If your partner’s face was badly disfigured by acid, would you stay with them or leave?

Question

Say he/she was a victim of acid attacks. Be very honest.  Ps: I hope nobody here has to go through that.

DarkPhoenix86 · Accepted Answer

I'm not gonna lie this question scares the shit outta me. In a way it's a lot like asking some people if they would die for their religion, most would say yes but if it came down to it probably not. On a moral standpoint I would love to be able to say that yes, I would stay as though nothing happened but deep down I don't know that I would. Disfigurements actually scare me in the way that clowns scare some people and honestly I don't think I would stay 😢

FinalVow · Accepted Answer

I don't want to vote because if anyone voted anything other than A I think I might kill someone. Who she is as a person is always ALWAYS the most important part of a relationship. Physical looks are only skin deep and anyone who starts looking for a girl by talking to her because she is pretty. well no wonder you aren't married yet.

kaskas19 · Accepted Answer

Oh god. This is really a sticky situation. It mainly depends on how long we have been together, whether we were married or not, and how strong our connection is. Most likely I would stay. That's a really tough decision.

But if it happened to me I would want my partner to leave me. As much as it would hurt, I wouldn't want them seeing me like that, and I feel like they were staying out of pity no matter what they told me.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No guy would stay. Maybe temporary 'stay' in some cases but just out of sympathy, those who are staying won't be loyal & if you get someone agreeing to both situations, he's surely being untruthful. I feel terrible thinking of any girl being in such a terrible situation, just hope noone ever has to go through it 😔

OlderAndWiser · Answer

No one truly knows how they will react until they are actually confronted with such a situation. In the meanwhile, you will receive many self-serving answers.

Pizza_lover159 · Answer

Ill stay. Because I have scars too on my body and imperfections and he is loyal and takes care or me. And I know how rare that is. True. It will make me sad to see him this way and I think Ill be more affected that him emotionally. (Im kinda that person who almost never cries , even if my parents would die , but if something happens to my boyfriend I cry and act like a mother )

ZerbTronics420 · Answer

If I took the same situation in Reverse it, would it be any different?
the answer would be no
Because a hot woman can't be beautiful the equal opposite
a beautiful woman that's not HOT the kind of woman Most men want to marry and have kids
And the ideal version of a good women it's one that doesn't confuse tru beautiy that's grounded with morals understood through compassion and empathy rather than using sexual manipulation. The point is, I'd would rather be with beautiful woman regardless of what the eyes of socail judged and Judy of another person shity faulty perception

Ayer93 · Answer

It's situational. If I was with them a long time and genuinely love them, then hands down I'd stay. But if I was with them for a few weeks to a few months, and was unsure of my feelings for them, I'd say sorry... I don't know if I'm ready to handle such a committment. It sucks that I'm being a douche and leaving during a critical moment in your life, but I want to live.

Hannah0304 · Answer

It takes real love to stay, so you will know only when you're in the situation. If i have loved him for such a long time and considered him a serious partner then i probably wouldn't leave. But if he received a severe burn or he was not someone i wanted to invested in long-term relationship with then i would probably stick around to help the best i can, but then move on. I don't think it's immoral to ask for a physical aspect at your future partner, you have all rights to do that. Just don't leave them like asshole. Try to protect and take care of him and from the first start and he would hopefully never have to receive this. And do that even after the accident.

That1tallguy · Answer

I feel like if you used a more severe photo of a burn victim like her nose, lips and eyes damm near burned off the polls would be different. The girl in the pic in is still kind of pretty, it's hard to say what I would do its situational but with her specifically I would stay

Mrhumourous · Answer

Most of the people who has chosen stay and be loyal are just social media fuckers... i also selected tht coz according to me facial beauty doesn't matters it fades with time the best thing tht stays is ur mindset nd love for ur partner... although i m still single but if something like this happens to my partner in future.. i will never leave her.. and i too try to make her feel comfortable 😄

worthless_boi · Answer

I have a lot of scars on my face, not from an acid attack but I got run over by a car and I've gotten my face bashed in plenty of times by classmates and stuff, my boyfriend still loves me

dominatedude · Answer

Scars tell a story. And stories move the heart. And scars heal. Although the trauma and concerns may harm a relationship I. E. the non injured partner may start to behave more like a nurse then a S. O. or the injured party may have irrevocably altered personality, and life views that can harm a relationship. In cases like that it is best to seek counseling with the couple. Loyalty should not be a concern with most men.

TripleAce · Answer

If i was already with her and in love
Hey, there is almost nothing that will make me leave

In fact id wanna stay even more. No way am I going to just abandon her. Nope
but thats what im saying. Reality is thats its most likely going to be very hard. And you might have days where you are like wth

MrNameless · Answer

Really.. people chose results over yes or no? lmao I'd stay of course.

Snowomann · Answer

I'd never leave my partner, I'd stay and be loyal to him. However, if I was a victim of acid attacks, I'd definitely leave my partner.

lumos · Answer

I would stay and do my best to help them get past it.

mrs-turner97 · Answer

People are horrid and awful if they left there husband or wife if they was hurt by something like that people don’t deserve to be loved if they would leave there loved one cause of a accident that is a piece of shit in my book but I’ve never went through that but I wouldn’t think I’d leave him unless he begged me and even then I don’t know if I could leave him

Kuraj · Answer

I have asked myself this question a good few times.
I have always concluded that I would, of course, stay with a partner who suffered an injury or a disability.

But, I would also have the lingering concern that their situation would make them more inclined to stay with me, even if they didn't want to, out of fears that they might not be able to find someone else due to their disability.
And that's a shitty thought.

Prakbio · Answer

when she was beautiful she chosen me and accepted me i cannot leave her... she would always be mine no matter how she looks now or in future.

Dxk007 · Answer

I wanted her for her heart not her face. 95% girls are beautiful from the outside but, not from the inside.

jimyee · Answer

That's really hard to say not being in the situation and not feeling the love and connection to thev person in question. However, if she ended up like the girl in the picture I think I would stay. She while obviously is messed up doesn't look bad. Some of the people who get hit by acid are hard to look at.

Andre__ · Answer

I'd be with my partner not just for her looks but for who he is and who is towards me. That is more important. Plus as my partner she will be needing my support to get through such a traumatic and life changing experience. I will be there to help her.

MLGbreezy · Answer

I'm not gonna leave her she's the women I love. Love isn't dictaded by looks at the end of the day you fell for that person because of there personally coupled with everything else not just cause of thwre looks and when she needs me now more than ever I refuse to abandon her. I just couldn't do It cause I know shed stick by me

Anonymous · Answer

I chose, "stay and be loyal". However, I must say, if it was someone who's face was already disfigured by the time I came into their life, I'd be more apprehensive in approaching them.

princess_amanda · Answer

If my ex and I got back together, I would honestly love him no matter what.

Anonymous · Answer

I would get whoever did that to her. I would carve out his eyes and his face. He would live, blind, ugly, and disabled. Exactly what he did to her.

Malik00 · Answer

I wish i could say i would... i really do... but honestly I'm not sure.

name_is_eric · Answer

I could not do it. No matter how hard I try to look past that face, it is just repulsive.

StableMind · Answer

I'm too loyal to just leave after an incident like that after all the things I say to people I also dont want to contradict myself if it was a friend of be by their side my girlfriend regardless of the time pass i would stay my morals just wouldn't allow me to do different

UltimateGohan · Answer

I won't be able to sleep if leave them when they need me the most

JustGiveMeAUsername · Answer

Talk about adding insult to injury, jeez no of course I wouldn't leave, you'd be a pretty shit person if you did

2tall2handle · Answer

If you leave your partner over something that was not their fault, you never deserved that person in the first place. Also you never deserve anyone else ever again.

BigDaddyDanie · Answer

Are you not with a person for them? Not their looks?

roryror2010 · Answer

if i love her, then I'd see her the most beautiful person i have ever seen

shan_shan · Answer

It's amazing how many chose to stay and be loyal like honestly if this is true it's really good... I chose to stay and be loyal too if something like this happens

Streamhopper · Answer

Of course I'd stay. I love her for far more than her looks. She's a beautiful woman, don't get me wrong - but she always will be to me. No matter what.

anuragk033 · Answer

Stayyy always forever I'm in love with her soul not just the body

AqibFarid · Answer

probably... Would have arranged a surgery for her,,, and would have killed the one who had done that.

Demised · Answer

I would stay. I wus still love her n treat her wid extra care. After all its all about true love isn't it? ❤

Anonymous · Answer

I guess it depends how long we were together and how much damage it did... If we were married or planning then I would stay. If it was purely cosmetic I wouldn't have a reason to leave as I would never date someone just for looks. If it caused serious health issues I would probably stay to help out if we had been dating a while but I would tell her to find someone else cause I don't know if i could deal with that... I feel like that makes me an asshole...

Guanfei · Answer

Hard to tell. No matter how good you are or you want to be, if something is disgusting, you can hardly overlook it.

AcidT0y · Answer

I honestly don't know what I would do but I hope I would stay and be loyal. I'll count myself lucky if I never find out.

JulieXO · Answer

I'm honestly not sure what I would do. If I really loved him and planned to spend my life with him, I'd stay.

MissMonstaz · Answer

I wouldn't leave. I'd stay, support him and help him go through this. I would seriously love him no matter what. Because that's true love.

Whaaaaa · Answer

I would of course stay with them. However I wouldn’t be with somebody just out of pity, if I love them however, it doesn’t matter. Looks fade

Samual_Jennings · Answer

Heck, no! I wouldn't leave. The poor girl has been through enough. She doesn't need superficial rejection too.

Juxtapose · Answer

Her looks were gonna fade one day eventually and I'd probably still see her as beautiful in some way or another.

OldSchool_Metalhead · Answer

it was something out of their control. why give them more pain by leaving them? i'd stay and be loyal for sure

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

The type of person that would do this sort of thing to another human... I'd like to torture them myself and keep them alive as long as possible while I do it.

RolandCuthbert · Answer

I guess because if you look over my life and the women I dated, you probably would note that some of them did not fit the traditional stereotype of beauty in American society.

CrapScentedFudge_ · Answer

Lol if his personality is how it is now then I’d probably leave him considering we break up everyday I don’t think so. But I mean. The acid attack would probably bring us closer.

InTimoreDei · Answer

If you leave after a tragedy or a tragic situation then you never loved them to begin with.

Jon_25 · Answer

That's awful to have happened to her; I'd never make her go through that alone, I'm staying. I love her and she's beautiful. Nothing could change that.

alexjohn · Answer

Believe if anybody likes you, he didn't want your face or how you look like... He just want your nature your characher which attract him most...

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

I would stay and find the fucking shit who would do it to her then whoop his ass till my arms got tired.

LucyGrace · Answer

I would stay because the person that I love is still there. No matter what. Also. Imagine if I leave. The stress it would put on them... I couldn't bare to see them feel down.

Aroso · Answer

Do you think a guy will be given divorce based on this ground?

AnarchyTurtle · Answer

Honestly it depends on how long I've known her. If it was like someone I was with for years and then tragedy struck I'd stay. Buuuuut if I knew her like a week and she got acid burned on the face I'd be like nahh I'm outtie

gummywormdiego · Answer

I’d stay cause I know their heart is the same just they might going through a hard time so they need comfort unless they push me away

mayanewton0 · Answer

I will stay because I love him and he would need someone who supports him from the bottom of their heart.

Graydon · Answer

If I was really in love with her I wouldn't care at all about the disfigure and still give her all the love in my heart.

Krumpir · Answer

Stay. She is too damn awesome to leave over a scar.

Daphne93 · Answer

Depends how they are i won’t be a human punching bag.

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