That phrase comes from business, not dating.
No - nice guys who date nice girls have nice relationships. Nice guys pining over troubled girls or girls who aren’t into them have their own baggage, but lots of fellows meet sweet gals and have cute, loving coupledoms.
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Yes. İts true
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There are two different kind of "nice guys" and one type is not very nice.
I consider myself to be a genuine nice guy and I hope to be the last guy my girlfriend ever has in her life, so I am hoping to finish last! :)
Sadly, that is often the case.
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I think it's a little bit of both. I'm a nice guy, that kind one that hears the girl weeping and says "you gonna be fine, you deserves more..", and I never date and never kissed any girl (I'm 19 LOL). But I don't blame them. I'm shy and I really hate parties and to meet new people, and I understand them for not to like this kind of people. But when I keep sad or irritated with girl's taste for outgoing men, I just think "I'm happy alone and happy for to be who I am, and the girls who're ignoring me for my personality doesn't know what they're missing XD, I can be confident and a good partner". The main girl's complaint its nice guys doesn't inspire confidence and sex appeal, but I am confident (I can't speak about sex appeal because I'm not the most appropriated person to do this) and I don't need to expose it to everyone. But of course, there is a plenty of nice guys that really sucks. They are like Marty McFly father: weak, unconfident, bad in confrontations, doesn't face the possibility of a denial just for fear and cowardness. These ones aren't just bad boyf but also bad friends, sons, leaders, anything... Do you like to have a friend like George McFly? I guess you'd not... But there are nice guys that are nice guys because they had a good family, grew up in a healthy ambiance and wouldn't be capable to hurt girls, to cheat them. They're just misunderstood.
I've said this before, but...
It's not about being a "bad guy" it's about having confidence. Too often the self-proclaimed "nice guy" is timid and nervous, often with some self-esteem issues, and sometimes he's also bitter and spiteful because no girls seem interested in him... which makes him less attractive. Or, he's just too shy to make it clear that he's interested.
The "bad boy," however, is confident. He feels good about himself. He smiles, he flirts, he makes eye contact. he makes it clear he's interested, and we return the favour -- we tend to like those who like us; a concept psychologists call reciprocity.
Less confident daters may even unintentionally spoil the attraction by averting their gaze out of anxiety, being slow to respond in conversation, or offering brief answers; all of which signal dislike. As a result, they lose out on the reciprocity effect.
People with low self-esteem also tend to view other people through the same dark lens they use on themselves, focusing on the negatives of whomever they’re with.
So... In my personal experience, anyone who feels the need to point out what a "nice guy" he is... probably isn't.In America, it is very true that nice guys finish dead last. American women themselves are toxic, hateful, selfish, proud, fake, inauthentic, and spoiled rotten with a very bad attitude. American women even use profanity more than men! Even many American women themselves are in violent gangs, and they abuse illegal drugs. And that is why nice guys finish last in America's toxic dating scene. Friendly and down to Earth personalities turn American women off sexually.
American women themselves are aroused by violence, crime, illegal drugs, and yes, even terrorism! Their very hearts are pulsing heavily and overflowing with nothing but evil. So they go for guys that are toxic, violent, posessive, controlling, guys that would bodyslam another guy to the ground or even shoot another guy for approaching within less than 55 feet of her and him. Many guys I am sure have approached a dating or married couple before at a concert or festival, only to not only see the guy say "Back off!" and "Go away!" but also to see the woman bury her face into her boyfriend's shoulder, and you can literally see that her expression is; "Help me! Save me from that creep!" and using him as a "human shield."There is nothing with being a nice guy. Most guys get hang up on thinking nice guys come last, and don't get the girls. Lets get one thing straight, girls love nice guys, but don't like a guy who is a push over.
Being a push over/nice guy, says to a girl, you can't stand up for yourself, and you won't be able to stand up for her.Of course it's true. Nice guys make great friends, but that's about it.
This is true in my eyes... I'm a sweetie... Where's my Girl?
Why bother with women? They’re all damaged, it’s in their genetics to be awful and to seek out only a very small percentage of the male population
@ThePundertaker usually finishes after me
no not always i am nice and i dont finish last
They don't even get it in. Rightfully so.
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