Would you date a guy who isn't very atractive but is really funny?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[Lovvyyy]

No. If that was the case, I would have ended up dating all of my male friends.
I wouldn't date a guy who is very attractiive but incredibly unfunny either.
It's not an "aut aut" situation, when I'm willing to go out with someone, it's because he has all it takes, not just "funny" or "intelligent" or "good looking" or "nice person"; he has to fill every requirements.

Of course if he is someone I don't know, then the first thing I'm going to judge in order to willing to accept going to said first date it's the look, but if that's all there is (for example he is not a decent conversationalist), that first date will also be a last date.

[pierrot11]

Yes. I've found myself naturally gravitating towards some guys just because they were really funny. Unfortunately some guys who are really funny don't realize how attractive they are, and some guys think they're soooo funny 🙄

[Asker]

Hahah well ik thats true

[LorikaB]

My longest ever relationship was with a girl who was funny, kind hearted, loved me, was truthful, friendly, could cook, helped other people, etc. BUUUUT she wasn't my type physically. I'm not saying she was ugly, but she was short 5'5 (167cm) and around 145 pounds (65kg or so), okay face, but I couldn't overcome the fact that I found her fat I think, or generally not sexy. I couldn't make myself sleep with her. So nope, not happening ever again. Rather find a girl whom I can sleep with any time, and argue with her every day about dumb shit. Sexual attraction is a must.

[Nexovous]

"who isn't very attractive " This guy isn't a downright monster and girls love a good sense of humor a much as any guy! Why the hell wouldn't they? I love friends with a good sense of humor and areas that i don't have one in. That way if during the given occasion i can't lighten the mood he can! It's great to have a riding buddy and a wingman all in one!

[Logorithim]

I think a guy can overcome a lack of attractiveness, and being funny certainly helps, but I think he'll need more than that in most cases.

[PrincessPie]

If i found him attractive, yes.

[lotv56]

I would date a guy because I believe he would compliment my life well. Not just because they are funny , ugly or good looking. If I like them then I would date them. If they are funny and ugly but they also are annoying, and or lazy then I wouldn't date them. So basically it's more than looks and their funnines to me.

[MemeSupreme]

I think as long as your average looking you don't have to worry about being ugly in the looks department. (I don't consider that many people to be ugly. I don't have high standards) Being funny can make you seem way more attractive and generally being confident.

[pandorka]

That's it, girl. Totally agreed!

[Blake0117]

Hey, HMU. My snap is blak. cole

[SodaCheeks]

Yes, however I wouldn't date him if he were ugly. He wouldn't have to be hot or very handsome (most of these guys are dull anyway), but he still needs to have something that I'd find attractive or cute.

[lostgirl_searching]

Yes of course. I love laughing and having fun. Saying dirty or sick jokes and having my boyfriend add more to it. What I love most about my boyfriend is that he's funny and we will say jokes to make each other laugh.
I don't care how the guy looks if he doesn't have a sense of humor, isn't funny, and just takes jokes wayy to seriously? Thats an automatic 0 for me

[Aceria]

Well... it's kind of difficult when you phrase the question that way. A guy doesn't have to be good looking to be attractive. If I like him, he'll be attractive to me. I would date a guy who is funny, but not good looking, if I like him and thus find him attractive...

[CurLyF]

Feeling attraction is very important to me. But I aslo have a very ironic sense of humor so I have a hard time finding guys that legit make me laugh. And when I do I love it. Si if he wasn't very attractive but he legit made me laugh and feel relaxed, I probably would date him.

[Doumdou]

I answered No.
The reason is that I have to find the person attractive.
If you're question had been, would you date a guy who isn't handsome/beautiful but funny? I would have answered yes.
A funny man can have a lot of charm and I can definitely be attracted to a man like that but I have to want him.

[Diamond0702]

Yes. One thing about women is that we like to feel emotionally satisfied. Looks aren't everything when it comes to a guy. I would rather date an average/ugly guy anyday who has a great personality and is really funny than a guy who is extremely attractive but actually turns out to be an a**hole. I would have no emotional satisfaction based off of his looks. So yep, an average/ugly guy anyday for me.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I'm straight so... but I will say being funny gets me laid more often than not. If you're nothing but a serious boring dolt, you ain't get the "D" in that "V" for sure. You might improve your chances by offering tons of money and so on, but let's face it... that guy is a dolt in his own respect.

[The_FallenOne]

If the person is not attractive in my eyes I'm not attracted to them so it's a no. How would you feel if you found out your SO was not attracted to you physically at all but was only attracted to your personality?

This is why people only date WHO THEIR ATTRACTED TO. Attraction comes first then you talk to them and learn about then and that's either whem you find out you REALLY REALLY like them of if their shitty.

[Adam_INTJ]

Well then don't get offended when someone treats you based on your looks. Fat shaming included.

Besides, if attractiveness is what matters, then why not date an inanimate object like a mannequin?

[The_FallenOne]

1. I didn't say I'd treat someone bad because I wasn't attracted to them. I would just keep them in the friend zone.
2. I'm black being judged for what I look like happends to me every day. so I've learned at a very young age to not give a fuck.
3. I'm not fat and I would not date somwone fat, bc I don't like lazy people.
4. Everyone has their own definition of beauty and lookd do matter to everyone. Personaly I think I have fair simple standards.
5. Mannequins aren't attractive to me. Therefore I wouldn't date one.. are you bloody retarded mate?

[thottiana]

How dark are you?

[The_FallenOne]

Poop colored? Lol. I don't know how dark I am. Click on my profile and scroll down, I've asked a question on how do I look before. You can see there.

[The_FallenOne]

Read my resently asked question. Thie entire question is bullshit. That's all I'm trying to point out.

[thottiana]

Oh ur dark skin

[Adam_INTJ]

You think you're discriminated against because you're black? Prove it. You can't just parrot slogans, make appearence judgements, and back neither.

Here's my appearence judgement: I wouldn't date a black girl because she's probably a democrat, and I hate demcrats. I can find stats for that. Where are your numbers?

[The_FallenOne]

@Adam_INTJ I don't need to prove anything to you. Looking at a person and thinking "I'm not attractive to them" is not a judgment. But looking at someone and thinking, "Im not going to date that black person because their probally a democrat" Is nothing but pure judgment. 😂
If I'm not attracted to you I'm not going to date you. It's not shallow it's the fucking truth. Why tf would anyone date someon they think is ugly or unnatractive? Why do ugly people try to make attractive people and everyone else not attracted to them feel bad for not wanting to date them? Or for having high standards or standards at all?

And no I'm not a democrat. I did this test In a Government class and apparently I stand with Gandhi.

[Adam_INTJ]

Fine. You're not discriminated against.

Democrats are pro choice, open border advocates, and support things like a "fair tax system" (progressive tax system), free college, and so forth. They also peddle the black discrimination lie. I've never discovered a black republican ghat claimed damaging racism.

If you're not a democrat, you sure act like one.

Plenty of women (democrats) say that they should be attractive even though they're fat af or just ugly. So pick your ideology: is it okay to fat shame/be centered on looks or not?

[The_FallenOne]

Yeah and how am I acting like a democrat? I have not shared any of my political views with you. So you're ASSUMING I am one according to your prejudice and through the sterotyping tou have created.

You're a fucking twat mate. "Plenty of women (democrats) say that they should be attractive even though they're fat af or just ugly." 😂 Now you just sound bloody retarded mate. Where have you got that sististic from? That's not a political view. Therefore it's completely irrelevant to being democratic. Not wanting to date fat (unhealthy) or someone who is uattractive to you is biology. And is not a belief held just by one political party. Most people don't date people who they find unnatractive. I think you're just mad because you're probally fat and/or ugly.

[lumos]

No. As much as I appreciate a good sense of humour, if I’m not otherwise attracted to him, it would be unfair to date him. He deserves someone who’s attracted to him, and I deserve to be with someone I’m attracted to.

[memeqweenn]

hell yes those are the best types. I'm a sucker for the uglies ❤

[Asker]

What makes you fall exactly?

[memeqweenn]

guys who can make me laugh & know how to take a joke usually have my heart

[Asker]

Well your name says it all you like memes ig you are fun , the bad thing is im sorrounded by bad girls :'v

[EQisKEY]

You in LA?😂😂

[Nandor]

Interesting

[memeqweenn]

@Nandor w0t m8

[Nandor]

I said interesting

[Asker]

Mate she was trying to be nice donr be like that :'v

[Nandor]

Hmstve 🤔🤔

[Anonymous]

Sure would :) I actually dated a guy who was really funny and he could make anyone laugh at any moment. I initially liked him because he was so easygoing, a good conversationalist, and we just clicked. He was average looking but he was actually my longest relationship (it lasted for about 3 years) :) There's something sexy about a guy who has a good sense of humor

[SarahsSummer]

I tend to think personality and sense of humor go a long way towards making guys attractive.

[Adam_INTJ]

Dude, here's a problem: girls gind attractive guys funny. It's called the halo effect.

The attraction to a guy makes everything else about him seem good, even humor.

Attractiveness makes you funny, being rich can have the same effect.

If a guy is beyond ugly but has the combined humor of Kevin Hart, Dave Chappelle, and Gabriel Iglesias, he'd still be single for life.

[Imafreespirit]

I think that one of the key things in a relationship is to be attracted to your partner. I have a lot of funny friends, I haven’t dated any of them just because they’re funny. It takes a lot more to build a romantic interest

[purplevicky118]

If you're beyond ugly like "I don't want to ever think about you naked" level ugly, then no. But a good personality and sense of humor instantly makes people more attractive to me so most of the time, the answer will probably be yes

[_bunny_]

Lol yes at first I wasn't all that physically attracted to my boyfriend but over time He's become seriously hot xD