Are empaths attractive?

[Aiko_E_Lara]

They're sensitive and caring but doesn't mean weak.

Yes

No

[virginbish]

In terms of psychology... empaths tend to be the personality type that are sought after by many people. Only because there are many traits that require the constant attention, being put first, having a partner that will take the first step to apologize first and make up, and someone who will never give up on them and constantly return at the sign of any fake display of reform.
All of these characteristics are seen as promising and foreseen in many people when the empath first interacts with them.

That often leads to empaths getting hurt by the wrong people for them, and soon learning that they can't be their true selves with everyone... which is a frightening reality and a very sad one.
That took a very dark turn, but yeaaahhhh xD

[MimiHashima]

Sounds like the literal story of half my life 😂..

[MimiHashima]

It’s gotten kind of better for me though cause the actions i took.

[virginbish]

Sorry to hear that 💔💕
What kind of actions did you take?

[paleblue]

I came from a very "strong" house hold. My parents loved me and were good people but they weren't the most nicest and empathetic people. I can't date guys who are TOO empathetic after awhile they get annoying. My ex would cry all the time and complain i couldn't stand it. Not saying i need a man who is a brick wall but who can be empathetic at the right time.

[bacca400]

Yes they are attractive. Their empathy can cause them a lot of problems though, so they need to learn to manage it. These people are often called "over sensitive" but that doesn't really describe how complex the problem is.

These empaths tend to attract many people, bad people too, and that can cause problems if they empath doesn't understand what is going on. Empaths can get into trouble by having a relationship with the wrong person who might turn out to be abusive.

At least 5 people have told me I'm an empath, and that explains a lot about me. I didn't ask to be born this way, but it is what it is.

[Unnameable]

Empathetic people are attractive, because they actually give a damn what the other person feels. However: most people think they are empathetic, but almost none are. People who claim to be empathetic, but just project themselves into everyone else are downright repulsive, because they're basically narcissists that go around calling themselves empathetic.

[Archdaemonic]

Being an empath/ intuitive I can tell you people will find it attractive but... just like all people our sensitivity is usually capitalized on in bad relationships. We know someone is bad for us and persist to follow that path and ignore all the signs we are being used.

[virginbish]

So true man, so true

[SugarBlossom]

Yes, they are. So many guys are cold stone and show no emotion to seem tough.

[Crankor]

To me being an empath just means they understand the others feelings very well. doesn't mean they will always react to them. From my experience, genuine empaths have experienced numurous bad experiences that carry their own ailments.

[fay23]

I don't see why caring about others isn't an attractive quality. I wish everyone was empathic.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I thought It can be annoying tho and a turn off.

[fay23]

Well it depends on of they cry a lot, I couldn't handle that but being caring is a great quality.

[virginbish]

Honestly I feel if they cry a lot, I would just want to hug them and make them feel better.
Sometimes they just need pure love and comfort/connection to make them feel better. people only cry when they are really in a difficult time in their lives, or when they have just reached the end of their ropes.
I guess those crying empaths just need a real empath to understand them.

[virginbish]

Honestly I feel if they cry a lot, I would just want to hug them and make them feel better.
Sometimes they just need pure love and comfort/connection to make them feel better. people only cry when they are really in a difficult time in their lives, or when they have just reached the end of their ropes.
I guess those crying empaths just need a real empath to understand them.

[virginbish]

I dunno why it was sent twice at different times 🙄 sorry...

[fay23]

It's okay, I'm not a crier so it's hard for me to deal with it mainly because I don't know how. I'm pretty awkward about those things but I would try to make them feel better.

[virginbish]

Aaah I see what you mean now.
Yeah, that's not so bad then xD
I read a while back of girls on a post saying that crying is weak and makes them wanna dump the guy, so I thought that's what u meant xD
I totally misunderstood what u meant, you are cool then ahah

[fay23]

It's cool lol, i can see why you thought that but yeah i don't see a problem with emotional men but it can be uncomfortable if it's too much ya know.

[virginbish]

Nah I agree.
Especially in the beginning of the relationship, because it can just end up feeling like all the other forms of needy people in your life that only used you to make themselves feel better. Being too dependent on each other in the beginning can be a red flag for some, so I totally get it

[fay23]

Yup I'm glad we cleared that up.

[virginbish]

😊🤗

[aestheticsofty]

No. Average amount is good, over sensitive is a turn off, everything is not a big deal

[taleswapper]

There are not, to my knowledge, any empaths in the world. There are people who are empathic, but not to that point.

[Thorrs]

Attractive people are attractive. Personality is the icing on top.

[Anonymous]

A certain amount is and depends on how the person presents it. :)

[Fluffy5inch]

Most of the people in this thread need to learn the difference between empathy and an empath.

[ENTP_EMO]

I only love empaths. Everyone else is thot

[aestheticsofty]

😂😂😂

[ENTP_EMO]

@aestheticsofty

Hi empath

[MimiHashima]

I find em attractive 🎉👍

[LonelyGuy87]

A girl who cares for people? Hell yeah.

[VixenRach]

Yes, they're attractive.

[000_000]

Not for me, but im a robot

[Anonymous]

People will say yes. But truth is they always en up with a selfish dick/biatch.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Or maybe you take advantage of them, making them feel guilty saying they're selfish or not listening to them till it gets to the point they tell you to fuck off as they're prone to it.

[Opinion Owner]

Nice attack... Your such an empathic person.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

"People say yes" how many people are we? I just spot a narcissist sociopath full of themselves. I said probably. Why are you even attacked?

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Can't you just say "no" for the record?

[Opinion Owner]

You needca big chill pill ASAP. This conversation is over.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Oh dear the irony. You need it for whining much. I'm just giving my point and you don't have to hurt your pride. Indeed it's over. You're mad.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

The moment you posted your opinion that is. Glad you finished what you started

[AoiKaito]

That's the ideal person...

[virginbish]

Depends on when you get them... of they are hot from the empath oven, then prolly the luckiest human
If they were dropped on the floor, stepped on, spat on and left in the cold dark corner... prolly not the best relationship you will have

[kaskas19]

I think they are

[Anonymous]

If a dude's sensitive, it mean's he's clearly gay.

Simples...

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Something a toxic masculine guy would say.

[Opinion Owner]

Dude, I'm not toxic masculine. I'm just masculine and I'm just expressing popular opinion.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Same here. Just expressing a popular opinion because toxic masculine guys judge and shows off that they don't have feelings.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not judging, I'm merely stating an opinion. I mean no offence by that opinion, and yeah, I sort of don't do feelings...

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Also, I never stated that you are toxic. I'm just giving point to your opinion.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for that. And yeah, it's nice to have a bit of a debate. Also, I see that some people find empathy attractive, but I find displaying your emotions and inner feelings to be awkward and embarrassing. So yeah...

[Aiko_E_Lara]

That's like being insecure like caring so much about what people think which isn't really masculine. Taking responsibility and handling people who judge is. Even gays who aren't afraid to show who they are can be masculine. And gays and feminine guys are 2 different things.

[Anonymous]

As long as they have big boobs, I don't care.

[laughinglad999]

they are fine