Are really hot guys usually players?

[Anonymous]

[Alice2398]

Nope. I know some really extremely handsome men who haven't even had a girlfriend before because they don't get approached my girls and they all think theyed never have a chance with him.

Sometimes they can be really shy and scared to be around girls as well because they've never have to do much talking before to impress people and don't know what to say and are kinda awkward. Also they don't want to be used and seen as a piece of meat by women and been given the stereotype of being a player. As much as it might seem nice at frist for them, it can lead into a lot of trouble and heart break for them. Having girls fight over them and being used by a girl they had feelings for is not nice and sometimes guys just want a serious relationship were a girl can love him for whats under the skin and will be honest with him. People will be fake with you and put up with your shit if your good looking and sometimes in a relationship you need someone to you a kick up the arse and not to tell you what you want to here.

[Kaazsz]

Wow I feel like you described my life pretty accurately here. I actually do have women approach me and even throw themselves at me. I literally freak out, get anxiety, my heart races and I have to get away from her ASAP. I want someone to love. But I have so much social anxiety and I’m so damn awkward. Girls come at me thinking I’m going to flirt with cute smiles and sexual innuendo and when they do I just clamp shut and then they get this dissapointed look on their faces once they realize I’m a social catastrophe. It really sucks cuz al my life I dreamed wishing girls would like me. But girls DO like me and I STILL can’t have them because of my own insane social problems.

[Kkaos]

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[Kaazsz]

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[Kaazsz]

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[Kaazsz]

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[Kkaos]

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[Cynicaldreamer]

Not always.

I have a friend that's hot and surprisingly NOT a player!
But that's only because he thinks he's average, boring and unattractive... yet he's shocked when women check him out, lol

So his low self esteem keeps him that way I guess.
If a guy is constantly getting lots of attention or action and thinks he's a player, yeah he'll start to behave like one.

[MrOracle]

Yes. It's not universally true, of course, but it's overwhelmingly true.

For such guys, it's very easy to get girls, sometimes even having girls throw themselves at him even when he has another girl with him.

It's like a girl with 5 no-limit credit cards that someone else pays for - it's hardly surprising if she goes out shopping all the time even with a huge closet of brand new designer clothes at home.

Just as the girl would have no reason to be frugal, the guy would have no reason to be in a monogamous relationship.

Generally, the more options a guy has with women, the less likely he'll be interested in a committed relationship. Again, with a few exceptions, as always.

[DracoLuciusMalfoy]

Same goes for really hot girls.

[MrOracle]

Far less often. Any above-average girl has no problem getting sex, and women don't generally want casual sex - they want relationships.

[es20490446e]

I'm hot, and I play none.

On the other hand, for sure, I'm more selective.

[kittyluv]

Not true about girls generally wanting relationships. Many many girls want casual hookups.

[bamesjond0069]

@kittyluv most dont. Thats only if they have mental issues going on or really low self esteem.

[DracoLuciusMalfoy]

@kittyluv a large number of girls just want sex to be honest.

[es20490446e]

@DracoLuciusMalfoy Lets see by fact:
Do you usually have hookups? ↗

[judyy324]

I agree. I consider myself an attractive girl, but it's really hard to get relationships/date attractive guys because they just do not want relationships in general.

[es20490446e]

@judyy324 The poll shows that only 30% of people have hookups yearly:
Do you usually have hookups? ↗

So my interpretation isn't that people want hookups only, but that they don't want a relationship with you in particular.

[MrOracle]

I'm not saying that it is easy for a girl - even a very attractive girl - to get a relationship from a guy - I'm just saying that a relationship (and not just casual sex) is what women really want.

Contrast with the gay community. Because it's all guys, who are fine with "just sex", they tend to be super promiscuous. While lesbians battle "lesbian bed death" without a male to drive the sexuality.

[DracoLuciusMalfoy]

Girls are more sexual and promiscuous than guys.

[es20490446e]

@DracoLuciusMalfoy They are the same.

[DracoLuciusMalfoy]

@es20490446e nah girls sleep around way more.

[kittyluv]

@bamesjond0069 No, the contrary. Low self-esteem girls seem to want a relationship more than anything, because they get they need the confirmation. High selfesteem girls don´t need the confirmation of their wirth, and tend to do whatever suits their purposes most at any given time.

[bamesjond0069]

@kittyluv hooking up never suits a womans purposes though. Its like tattooing the word FUCK on your forehead. It may be fake esteem or something but you have to hate yourself if you are going to purposely do something you know everyone is going to think you're now disgusting. The guys want to talk to you but in their heads they all think eww she's gross. Every girl knows this. Girls who want relationships know they are worth more than being a slut.

[kittyluv]

@bamesjond0069 You´re dead wrong. You´re also very prejudiced in your views of women who at certain stages of their lives prefer to hook up rather than being in a relationship. Back to the 19th century you go. Byeee.

[bamesjond0069]

@kittyluv prejudiced because most high quality men (successful, athletic, intelligent etc) men have zero interest in women who hookup at any point as worthwhile for a relationship? Lmfao. Everyone knows this. When you act like a slut you are basically now avoiding all decent men forever and now you can be salty online and join the club of all the other women complaing why nobody wants to marry you except losers. Gets rid of the anxiety you have about falling in love or getting married or whatever.

[DracoLuciusMalfoy]

All girls want is sex. Nothing more or less. As a guy, it’s best to not think of girls as anything other than sex-partners because that’s all they think of guys.

[bamesjond0069]

@DracoLuciusMalfoy are you a physically attractive man?

[DracoLuciusMalfoy]

@bamesjond0069 I think I am, yeah. Why?

[es20490446e]

@bamesjond0069 I strongly agree with your point.

My main problem with dating these days is that nearly all girls tell me straight away, sometimes in a subtle manner, that they want only sex or an open relationship.

That for me means the person is superficial, and basically doesn't care at all about me. I literally tell them that's utterly bullshit, with this same words, and I move to the next one without delay. This happens every four weeks or so.

Bottom line is that girls usually assume that having pussy is a competitive advantage, when the truth is that half the people have pussies.

I know guys, who aren't as attractive as I am, that can fuck three different women in the same week. If you think that doing the same as those girls will make a difference, I tell you that you are living in a mirage. Those guys don't give a fuck about you, and I don't give a fuck about your vag either.

[ChrisTruthseeker]

I don't know if I'd call them all "Players" but usually from what I've seen they have so many options regarding women that they don't necessarily have to try in relationships.
They can always go out and get another woman easily if the current one is an issue.
It's the same with really hot women.
Some of them don't really value relationships with men especially if they get hit on regularly and they know they can always get someone hotter whenever they feel like it.
I feel like hot people only try in relationships with other really hot people.
They'll probably treat you like shit if you're a 6 or 7 and they're like a 9 or 10.
That's just been my experience anyway.

[Logorithim]

They don't have to be, and I'm not convinced that they are much more likely. They have no problem getting high-quality women and attention from women in general, so there are no self-esteem issues to "work out" by becoming a player.

[Logorithim]

Being a player and a cheater is a matter of bad character, not looks.

[StingRayxoxo]

Generally, I have observed this to be true of both men and women. But I also know some that are fiercely loyal to their relationship.

[OlderAndWiser]

Are really pretty girls usually gold diggers?

[Tdieseler]

lol... tell em homes.
its not necessarily true but its still funny as shit.

[Vanillax9]

Seriously? I don't know any "player" girls, just guys.

[OlderAndWiser]

10-4 :) :) :)

[jennifer_bloom]

Nope. I know plenty of hot guys who are loyal.

[iskg679]

THANK YOU!

[Browneye57]

Yes, mostly. 80% of women are chasing 15% of the hottest guys, the rest of everybody else is standing on the sidelines hoping and waiting for something to happen.

And they'll have sex with those guys thinking they can snag him by doing so. He has them throwing themselves at him. Worse, now she thinks she's more valuable and desirable since Chad Thundercock fucked her, which she's not, but now has this unrealistic expectation of what she deserves in a man. And you'll hear the famous, "I'm just not going to settle", all the while she keeps doing this over and over, spurning plenty of really great guys that would make a perfect suitor for a mate.
Till she gets to thirty, now her youth and beauty is staring to fade and has to compete with much younger and more beautiful women. Now you hear the "Where have all the good men gone".

It's a vicious cycle. My advice to young women: Don't squander your youth.

[Lance1965]

Yeah most of them are and they have most of the women chasing them. The women will fuck them and the women think they must be special because of it when in reality it is just more sex for a lot of these men. I know some players and they use woman after woman and yet the women still clutch to the idea that they "might be the one." A lot of women will play this game till their looks fade and they have had a child or two and then will start the whining about how they can't find a good man. There are plenty of examples of this posted on this site by female users.

[Tdieseler]

here's the thing you women dont seem to get... if you think he's hot...9.5 times out of 10, another woman thinks he's hot too... which in turn makes you an option and nothing special. So dont put it on the guy that he is a player... just because he looks good. if he's a player, its just because your game sucked.

[Tdieseler]

lol.. i knew i would get female down votes. Women can't stand being called out on anything negative, be it lying, horrible sex, inability to keep a guy interested, bodily flaws... etc.
I dont care what its like on Venus darlings... but regardless of what the horny little bastards tell ya... YA ain't Perfect!!! And there are guys like me who would happily let you know that. bring you back down to reality.
The trick... is to accept the imperfection and work with it.

[Nita2585]

I don't think so.
I have always witnessed less than normal attractive guys, flirting with this girl and that girl, taking none of them serious.
Maybe they were so skillful in art of seduction (if its even counted as art)
Anyway, plenty of really attractive guys out there are after a decent relationship.

[azzntittiz]

Why do people think this type of shit? leave good looking people alone if you're gonna assume dumb shit because of their looks. The ugliest men I know cheat more than anyone else. Getting pussy goes to their heads quicker especially if their girl is hot, they will attract other women and then go wild doing weird shit. Insecure people should leave attractive people alone, gosh.

[Ghost285]

Why can't a dark skin black guy be attractive to you?

[vishna]

i don't think that's automatically true. i think most people are not players.
*lol me clinging to optimism that the incredibly hot guy I'm going on dates with isn't fucking every girl within a 100 mile radius the days we aren't hanging out*
*will update XD*

[DocilexElle]

Not always. Sometimes they're pretty ordinary or average. It's more like IF they can snag a few girls at the same time they think they've "won." That being said, not all girls are into the same type of man, physically. He could think the "average" girl is hot, while his friends are like wtf. LOL.

[TripleAce]

No not really. It’s just they are seen as players to girls that those men don’t see as a girl they want to keep. They aren’t ‘players’ to girls they actually find on their level and a girl that works for him

It’s the same for anything. Even girls if they date guys that aren’t the type of guy they want. They will be seen as bitches or heart breakers.

If you experience this a lot. It’s because you think you are prettier than you actually are and going for guys that are better looking

[latinabutterfly96]

Yeah, but I don’t like the word player. I disrespect men and women who fuck around and take advantage of their appearance for their own gratification. Women do this too, a LOT, but they’ve smartened up a bit and they’re doing it in a different way that men do.

[Anon-ymous1]

Well, no, because "Using" Someone For Sex and "Players" DO NOT EXIST, People ↗

[DracoLuciusMalfoy]

Really hot guys AND girls are players, cheaters and whores. It’s best to date an attractive girl but not too attractive.

Like Hermione. She ain’t the hottest girl, but she’s cute... so you know she ain’t cheating on you or carrying a few STD’s. Oh and by Hermione I also mean her actress.

[Anonymous]

Of course, I would know because I'm extremely attractive.
The answer's quite simple... the answer is.. umm... why it's..(what would a hot guy say?)... umm.. they definitely are my dewkissed flower (sound legit? got the line from raj in Big Bang Theory)

[giovannimontolivo]

Nah not necessarily. Although attractive individuals have the the opportunity to sleep with a bunch of hot girls, not all of them do. Obviously there are those that are players, but you shouldn't hesitate to try and connect with someone just because you THINK they are players.

[Lightning8]

I think this can be applied to both genders. The more options, the more likely you'll be unhappy in a committed relationship because you feel you're missing out on all the other available hot people hitting on you. There is always someone "better", and you can get them.

[whyisitso]

Not all of them, and it has also something to do with what you see as hot. If you drool for guys who like to show off their muscles or those good looking guys who have an arrogant smile, they are usually players.

[Nita2585]

Very well said!
To me this was the mho

[whyisitso]

@Nita2585 thanks! Good to hear ✨

[Anonymous]

Actually I find it’s more so the not all that good looking ones , they tend to sleep with anyone they get. I think a player is an insecure type of man who seeks women for validation within himself.