I'm not gonna lie this question scares the shit outta me. In a way it's a lot like asking some people if they would die for their religion, most would say yes but if it came down to it probably not. On a moral standpoint I would love to be able to say that yes, I would stay as though nothing happened but deep down I don't know that I would. Disfigurements actually scare me in the way that clowns scare some people and honestly I don't think I would stay 😢
I don't want to vote because if anyone voted anything other than A I think I might kill someone. Who she is as a person is always ALWAYS the most important part of a relationship. Physical looks are only skin deep and anyone who starts looking for a girl by talking to her because she is pretty. well no wonder you aren't married yet.
Oh god. This is really a sticky situation. It mainly depends on how long we have been together, whether we were married or not, and how strong our connection is. Most likely I would stay. That's a really tough decision.
But if it happened to me I would want my partner to leave me. As much as it would hurt, I wouldn't want them seeing me like that, and I feel like they were staying out of pity no matter what they told me.
That’s interesting you would want your partner to leave. Personally l’d be worried too and think they found someone else. So I think I would want them to leave too. Never thought about it until you brought it up😊
No guy would stay. Maybe temporary 'stay' in some cases but just out of sympathy, those who are staying won't be loyal & if you get someone agreeing to both situations, he's surely being untruthful. I feel terrible thinking of any girl being in such a terrible situation, just hope noone ever has to go through it 😔
You can't say That, it's bull shit. There have been guys that have stayed and women that left. Its a hard situation and while I agree the percentage of guys who said they would stay is wrong I don't think that many women would stay either.
No one truly knows how they will react until they are actually confronted with such a situation. In the meanwhile, you will receive many self-serving answers.
Ill stay. Because I have scars too on my body and imperfections and he is loyal and takes care or me. And I know how rare that is. True. It will make me sad to see him this way and I think Ill be more affected that him emotionally. (Im kinda that person who almost never cries , even if my parents would die , but if something happens to my boyfriend I cry and act like a mother )
If I took the same situation in Reverse it, would it be any different? the answer would be no Because a hot woman can't be beautiful the equal opposite a beautiful woman that's not HOT the kind of woman Most men want to marry and have kids And the ideal version of a good women it's one that doesn't confuse tru beautiy that's grounded with morals understood through compassion and empathy rather than using sexual manipulation. The point is, I'd would rather be with beautiful woman regardless of what the eyes of socail judged and Judy of another person shity faulty perception
It's situational. If I was with them a long time and genuinely love them, then hands down I'd stay. But if I was with them for a few weeks to a few months, and was unsure of my feelings for them, I'd say sorry... I don't know if I'm ready to handle such a committment. It sucks that I'm being a douche and leaving during a critical moment in your life, but I want to live.
It takes real love to stay, so you will know only when you're in the situation. If i have loved him for such a long time and considered him a serious partner then i probably wouldn't leave. But if he received a severe burn or he was not someone i wanted to invested in long-term relationship with then i would probably stick around to help the best i can, but then move on. I don't think it's immoral to ask for a physical aspect at your future partner, you have all rights to do that. Just don't leave them like asshole. Try to protect and take care of him and from the first start and he would hopefully never have to receive this. And do that even after the accident.
I feel like if you used a more severe photo of a burn victim like her nose, lips and eyes damm near burned off the polls would be different. The girl in the pic in is still kind of pretty, it's hard to say what I would do its situational but with her specifically I would stay
Most of the people who has chosen stay and be loyal are just social media fuckers... i also selected tht coz according to me facial beauty doesn't matters it fades with time the best thing tht stays is ur mindset nd love for ur partner... although i m still single but if something like this happens to my partner in future.. i will never leave her.. and i too try to make her feel comfortable 😄
I have a lot of scars on my face, not from an acid attack but I got run over by a car and I've gotten my face bashed in plenty of times by classmates and stuff, my boyfriend still loves me
Scars tell a story. And stories move the heart. And scars heal. Although the trauma and concerns may harm a relationship I. E. the non injured partner may start to behave more like a nurse then a S. O. or the injured party may have irrevocably altered personality, and life views that can harm a relationship. In cases like that it is best to seek counseling with the couple. Loyalty should not be a concern with most men.
If i was already with her and in love Hey, there is almost nothing that will make me leave
In fact id wanna stay even more. No way am I going to just abandon her. Nope but thats what im saying. Reality is thats its most likely going to be very hard. And you might have days where you are like wth
People are horrid and awful if they left there husband or wife if they was hurt by something like that people don’t deserve to be loved if they would leave there loved one cause of a accident that is a piece of shit in my book but I’ve never went through that but I wouldn’t think I’d leave him unless he begged me and even then I don’t know if I could leave him
That's really hard to say not being in the situation and not feeling the love and connection to thev person in question. However, if she ended up like the girl in the picture I think I would stay. She while obviously is messed up doesn't look bad. Some of the people who get hit by acid are hard to look at.
I'd be with my partner not just for her looks but for who he is and who is towards me. That is more important. Plus as my partner she will be needing my support to get through such a traumatic and life changing experience. I will be there to help her.
I have asked myself this question a good few times. I have always concluded that I would, of course, stay with a partner who suffered an injury or a disability.
But, I would also have the lingering concern that their situation would make them more inclined to stay with me, even if they didn't want to, out of fears that they might not be able to find someone else due to their disability. And that's a shitty thought.
I'm not gonna leave her she's the women I love. Love isn't dictaded by looks at the end of the day you fell for that person because of there personally coupled with everything else not just cause of thwre looks and when she needs me now more than ever I refuse to abandon her. I just couldn't do It cause I know shed stick by me
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