Date won't let me pay. Advice? (Page 2)

[viannejungkind]

Don't feel bad. It's normal for a guy to want to pay. I don't think you should stop offering to pay yourself though. as long as you show that you're not using him to pay. Also its only been two dates, you're time to pay for him will come too :)

[Leviathan_Charmer]

You're not supposed to pay. Just suck it up and be a man– wait, no, let him be the man. You just be the lady.

[Just_A_Guy2018]

End it if he will not let you pay for your portion. You are a strong independent woman and don't need a man for anything.

[Browneye57]

Bring him a gift.
It's never going to be even or equal anyway. So why are you complaining instead of simply being grateful?

[Anonymous]

Just be careful because after few dates, he might think you owe him something if you know what I mean.

[Opinion Owner]

Just a caution, not all men think like that but I have seen nice guys turn angry about wasting their money if it did not work out between you two.

[Opinion Owner]

What I would do is use the money to get him a gift instead so if it did not work out, he cannot be angry and you owe him nothing.

[Anonymous]

Is he your typical nice guy? do you find him sexually attractive? does he make you feel hot? or do you feel luke warm like he's just a friend..

[shanenotabong]

You shouldn't feel bad... And if you're date is earning the money himself and not using his parents' money, then it's definitely alright for him to pay.

[Rambler221]

Well, it is his choice whether he wants to pay ot not. Maybe ask him if you can take him out, "on my (your own) dime"? Or just tell him that you really don't expect him to pay for everything?

[winterfox10]

Just go with it, he wants to treat you. It's nothing to feel bad about.

[_dardorsama_]

Maybe he's just being a gentleman and he have a good income

So don't worry about it

[aaronbw]

I say let him pay. You can get him a gift or something later to equal it out

[Philyouup]

Enjoy, but always offer.. you are doing all you can do to be fare, assume his good with it.

[Ninetales101]

Tell him you can’t date him if you don’t pay because you feel guilty and bad

[Keimpe]

Take him on a surprise date and don't tell what you will be doing, he has no choice but to accept your choice

[zodiacaquarius]

He's being a gentleman I'd do the same guys should be the one to pay for The dates

[BeyondPlusUltra]

Don't be surprised when he actually needs you to pay, that's all.

[GenPhilosophy]

He is being a gentleman, buy him a gift if you feel the spending is one sided.

[SiKGuy]

You shouldn't feel bad he likes you very much so he's redy to pay fore some things
he's a so called chenille mann
😀🖒

[TacoFamine]

Get him a little something else. Like a mini gift or something.

[STaurus]

Its chivalry, let him until y'all are like dating continuously then pay every now and then