Asking someone out even for a cup of coffee is a terrifying ordeal at times, especially if you don't know who the person is. Therefore, I feel that it is kinda unfair for guys to ask us out every time. Plus, there is nothing in the act of asking someone out that would make it necessary for a guy to do, unlike lifting me in the air or something like that). Obviously, some guys are super confident and would need no assistance, but there could be others who are not so decisive. So what say people?

As a guy who is extremely shy, hell yes. Ask me out please.

Yes, even tho we are guys we sometimes struggle to ask a girl out, you never know maybe that guy was interested in you but too afraid to make a move, so you help him out big time

Yes you girls should. For a change. Plus it looks really cute though when you ask us out xD

Yes. If appreciate to stop being looked at in a she devil way. Some Girls act shy me but not others

Yes! It’s 2018... this is well overdue

Y wasting time on us by asking? Ask him.

Yeah they should I’m getting tired I’m 26 I need my girlfriend

I'm tired of taking the initiative with this guy.

I could personally NEVER ask anyone out. I'm way too shy and too scared I'll get rejected

No. If guys don't come to you there is a reason. That is a fact

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dopecookie72 Follow
Xper 4 Age: 28

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As a guy who is extremely shy, hell yes. Ask me out please.

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Anonymous
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Yes, even tho we are guys we sometimes struggle to ask a girl out, you never know maybe that guy was interested in you but too afraid to make a move, so you help him out big time

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Anonymous
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Yes you girls should. For a change. Plus it looks really cute though when you ask us out xD

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Anonymous
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Yes. If appreciate to stop being looked at in a she devil way. Some Girls act shy me but not others

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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Yes.
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Why the 4th I'm down?
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Why The thumb down?
  
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EvilAngel114 Follow
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Yes! It’s 2018... this is well overdue

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- Darknut123
  
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  Yes... raising my eyebrow to that statement
  
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opurba Follow
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Y wasting time on us by asking? Ask him.

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- Meninist
  
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  You’ve missed the point and not answered the question
  
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Anonymous
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Yeah they should I’m getting tired I’m 26 I need my girlfriend

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Xper 5 Age: 36 , mho 49%

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I'm tired of taking the initiative with this guy.

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Anonymous
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I could personally NEVER ask anyone out. I'm way too shy and too scared I'll get rejected

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- EGamer
  
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  Why do you think a guy would reject you
  
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Anonymous
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No. If guys don't come to you there is a reason. That is a fact

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CoffeeWC Follow
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Yes, guys can't always be the ones initiating

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Sara_Kellie Follow
Xper 5 Age: 54

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I'd rather not but I had to recently.

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babykinsa Follow
Xper 6 Age: 26

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if we believe in equality, then yes!

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Hungry_Shark Follow
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Yes, women should ask guys out.

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- Hungry_Shark
  
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  I love you
  
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- Asker
  
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  Are you talking about me? 🤔
  
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- Hungry_Shark
  
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  I love you...
  
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Sabrina_gomez Follow
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since I'm shy I think the guy should do it lol :D

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- spinfire86
  
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  Since you are shy tho - just curious, how do you or how would you go about saying "no" when you have to?
  
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- Meninist
  
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  What if the guy you love is also shy?
  
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- Sabrina_gomez
  
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  @Meninist
  
  hmmm good point.
  I don't know
  
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- Meninist
  
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  Seems a bit one sided
  
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- Sabrina_gomez
  
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  @Meninist haha
  
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Gingerguy33 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 29

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Yes that would be awesome!

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Fukaroo Follow
Yoda Age: 31

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Yes, quit making this so difficult for us.

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Sha84 Follow
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never ever ever ever ever ever

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- Meninist
  
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  Why not?
  
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perezden90 Follow
Xper 4 Age: 36

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Yea why not? Go get ur guy gals

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NucDylan Follow
Xper 5 Age: 33

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It would be amazing yes

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L0vely123 Follow
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no guys should be the ones asking

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- Meninist
  
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  Why?
  
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- L0vely123
  
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  @Meninist who raised you? its chivalrous and grow some balls
  
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- Meninist
  
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  My parents.
  
  Hilarious what you would know about growing balls. 😂✋
  
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- Meninist
  
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  Also hilarious how you couldn’t even answer a question without becoming petty and spiteful.
  
  It’s almost as if you jumped on the defensive because you know how ridiculous you look right now.
  
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Scott32 Follow
Xper 4 Age: 25

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Tons of respect for a girl that does

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Xper 4 Age: 24

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100% yes!! it’s 2018 bitcheezzzzzz!!!

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Anonymous
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They should only if they want to.

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Djaay Follow
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And look at all the guys saying YES. Pathetic

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- Djaay
  
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  Damn... never seen so many (cucks) in one place at the same time.
  
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Decentguy Follow
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yes def, that would be really awesome

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Nahid1234 Follow
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With me yes because I’m the best

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HOAAH Follow
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The app is bumble

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romeodili Follow
Xper 5 Age: 39

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yes i'm in support girls should do that

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Yes, But they still won't.

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IsoUser Follow
Yoda Age: 58

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The supposed "Glass" ceiling Shattered, Why Not 😊

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PAWSTTG Follow
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Yes. Fuck gender roles

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Asad1ONE1 Follow
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That's not gonna happen.

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yowuzup Follow
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Yes that would 've awsome

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Yup i think it is nice due to being a shy guy

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RKD31 Follow
Xper 4 Age: 30

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It'll not work, Until the women is dominating

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Anonymous
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It would be nice if they did

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reptocarl Follow
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Yes they should

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Babsie1984 Follow
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Yes! Definitely ☺️

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king237 Follow
Xper 4 Age: 42

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I would say yes because guys can be shy too

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unloved_ulsterman Follow
Xper 4 Age: 50

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Yes but still won't make any difference to me.

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math_c Follow
Xper 3 Age: 26

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Why not? You should do it whenever you want...

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jonathanj513 Follow
Xper 4 Age: 64

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Oh, hell yeah. It's about time women ask us out.

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jagadeeshpraveen Follow
Xper 4 Age: 27

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Sometimes if guys are little shy

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Ross224 Follow
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Yes it would make everything more easier

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Askmes Follow
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Yes, it’s nice to experience

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akexander Follow
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is actually the females choice to ask or not

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steveguitar Follow
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614 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Of course, why not

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BatmansWife Follow
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Yes.

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masterslittletoy133 Follow
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Yes they should

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- beth-inside
  
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  Yessssssssssss
  
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Nik1hil Follow
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yes indeed

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N23SA Follow
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yeah

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Yes, they should.

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ryn0o Follow
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They should.

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loverlopez1000 Follow
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Yes 😁

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Sockertz Follow
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Yes please 😭😭

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Keonisha Follow
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Yes!

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Anonymous
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Haha my girlfriend did😂

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Darknut123 Follow
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Yeeeess

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inmensus Follow
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Of course.

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