Would you date a guy who isn't very atractive but is really funny?

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Lovvyyy · Accepted Answer

No. If that was the case, I would have ended up dating all of my male friends.
I wouldn't date a guy who is very attractiive but incredibly unfunny either.
It's not an "aut aut" situation, when I'm willing to go out with someone, it's because he has all it takes, not just "funny" or "intelligent" or "good looking" or "nice person"; he has to fill every requirements.

Of course if he is someone I don't know, then the first thing I'm going to judge in order to willing to accept going to said first date it's the look, but if that's all there is (for example he is not a decent conversationalist), that first date will also be a last date.

pierrot11 · Accepted Answer

Yes. I've found myself naturally gravitating towards some guys just because they were really funny. Unfortunately some guys who are really funny don't realize how attractive they are, and some guys think they're soooo funny 🙄

LorikaB · Accepted Answer

My longest ever relationship was with a girl who was funny, kind hearted, loved me, was truthful, friendly, could cook, helped other people, etc. BUUUUT she wasn't my type physically. I'm not saying she was ugly, but she was short 5'5 (167cm) and around 145 pounds (65kg or so), okay face, but I couldn't overcome the fact that I found her fat I think, or generally not sexy. I couldn't make myself sleep with her. So nope, not happening ever again. Rather find a girl whom I can sleep with any time, and argue with her every day about dumb shit. Sexual attraction is a must.

Nexovous · Accepted Answer

"who isn't very attractive " This guy isn't a downright monster and girls love a good sense of humor a much as any guy! Why the hell wouldn't they? I love friends with a good sense of humor and areas that i don't have one in. That way if during the given occasion i can't lighten the mood he can! It's great to have a riding buddy and a wingman all in one!

Logorithim · Answer

I think a guy can overcome a lack of attractiveness, and being funny certainly helps, but I think he'll need more than that in most cases.

PrincessPie · Answer

If i found him attractive, yes.

lotv56 · Answer

I would date a guy because I believe he would compliment my life well. Not just because they are funny , ugly or good looking. If I like them then I would date them. If they are funny and ugly but they also are annoying, and or lazy then I wouldn't date them. So basically it's more than looks and their funnines to me.

MemeSupreme · Answer

I think as long as your average looking you don't have to worry about being ugly in the looks department. (I don't consider that many people to be ugly. I don't have high standards) Being funny can make you seem way more attractive and generally being confident.

SodaCheeks · Answer

Yes, however I wouldn't date him if he were ugly. He wouldn't have to be hot or very handsome (most of these guys are dull anyway), but he still needs to have something that I'd find attractive or cute.

lostgirl_searching · Answer

Yes of course. I love laughing and having fun. Saying dirty or sick jokes and having my boyfriend add more to it. What I love most about my boyfriend is that he's funny and we will say jokes to make each other laugh.
I don't care how the guy looks if he doesn't have a sense of humor, isn't funny, and just takes jokes wayy to seriously? Thats an automatic 0 for me

Aceria · Answer

Well... it's kind of difficult when you phrase the question that way. A guy doesn't have to be good looking to be attractive. If I like him, he'll be attractive to me. I would date a guy who is funny, but not good looking, if I like him and thus find him attractive...

CurLyF · Answer

Feeling attraction is very important to me. But I aslo have a very ironic sense of humor so I have a hard time finding guys that legit make me laugh. And when I do I love it. Si if he wasn't very attractive but he legit made me laugh and feel relaxed, I probably would date him.

Doumdou · Answer

I answered No.
The reason is that I have to find the person attractive.
If you're question had been, would you date a guy who isn't handsome/beautiful but funny? I would have answered yes.
A funny man can have a lot of charm and I can definitely be attracted to a man like that but I have to want him.

Diamond0702 · Answer

Yes. One thing about women is that we like to feel emotionally satisfied. Looks aren't everything when it comes to a guy. I would rather date an average/ugly guy anyday who has a great personality and is really funny than a guy who is extremely attractive but actually turns out to be an a**hole. I would have no emotional satisfaction based off of his looks. So yep, an average/ugly guy anyday for me.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I'm straight so... but I will say being funny gets me laid more often than not. If you're nothing but a serious boring dolt, you ain't get the "D" in that "V" for sure. You might improve your chances by offering tons of money and so on, but let's face it... that guy is a dolt in his own respect.

The_FallenOne · Answer

If the person is not attractive in my eyes I'm not attracted to them so it's a no. How would you feel if you found out your SO was not attracted to you physically at all but was only attracted to your personality?

This is why people only date WHO THEIR ATTRACTED TO. Attraction comes first then you talk to them and learn about then and that's either whem you find out you REALLY REALLY like them of if their shitty.

lumos · Answer

No. As much as I appreciate a good sense of humour, if I’m not otherwise attracted to him, it would be unfair to date him. He deserves someone who’s attracted to him, and I deserve to be with someone I’m attracted to.

memeqweenn · Answer

hell yes those are the best types. I'm a sucker for the uglies ❤

Anonymous · Answer

Sure would :) I actually dated a guy who was really funny and he could make anyone laugh at any moment. I initially liked him because he was so easygoing, a good conversationalist, and we just clicked. He was average looking but he was actually my longest relationship (it lasted for about 3 years) :) There's something sexy about a guy who has a good sense of humor

SarahsSummer · Answer

I tend to think personality and sense of humor go a long way towards making guys attractive.

Adam_INTJ · Answer

Dude, here's a problem: girls gind attractive guys funny. It's called the halo effect.

The attraction to a guy makes everything else about him seem good, even humor.

Attractiveness makes you funny, being rich can have the same effect.

If a guy is beyond ugly but has the combined humor of Kevin Hart, Dave Chappelle, and Gabriel Iglesias, he'd still be single for life.

Imafreespirit · Answer

I think that one of the key things in a relationship is to be attracted to your partner. I have a lot of funny friends, I haven’t dated any of them just because they’re funny. It takes a lot more to build a romantic interest

purplevicky118 · Answer

If you're beyond ugly like "I don't want to ever think about you naked" level ugly, then no. But a good personality and sense of humor instantly makes people more attractive to me so most of the time, the answer will probably be yes

_bunny_ · Answer

Lol yes at first I wasn't all that physically attracted to my boyfriend but over time He's become seriously hot xD

HereIbe · Answer

Fear not, and weep not, dear fellow!

Such women DO exist!

My wife is one, because I am nothing at all to look at, but I've a way with wit.

Oh, and I can munch rug for 50 minutes straight and demonstrated this ability. That might have a LITTLE bit to do with it, too...

qxeenrrose · Answer

I think guys looks boosts when your really funny. No? Just me. Well IN MY OPINION. I think if every guy were humorous you could boost ya attractiveness

natgal · Answer

The first every one see is the looks. If the personality is grear we tend to look a second time on the looks to see if we can live with that look. To me looks come frist and second same as personality comes first and second. How ever, if the looks is a eye melting 10 and the personality is shitt I would never ever date them. I need both.

effyourfeelings · Answer

It depends on what you mean by 'isn't very attractive'. 'Attractive' isn't the same as being 'very attractive'.
If he's ugly, no. If he's average looking, no. If he's just as attractive as me, then yes.

Thread02 · Answer

BEWARE - not attractive is many times misleading. Guys usually don't take care of themselves. They have bad style and hygiene.
If they get taught how to work on style that suits them even an ugly person becomes above avarage

JulieXO · Answer

I need to be physically attracted to the guy I'm dating. He doesn't need to be a model or anything, but he has to look good to me.

bubble_tea · Answer

Yes. Attractive is enough, I don't need very attractive

WeirdCinderella · Answer

Definitly. I mean, a guy isn't just abs and cute face, it's also his personnality. I really think I'd better date a funny nont attractive guy rather than a cute asshole one

vishna · Answer

He's gotta be more than funny too, but yea I would date a guy who isn't very attractive but has good qualities. (have done it before for the majority of dudes I've dated, would do it again)

Genie23 · Answer

Heck yeah!

Obviouslyfabulous · Answer

Humor is one of the main things that attracts me to a guy because looks only last for so long as we age

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Depends on whether not very attractive means simple doesn't stop traffic with his looks or is so ugly he makes babies cry.

But as long as he's an average looking guy, I'll think so.

Basically yes as long as he's not ugly.

Elaine446 · Answer

Humor is a big factor to me. I love laughing, and joking around. If a guy can't joke or laugh he's too uptight.

Sara-91 · Answer

Nope nope and nope cuz both qualities are not attractive to me. I hate guys who are trying to be funny.

rocksongwriter · Answer

Here's the way to find out for sure: Compare the number of girls you know that obsess over unattractive funny guys versus the number of girls do you know obsess over attractive unfunny guys?

Anonymous · Answer

YES. Humour beats handsome by far. The only shallow thing I care about is height but other than that you could look like a potato to other people but if you make me laugh you morph into a model.

Anonymous · Answer

Funny cannot be the only personality trait... I look for creativity and passion myself because I find those attractive.

YingKim · Answer

yes yes yes! Personality always wins over looks for me. If a guy is too good looking that makes me feel insecure. I think average looking guys are the best :)

AaceN · Answer

If he's funny, then that would make him attractive.

DankMemeage420 · Answer

Eyyy that’s me. But uhh, I answered yes because humor is more important to me than looks. While looks are still a factor, humor is just more important to me. Of course I’m talking about girls cuz you can miss me with that gay shit

Anonymous · Answer

It depends. If he’s decent looking sure. If he’s fat and ugly... fuck no. Just friends

Anonymous · Answer

Obviously i would love too. Anyway, anyone who not attractive can be attractive by times. Slowly that person can change from not attractive become attractive.

ariadneR · Answer

I clicked no but meant yes. He'll if he can make me laugh I'm in love. He'll help keep my core toned 😂😉

angelin · Answer

If a guy can make you laugh that’s sexier than a hit body that doesn’t have a sense of humor

pooper89 · Answer

If I don't find him attractive, he becomes my funny friend... who I don't really talk to because I don't want to give him false hope.

Anonymous · Answer

As long as he's not the kind to demand to date 10/10 women because he's funny/nice.

deanlarouche · Answer

I dated some very unattractuve women just because they had good hearts and we had an emotional connection. It would be very shallow to think that looks make or break a relationship

acooke-13 · Answer

Yes, and I have! I'd prefer slightly unattractive and hilarious that attractive and boring!

zaipei · Answer

attractive qualities is honesty, kindness, faithful- funny is a bonus.

Jxy95 · Answer

Probably not I need a certain level of physical attraction

Julia420 · Answer

As long as he is pleasant to look at. He doesn’t have to be super attractive

chameleon3081 · Answer

According to psychologist, females are attracted to funny men. So I am guessing it's most likely a yes from the majority of people, but not all.  But I could also be wrong.

latinabutterfly96 · Answer

Of course. If he’s not too fat or ugly as another girl said here

bigdave503 · Answer

I dont care how funny a guy is. Im not gonna date him 😂

reixun · Answer

Yeah, good humor and personality is attractive itself

ooAngieoo · Answer

as long as he's self confident i'll date him.. not to be confused with cocky

Ayer93 · Answer

Girls = Humor > Physical Attractiveness Guys = Humor < Physical Attractiveness

Anonymous · Answer

Lots of gays huh.

Anonymous · Answer

I absolutely love funny guys. That's one of the most attractive things a guy can be!

BadAssHunter · Answer

Hell no. I rather have a gorgeous man who is super serious.

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