Are really hot guys usually players?

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Alice2398 · Accepted Answer

Nope. I know some really extremely handsome men who haven't even had a girlfriend before because they don't get approached my girls and they all think theyed never have a chance with him.

Sometimes they can be really shy and scared to be around girls as well because they've never have to do much talking before to impress people and don't know what to say and are kinda awkward. Also they don't want to be used and seen as a piece of meat by women and been given the stereotype of being a player. As much as it might seem nice at frist for them, it can lead into a lot of trouble and heart break for them. Having girls fight over them and being used by a girl they had feelings for is not nice and sometimes guys just want a serious relationship were a girl can love him for whats under the skin and will be honest with him. People will be fake with you and put up with your shit if your good looking and sometimes in a relationship you need someone to you a kick up the arse and not to tell you what you want to here.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

Not always.

I have a friend that's hot and surprisingly NOT a player!
But that's only because he thinks he's average, boring and unattractive... yet he's shocked when women check him out, lol

So his low self esteem keeps him that way I guess.
If a guy is constantly getting lots of attention or action and thinks he's a player, yeah he'll start to behave like one.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Yes. It's not universally true, of course, but it's overwhelmingly true.

For such guys, it's very easy to get girls, sometimes even having girls throw themselves at him even when he has another girl with him.

It's like a girl with 5 no-limit credit cards that someone else pays for - it's hardly surprising if she goes out shopping all the time even with a huge closet of brand new designer clothes at home.

Just as the girl would have no reason to be frugal, the guy would have no reason to be in a monogamous relationship.

Generally, the more options a guy has with women, the less likely he'll be interested in a committed relationship. Again, with a few exceptions, as always.

ChrisTruthseeker · Accepted Answer

I don't know if I'd call them all "Players" but usually from what I've seen they have so many options regarding women that they don't necessarily have to try in relationships.
They can always go out and get another woman easily if the current one is an issue.
It's the same with really hot women.
Some of them don't really value relationships with men especially if they get hit on regularly and they know they can always get someone hotter whenever they feel like it.
I feel like hot people only try in relationships with other really hot people.
They'll probably treat you like shit if you're a 6 or 7 and they're like a 9 or 10.
That's just been my experience anyway.

Logorithim · Answer

They don't have to be, and I'm not convinced that they are much more likely. They have no problem getting high-quality women and attention from women in general, so there are no self-esteem issues to "work out" by becoming a player.

StingRayxoxo · Answer

Generally, I have observed this to be true of both men and women. But I also know some that are fiercely loyal to their relationship.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Are really pretty girls usually gold diggers?

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Nope. I know plenty of hot guys who are loyal.

Browneye57 · Answer

Yes, mostly. 80% of women are chasing 15% of the hottest guys, the rest of everybody else is standing on the sidelines hoping and waiting for something to happen.

And they'll have sex with those guys thinking they can snag him by doing so. He has them throwing themselves at him. Worse, now she thinks she's more valuable and desirable since Chad Thundercock fucked her, which she's not, but now has this unrealistic expectation of what she deserves in a man. And you'll hear the famous, "I'm just not going to settle", all the while she keeps doing this over and over, spurning plenty of really great guys that would make a perfect suitor for a mate.
Till she gets to thirty, now her youth and beauty is staring to fade and has to compete with much younger and more beautiful women. Now you hear the "Where have all the good men gone".

It's a vicious cycle. My advice to young women: Don't squander your youth.

Lance1965 · Answer

Yeah most of them are and they have most of the women chasing them. The women will fuck them and the women think they must be special because of it when in reality it is just more sex for a lot of these men. I know some players and they use woman after woman and yet the women still clutch to the idea that they "might be the one." A lot of women will play this game till their looks fade and they have had a child or two and then will start the whining about how they can't find a good man. There are plenty of examples of this posted on this site by female users.

Tdieseler · Answer

here's the thing you women dont seem to get... if you think he's hot...9.5 times out of 10, another woman thinks he's hot too... which in turn makes you an option and nothing special. So dont put it on the guy that he is a player... just because he looks good. if he's a player, its just because your game sucked.

Nita2585 · Answer

I don't think so.
I have always witnessed less than normal attractive guys, flirting with this girl and that girl, taking none of them serious.
Maybe they were so skillful in art of seduction (if its even counted as art)
Anyway, plenty of really attractive guys out there are after a decent relationship.

azzntittiz · Answer

Why do people think this type of shit? leave good looking people alone if you're gonna assume dumb shit because of their looks. The ugliest men I know cheat more than anyone else. Getting pussy goes to their heads quicker especially if their girl is hot, they will attract other women and then go wild doing weird shit. Insecure people should leave attractive people alone, gosh.

vishna · Answer

i don't think that's automatically true. i think most people are not players.
*lol me clinging to optimism that the incredibly hot guy I'm going on dates with isn't fucking every girl within a 100 mile radius the days we aren't hanging out*
*will update XD*

DocilexElle · Answer

Not always. Sometimes they're pretty ordinary or average. It's more like IF they can snag a few girls at the same time they think they've "won." That being said, not all girls are into the same type of man, physically. He could think the "average" girl is hot, while his friends are like wtf. LOL.

TripleAce · Answer

No not really. It’s just they are seen as players to girls that those men don’t see as a girl they want to keep. They aren’t ‘players’ to girls they actually find on their level and a girl that works for him

It’s the same for anything. Even girls if they date guys that aren’t the type of guy they want. They will be seen as bitches or heart breakers.

If you experience this a lot. It’s because you think you are prettier than you actually are and going for guys that are better looking

latinabutterfly96 · Answer

Yeah, but I don’t like the word player. I disrespect men and women who fuck around and take advantage of their appearance for their own gratification. Women do this too, a LOT, but they’ve smartened up a bit and they’re doing it in a different way that men do.

Anon-ymous1 · Answer

Well, no, because

DracoLuciusMalfoy · Answer

Really hot guys AND girls are players, cheaters and whores. It’s best to date an attractive girl but not too attractive.

Like Hermione. She ain’t the hottest girl, but she’s cute... so you know she ain’t cheating on you or carrying a few STD’s. Oh and by Hermione I also mean her actress.

Anonymous · Answer

Of course, I would know because I'm extremely attractive.
The answer's quite simple... the answer is.. umm... why it's..(what would a hot guy say?)... umm.. they definitely are my dewkissed flower (sound legit? got the line from raj in Big Bang Theory)

giovannimontolivo · Answer

Nah not necessarily. Although attractive individuals have the the opportunity to sleep with a bunch of hot girls, not all of them do. Obviously there are those that are players, but you shouldn't hesitate to try and connect with someone just because you THINK they are players.

Lightning8 · Answer

I think this can be applied to both genders. The more options, the more likely you'll be unhappy in a committed relationship because you feel you're missing out on all the other available hot people hitting on you. There is always someone "better", and you can get them.

whyisitso · Answer

Not all of them, and it has also something to do with what you see as hot. If you drool for guys who like to show off their muscles or those good looking guys who have an arrogant smile, they are usually players.

Anonymous · Answer

Actually I find it’s more so the not all that good looking ones , they tend to sleep with anyone they get. I think a player is an insecure type of man who seeks women for validation within himself.

Anonymous · Answer

Just because someone is attractive does not mean they are trying to use you. There are plenty of attractive men that are happily married and loyal to their wives and children. In the dating world I would say it is about the same as with any average guy. Some are going to be players, others are going to be relationship material, and some are totally awkward and do not even know how to talk to women.

Anonymous · Answer

They're more likely to be for sure, but no guarantee. ALL guys would like to be able to have sex with multiple hot girls. But reality is that very few will have the opportunity to. Or they would have to work much harder than they are willing to in order to be able to. So most guys don't

DublinRollerGirl · Answer

Yeah, because they know they can get any girl they want so why limit them self to one chick when they can have the whole coop?

Queen-of-Hearts · Answer

They're more likely to be just because they usually can a lot more than other guys. It would be easier for them. But of course that doesn't mean all of them are.

RuthAnn1781 · Answer

They're more likely to be because they know they can get with pretty much any girl they want and guys tend to like that. But not all attractive guys are like that I imagine

HikerDude · Answer

No, that's based a lot on temperament. Besides, how do you define a "player"? Is a guy who dates a lot automatically a player? What if the guy is totally honest about his intentions, and women still jump into bed with him?

genericname85 · Answer

those that aren't, are taken :P i mean if a guy "can" fuck around cause women droll after him, you can bet your bottom dollar he will. and if he's actually one of the few that prefers commitment for some reason, he's certainly not single.

Salmon4056 · Answer

It depends on the guy. However it seems that society has or will try to make such individuals believe that they should act a certain way or move by that stereotype.

Lovvyyy · Answer

I don't think it has anything to do with physical appearance; if something, very good looking guys who also are players are SUCCESSFUL players, 'cause ugly guys cannot afford to keep doing this shit and will give up.

BesrkirAstrid · Answer

No just like If a woman is "hot" doesn't mean she fake.  That is an individual thing not one size fits all.

TsundereMatrix · Answer

I think some guys are just aware of how good looking they are and they develop that “I can get any girl I want” attitude.

Jan_Classic · Answer

No, we are quite the honest family people it's just the crazy amount of pussy material that appears out of the blue =D

Royalsarcasist · Answer

Yeah a lot of hot guys “know” they are hot and they use it to their advantage. Which in turn makes them unattractive douchbags, at least to me anyway

wiseyoungman · Answer

Depends on what you mean by player. We're usually promiscuous because we can be, But many do so ethically (not pretending to be monogamous with any of our partners)

turnmypainintopower1 · Answer

usually because every girl swoons over them and they get huge egos and then become players not always but usually

Selina_Kyle_ · Answer

I know some hot guys here and they are totally not players.

AbdKilani · Answer

Ahm ahm Well I have to say, mostly yes  But can't generalize anything, you have some like me, who didn't even date  So life is full of surprises, don't assume anything till you make sure of it.

SarahsSummer · Answer

I dont think so. I know a few who don’t even know they’re hot.

catmandoes · Answer

Average guys cast a large net so might have a few on the go where hot guys can usually just focus in on one girl.

uravgguy · Answer

I don't think so. The stereotype is that they are, but it's certainly not entirely the case.

Anonymous · Answer

Yep. My boyfriend was like that. When we first met, I had on black leggings, cuz I'm thick. He tried to play it off and ignore it, but he can't. His eyes went down and he was like Oooooo! I just kept a straight face, and he cringed. He said afterwards he thought that would work on me. Nope. Got him, and he dropped the act.

luvstoned4him · Answer

Majority are but I usually meet a couple humble ones.

kekekekekekeke · Answer

I’m scared of pretty people because a lot of them take advantage of their looks 🙈 But not all pretty people are like that, there’s some rare cases out there

WhoDatGuy · Answer

They say 80% of people go for around 20% of people. With that many options it would be hard to resist. They got the good looking privilege, which is the highest privilege of all

Coolgirl235 · Answer

No they aren’t. It’s usually ugly or average looking guys I see calling themselves players anyway.

Anonymous · Answer

Not necessarily. But it would be the same as it is for women. They likely have more options, so some might take advantage of that, or at least can be more choosy/picky. Are all hot women?

Malita55 · Answer

Almost always because they think they can get whoever they want and never want to settle down

Aenetoo · Answer

I'm a super-hotty. I'm so cute, girls run away from me while dialing 911. But I'm actually really timid. A nice guy. Definitely not a player.

Skateranon · Answer

I have plenty of friends who girls consider really good looking and they are super humble and one of them is even a virgin and he is like 26 so no they are not all players

Ecco939 · Answer

It would be unjust to say yes. A persons physical features don't generally determine their behavior. This is just as wrong as if I were to say it about a woman.

Tron5678 · Answer

Nope! Anybody can be a player regardless if they are not or not.

amandeep017 · Answer

Looks can be decieving but you shouldn't judge someone based on how hot they are.

Kenni · Answer

Yes. Never seen one that isn't. Doesn't mean he's not out there though.

entropyyy · Answer

It's not uncommon. Just like with girls, when they know they're pretty they'll take advantage of it.

Clacson45 · Answer

My ex his not even near hot but he’s a player so I don’t think that’s the basis ;)

zagor · Answer

Not necessarily, but because they have so many options it is easier for them to be if they so choose.

weirdoweirdo · Answer

Well they have more options thus they are more prone to being a player because they can actually be a player.

Anonymous · Answer

No. Players are insecure folks it doesn't matter how hot or average he might be

Anonymous · Answer

Yes yes damn yes! Unfortunately but yes. Hot looking tend to be players. Social guys are players all of them! Never met someone who don't

Syrian_survivor · Answer

Sometimes, because of girls (mostly sluts) filling up their ego 🤔 They're all bad people anyway

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