I have Some reasons are :
1. Around a hot tall guy, you get to wear heels with reckless abandon without worrying that you will tower over him!
2. They are born knowing how to pick you up and throw you on a bed :p
3. When you are near a hot tall guy, you feel safe, like nothing can happening to you because other people are intimidated by tall people.
4. You feel safe when they hug you, and your height matches theirs in such a way that your ear hits their heart and you can hear it beat.
5. When they hug you from behind they can rest their chin on your head and grab you, causing you to melt a little bit inside.
6. You can turn their sweaters and shirts into dresses. Just throw on some pumps and hit the club, gurl!
7. Hot guys who are tall and big can reach stuff off the top shelf for you, and when they do you can stare at them and watch as their muscles flex.
8. All tall hot guys are sexy when sitting down because they are so tall that they have to slouch, meaning their legs are spread open kind of and just yessss.
9. Tall guys look great in clothes because clothes are made with tall people in mind. Plus it’s really cute when they roll their pants up to show some of their socks, a look that only tall people can pull off effectively!
10. They have healthy genes.
11. You will never have to wear kitten heels/ be conscious about your shoe choice/worry about looking taller than your man.
12. People who love tall guys know that the act of looking at a tall dude is an act of seduction because you have to look up at him and just omg.
13. If you’re shorter than your man friend, you “fit” together with them in awesome ways.
14. Sometimes a hot guy is so tall that-holding his hand is awkward so you hold his bicep instead, which is just as good!
15. Because when your hot tall man friend takes you to concerts, he can see everything but will use his domineering height to comb through the crowd to make sure you get to see, too.
16. When you go to stuff with him it will be easier for your friends to spot you in the crowd.
17. You will always be seen as cute and cuddly to a tall dude.
18. They have long legs…
19. When it’s raining outside a tall guy will pull out his umbrella and you will remain perfectly dry!
20. When you share a bed with a hot tall guy at night it’s easier to get into his little nook.
I feel sorry for really short guys. I know of ways how it can be swung in their favor though as I've seen some do.
They go into very niche flamboyant styles where they actually appear very attractive for select groups of women. I hope their interest in those scenes are genuine though, because otherwise it's a little sad.
If you're a really short guy. Get slim and let your hair grow out. Except for the body hair, that you shave off!
Go as far away as you can from masculine/broad appeal looks because you're not going to wing that anyway. Turn yourself into an indie-pop looking thing (or any other colorful androgynous alt-scene person).
I'm 5'7 is that even considered "really" short for a guy?
I am actually appealed by long, grown-out hair.
Nah, that’s not very short. You got nothing to worry about.
@CharlieUnicorn
It's below average if you are European descended anyway.
Still, I would love to go out with a woman who was taller than me.
I just read that there aren't as many who are accepting of shorter guys though.
My height per se isn't really my self-esteem issue.
That's good. When I was talking about really short guys, what I had in mind were men I knew who actually have a condition. Stunted growth because they had leukemia or some severe hormonal unbalance growing up. The few men who appear almost childlike physically.
This type of dude's best option is to adopt a fringe style that really stands out and is more androgynous. They do however need to have a good creep radar as they'll also attract pedophile women.
It’s purely on instinct. I like looking up at him and feeling protected, and I want to wear heels and still be shorter. That being said, we don’t always get what we want, and if I end up with someone who’s a few centimetres taller AND I love him I guess I can’t do anything about it.
About the whole genetics thing, females seem to not understand that at all. The father’s height isn’t a 100% determination of the child’s height. The mother also takes part in that. Sometimes the height comes from the mother rather than the father. You can have two short parents and still have a tall child too.
I don't know why I’m getting a dislike. The person clearly asked females a question and I gave my opinion.
How tall are you and how tall do you like your guys
pretty old fashiond and racistic way of thinking, heightism should be banned for sure. Think every human ho rate a person on something who can't be chaged , ought to re concider
I prefer shorter guys. The taller the guy, the more insignifancant I feel. There are sometimes exceptions. The height matters to me when you get to the extremes. Honestly I wouldn't mind if he was 4 foot 11. As long as you don't obsess over your height, it's ok.
How tall are you and how tall do you like your guys
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I just think bigger guys are hotter.
Tom cruise is 5’7” .
@anonymous010101
I know a lot of women who do not think he is good looking
All it is is simple human biology honestly, women are attracted to masculine traits and males to feminine traits. Thinking about this in a more objective, primitive and survival stand point, tall men tend to be stronger and would be better at protecting their families. It’s the same reason why men on average tend to like shorter women with bigger breasts, bigger hips etc. Of course there are those who go against the grain and prefer shorter men, or small breast but I’m just speaking in general. In my experience, and for most people it’s not a deal breaker though if they can compensate somehow or if they’re goodlooking/have a good personality. Most women I know would be more then satisfied with a man who was only two inches taller or only her height and wouldn’t mind if he was a little short. Have hope shorties :)
How tall are you and how tall do you like your guys
Since girls are at first not attracted to any gender. Women does not experience sexual attraction until they form a emotional connection with someone. In general, Women are not sexually attracted to anyone of any gender, but if an emotional connection is formed with someone else, they may experience sexual attraction towards the specific partner (s).
Then why height matter? Because before forming emotional connection you can't feel attracted to tall guys?
you are so wrong, most men I know like my self, will gladly date girls way taller than them self, infact a great heigt difference in the women's favor is dam attractive. Like for instant the man 5'11 an the woman at least 6'3 or rather much taller, unfortunatly most women are shorter than the man, so we seems to settle for them shorter, but much against our inner feeling, as a tall woman make every man feel happy and our hunting succes is great, as usally a biggerwoman is very very attractive and it seems naturally for every proper guy to aim for a taller woman to make him feel as manly as possible, being able to date a trophy woman just make him feel better. And women should know dating avarage height men and shorter guy's make a better relationship. As far far women actually date avarage height men in the end, so tils tall guy discussion is a hole lot of crap, at the end of the day , tall wommen shorter guys make the best relationships
same reason why weight is important to some guys: it just what they like and find attractive. But for me, height isn't really a big deal to me. Most guys I've like have always been average height or some what taller. 5'4 and up has always been fine with me. If happen to like a guy and he's tall, cool, if he's my height (5'4) then that's also okay.
Since girls are at first not attracted to any gender. Women does not experience sexual attraction until they form a emotional connection with someone. In general, Women are not sexually attracted to anyone of any gender, but if an emotional connection is formed with someone else, they may experience sexual attraction towards the specific partner (s).
Then why height matter? Because before forming emotional connection you can't feel attracted to tall guys?
@estrellaceleste dude what the hell are you talking about? Plenty of us are sexually attracted to men even before we establish an emotional connection. Now when it comes to handing our bodies over to a man.. then yes most of us want to have an emotional connection.
It’s technically how women are “built”. Like men tend to go for women who have a healthy appearance (it’s what they are programmed to do), women were programmed thousands of years ago to go for strong men. Tall doesn’t always mean strong, but it does somewhat represent power. Of course there are exceptions, which is great! A guy cannot control his height, which we do realize. But logic doesn’t always match attraction.
How tall are you and how tall do you like your guys
@RaceAgainstMachine I’m 170cm myself (believe that’s 5’7), ex was 180cm (6’2) and a huge crush was a tad shorter than I am. My point is that I really don’t give a damn about height. The shorter lad got me extremely curious right away thanks to his talents, personality and class. Still find him incredibly attractive.
Your height is perfect! I’m 5’8 I love tall girls!
180 cm is 5’11 not 6’2
Since girls are at first not attracted to any gender. Women does not experience sexual attraction until they form a emotional connection with someone. In general, Women are not sexually attracted to anyone of any gender, but if an emotional connection is formed with someone else, they may experience sexual attraction towards the specific partner (s).
Then why height matter? Because before forming emotional connection you can't feel attracted to tall guys?
@estrellaceleste But where did you get that from? Not all women need that “emotional connection” before feeling sexual attraction. Sure some women would, I’m sure the same goes for guys as well. One night stands for example, I have never done it myself, but usually it’s just two people finding each other hot and getting it on without any emotional connection whatsoever.
Also about being tall, whether women like it or not, we ARE physically superior to men. Many women therefore naturally enjoy feeling protected I suppose. But it’s quite shallow thinking, some of the best guys I’ve met have been around my height or shorter.
PS! Cuddling a guy around the same height is so much nicer than the feeling of cuddling a massive tree in my opinion.
I get this from GAG. Even in this post.
Like "I can find someone physically attractive but am not sexually attracted" until I get to know him.
So, what does it mean? One night stand is not norm for women it's exception. Most women say they don't find random guys sexually attractive until they get to know them
@estrellaceleste Surveys do show that ca 70% women have had one night stands/casual sex. While I do agree that a lot of women require emotional connection in order to sleep with someone (me included), your previous post made it sound like ALL women do.
Perhaps it varies around the world, where I’m from it’s nothing new when a woman jumps into bed with someone “just because”.
I am talking about sexual attraction not sleeping with someone.
You can sexually attracted to someone and may not act on it.
Do you experience sexual attraction without emotional connection?
@estrellaceleste 100% correct! But most of the time, in order to sleep with someone, you’d either have to be pretty much wasted or feel somewhat sexually attracted, no? Otherwise I believe it wouldn’t feel consensual.
I have felt attraction like that without knowing the person whatsoever. But it was after a breakup and I was pretty torn up, so I’m not sure if that counts. However I did not act upon it as that’s just not who I am.
It makes them feel all small and protected. Like the guy can save them from anything. Until that guy turns out to be an abusive asshole. Then they're just small and defenseless, unable to protect themselves from him. Soooooo, you know... everything has its pros and cons.
As someone who is naturally petite and discussed this with men who are significantly taller than me, some guys like the feeling of cuddling
women that are not on the same height it makes them feel masculine. Now as a woman, I can say I like to take comfort in the fact that I feel protected by a taller man, I feel like it’s a natural instinct I can’t help but be attracted to!
How tall are you and how tall do you like your guys
@RaceAgainstMachine I’m 5 “1 and my preference ranges from 5 “9 - 6”4
Since girls are at first not attracted to any gender. Women does not experience sexual attraction until they form a emotional connection with someone. In general, Women are not sexually attracted to anyone of any gender, but if an emotional connection is formed with someone else, they may experience sexual attraction towards the specific partner (s).
Then why height matter? Because before forming emotional connection you can't feel attracted to tall guys?
I personally don’t like really tall men. Anything over 5’11 is too tall to me (I am 5’3). I would not date anyone shorter than me, the idea makes me uncomfortable, however I would readily date (and have dated) someone my height or close to. My mother is 5’1 and is married to a man that is 6’4 and it makes me extremely uncomfortable. I like proportions I guess, but I’m probably not the majority.
Since girls are at first not attracted to any gender. Women does not experience sexual attraction until they form a emotional connection with someone. In general, Women are not sexually attracted to anyone of any gender, but if an emotional connection is formed with someone else, they may experience sexual attraction towards the specific partner (s).
Then why height matter? Because before forming emotional connection you can't feel attracted to tall guys?
Then if you have emotional connection with a ugly guy and if he is tall then you will become sexually attracted to him?
I like height because I find it to be physically attractive as long as its something reasonable like 6ft, I think 7ft would be a bit too much for me. Not only that but you feel all protected and stuff when you're next to a tall guy and it makes you feel awesome. I mean, have you ever tried spooning with a tall guy? It's the best.
well iam 6,7 ... spooning doesn't feel different if the guy is 6,3 or 5,7 ft short :D
@Blackbrowny Sorry for the confusion, but I meant as the little spoon, that feels awesome
For me its called backpack :D
@Blackbrowny Then find a taller guy, it feels awesome trust me!
Oh god, that would mean 7 ft at least, I would guess there are less than 1000 guys in the world that would fit that description XD
Nah i got my boyfriend, he is around 5,8 i am happy , short guys are awesome :D
@Blackbrowny If that works out for you, then you do you!
It's important, but you don't have to be really tall, just 3-4 inches taller than me is enough. As for feeling protected, I would rather feel safe with a guy that is strong and knows how to fight but is average in height than a 6'5" guy that is skinny and has no self defence training.
How tall are you and how tall do you like your guys
5'5.5" and i like them at least 5'9". 90% or more of the guys of my age easily fit into that. I don't think I have high standards when it comes to height.
So he can’t be 5’6-5’8?
I don't know, I'd have to kno a lot more about him to make a decision.
Assuming he’s attractive obviously.
But of my height probably no. It would feel weird
Why?
Is it a deal breaker? Would you ever make an exception?
Do you wear heels?
I don't wear heels, but it's a deal breaker if he's shorter or my height. I'd like someone taller.
I don't know if i'd make an exception if he is just a tiny bit taller, it depends on the guy.
Or if he's rich, most girls are like hookers and shallow like you too, sad for you, hope every guy read all those shallow answers, and start to let every shallow tard to rod with tall abusive guy's that do serve them well
@avarageheight How about you get ver it? You have your preferences for girls when it comes to appearance too. Would you date an obese woman with a beard? I guess not. Calling someone shallow because you don't match one of their preferences when like 90% of men match that preference shows your frustration. If over 90% of guys fit my preference for height then that is anything but shallow or too high.
So I'm 4 feet 9 inches and a tall broad shouldered nice gentleman just makes me feel protected and contained. I can't help be be attracted to a guy like that.
PS😂 before anyone says I'm like a dwarf, I'll have you know I am VERY proportionate and fit lol
D W A R F
@BonnieBunny 😂 I am NOT
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Since girls are at first not attracted to any gender. Women does not experience sexual attraction until they form a emotional connection with someone. In general, Women are not sexually attracted to anyone of any gender, but if an emotional connection is formed with someone else, they may experience sexual attraction towards the specific partner (s).
Then why height matter? Because before forming emotional connection you can't feel attracted to tall guys?
@estrellaceleste
Well first of all, I agree that most women don't experience sexual attraction at the beginning until they form an emotional connection with someone (a man in my case and in most women's) but I disagree that all women (or most of them) develop sexual attraction to any gender (specifically females) after forming an emotional connection. If that was true, then every single pair of females best friends would be lesbians; 80-90% of women have a female best friend, and the majority of them are not lesbian. So sexual attraction doesn’t necessarily develop after emotional connection with every gender, because most people aren’t bisexual (but I get that there’s a spectrum, and it’s not just black or white, but again most people aren’t bisexual) there are women who have male best friends who are stuck in the friend zone -or vice versa- and sexual attraction doesn’t exist in this case.
@estrellaceleste
To answer your question, hight doesn't matter all that much. And yes, most women don't feel sexualy attracted to a man's hight (or any physical attribute) at the beginning or at first glance, the same way a man feels towards an attractive woman walking down the street. However, we don't need to feel sexualy attracted to the man when we first see him to know what we like. In other words, it's a matter of preference, that is not necessarily based on sexual attraction. And to be honest, as much as I'd like to have a tall man, hight isn't everything; if I met the right person and he wasn’t tall or is missing a certain attribute, it wouldn’t be an issue. As long as we click and he has another physical attribute that attracts me, and has similar personality to mine, then I wouldn’t wanna be with anyone els. 😊
P. S. sorry for the supper long reply.
SO, before an emotional connection with a specific person most women are asexual? If they never develop an emotional connection with a specif person then they wouldn't realize which gender they are attracted to? Right?
So, you are basically asexual until form an emotional connection?
@estrellaceleste lol, no and no and no. Women are NOT asexual before being attracted to someone emotionally. Even if they are single, they do crave physical love. Think of one night stands, people have sex then without even knowing the person. Not all women need to be close to the person emotionally to sexual feel attracted to them.
But you have said most women don't experience sexual attraction before emotional connection. So, logically before an emotional connection with a specific person most women are asexual? So, you are basically asexual until form an emotional connection?
@estrellaceleste No, because:
"In general, an asexual person does not feel or otherwise experience any sexual attraction, according to The Asexual Visibility & Education Network (AVEN). Basically, it is an inborn absence of sexual desire." - Merriam Webster.
And since it's an inborn absence of sexual desire, it doesn't happen to the average person (women in this case) and just vanishes when she meets someone and emotionally connect with them.
But you have said most women don't experience sexual attraction until they form an emotional connection with specific one. So, isn't it asexual if you have no emotional connection with anyone?
@estrellaceleste No it's not.
If they are not asexual before emotional connection connection then they should feel sexual attraction but they can't. If they were not asexual then they would feel attraction.
I guess it makes some girls feel protected and small. Personally, I don’t care about height at all.
How tall are you
Because have you seen a tall man in a long coat or with a long jacket?
And I don't know about the other girls here but the tallest men I have ever interacted with romantically, were the biggest sweethearts. My brother, too, who is above six feet has a tiny girlfriend and he treats her like a queen. Maybe a coincidence, that they are tall and noble men.
I just prefer the guy to be taller. Not like suuuuper taller than me though where its awkward. But I like it because it is physically attractive, and just seems right haha. I can wear heels and not tower over him. I am 5'4" so finding a guy taller was never an issue.
because I dont know about other girls but I feel VERY unsafe most of the time walking home from school walking to school sometimes even just being alone with a guy somewhere and I would really like to feel more safe in those situations so if I had a boyfriend 5'5 same as me I wouldn't feel that safe so I would want a guy 5'9 and up personally to feel more protected
Or maybe just do fighting sport and defend yourself... ontop of that height doesn't give much of an advantage when fighting...
@Blackbrowny I used to do boxing and I am currently in the process of a 6 week self defense class I am a not super short but I have a very small frame and I do cross country I am very fit ad strong then most girls I know but that being said I have had 3 guys in this past year be able to physically over take me with complete ease I have tried many things and I am not and probably never will be stronger then those men and I know the height doesn't give and advantage but the fact he is male does and the height isn't me saying oh his height is protecting me it is making me feel protected
Jeah but he is not always gonna be around , i think its more about your selfconfidence than actual attraction. but well.
@Blackbrowny it is an attraction and yes I know he won't always be around but he will be there for more of time then not be there because I usually do not like to go out alone and yes it does have to do with my confidence I unfortuantly live in a very bad neighbor hood like shoot ups happening in front of my house bad neighbor hood so it does have to do with some confidence
@Blackbrowny and it is an attraction lol but k
pssst... just admit it... he is to short... yieks XD
@Blackbrowny dude he is 6'5 he is a foot and 1 inch taller then me lol... How tall are you? if you think 6'5 is short then hmmm I am curious how tall you are
208 cm... thats around 6,7 :D
@Blackbrowny oh wow lol so you are tall I am apparently a midget I am 5'4 1/2 but I say 5'5 to feel better lol
I'd rather move away from this bad nighbouroghood than have to settle with a tall ugly guy ( they usally are ugly and unsexy)
The truth is: Most women are shallow.
Unleash the rain of downvotes now 😋
Don't know about the "most" part but as long as she isn't insinuating that only women are shallow. But I mean who isn't a little shallow at first until then they get more information on a person?
@LaBrownEyes I like to see it like this
There both shallow women and also shallow men
But there are also men and women who are opposite of that.
@Lela247 Yeah.
Women want a man who is taller than them because it conforms to gender stereotypes and makes them feel small and feminine and delicate.
Girls don't want to conform to gender stereotypes... At least I don't. I for one, do want to be short and my boyfriend be tall. I want to look small and delicate and still be able to kick ass. That's what I want. There ain't no confirming to gender stereotypes there. It's about looking the way I feel good about myself and still feeling like the guy is there to protect me, but I still don't need it because I can kick ass. We can't all have that, so we can at least have our guy protect us at the very least. But no gender stereotypes.
@lindseynicole A horrible shallow old fashiond thoughts, and very very rasistic , hope those ugly tall guys give you a lesson , cheating on you as they do most, ut you probbely don't learn anything, as you are controled by your reptile brain part, as most woman, unable to change her mind set, while us normal and short height men do every day, to try be able to find woman not picky or shallow, whil tall guys play there way trough life , and never give a shit about others feeling, helped along byr women having your horrible thoughts
Okay Imna be honest here, and also I can't speak for every girl.
Yenno, there's something about tall guys that I keep falling for them
Because, it makes me feel protected and makes him wanna protect me, it's so cute❤️
Since girls are at first not attracted to any gender. Women does not experience sexual attraction until they form a emotional connection with someone. In general, Women are not sexually attracted to anyone of any gender, but if an emotional connection is formed with someone else, they may experience sexual attraction towards the specific partner (s).
Then why height matter? Because before forming emotional connection you can't feel attracted to tall guys?
@deliriousmistakess o my god I guess u got it all wrong. I was talking about a feeling of protection.
Okay this is how it goes, it doesn't mean girls don't like shorter guys, if a guy is tall but he's a Douchebag most of em won't like him but a shorter guy who's pretty nice attracts people
Overall it depends on how a guy carries himself
It is seen that tall guys carry themselves confidently and confidence attracts a lot of people
Well shorter guys (I'm not talking about everyone) sometimes feel Insecure about their height and insecurity ain't cute
I am talking about before knowing anything about a guy do you feel attracted to him, if he is good looking and tall? Ex: you see a guy on the street but you don't know whether he is Douchebag or not. Because without get to know him it is not possible to know whether he is Douchebag or not
@deliriousmistakess okay then let me think
I would instantaneous have a crush on the taller guy only if he looks good, but if not then they both are in the same bandwagon.
before we know anything about them? or after knowing them personally?
@deliriousmistakess before I Know anything I would prefer the tall guy, but after I get to know them if the other guy is cooler imma choose him.
Preference and attraction is same? I am talking about attraction. Crush and attraction is same?
@deliriousmistakess yup they're not the same in the literal dictionary sense, but in my answers meant it to be the same.
For me it's different that's why I get confused.
Can you tell me what does it feel like, then I could picture it.
@deliriousmistakess what does what feel like?
Crush vs sexual attraction. What does it feel like.
@deliriousmistakess they're kinda the same but crush is more romantic, to wanna be near that person, to have fantasies and imaginations of that person, and nothing he does appears to be flawed
But sexual attraction is just wanting to get into one's pants lol
Then you don't experience sexual attraction when do you see attractive tall guys? It's only crush. Then when do you experience sexual attraction?
@deliriousmistakess This is too far from the question you originally asked.
Imma sum up what I said, I don't knoe, girls normally like guys taller than "them".
@Girllovesmysteries I know girls like taller guys but they aren't attracted to taller guys without knowing their personality. You can like your shoes, your makeups but you wouldn't marry you shoes and makeups. That's why I asked.
It has never been important to me, and I really don't understand why it's important to other people.
We need a lot more women like u
How tall are you and how tall do you like your guys
Since girls are at first not attracted to any gender. Women does not experience sexual attraction until they form a emotional connection with someone. In general, Women are not sexually attracted to anyone of any gender, but if an emotional connection is formed with someone else, they may experience sexual attraction towards the specific partner (s).
Then why height matter? Because before forming emotional connection you can't feel attracted to tall guys?
This is bullshit! We can feel sexually attracted to someone before we know anything about them! What are you even talking about?
@FlyingHorses Most women on this site say that when do they see guys they can acknowledge that the guy is attractive that's it. Muscle, arms, abs or symmetry face is just attractive but it doesn't attract them if they already don't know the guy, if they have no connection with the guy. By default muscle, arms, abs or symmetry face doesn't attract them.
You got it wrong. We feel attracted, but i wouldn't be confortable with sex without emotion al connection, regardless of how hot you are.
@emmily2396 Do women feel sexually attracted to someone before they know anything about them, without talking, without knowing their personality?
As i said , i can think a guys is handsome and dateable judging the looks alone, but i couldn't have sex without an emotional connection
@emmily2396 I am not talking about actually having sex with someone without emotional connection. I am talking about feeling sexual attraction.
(i can think a guys is handsome and dateable judging...) Is it sexual attraction or romantic attraction?
I don't know...
@emmily2396 Then why did you claim that I am wrong when you don't know?
I don't make the difference between the types of attraction you are talking about. I just told you that i can definitely find a guy attractive, what is so difficult to comprehend?
@emmily2396 I am confused that's why I asked, otherwise I would not ask.
Let's see why I am confused.
Girls say :
1. Finding someone attractive is not same as being attracted to him.
2. You can think a guys is handsome and dateable judging the looks alone, but it does mean you are sexually attracted to him.
That's why I get confused. You don't make don't make the difference between the types of attraction.
Then what do you feel when do you see attractive guys? What type of "feeling" it is? Since attraction itself is a feeling.
Seeing attractive guys is like oh they are good looking but being attracted is like where u would start being sexually attracted to them
@candycanehearts It is confusing because most of the time girls use this sentence "i can definitely find a guy attractive" or "I find men body attractive". Then how would I know that it is just finding or they are attracted to it?
Even they use the word "attracted" differently. Physically attracted, sexually attracted.
When I ask what is the difference between sexually attracted vs physically attracted they can't answer. They say, physically attracted means "finding someone attractive". If it is physically attracted then they can find another girl attractive, they can find animals attractive. Logically they are physically attracted to them also?
No being attracted to someone i think is like being sexually attracted but not as much but we wouldn't be attracted to animals or girls (if we r straight) we would think they are attractive but we dint want to be with them
@candycanehearts That's why it is confusing, because most of the time girls use this sentence "i can definitely find a guy attractive" or "I find men body attractive".
Because finding someone is not same as being attracted to him.
1. I find him attractive
2. I find him attractive
Both sentences are same but how would I know that which one is attraction and which one is not? Another thing is physical attraction vs sexual attraction. It doesn't make sense to me.
Feminists says body positivitie. But when it comes to men, they only want tall, broad shoulder, bearded handsome men. İts hypocrisy.
I could care less.
I don't go height searching. "Ooh, that guy is cute- Oh wait, he's not 6" 2, PASS. "
Whenever a woman on Tinder asks for my height, I ask her back why that is important to her. And then they immediately unmatch me, before they even realize, that I am actually really tall, much taller than their desired height 😂😂
You should ask how fat she is or how much she weighs that will shut them up
The height has multiple layers of protective feelings for me
1) psychological
2) instinctual
3) he just looks better when he is taller.
4) love to tip-toe just to kiss him.
How tall are you and how tall do you like your guys
1.71 is perfect!
Yep.
I’m 1.72 by the way
It only matters if he’s more than like two or three inches shorter than me, that’s the only time it’s a problem. But I’m only 5’4 so that isn’t a hard requirement to meet.
Damn @disgustingweebtrash is only 3 inches taller, that’s certified manlet height
Stop bullying him Novi, I love him and he is tall
He bullies himself 🤔
That doesn’t mean you get to bully him and make it worse 😡
I think it's mostly instinctual. Taller men seem stronger, more protective, things like that.
I think that’s pure (and probably unconscious) Darwinism.
Biological instinct. Tall height gives security of better being able to protect a girl and makes her feel more secure. Also, less people are willing to mess with you in general if your tall.
I had a taller spouse. Towering over me. Dominating me. It seems to give some people entitlement to abuse their partner. I'll take someone my own height next time.
Uh... I don't think a man's height is going to dictate how he's going to treat you. Either he's an ass or he's not.
I guess I married an ass. I'm single now.
Check out the song "I flushed you from the toilet of my heart"
that's like asking guys why big boobs are important xD
It’s really not tho. For every guy that prefers big boobs there’s another one that prefers small ones. Boob size preferences in men are waaaay more diverse than height preferences are in women.
@CarpetDenim not all women like huge guys but some do. It's the same.
Breast size can be adjusted
That as well
@BonnieBunny that changes nothing about their innate attraction levels.
It’s on instinct and height difference is cute, a guy who is 3 inch+ is enough for me — I’m 5’4” 👐🏼
Since girls are at first not attracted to any gender. Women does not experience sexual attraction until they form a emotional connection with someone. In general, Women are not sexually attracted to anyone of any gender, but if an emotional connection is formed with someone else, they may experience sexual attraction towards the specific partner (s).
Then why height matter? Because before forming emotional connection you can't feel attracted to tall guys?
Umm... no... gtfo, I’m just giving my opinion. I won’t emphasize anything further.
if you have emotional connection with a ugly guy and if he is tall then you will become sexually attracted to him?
If his personality is the bomb. com then yes.
But you are not attracted without emotional connection?
Smh, I said if his personality is great then yes — obviously I look for personality 1st
Then when do you see attractive guys, they don't attract you. right?
Physically: yes
Sexually: no
Leave me alone, please...
You are such a troll. Physical and sexual attraction is same thing
(≖_≖)
tall with a great personality, sound's impossible , few six food and up guy's have a fine personality
It doesn't matter what a person looks like. It's the way he treats others that matters. 😉
I’m 5’7 and I am for the most part always in heels. I would like a guys at least 3 inches taller than me when I’m in heels. I hate being taller.
Yep ☺️😏💁🏽♀️
So you wouldn’t date a guy the same height as you?
Since girls are at first not attracted to any gender. Women does not experience sexual attraction until they form a emotional connection with someone. In general, Women are not sexually attracted to anyone of any gender, but if an emotional connection is formed with someone else, they may experience sexual attraction towards the specific partner (s).
Then why height matter? Because before forming emotional connection you can't feel attracted to tall guys?
True, very true. You have a really good point here.
Then why height matters?
He either has to be my height or taller and I honestly dont want a guy who's over 6 ft.
How tall are you and how tall do you like your guys
Since girls are at first not attracted to any gender. Women does not experience sexual attraction until they form a emotional connection with someone. In general, Women are not sexually attracted to anyone of any gender, but if an emotional connection is formed with someone else, they may experience sexual attraction towards the specific partner (s).
Then why height matter? Because before forming emotional connection you can't feel attracted to tall guys?
Do you feel sexual attraction when do you see tall, attractive guys without knowing them?
Then how do you experience sexual attraction?
I am not talking about getting horny, I am talking about sexual attraction.
You never experienced sexual attraction?
Then you are asexual, right? You don't experience sexual attraction, you experience sexual arousal.
It isn't in my opinion, but I've heard from other girls that if he's taller than you, you feel small and protected.
xx
~ Mrs Manson
I guess you have a hater here
Taller than me is fine. I’m only 5’4. I like to feel protected and if I have a son I would want him to start stronger as a taller male.
he propperly end out , tall and weak and less intelligent , having a tall father , odds are low he will be anything else than tall, stupid and weak !!!
It's physically attractive and I can't see myself with a short man or a man who's my height. It doesn't look good to me.
How tall are you and how tall do you like your guys
Since girls are at first not attracted to any gender. Women does not experience sexual attraction until they form a emotional connection with someone. In general, Women are not sexually attracted to anyone of any gender, but if an emotional connection is formed with someone else, they may experience sexual attraction towards the specific partner (s).
Then why height matter? Because before forming emotional connection you can't feel attracted to tall guys?
best answer I can give you.
Hight doesn't really matter ti me I'll date him if he's nice any man can be attractive.
How tall are you and how tall do you like your guys
I’m 5’8 I LOVE tall girls!
I find it physically attractive and also i like having a guy that can reach everything 😂 that's mostly a perk
How tall are you and how tall do you like your guys
@RaceAgainstMachine im around 5'2. And i like guys around 6'-6'2
Since girls are at first not attracted to any gender. Women does not experience sexual attraction until they form a emotional connection with someone. In general, Women are not sexually attracted to anyone of any gender, but if an emotional connection is formed with someone else, they may experience sexual attraction towards the specific partner (s).
Then why height matter? Because before forming emotional connection you can't feel attracted to tall guys?
@estrellaceleste you are very wrong. I am only attracted to men. I am attracted to guys i find attractive.
Maybe you aren't but you have at least me all wrong
before you know anything about them? or after knowing them personally? without talking?
@estrellaceleste i can be physically attracted to a guy. I can also be emotionally attracted. It all starts with physical attraction
what is physically attracted? can you tell me? I have a hard time to understand it.
@estrellaceleste like when i see a guy and i think wow he's hot. Simple as that. That is physical attraction
When do you see see a girl and you think wow she's hot, it's also physical attraction?
@estrellaceleste no. Physical attraction means I'd want to sleep with him on a physical level
Then what is sexual attraction?
@estrellaceleste wanting to sleep with him
Then physical attraction and sexual attraction is same? Synonym?
@estrellaceleste basically yeah
@estrellaceleste physical attraction is just thinking someone is good looking. Sexual is wanting sex from them because they are hot
But if you think someone is good looking, wouldn’t you also want sex from them? And if you want sex from someone, wouldn’t you also think they’re good looking?
@RaceAgainstMachine yes. Not other girls though. Only guys.
Wait, what?
@RaceAgainstMachine i only want to fuck guys. I don't find girls attractive. This isn't that hard.
Oh ok.
You have said before Physical attraction means I'd want to sleep with him on a physical level, now saying physical attraction is just thinking someone is good looking. Which one is correct?
You forgot to answer or you are also confused.
I'm so turned on by a male who is so much bigger than me in size... it just makes me feel so feminine and weak around him, I like that feeling so much
Since girls are at first not attracted to any gender. Women does not experience sexual attraction until they form a emotional connection with someone. In general, Women are not sexually attracted to anyone of any gender, but if an emotional connection is formed with someone else, they may experience sexual attraction towards the specific partner (s).
Then why height matter? Because before forming emotional connection you can't feel attracted to tall guys?
@deliriousmistakess I'd been attracted to short guys before... attraction works in real mysterious ways, even the smallest detail can become a huge attraction to you... but even when I just find myself standing next to a random tall guy (I'm 5'4) I feel my body respond to it naturally... I don't know why
@chunlilovesvega lol you are funny
I for one don't care if I don't fit into her dainty little threshold because if she's that shallow to reject a guy over something that he can't change, she isn't worth my time.
I am actually seeing a guy who’s only about 5’6 and I am 5’4. His height doesn’t bother me. If he was shorter than me I think that would bother me. I don’t care for someone who is super tall.
@Allie_Oops I'll be reacting only to your update:
This is what I'm keep saying. Look how much more men are active online, than women. It's like this everywhere.
I don't know. Tall men just approach me more. I dont care that much about height. I'd date some say 2 inches shorter than me but no more than that
How tall are you and how tall do you like your guys
It isn't. Height is irrelevant to me. There are more important things to pay attention to than someone's height...
How tall are you and how tall do you like your guys
because I need to be able to climb him like a tree.
its a fetish dont ask ok
I think it's a traditional role expectation that says the man should be the taller and stronger one in order to be her bodyguard.
Yeah well if its traditional then women should have their ass in the kitchen cooking and doing household cleaning and chores like ironing and vacuuming
It’s because it adds to a woman’s feeling of security.
They need that by nature.
However, a shorter man can still add to that in other ways.
Come on girls lol 😂 of course you care about height
For me if he's taller it means that I'm not too big. I always get called a big girl and I really dislike that.
How tall are you and how tall do you like your guys
@RaceAgainstMachine
@RaceAgainstMachine I'm tall and I like them taller for the billionth time.
Not for me. I remember really liking a guy who was 5'1. Attractive men come in all shapes and sizes.
Hello grandma, I'm surprised you know how to use websites..
Wtf...
I'm 6"5' and I think that's what most girls like, but I'm black and girls seem scared and nervous around me. When I don't do anything to them but they're still stuck on a man's skin color
6'5 god damn. Im like 6'1 and never had any girl not like my height ;)
that deep manly voice haha?
Im 16 and my voice ain't super deep but I mean I guess its normal, and my guy friends who all have their deep voice call me the squeaker. Haha
Nah, Im done growing I think. My feet are size 10.5 US which is what I think is small for my height. I am also like 2 inches taller than my dad who is the tallest so, Im thinking I am done.
I was like extremely late to puberty tho so its hard to say for sure. Really only started puberty at late 14 :O
ahh yea. Anyways man you seem hella chill and stuff. It was nice talking with u.
They're shallow as hell, simple as that
you can't control what you're attracted to lol.
I love this answer
The only time i have disagreed with my statement was when this woman felt like this guy was very attractive, he had a good personality, he treated her well, he was taller than her, but she left him because his height was literally 1 CM too short for her, and she only found out because she looked at her drivers license.
Beyond that one kind of situation you simply cannot who and what you are attracted to.
@thevampire_queen Thanks!!
I agree
@worldscolide you're welcome
wonder who down voted me...
I like how some playful girls voted the guy option.
Voted: More than one of these. Tall men make me feel safe. Tall men have great genetics + are super hot and dominant. Manlets are scum.
Height is not a deal breaker for me at all.
How tall are you and how tall do you like your guys
Because they lack intelligence what makes a person date worthy
My grandma has always told me my spirit is tall, agile, and willful.
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