Can guys be faithful and change after cheating? (Page 2)

Question

Can a relationship still work and the guy change and be faithful although they’ve cheated already?

Anonymous · Answer

Doubt it. If they could knowingly betray and hurt you once, what’s stopping them from doing it again? Cheating is purely selfish, and I tend to think most of those people are too selfish to change as well.

Philyouup · Answer

Once a person crosses a line that should be difficult to cross, it just makes it easier the next time. It’s selfish and very hurtful. And if that line wasn’t hard for him to cross, it just means more heartache to come.

Didi1337 · Answer

I said yes cos im an example of it, i kissed a girl, i told the girl i was with, i wasn't unfaithfull after that, sexual acts might be worse to "reverse" tho, but i do believe everyone with willpower enough can change

Syrian_survivor · Answer

I think even if he's completely thrown away his past, it's still a dark page in his book
The thought will haunt both sides if they weren't both completely fine with it, but that is rare, especially if the relationship is super serious

BillieJean1070 · Answer

I wouldn't say it's impossible but damn he's gonna be under close scrutiny. Now where's my meat cleaver?

x_Pretty_x · Answer

To me it wouldn't matter if he changed, he would be history.

courtney06 · Answer

If it were me in the relationship it would be over for good, regardless if he changes.

samy_deadpool · Answer

He fool you once, is his fault. Fool you twice is your fault...

LTHardy · Answer

I don't know why its called cheating, were not playing a game/test etc. However, I've messed around in my younger years and forced myself to look for that one

Jaysonava · Answer

Of course he CAN. it;s physically possible. But you have to ask yourself what his perspective on relationships are if he cheats at all.

SweetEvilKitty · Answer

From my experience, it depends on the person. I have been in two scenarios where one person didn't change and another where that person did change but now we are engaged.

Prakbio · Answer

If he cheated on you than no he cannot be changed easily.. If he cheated on someone else than more chance that he maybe loyal.. Still I would say once cheater is always cheater..

Raven_76 · Answer

Probably not and they don't deserve a second chance. I hate the way cheating is even a thing, it bothers me to know I inhabit the same planet as utter garbage humans. At least I know I'm better than them so I take comfort in knowing I am superior.

giovannimontolivo · Answer

No. That's the ultimate sign of disrespect. Same goes if women cheat

SelfishGuy · Answer

No. I don't think so. But people are different. Give it a chance see if he turns around.

CubsterShura · Answer

Not with the same person anymore, but it is possible to change.

Киттйлинк · Answer

It is highly unlikely but one in a million can happened I’m sure.

Anonymous · Answer

Beeing a cheater comes with a lot of underlying problems usually fixed with long therapy. Remember not every man cheat or have abusive behaviours. Is he worth it?

DeBoss0527 · Answer

Can they yes will they probably not. So it's not that they can't it is that they won't.

CaffeinatedCactus · Answer

Cheaters will always cheat until they meet the one person they would never want to risk losing. That goes for both men and women.

inmensus · Answer

I'll give them the benefit of the doubt and say that everyone can change. But I still wouldn't forgive or go back with a cheater. It's still one of the worst things someone could do.

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

Not sure why anyone says no or once a cheater always a cheater. Thats like saying once an alcoholic always an alcoholic, once a crack head always a crack head. By tge way women cheat as well.

InTimoreDei · Answer

Of course it's possible. Unlikely though? Very unlikely.

TonyBologna25 · Answer

Found out my dad cheated on my mom before I was even a thought, and he changed and they've been happily married since.

genericname85 · Answer

sure they "can"but i'd break up and let the next poor soul he gets with find out if he did change or not xD

John_Doesnt · Answer

He only cheated because she got fat or annoying. So he can totally change because it was really the woman who changed.

Kemil_Zhoki · Answer

A cheater might behave for awhile, but it is almost always only out of fear of the penalties of getting caught again, not because of a genuine change.

CoffeeWC · Answer

My mom tried trusting my dad after he cheated. My dad took advantage of that and ended up cheating multiple times. So my answer is that it is possible but highly unlikely.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Guys only "cheat" when their primary snatch isn't doing her job. Be a better girlfriend/wife and your man will never stray.

Fuselesss · Answer

they say once a cheater always a cheater, and i kinda agree

Kenni · Answer

No. Anyways i wouldn't stay to know cause i don't give second chances to a cheater.

Anonymous · Answer

Guys and women alike... once a cheater always a cheater. My late wife cheated on one of her boyfriends I had hoped that she changed but I was wrong. If it can happen to me it can happen to anyone.

SpiritBear · Answer

Yes, anybody can change, but I wouldn’t count on it.

Anonymous · Answer

Once a cheater always a cheater. The moment they cheat they become subhuman in my eyes and not worth the dirt on my shoes.

Rashad · Answer

Even if the guy cheats but gives you the same attention, then you should be fine with it.

Anonymous · Answer

Altho a leopard can't change their spots, people can change their actions

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Very few guys will after cheating that's why I say say to your partner ifnwe can't change our problems let's break up

DiegoO · Answer

Is possible although there is a chance who ever cheat will cheat again since the relationship may not get any better.

AcidT0y · Answer

Nah. Loyalty can't be learned, it's either in your blood or it isn't.

douride2 · Answer

In my opinion a tiger can't change their stripes. It can't work.

Anonymous · Answer

Sure. As guys get older our level of constant horniness subsides and we're much less motivated to have sex with new women. So we'll be less likely to cheat.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Everyone can change and realize but we still can't stop having issues. Same goes for girls. Why are you only asking about guys?

niDaye · Answer

since he is cheating on you, he probably consider you as junk any way. Do you still want a man who think you as junk?

Butternuts · Answer

Most cheaters always cheat but some may learn from their mistakes and make a conscious decision not to cheat.

Anonymous · Answer

Imagining the relationship is still growing and there's a deep enough connection...

Fabulous_spray17 · Answer

Yes, without a doubt, because we all have flaws even when we think or say we don't, and nobody should judge anybody for it, no matter the cost. and that's facts

Crocuta_Hyaenidae · Answer

They *can*, but whether or not they are *likely to* is a different story.

TrustOfWorthington · Answer

Oldest excuse if hd knows he fucked up and she found out..

Anonymous · Answer

C) Depends ona guy, some can change, but lots of them can't (or won't).

Skateranon1234 · Answer

In 95% of cases I'd say no. Those are not chances you want to bet on

AdmiralBailey · Answer

I've never cheated but I imagine if I did then I'd probably keep doing it

Kkob1210 · Answer

They can but you should break up with them cuz it could still happen

Deukalion · Answer

For both genders , cheater always cheat , never change.

Dionigi · Answer

I don't believe people can change after a certain age

Anonymous · Answer

if you give positive reinforcement to something negative. they will believe they can keep doing it because you'll keep taking them back over and over again

facialhair27 · Answer

Yes, of course. We all make mistakes and learn from them hopefully

Anonymous · Answer

No Second chances don't matter Once a ho always a ho

TheBedwin · Answer

My girlfriend cheated she was so sexy so I used her as a fuck toy and it is working fantastic

paulanthony68 · Answer

If youve done it once your more likely to do it again

chrisbigman · Answer

Nope. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

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