I Think we should split. Because I beleive in equality. But sometimes if I make a real I can pay for his meal and next time he can pay for mine or whatever
@malegender he’s usually a SJW times a 100. But actually agree with him on this one. He understand equality means equality. That’s means these bitches should start paying their fair share.
because i dont know if you are willing to even give loving and being with me a chance... 90% of women i went out with act like its all casual and they will forget about me an hour after the date.
A smart person doesn't invest where he doesn't profit, i will invest emotionally and financially if i am sure she's worth it , i paid for gir, s before after they showed me they are serious about me, otherwise iam not interested.
I wouldn't want him to. I have gladly always split bills my whole life. It's odd though since most men want to pay for me (so I'm not sure if this rejects your questions hypothesis) but I'm the one who feels awkward to let them pay.
You're fucking stupid if you think you deserve anything, just because you have a womb. Dumb like a brick. And by your own logic, you first have to get a test that proves that you're fertile. If you can't bear (that's how you spell that, by the way. this is my second language and even I know that) children, you don't deserve anything, after all, right?
You both need to get a life. You both expect a guy to pay for you everytime or close to it when you go out regardless who made the plans. I believe that if a woman works and is not willing to pay for herself on a date then she is not going to be willing to help out financially down the road. You two looking doen on women that are willing to pay is sad. Why should the guy be expected to pay?
It's 2018 woman are independent. Paying for a random woman's date lowkey is prostitution. Now if you know her I guess that's fine. I'd recommend only paying if you think the date going well.. if not call the check book and pay half. Think with your brain not your dick gentleman
The thing is, the inviting party is the one that should pay. At least in my opinion. I’m a little young and I haven’t been on many dates so yeah. But I personall don’t think that a man is obligated to pay and that’s why I feel men aren’t anymore. They’re rebelling from the norm. Saying men HAVE to pay on dates is like saying women belong in the kitchen
I payed most of the time, especially when the girl offered to split. I can understand why some guys don't pay, it is a bit unfair that guys always have to pay and that's why I split when the girl assumes I have to pay. I pay to be kind not because I'm supposed to
I pay for my own, my boyfriend pays for his own. If i invite him to a meal, tea, ice cream etc.. I pay, and if he invites me then he pays. I think its fair
Because of liberal and feminist crap. Because it's no longer cool to teach young men to act like MEN. My thoughts, if I invited the young lady out it's entirely on me. If she decides or wishes to pay for her part, by all means support her decision.
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Because it's 2018 and woman can pay for themselves! Why don't they pay? You have to "impress us" also! Shows you're not in it for a free ride either. Shows respect also.
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I Think we should split. Because I beleive in equality. But sometimes if I make a real I can pay for his meal and next time he can pay for mine or whatever
*deal
because many men and women are moving away from antiquated gender roles of centuries past.
Wow something I actually agree with you on for once.
@sonnysunshine everyone can find common ground.
so regarding your update you basically equate yourself to a prostitute. a male paying for dinner for you is basically buying your sexual services?
He’s paying for her “presence” and she doesn’t have to do anything at all.
@sonnysunshine yeah like I would a male prostitute 🤣🤣😝
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@malegender he’s usually a SJW times a 100. But actually agree with him on this one. He understand equality means equality. That’s means these bitches should start paying their fair share.
@sonnysunshine so i guess you are a sjw
@malegender because i think we are moving away from antiquated i'm a female with a male account? uh huh
because i dont know if you are willing to even give loving and being with me a chance... 90% of women i went out with act like its all casual and they will forget about me an hour after the date.
A smart person doesn't invest where he doesn't profit, i will invest emotionally and financially if i am sure she's worth it , i paid for gir, s before after they showed me they are serious about me, otherwise iam not interested.
I wouldn't want him to. I have gladly always split bills my whole life. It's odd though since most men want to pay for me (so I'm not sure if this rejects your questions hypothesis) but I'm the one who feels awkward to let them pay.
Under 30 men , dont pay for anything. Dinner, flowers, or gifts. I guess they play games instead of working.
They better learn how to bare children then
They won't pay for them either
I asked younger women I have worked with, if he ever bought her flowers? no, Candy? no, I said
you are kidding me? no
No chair pulled out for you or doors opened either.
That statement is far more relevant to women rather than men nowadays.
Too much mom's boys I guess
Anyone tell you that you like a young Barbara Bach?
Pussies is the word or ladies?
Yes thanks
You're fucking stupid if you think you deserve anything, just because you have a womb. Dumb like a brick.
And by your own logic, you first have to get a test that proves that you're fertile.
If you can't bear (that's how you spell that, by the way. this is my second language and even I know that) children, you don't deserve anything, after all, right?
And your womb isn't even worth that much anymore, if you're 30. Soon it'll be worth nothing.
See what I mean?
not all male prostitutes and strippers are attractive. Now have you ever paid a male prostitute?
You are just a lazy woman who wants to date guys for a free meal
Go to work
I have the day off but my girlfriend is working
I will be cleaning today
Remember to cross your legs and pull down your skirt
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You both need to get a life. You both expect a guy to pay for you everytime or close to it when you go out regardless who made the plans. I believe that if a woman works and is not willing to pay for herself on a date then she is not going to be willing to help out financially down the road. You two looking doen on women that are willing to pay is sad. Why should the guy be expected to pay?
It's 2018 woman are independent. Paying for a random woman's date lowkey is prostitution.
Now if you know her I guess that's fine.
I'd recommend only paying if you think the date going well.. if not call the check book and pay half.
Think with your brain not your dick gentleman
Are men supposed to pay? Is it a date or a free food party?
😂😂
The thing is, the inviting party is the one that should pay. At least in my opinion. I’m a little young and I haven’t been on many dates so yeah. But I personall don’t think that a man is obligated to pay and that’s why I feel men aren’t anymore. They’re rebelling from the norm. Saying men HAVE to pay on dates is like saying women belong in the kitchen
I payed most of the time, especially when the girl offered to split. I can understand why some guys don't pay, it is a bit unfair that guys always have to pay and that's why I split when the girl assumes I have to pay. I pay to be kind not because I'm supposed to
Unless the chick I'm dating insists on paying I always pay but I grew up developing my own honor code and thats in it so I don't know about other guys
Good
I thought I read on this site that men and women are equal. You know, all the feminist questions.
I'm not I feminst my love
I never said I wanted to be equals ever
never said so. I said on this site.
Three little bitches pipe up.
I pay for my own, my boyfriend pays for his own.
If i invite him to a meal, tea, ice cream etc.. I pay, and if he invites me then he pays. I think its fair
Because some women will just go out on a date with a guy for a free meal
Okay
It might also be that they are saving their money to spend on other girls they like more than you
I always insist on paying.
I think the problem with most younger guys not paying can be partially attributed to the modern feminist movement.
Example: my brother was recently visiting relatives in California, our half sister and neice were genuinely shocked when he held the door for them.
Modern society has begun to demonize men for acts of kindness because it is assumed that they are trying to get something out of it.
Well one upvote and one downvote isn't bad. 😅
Because of liberal and feminist crap. Because it's no longer cool to teach young men to act like MEN. My thoughts, if I invited the young lady out it's entirely on me. If she decides or wishes to pay for her part, by all means support her decision.
Because it's 2018 and woman can pay for themselves! Why don't they pay? You have to "impress us" also! Shows you're not in it for a free ride either. Shows respect also.
Because you are equal to your partner meaning both pay. Don’t you have money?
I don't know if they do, but I think a would offer to pay, for the sake of being polite.
Why should someone pay, because 'they're the guy', especially on a first date, sexist much?
Good to see a lot of women here agree with me too.