because she was very fit and athletic. She was also a natural blonde, which I prefer in my women.
Personally, I like to date close to my age, which is 25. So I'd date someone in their early 30's now. Once I get older I'd be willing to date older women.
If there was a 30 year old attracted to me and physically attractive by my standards I would hands down go for them. Maturity and composure are extremely attractive qualities that generally come as a package with those aged 30 and up.
Right now, yes, but I am only 22. When I am 30 I will think 30 year old women are the best lol Your ex is just trying to hurt you, probably bitter or jealous.
Yes and no. I don't rule out a woman cause she is in her 30's but yes in general younger women are more attractive, and are less likely to have children. Which is a bigger "undesirable" for a man usually.
Your ex is a tool, women in their 30s are as fantastic as any other woman, although the life experience has brought them confidence, which is incredibly attractive.
Already married someone 5 years younger than me (I'm 29). It makes sense when you really think about it. We have a huge amount of time to figure out if we want kids. If she were older, this would not be the case.
My aunt married after 40. Your friend knows nothing about life. It does get harder for women to get married after a certain age but definitely not impossible
I haven't been with a woman under 30 in 10 years. I was with a 34 year old about 6 months ago. I actually prefer a more mature, experienced woman. One that's adult, and knows how to have fun of all kinds.