Help I have a boyfriend but I have a crush on another man 😪 ?

Question

Hi im 18 and i have a boyfriend of 3 years im in love with but we haven't seen eachother since December 30th of 2017 a day before new years eve last month a met another man since my working boyfriend been away my man been working so i can move in with him and we start our family together so this guy that works at the store where i get my clothes from likes me im starting to like him or the attention he gives me since my man isn't around oftend but the problem is the guy wants me to cheat on my man and leave my man who suffers from epilepsy i told him no my man loves me and i love him too sometimes me and the guy would text on the phone but we dont talk anymore after i told him about me and my man love history and i feel guilty about talking to the guy about how much i like him i think im drifting away from my man of 3 much years how do i bring the fire back i really want to make love with my man and go on dates but we can't since i got college and he has a low paying job where he needs the money and he working on getting a new house so we can expanded in case we have a family together we want another baby since i miscarried the first time

What should i do
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Answer 1

Ktpurity

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It seems like you love your man a lot and really want it to work, I think you should persevere through this, I think it’s God putting your guy’s love to the test. In the long run this’ll all be worth it if you guys love each other as much as you say you do. I’m glad you didn’t cheat on him and I’m sorry that the fire you guys had is gone but you guys will get it back once you guys are together again and everything will feel exactly like when you guys first got together. Just hold on a little longer and if there’s an opportunity to go see him even the slightest chance, do it!

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nameisunknown | 114 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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What you should do is stop talking to the guy who isn't your partner, you're almost pursuing the feelings by talking with him, also talking with the guy close enough that he tells you to cheat on your boyfriend, thats half cheating in my mind already, cut contact or leave your current partner dont mess around.

Answer 3

X_Unknown_X

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please don't give up a life of love just for a moment of pleasure the guy that wants you to cheat you should cut him off nothing good is going to come form that except temptation. bring this to his attention that the relationship isn't as great as it was

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AK510

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You said crush!! So think properly and follo your heart. Never do things which will make you repent later on. Distance doesn't matter the amount of trust and love matters. Don't judge things without a strong reason or belief. I hope now you understand better.

Answer 5

Anonymous

Which is why, girls, girls and guys can't be "JUST FRIENDS"

IT DOESN'T WORK PEOPLE, IT DOESN'T WORK!

Answer 6

Ariarose121

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That is perfectly normal girl

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