Do you think strong girls are unattractive?

I m learning fight sport I ve read in a lot of storys that guys are freaked out by a strong girl. Is that true?
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  • If you mean girls who look very muscular, then no, I don't really find it that attractive PERSONALLY - being a bit toned out can look great, but that's about as much muscle as I'd prefer, the same way some women don't find it that attractive when a guy is overly muscular or shredded.

    There are some girls with a lot of muscle definition that can still look attractive to me, though I still think it'd be too much for my ideal preference, though relationship wise, I would like to be with someone who takes care of their body, whether they workout or not.

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  • Regardless of what a woman's physical goals are, I think some (many?) guys who are freaked out by strong and/or muscular girls feel insecure, intimidated, "threatened" and/or "emasculated" by such women. Physical attraction is one thing, but I also think for some guys who think negatively of them, there is more to it than just that.

    Me personally, I find strong women very attractive, but no more or less than any other body type. I actually have a VERY wide range of body types I find attractive and believe beauty truly comes in so many different forms. Besides, ultimately, TRUE beauty is within. 😉 I wholeheartedly believe that.

    But yes, strong women are definitely attractive and I certainly don't feel insecure around them, or feel "threatened" or "emasculated" by them at all. They are beautiful to me. Hold your head up high and don't listen to the naysayers. Do what feels right for YOU and you will be better of for it. 🙂 Life is to short to live up to someone else's ideals.

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  • I work out. I lift weights. I'm not super buff or anything and obviously that takes ten years of dedication to get like that. But I like feeling strong enough to do things on my own. It feels good to have strength so you are completely fine. Do what you want to do. Live your life and don't stop it for a guy. You want to be with the right guy who'll appreciate you and like you for who you are. Not who they want you to be.

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  • I think it doesn't matter to them though many guys would be turned off your figure ends up very masculine.. It's more about appearance than what you do

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  • I'm not attracted to muscley women. If I can see a six-pack, she is too masculine to be attractive for me.

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  • Depends- generally not, but a bodybuilder probably would be. There is such a thing as being too muscular.

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  • If she can help me with some manual labor around the place and can work hard without bitching, then NO. But if she is some gym pumped bs only, I just don't care if she can't work hard outside.

    If she can work hard manual labor--attractive; If she can't then worthless unattractive.

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  • Some guys are, for sure, but most of us don't mind, and a number of us find it to be a turn-on.
    Personally, I think it's incredibly sexy. Don't get me wrong, soft and round women have a different sort of appeal to which I am absolutely attracted, but something animalistic switches on in me when confronted with a muscular woman. Gracyanna Barbosa, for instance, or Bakhar Nabieva. Jhennyfer Mattos, Clarice Andrade, Kathryn Freeman...
    Lots of unbelievably beautiful women with muscle.

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  • Strong girls are hot. My girlfriend is pretty strong, and I love it. We work out together several times a week, go hiking and backpacking, etc. Her pack weighs about as much as mine (around 30 pounds), and we hike up mountains and such.

    The idea that a woman shouldn't be strong is ridiculous. Everyone should find some way to feel strong in their lives, and everyone should strive to be physically fit, too.

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  • it depends how mean, strong as in lot muscle yeah can be it so not natural but im Cancerian & we like feminine girls, it always depends on the guy/girl, a lot guys do really like muscle girls & lot don't, but I think for the main % it be feminine,
    strong as stand ground & for ones love & to be good self in this chaotic world most def is attractive.
    strong but not stuck up or prejudge

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  • I love strong women, so long as they look feminine, still. Some abs are okay, but not too defined.

    But, I work in fitness, and am a dedicated bodybuilder: albeit at an intermediate level. I would love to date a fitness chick. They are my ideal. Because even if they are strong; I'm way stronger. Unless they are massive, in which case I don't have interest, anyway.

    Point being: fit chicks are fucking hot and awesome with healthy lifestyles and the same kind of interests as me. They rock.

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    • Gracyanna Barbosa is super well defined, but she pulls it off so goddamn well.

    • There are a lot of other excellent examples. Clarice Andrade is a personal favorite.

    • @User-Jacob She's too masculine for my personal taste. Clarice is better, but still too bulky for my preference. I prefer petite or average build women, still. Toned, but not so muscular as them. But, everyone has their preferences.

  • depends what you mean by strong. If you just mean able to fight or have cqc then no, but if you mean being muscular then it comes down to personal preference, I don't think muscles look good so I'd consider it unattractive but others might be the opposite and consider it attractive

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  • I don't like muscly girls it's too masculine, but I don't care if they are just strong and fit. It would probably motivate me to get stronger myself though I think it would be weird if my girlfriend was stronger than me tbh it would be emasculating

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  • Buff girls are unattractive, no problem with strong.

    i.dailymail.co.uk/.../...ge-a-58_1478956987170.jpg

    Das nasty.

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  • Yes. But it depends as long as you don't look like a guy in a dress like Serena Williams

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    • Doesn't that make you think why women are only strictly viewed heavily on looks like that's their only worth? I guess that's normal and why the white chick is getting paid 23 million vs the black chick who is obviously a better player than her is getting paid less because she doesn't look feminine enough? Wow... I guess talent and skill doesn't matter for women. Only looks right? That's nice.

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    • Still doesn't make it right and it isn't right to enforce it either.

    • @Blunique you can't force people what to buy. Models sell and good looking athletic women equal sales.
      Who is enforcing it?

  • Not really, when I train hard I'm really strong too so I recognize their hard work. If they are stronger than me thats super impressive as I haven't come across that yet in a female including the few UFC women fighters I've rolled with over the years, they were far more skilled than me and got me 4-5x more than I could catch them but they certainly were not any stronger.

    So no it doesn't intimidate me, I'd think it was interesting.

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  • Sure, some guys are intimidated by women that are strong or smart or accomplished or in high-powered positions. No problem, you don't want to date those guys. You want to date the guy who is happy you are strong and will want to join you in the things you love to do. I know a couple that hiked the Pacific Crest Trail over the summer. She runs marathons. He climbs mountains. He's not intimidated.

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  • No, to me it does not matter, For me strong girls are attractive. If she is learning fight sport then its awesome together we can defeat an army and make a great deal out of it. I suggest you to continue your learning and only those creatures freaked out who tends to harm you.

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  • Yeah, it does matter! A human being is a human being, even if female. Someone who takes care of themselves, acquires new skills and abilities, wants to be able to fend for themselves - that's awesome. I want a partner who is a fully fledged human being not a dependency, and as such hope You'll literally kick ass in Your training and outside. A man who's afraid of You being an equal or even better at some things is not worth Your time.

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  • no, i think it's amazing, and inspiring! also it's not uncommon to see girls at fitness/powerlifting expos who looks like average skinny girls that can't even lift more than 20 lbs and the moment they get on the platform they be deadlifting 2x their own body weight or more than 275 lbs for reps.

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  • "Freaked out by strong girl" is bit loaded. You end up looking very masculine which many guys fine unattractive. Secondly, strong can be a facet of character. Many physically strong people have weak characters. So you may be strong physically but doesn't make you a strong person. And guys happen to like a well balanced girl who is secure in who she is and what she wants. None of that has to do with how much you can lift or how card you can hit.

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  • This question has been asked about 10 times already within the past few months...

    The picture showcasing this question is why I'm not into "fitness girls". They constantly feel the need to show off their bodies online. Not into that. Cool... you work out... don't need to show off to the whole bloody world. I've been in MMA for 5 years... I don't have any pictures of me flexing my muscles.

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  • Strong women are so hot. I mean every type of strong, physically strong, mentally strong, morally strong. I am so attracted to the woman who is the Valkyrie, the Amazon, the Woman Warrior. They are so hot.

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  • I prefer girls who do other kind of sports.
    I am a protective guy and I feel attracted to girls who seem delicate and pretty.
    I am not saying that a girl who practice karate can't be pretty. But I don't feel attracted to them

    I don't freak out, for me is like turn off

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  • Only weak men are scared of a female fighter.
    Besides, they look good, like Claudia Gadelha
    i.pinimg.com/.../...a57a31f74ce74e6f85c6fadcff.jpg

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  • It's hot to a point/level, sporty is good, very muscular not so hot.
    Like this is very hot, but any more muscles on the arms and abs, thights and she rapidly becomes less and less hot.

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  • I know that some guys can be insecure about it since they don't like the idea that a girl would be better at fighting than them. But as long as you have a good attitude about it and don't let it get to your head, most guys won't have a problem with you.

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  • Atrong means healthy , maintaining good physique and endurance. Strong necessarily doesn't mean a body builder woman.
    Overexcwssive Bodybuilding like a professional bodybuilder is not healthy. It reduces age. Maintaining good health by gym workout yoga and sports is different and if this is a definition of being strong then its a good thing.

    Being over muscular is a big no for me to chose a woman.

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  • It's kind of gross to have so many muscles. She looks like a man.
    i.pinimg.com/.../...1330dbd429f454ee6bbdf80383.jpg

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    • Are you saying men have muscles?

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    • @Devourtheuniverse That would be pretty hard to do..

  • No its cool. There is definitely a minority that feel a bit weak but its just a minority, who cares. A girl that is both mentally and physically strong is a win win. I mean there is no con here. They can carry their own bags. They can stand their ground. They can do stuff during sex. They dont whine all the time about being tired or sick or in pain. And their booty is toooootally out of this world. I mean we can slap this thing 24/7 and it never gets old.

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  • I somehow doubt you are strong, maybe compared to other girls, but thats it. Also knowing how to fight and weight lifting are two different things. As long as you don't start looking like a dude I doubt anyone will care.

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  • considering strength comes in many different forms...
    i don't care how physically strong a woman is (although an amount of strength is good), but have little patience for weaklings in other senses..

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  • As long as her body still has some curves and isn't TOO angular, and maintains a good proportion, no problems here. She can always help pull my car out of a ditch ;- )

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  • If they are then they are just insecure. I find women attractive if they have a hobby or interest in life they are passionate about and work hard to achieve

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  • They don't like it

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  • It depends on how strong. As long as they don't start to look like a man I think it's great, better than those who don't exercise. I workout too and I look better than before

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  • Forget of it is attractive or not.

    Answer me this. Is it important? Is it beneficial? Is it practical?

    Being strong will help you so much in life. I know I can carry heavy things easily and it literally helps me so certain things faster on my own. I can't always depends on others, plus it feels great when I sometimes carry heavy things for my parents. They do so much for us but I can do them this little help right? It also helps me to impress my classmates. 😂

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  • You must be talking physical only. I personally dislike anyone beyond toned. Definition is ok unless it's exaggerated like your pic.

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  • Personally, I think anyone with massive, boulder-like muscles and bulging veins are a bit too much for me. But just being strong and being able to fight is really cool, regardless of your gender.

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  • If you're not talking about muscle wise then yes. Me and my friends used to fight guys in the hall in between classes and afterwards one of the guys said " I like play fighting with you, you actually fight back"

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  • Men who say that stuff are just insecure. Do what you love, you'll never be truly happy living your life based on what others think you should/shouldn't do.

    Strong is beautiful!!! :)

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  • depends if it body building manly body kind of girls or girls with the body of like a tennis player or a volleyball player.

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  • Unattractive to guys who want a little thin diminutive girl. But not unattractive to guys in general who admire strength and physical power in a woman but still look feminine in build apart from theprotruding muscles.

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  • It doesn’t matter you can be extremely strong and a fighter yet be girly and beautiful this has nothing to do with that and whoever thinks you’re any less of a woman or a lady because you’re a fighter is extremely close minded and judgmental

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  • id hope not >.< i have quite a bit of muscle and i dont plan to stop building more anytime soon lol

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  • Strong women are strong for themselves not in an attempt to be more attractive to men

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  • Well I don't know for a man but I am strong asf for a girl. My boyfriend tells me I have hulk strength and he's scared ( so did my past bfs).

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  • Strong girls aren’t unattractive, but buff women with a lot of bulky muscle are.

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  • I am super muscular myself, i rate this look far more attractive than beeing super slim etc. Everybody has its own Ideal. :D

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  • No they're not. being physically healthy is actually a good thing, so I believe it's attractive. I like being athletic and staying fit

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  • I like girls and a strong girl is just no... for me

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  • To be honest with you I don't think it really matters, you be you and don't let anyone else to tell you otherwise. :)

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  • Wouldn't like that on me, but it doesn't matter on other girls

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  • They can be very beautiful and sexy. A little meat doesn't make them hideous.

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  • If I had a girlfriend, if prefer her to be stronger than me

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  • Strong women are amazing and whoever says they aren’t is because is jealous.

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  • I doubt it, lots of guys love strong girls.

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  • Stop caring and play your sports.

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  • lol i wouldn't think so

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  • Nah. Anyone who can break me in half is great

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  • If by strong you mean overly muscuoar than yes.

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  • Nobody cares to be honest

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  • Only pussies are xD Strong girls rock.

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  • Many people find it attractive that I am strong

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