Why don't men pay for dates anymore? (Page 3)

[clampfan101]

I would either help pay or have whichever of us picked the place pay. Either would be fine if I could afford it.

[zagor]

Maybe since you're 30 and they're under 25 they figure you can better afford it?

[Wowgirl10q]

They can figure whatever at home I can take myself out

[Wowgirl10q]

I probably can not the point

[Darknut]

Stupid stupid... pay for the date. Don't half pay that's just so millennial.

[fuzzylamba]

If you're between 21-37 as of 2018 you are a millennial. So please diss your generation as much as you want

[BornFree]

I am the breadwinner, I pay for my dates

[Myk13]

I will pay every time. If she gets upset or pissed off about it. Then we’re not a match anyway.

[Glen68]

It's all the hardcore feminist who keep saying it's wrong

[Wowgirl10q]

Feminst hate me

[Glen68]

They hate me to because I still do stuff for ladies like open doors, carry stuff, pay for dinner, let them cum first

[Anonymous]

This is the reason why women fantasize about being with a billionaire.

[Omar5881]

If the dude ain't got enough money then he shouldn't be blamed at all

[BeesNectar]

Then he shouldn’t make the request.

[Omar5881]

@BeesNectar not really

[fuzzylamba]

I mean we quite like this thing called equality, just saying.

[WhoDatGuy]

Because we're equals now. And feminists killed chivalry.

[LegateLanius]

I've paid for my dates. However, women just don't want to date me. Oh well. Haha.

[OzonedPolicy]

My boyfriend always pays for me without question.

[Wowgirl10q]

Awsome

[D4rkGuy]

If some "boys" doing it this doesn't include the "Guys" 😏

[Anonymous]

Well we live in 2018 almost 2019, things changed.

[Opinion Owner]

Things are more modern now, I went on an date once and because of what I heard i expected him to pay but he didn’t. And I am cool with that. Guys aren’t that rich either

[slatyb]

This man does. Want to go out?

[iskg679]

I prefer for all dates. However, I am 28.

[Wowgirl10q]

@iskg679
Hi love

[iskg679]

@Wowgirl10q Hey, I just now realized that I forgot to put the words ''I prefer to pay for all dates.'' haha

[Wowgirl10q]

@iskg679
I knew what you meant I know your a good guy. Do guys wanna " go Dutch on all dates" like some of these brods do?

[Wowgirl10q]

If I'm going to pay for a man's everything honestly. I would rather go with a guy friend. I would just get a rent boy or a male prostitute. Becaues at least then he would be pretty, quiet, and understand he had to do whatever I wanted. If I'm paying it's my show

[Rangers]

Why should we pay in the first place?

[Logorithim]

Because you're competing with other guys for a girl
To show her that she won't be paying for things for you and that you can take of her if need be

[Rangers]

Her her her her her, and not about me then?

[Logorithim]

You'll get stuff from her, too- don't worry. This is signaling, and a relationship isn't anyhow an accounting equation.

[Wowgirl10q]

@Logorithim they don't get it I guess I found the 5% you found a good lady. Best of luck to them lol

[Wowgirl10q]

When you where born without a vagina

[Wowgirl10q]

That's when you became a man when you were not born with a vagina but it's confusing because I see one or two guys i see in here and the rest are whining $itchs. You need gas money to lol get out of here. Pathetic if your not paying you guys need to learn how to bare children. If not go to work I can take myself out why, why, why

[SirRexington]

@Logorithim yes, a relationship very much is an accounting situation. I'd think someone your age would be privy to this information by now.

[Rangers]

Lol, you just made my arguments for me

[Wowgirl10q]

@SirRexington good thing he's does accounting

[Logorithim]

OK, I am going to (figuratively) bang my head up against a wall.

The ROI you get on a relationship is well worth the expense of paying for some dates.

Anyhow, dates do not have to be expensive- a picnic in a nice park is a great date.

[Rangers]

That's assuming they aren't just looking for free shit, which is super common

[Logorithim]

Well, I've never had this problem. I'm not saying it doesn't exist, but I filter out anyone who doesn't have some interests in common with me and doesn't show interest in really getting to know me.

[Matt57]

No Idea, but I pay unless she insists on paying.

[Wowgirl10q]

Good guy

[unomilkis1]

Because women are as independent as men.

[Wowgirl10q]

Gamble on that bet

[unomilkis1]

So they arent?

[unomilkis1]

You seem to be good at what you do on GaG, or people are lacking.. haha

[Wowgirl10q]

Thanks I guess

[unomilkis1]

Or perhaps its not even intentional.. hahaha :') np.

[heybooitsme]

*Grabs popcorn*

[FunkyMonkee]

Because girls today consider that sexist!!

[bhavy24]

I m 25 and pay for all dates

[Wowgirl10q]

Good for you

[HereIbe]

They're sad little bitches. Trade up to grown men.

[Wowgirl10q]

@HereIbe👏👏👏👏👏👏

[Jerre]

I am 48 andalways pay when I go out with a girl.

[BeesNectar]

yeah because you actually another male or grandfather to show you that is the gentleman thing to do. I think that's what's missing in the current equation, lack of male role models. the males today were brought up primarily by women - if not single women who were strong.

[Syrian_survivor]

@BeesNectar there wouldn'g be a lack of male role models if there wasn't a lacl of good girls out there
If girls didn't get so devious and bitchy lately, forcing guys to change for the worse, maybe more gentlemen would be with us today

[BeesNectar]

Lack of good girls? Now thats a new one. LMAO. The choices were made when you decided to gamble by shooting into a woman. It’s not all on the girl, you made the choice too.

[Syrian_survivor]

Yes lack of good girls
My 3 exes were completely random from different places, they were all angels at first,
But they all seemed to "get bored" and just left

If girls weren't so shallow, some guys might actually care about their inner beauty more, not only their outer beauty (which seems to attract the bigger number of girls) and dump all kinds of good behaviour and chivlary

[Rebowe]

Y'all wanted it equal, ha

[Wowgirl10q]

Nope I never did

[boochie0]

We can split 😂

[Anonymous]

Pay for your own shit.

[Wowgirl10q]

You a chick

[EnocV]

Are you sure bout that?

[Northern_star]

what about equality?

[PinkMichae]

We achieve equality not by being treated exactly the same ways. We get it by being treated in different ways yet it still becomes equal in the end. Men and women are different and that's ok.

[Northern_star]

thats cherry pick. you want equality or you want special treatment, this is binary. to call some case equality while u simply claim full freedom, yet incentives coming from classic roles, thats just leveling your privilige..

[PinkMichae]

We give guys special treatment too. Just in other ways. Everyone wants to feel special. I don't believe equality can exist because we are too different and each gender in general has different needs. So call it special treatment if you want. But at the end of the day men get their special treatment too. That's all I hear from the younger generations is how they can't get girlfriends. It's because they have turned into the very thing they hated. Feminists! Male feminist and their fight for something that doesn't exist and only makes them look like whiny 5 yr olds screaming, "IT'S NOT FAIR!!!😫😤 It's just not attractive.

[Northern_star]

wooohwoowo, hold on, please say you haven't "malefeministed" me 😆!!!
im a conservative, i believe in classic gender roles and i insist on paying if there is a REAL classic, decent woman with me. period.
and call me anything but feminist, call me Hitler, or asshole, damn, can even call me Amber, that still wouldn't be so deeply lethally degrading 😂

[PinkMichae]

@Northern_star. I was talking about a lot of guys I see on here. Not you personally. Lol! It's good to hear you haven't lost that classic way of treating a woman who you feel deserves your special treatment.

[Wonderer89]

@PinkMichae but realistically, there is no equal treatment in this scenario.
Man goes on 10 first dates before he finds a woman he’s compatible with to go on another one. Throwing out an average of $100 per date that’s $1000 he’s investing in an unknown - what are women giving up in the first stage of dating to equal that?

[Northern_star]

thats a valid point

[hunter02burks02]

I would do jointly pay the bill it can build trust

[DzDzhhh]

Why should we?

[Wowgirl10q]

Becaues you have a dick

[DzDzhhh]

Women and men are equal no?

[Anonymous]

Sitting down and peeing is good though

[Slim57]

I always have

[Mikayla03]

Both should pay.

[Anonymous]

Because they actually believe in gender equality.

[PinkMichae]

Guys do get things in return. But I do believe if the woman ask him on a date she should pay. But it natural for a woman to want to be pursued and natural for a guy to want to pursue her. At least it use to be natural. You think every thing between a man and woman is gonna be equal but it won't be.

[PinkMichae]

However it will equal out in the end with all of us giving. Just different things and in different ways. Often times a woman can tell in one date if the guy is worth her time. If he invites her out and tells her now pay your part it's almost a guarentee he won't see her again. Men and women are different. And that's ok. You don't see us complaining that we carry your babies for 9 months, go through the excruciating pain for over 24 hrs to have your babies, and all for the baby to take your last name. We did all the work. Wheres your gender neutral there. But guess what? We don't complain about that. We are fine with it being that way. So the least you can do is pay for the dates you make and be a gentleman.

[Opinion Owner]

@PinkMichae “natural for a guy to want to pursue a girl”. No, wrong. Bullshit. Guys don’t enjoy “pursuing” women. We pursue women because it IS OUR JOB. I don’t enjoy getting rejected, encountering flakes, freeloaders, etc. If you want a gender switch you can have that all! But I do it because if I want to find someone I have to. I hate sticking my neck out, but it’s how it is. Most women are completely oblivious to what this is like for most guys.

And we are talking about a simple issue of who pays for the first date and now you are bringing up child birth? Like those issues are so related (cough). No, stay on the topic of hand.

To make things simple the person who asks for the date should pay. Simple.

[Opinion Owner]

by the way I almost always pay the penis tax by picking up the tab on first dates. A few rare exceptions when a woman absolutely insisted splitting the bill I let her. But it’s usually a sign she’s not interested but doesn’t want to feel in debt to me, which I can respect. I actually respect that a lot because she’s not a mooch.

[PinkMichae]

Some guys may not like that's how it is. But the minute we state pursuing you suddenly you aren't interested. Yes it's natural. Not just in us but a lot of animals with males pursuing the females. Some like you may not like it but a lot of guys I've talked to agree. Because they loose interest in a woman throwing herself at them. I personally don't like the games and just say what I feel instead of trying to act mysterious. Or not acting too interested. And the guys like it at first but like I said lose interest. Luckily I finally found a guy that doesn't mind that I pursue him and loves for it. But in most cases it doesn't work that way. And don't think we don't have to deal with stuff like weeding out the players.

[Opinion Owner]

@PinkMichae women want CHALLENGE. Why else do most of them go for “bad boys” when they are younger and their instincts are more raw?

Also many get off on the just getting the attention and nothing else. But when meet a guy who only gives hot and cold attention it intrigues them.

I only know because I have been in both scenarios. Anyway women need to respect the fact that initial dating is usually much harder for guys than vice versa. Most don’t care to see how it is on our end.

[Wowgirl10q]

I down voted

[Wowgirl10q]

Being honest

[Opinion Owner]

You can’t have your cake and eat too. You women are so full of shit nowaday.

[Anonymous]

Mgtow

[legalboxers]

I do..

[MisterSir]

why should they?