We are still "friends" since we both decided to still keep in touch every week and still hang out every week (to movie, dinner, etc)
So anyway, recently he has been having dramas with his female housemate
he's been telling me about how she's been sleeping around with different guys and bringing different guys home
And now she's pregnant
And she told him that she has a lump under her breast
So 2 weeks ago she decided to become religious and started wearing a hijab (since she's muslim)
And now she wants to kick him out because she can't live with a male anymore
He got pissed off over this but luckily he got a place to move in
So then today he messaged me:
Him - aye can u help me escape lol?
Me - what do you mean?
Him - come help me move and decorate please lol, i will shout you food, any food you want
Me - lmao ok
Him - you can't reject food cmon 😛😛 but if you can't its all good
Me - lol when?
Him - im moving in 2 days so this weekend
Me - lol ok
Him - ok thanks will let u know
Why does he want me to help him move?
Most Helpful Girl
If you're keeping in touch every week then either you're his friend or you're some back up sexual option. As a friend its not out of the realm of offering a hand when moving. why are you framing this in the context of an ex? either you're over it, or you're not. either he will try to use this as an opportunity to get sex, or he won't. either you are truly friends, or you'll be asking questions online to figure it out lol
Most Helpful Guy
You both still meeting regulary is a bigger hint for him wanting you back. Kind of the same situation for me... But it really depends on all circumstances.
In this freindzone-situation I would say he only needs your help to move. Decorating as a man alone can be very hard aswell :D.