What is your definition of a BAD BOY?

[coachTanthony]

[Wammu]

I do what I want when I want.

If I think a girl is fine, I just go up to her because I want to.

If somebody tells me to jump, I'll glare at them for about 5 seconds and then go back to what I was doing.

If a woman wants a relationship but I don't? Later.

A bad boy lives by his own rules and is unpredictable and unapologetic about who he is.

A bad boy is not antisocial, egotistic, criminal, or motorcycle-using.

Troy from Dear White people is a bad boy, but he was a well-spoken rich black kid whose dad ran the school.

Lord Byron was a bad boy.

Einstein was a bad boy.(No seriously, look it up. Dude was a pimp. A pimp named Einstein.)

If you wanna be bad, you have to do what you want but be in control.

[coachTanthony]

spoken like a true bad boy!

[SwoleCook]

There’s rules to being a bad boy but they break rules? What?

[Wammu]

@SwoleCook Not necessarily*

[Wammu]

@SwoleCook A bad boy can still be a criminal, antisocial or egotistical, but you don't NEED to be those things to be one.

[SwoleCook]

You know what’s better than a bad boy? Taking care of your fam. Having goals, being productive.

[Wammu]

@SwoleCook If you say so. . .

[courtney06]

Why would someone tell you to jump? I’m curious what they mean by that

[Wammu]

@courtney06 It's an analogy. . . . Nobody is actually going to tell me to jump. But, if somebody barks orders at me, Imma tell em what's what.

[courtney06]

Got it

[loginfailed]

1. Go to the washroom alone
2. Break rules. Ex:- touching things in the museum
3. get into fights. Ex:-starting fights with kids and girls
4. using explicit words. Ex:- "Go away", "lol ", "asshole"
5. ignore things. Ex:- ignoring questions @coachTanthony ask
6. cheat your girl. Ex:- accidentally looking at a nother girl's bag when you and your girlfriend walking on the road.

[coachTanthony]

Whatever you are smoking.. can you Fed Ex me some?

[loginfailed]

Lol sure. I smoke oxygen, that's a bad boy thing too. DAMN I'm a bad boy. Want me girls?

[loginfailed]

Thanks for the mho loll

[courtney06]

They are the guy everyone warns a girl about but she dates him anyway. He treats her well at first so she thinks she’s special then his true colors come out 😈 It’s hard to leave him, especially since he is great in the bedroom

[coachTanthony]

So Bedroom skills trump true colors?

[courtney06]

If the girl is insecure it can

[Elaurious]

A bad boy is a guy who needs a shower really bad, he also can be called a fuck boy and a douchebag.

[kitty71]

But there are fuck boys who shower and are clean

[Elaurious]

@kitty71 Um, yes, but he is also bad just not dirty. Fuckyboyism is just another derivation of being a scumbag asshole.

[ManOnFire]

Guys who are sexually appealling because of their waywardness and disrespectfulness to women who are intellectually and emotionally unintelligent and uneducated.

[Pinay_ako]

opposite of a good man.

[ryryryan]

I make the rules and live my life according to my own philosophy and the only person setting limits on me is me and the laws... Of physics that is... Im a "bad boy" but quite sweet and funny and charming also🤣

[coachTanthony]

I just got chills down my spine. Thanks for the comment. LOL.

[ryryryan]

Lol I'm not as bad as I sound actually but that's a definition of it I strive for myself... O and banging many women add that cuz most women think that's "bad"

[ChetAtkins]

A good boy sees a girl...
Good boy: You really look pretty. I hope you're having a good day.
Girl: Nice try, but I'm not like that. Loser

A bad boy sees a girl...
Bad boy: You look like a hot bitch. You wanna git wit me tonight?
Girl: You're a disgusting pig! What time were you thinking?
LOL

[CandacePerry]

Trashy personality. Cheating lying. Abuse. Bully lot poor student or different looking people that bullied by him. I dislike bad boy. there all have a massive ego. They always a lot of girls around him.

[000_000]

The kid who gets his green slip all the way to red in kindergarten

[coachTanthony]

Cool screen name.

[000_000]

Thanks

[normalguy93]

Acts like they love girl just to have sex and most of the time they either vape smoke or smoke weed

[Wammu]

That's called a liar.

[normalguy93]

So bad boys are liar

[Wammu]

Nope. Never lied to a woman about my intentions, but when they start talking about where we're going I just go silent. Then I end up breaking up.

[normalguy93]

The thing is that liar can't get girl so the bad boy does but you maybe just lied I don't know i dont know u

[Wammu]

I don't really care what you think tbh, and you're starting to become more of a nuisance than a person to talk to.

[normalguy93]

If u say so ur the one insisting on the fact that ur a bad boy

[englisc]

This is a bad boy:

[winterfox10]

Bad Boy is synonymous with "Trouble." If guys could just figure out that all women are looking for is someone with the balls to chase after his dreams, dress well, take care of himself, and make decisions on his own; then maybe we wouldn't have so many transvestites with tribal tattoos and earrings trying to be counter culture with their choice in non dairy cheese selections.

[unomilkis1]

Someone who intends harm or negative ranges of feelings, physical or emotional.

[yucychan]

Strong silent type, with tatoos, picks fights with others and is fearless

[Sabretooth]

not really strong or fearless and they'll only pick fights when they have the advantage in numbers or stronger

[godfatherfan]

so bad guy = asshole. got it.

[Anonymous]

A so calles good looking dude (not always as good looking as many girl would say) full of tatties, cheeky and arrogant, who often say rude jokes and mainly thinks about plugging every hole he sees lol. The type of boy most girls claim they would never give chance... but then like all of those same girls... sh9ve the bad boy's shaft in their mouths!

[A_Bell]

Drug user. Gets into fights. Loses his job often. Loser.

[Benedek38]

Not necessarily. He has a tattoo of Muhammad Ali, so he's probably more of a boxer than a hoodloom. His tattoos suck ass though.

[courtney06]

You described my ex

[A_Bell]

@courtney06 haha. I think i met him. Twice.

[A_Bell]

@Benedek38 I was answering the question, not commenting on the guy. Who'd I'd do once or twice, but noting serious.

[sockandshoes]

tattoos, gang affiliated or drug dealer, a guy with street smarts. loads of money from his crime.

[Samantha7]

Someone conceited, I dont have a good image of them to be honest. but, they can be charming because they seem like they dont care, and seem independent

[Inneedofusername]

When I hear this term, the first and the only things that comes to my mind is appearance. Hot face features, black eyes and hair, leather jacket, muscles, beard, ring in lip

[Muhammad1999]

That's me except the ring 😂😂😂😂

[loginfailed]

@Muhammadi1999 sure you are😂😂. Even your pp look like a bad boy lmaoo

[alice55]

Guy that don't respect the rules, is pretty impulsive but is loyal to his friends and people he care about.

[GYNNU]

I suppose that a bad boy is someone who can do anything and not be afraid of meeting the consequences, women like such guys

[courtney06]

They “think” they can do anything and they usually don’t take nondor an answer. You’re right about not being afraid of consequences

[Sabretooth]

@courtney06 because they usually don't have to face them-once they do... they won't have a clue what to do and they'll go all to pieces

[EarthFairy7]

A spoiled kid who's a menace to society and is also a huge douchebag

[Anonymous]

The guy women say they don't want, but they will do anything to have him. Basically they're the men all men should strive to be. In that way, women will desire you.

[latinabutterfly96]

Wanting to bang him isn’t the same as wanting to date/marry him

[Jaysonava]

Yeah. sometimes you just have to not care what women want or you'll fuck up your life

[latinabutterfly96]

...
🤦‍♀️

[Jaysonava]

@latinabutterfly96 You just left a comment that confirmed my statement so don't face palm me.

[latinabutterfly96]

LOL. How did it confirm your statement?

[Jaysonava]

@latinabutterfly96 Because you want to have sex with losers. So in order for me to be desirable to you (should I want to) I would sabotage my own life and be pathetic just to meet your standards.

[latinabutterfly96]

You do understand that having sex with someone doesn’t mean you respect or value them.

[latinabutterfly96]

I’d never date or marry a guy who can’t make proper decisions and doesn’t care about himself or anyone

[Jaysonava]

@latinabutterfly96 Yeah that's definitely true

[latinabutterfly96]

Exactly. A bad boy can have sex with girls but that doesn’t mean he’ll be happy in the long run. All of them end up wanting to settle down only to be the laughingstock of women later on. Women don’t want to Mary this kind of guy at all, he has zero self respect so why would we respect him. Lol

[latinabutterfly96]

Marry**

[sonnysunshine]

@latinabutterfly96 but you do bang him... those guys don’t get friendzoned often

[Jaysonava]

@sonnysunshine I know right? Hahaha. And then for the guy the 'love' and 'admire' they have to give them time and money and attention and earn the sex. At least for this young lady

[latinabutterfly96]

The man is implying that if sex is his end goal, then that’s all he’s good for. We don’t accept dinner or flowers TO give sex to him. There’s a difference between having sex with someone we respect and value (in a committed relationship or in a marriage) or FUCKING some dumbass guy we thought would just satisfy our desires for that moment.

[latinabutterfly96]

We don’t GIVE sex to men. We have it WITH them. You’re just confused.

[Jaysonava]

@latinabutterfly96 I don't know if you set any kind of standard for anything. But by the sounds of it, you have higher expectations with regards to sex on a man who is decent. You seem to expect a lot more from a decent guy, in order to have sex WITH a decent guy. You seem to expect very little from a 'bad boy' before you'll have sex with him.

[latinabutterfly96]

No. It’s like asking you personally: Why would you have sex with an “easy girl” but take a “more decent girl” seriously with taking her on dates. Exactly. The. Same. Thing.

[latinabutterfly96]

Again. I don’t expect a lot from a decent guy with the goal to have sex. A decent guy doesn’t have the end goal to have sex in the first place. A decent guy respects himself and wants a relationship. A “manwhore” doesn’t. A “manwhore” has the end goal of sex, and if that’s what he’s after then that’s all he gets. The problem is that it sure sounds like a good deal but then he becomes lonely and can’t find a woman to settle with. No one wants STDs and lack of integrity.

[Opinion Owner]

@latinabutterfly96 we'd rather be the guy they want to bang, than want to get married to

[latinabutterfly96]

@Anon Well yeah. At first. That’s what they all say, and then complain as to why they can’t get a woman to date them.

[sonnysunshine]

@latinabutterfly96 the “decent” guy will get raked over the coals in the friendzone and will eventually get jaded. That’s when he becomes the manwhore.

[latinabutterfly96]

And casual sex is just that- sex. If you think women lose something from it (idk why some men have this mindset, is sure is an enigma) then you’re wrong. 😂

[latinabutterfly96]

Nah, the decent guy stays decent because his end goal isn’t sex. He respects his body. He doesn’t want sex just because she happens to be there. If his end goal IS sex, that’s all he’s good for. A toy to be used. Which is kinda sad tbh

[sonnysunshine]

@latinabutterfly96 there is nothing worse when a guy invest months of his time getting to know a girl the way she “says” she wants. Her saying she “likes” him only to get bored, jump in bed with a douchey who excites her and friendzoning him. I estimate that’s happened to over 90 percent of guys on GAG and that’s why we are angry.

[latinabutterfly96]

On GAG, yeah maybe. In real life? No.

Because you know what? We don’t owe you men sex. We will fuck whoever we want. We’ll bang whoever we think will please us better in bed and if you’re not okay with that then you should know we don’t give two fucks.

[latinabutterfly96]

It’s funny because men are the ones who let themselves hop into bed with the first girl that asks them. Why would we respect your choice if you don’t even have one? All I have to do is snap my fingers and there you are at my feet. How the fuck do you expect me to respect the bad boy if he thinks he’s all that, but really all he is is a worthless toy? How do you expect us to respect the doormat whose goal is to have sex and not to have a future relationship? Lmfao

[latinabutterfly96]

The funniest part is that what men define as “bad boy” is really how a normal self respecting guy is supposed to act. Being an asshole is completely different than being a guy who simply respects his dignity. We’re attracted to guys who respect their body and don’t pass it around as if it were for charity.

[latinabutterfly96]

If you think a decent guy expects sex from his crush *as his end goal*, then he’s not gonna get shit. Because we can see through his fake bs. What turns us off is the fact that he thinks he can fool us into doing something that doesn’t even hurt us in the first place. In his mind he needs to be deceptive in order to have sex with the woman. Guess what? That’s a turn off. And it’s not what a “decent guy” would do anyway.

[Opinion Owner]

@latinabutterfly96 you're not getting it really. You pretend like a relationship is the main goal for men.

[sonnysunshine]

A relationship is a main goal for most men. But if we go out and say that we look desperate. Women want the challenge of breaking down a mysterious man.

[Opinion Owner]

@sonnysunshine also its the thing that a woman gives sex easily to certain men, but the man she supposedly "likes" has to prove himself more.

[latinabutterfly96]

No. YOU don’t get it. I never even implied that the end goal for most men is a relationship. But they definitely want to settle down at some point. That’s not going to be possible if he keeps letting himself get in bed with any horny woman. That only reflects on his lack of integrity.

Yes, mysterious men are indeed intriguing and attractive. But that doesn’t mean he’ll be an asshole. Two different things that you got confused. Also mysterious women are famous for being intriguing to men too

[sonnysunshine]

@latinabutterfly96 but the decent “nice” guy takes the time to get to know you, respect you and open up about his life. He’s boring right? Too available.

[latinabutterfly96]

No. I respect the decent guy. I don’t wanna bang him immediately because I know he respects himself. And if he really does have respect for himself then why would he rush into sex? You make zero sense.

[latinabutterfly96]

You’re saying that he should get rewarded with sex because that would be his end goal. If that’s the case then he isn’t a decent guy if he has to deceive someone with ulterior motives.

[sonnysunshine]

@latinabutterfly96 he gets rewarded with the friendzone and the involuntarily gets a job as a counselor. He’s the guy you reach out to get advice about other guys. You naively pretend he’s okay with it.

[Opinion Owner]

@latinabutterfly96 so if you rush into sex with the bad boy, you don't respect yourself?

[latinabutterfly96]

Why would he view sex as a reward if he’s a self respecting decent man?

[latinabutterfly96]

Only pathetic losers expect only sex from a woman. I actually feel quite bad for those men because they clearly don’t know how to value themselves and don’t know what Love is. That’s why women have sex with him but don’t date them. Humans naturally need love and affection, so most men ARE eventually going to look for someone to care for and someone that cares about them. If you sleep around don’t expect anyone to care about you

[Opinion Owner]

@latinabutterfly96 answer the question, you can go after a guy for sex and it's not disrespectful to yourself, but a guy wants to do it and he's a loser. Why is this the case?

[latinabutterfly96]

@Anon If you expect sex as a reward and if you think that you’re entitled to it only because you’re nice, then you don’t deserve anyone’s respect.

[sonnysunshine]

Exactly. Answer the fucking question. So these guys are losers for only wanting sex but the girls who jump in bed with them are not?

[Opinion Owner]

@latinabutterfly96 every single guy on earth sees it the same way

[latinabutterfly96]

@Anon If I want a guy only for sex this behavior doesn’t go according to my morals. I’m talking about guys who expect sex from women only because they’re nice. It’s worse to be fake and expect sex from someone by being deceptive, than to be direct and tell that person that you’re only after sex.

[latinabutterfly96]

@sonnysunshine Are you mad because your fake dumb ass doesn’t get laid?

[latinabutterfly96]

@Anon Wrong sweetie. The world doesn’t revolve around your feelings. 😘

[latinabutterfly96]

You guys are dumb af. I can see now why no girl doesn’t even wanna look at your ugly stupid faces lol

[sonnysunshine]

@latinabutterfly96 now you are going off on assumptions and insults. Typical feminine method to argue to displace the topic. Try to undermine the person who is disagreeing with you.

FYI I got laid 3 weeks ago and I was one those “douche bags” you mentioned above. She tried to friendzone me last week and I said no thanks. But its much less painful for her to do that after sex then before it.

[latinabutterfly96]

I’m undermining you because you were using foul language. You started doing that, not me.

[latinabutterfly96]

@Sonny Jesus I honestly pity those guys who think sex is the ultimate goal. Only people with extremely low self esteem have that perspective. Bless your heart

[Opinion Owner]

@latinabutterfly96 typical female shaming tactics at play. Sorry 99% of the time women aren't worthy of committing to. Get used to it, because less and less men want to commit

[latinabutterfly96]

Well obviously based on the fact that you both literally reply around the same time and use the same wording, it’s quite possible that you’re the same person with two different accounts. What I’m confused about is how can you not be embarrassed to be so desperate to “win” an argument that you don’t even know about. All I did was say that being fake is a turn off and you went on defensive mode because you know it’s true. Your hatred for females is showing, and I wouldn’t be shocked if females have burned you multiple times in your past. Again. Bless your fucking heart. Lmfao

[Opinion Owner]

@latinabutterfly96 yes we are the same person lmao. The point still stands, this is a great time in human history, where men can get what they want without having to sacrifice anything

[latinabutterfly96]

So? Women can get what they want to without sacrificing anything. What’s your point? LOL

[latinabutterfly96]

Too*

[latinabutterfly96]

What I don’t understand is why you shame men so much. Why you portray them as dirty pigs who are only useful for one thing. That’s what I don’t get and I think it’s sad that a male does this to his own gender. That’s all.

[latinabutterfly96]

I recently saw a Take written by a male who actually was saddened and angered because men like you kept portraying them as worthless toys who are only to be used. You don’t get to decide what other men feel only because you personally think a certain way.

[Opinion Owner]

@latinabutterfly96 you are assuming that sex is the only thing in our life. We don't have careers or passions. When it comes to women, sex is #1 for most men.

[latinabutterfly96]

Lol and I repeat. You can’t decide what other men feel only because you see it that way. It’s like me saying that women only want to take your money, use you and divorce you. A large portion of women ARE indeed that cold hearted, but that doesn’t mean all or most women are like this. So stop acting like you know every other male in the planet. Men like you portray men as useless animals when it comes to women. That’s how lots of women see you, because people like YOU keep throwing loads of BS

[latinabutterfly96]

I respect men who aren’t easy fucks and who respect their integrity and body. If you’re not one of them I feel sorry for you.

[latinabutterfly96]

The fact that you had to create another account for emotional validation speaks volumes about how your self esteem is at, babe.

[Opinion Owner]

@latinabutterfly96 lmao you pretend like men wait for sex out of respect, it's not that big of a deal to us.

[latinabutterfly96]

And you’re pretending that women hate sex or something. Lmfao.

[latinabutterfly96]

“To us”

LOL. You’re doing exactly what I said. You think you’re part of a group where everyone feels and thinks the same way and processes the same thoughts. If you want women to respect you, and for people to take you seriously, don’t put yourself out there with a huge sign that says “Use me and take all my money and all my dignity.” That’s literally what you’re doing. I just can’t even express how sad that is

[latinabutterfly96]

and then they complain about why the woman cheats on them and why she divorces him with half of his fucking money.

[sonnysunshine]

@latinabutterfly96 men get brainwashed at a young age to be “nice” and supplicating to women. It’s in our movies and TV.

This doesn’t mean that guys should all become douchebags. But our feminized society does set us up to fail until we figure out things the hard way.

[latinabutterfly96]

Dude you’re blaming everything on everyone but yourself. YOU and only YOU are responsible for your actions. Not tv. Not biology. Not whatever influence you had. You learn from mistakes. Don’t be a doormat but try to respect yourself too. Don’t be an asshole either. There’s a difference between a doormat, an asshole, and a guy who SIMPLY has some respect for himself.

[Jaysonava]

@sonnysunshine Only some men are like that. I don't understand it. Spending all their time and money on a woman who won't let him do anything. And who throws a fit if he does anything on his own accord. Throws a tantrum if he is with his friends, makes everything about her. It's so sad. Why would he subject himself to that much control?

[sonnysunshine]

@latinabutterfly96 work with us here. Listen to us. Yeah there are a lot of angry so called “beta” guys on here. But really do you think we came up with this overnight? We does such a large percentage of guys feel this anger and frustration? We are not all going to become misogynistic serial killers. The vast majority us are well meaning but we hate getting passed up by guys who treat women like shit. Now this “somewhat” improves as you get older. But not as much as it should. I see women in their 30s still making stupid choices. We just take a look around and see what’s happening and it sucks.

There has been times in my life I’ve been hardened and unemotional. The last girl I hooked up with I kept it all fun and casual. When she brought up serious things (about her ex fiancé cheating on her) I listened for a split second and changed the subject. Sure I could have been her counselor. But what then? Would she like me more romantically? Highly unlikely. I ended up joking around that she had hot underwear. One thing lead to another and after it was over I asked her if she felt better. Her response was “hell yes!” But what if I just gave her a shoulder to cry on. She would see me as a friend and not a lover.

[sonnysunshine]

Now I still treated that girl well (fun activities) but she ended things and tried to friendzone me. I said no thanks But isn’t something that NOT caring about her issue made me more attractive. Yeah it was short term. But still I’ll take a short term fling over a long friendzone anyday

[latinabutterfly96]

And what do you want us to do about it? Bend over so we can make you happy? Lmao fuck off. It’s your fault that you’re so fucking desperate that you’ll literally break your neck back and legs in order to get laid. It’s so sad that it’s worse than pathetic. Respect yourself for once. Take care of your looks and hygiene. If you want to be attractive then BE ATTRACTIVE!

[latinabutterfly96]

It’s sad how guys neglect friendship with women so much. I was friends with my current boyfriend for two whole years. HE is the epitome of a decent guy. Why do you think so? He didn’t even realize I liked him. We went through ups and downs, I had boyfriends and he had girlfriends. We learned to support each other. I understood that he didn’t just like me for one thing. He genuinely enjoyed my company and wasn’t looking for sex or whatever. You are completely in the wrong lane if you think any woman will look at you with any kind of respect with your attitude and possibly you’re unattractive too.

[Opinion Owner]

@latinabutterfly96 zzzzz at this point in life any man that would take a relationship over freedom is a lunatic. It's a massive mistake to commit to one woman. You can get everything you ever need from short term relationships with women that you get long-term. In fact you get more with short-term

[latinabutterfly96]

And there, ladies and gentlemen, is why this guy is a pathetic incel.

[Opinion Owner]

@latinabutterfly96 who says I'm an incel? Just because I won't commit to women?

[latinabutterfly96]

Lol. No. You’re an incel because you fit the definition.

“incel

"feels as if the world owes them sex. A self-described 'incel' is highly likely to blame their virginity on the other 6,999,999,999 people on the planet rather than consider that maybe the problem lies inward.”

Nuff said.

[latinabutterfly96]

Any man who thinks that sex is the only goal in life is just so sad. Sex is obviously enjoyable by men and women alike. But for it to be the only goal that you have concerning the opposite sex is quite pitiful. Women end up using you for money and if you think you won’t fall for a manipulative bitch then think again babe.

[sonnysunshine]

@latinabutterfly96 if you want to be a cunt suit yourself. You will never change anybody’s mind by insulting them.

[latinabutterfly96]

And you say that by insulting me back? By being a hypocrite? Lmao cool. No one takes your word seriously.

[latinabutterfly96]

I’m just speaking reality. If you don’t like it you can go cry in a corner but don’t pull us into your stupid drama. We have our own life to live. ;)

[sonnysunshine]

@latinabutterfly96 if you had your “own” life to live you wouldn’t be on here. It’s alright though. There is an old saying that good looks will fade but a shitty personality won’t. And women age much faster than men. Enjoy your fleeting moments because they won’t last.

[latinabutterfly96]

im sure my personality isn’t shitty like yours. You whine, I’m brutally honest with you especially if you’re a stranger. I do have my own life but that doesn’t mean I can’t have a good laugh or two from some people on G@G 🤣

[AoiXiaolang99]

A guy that's in a gang, in prison, or involved in some kind of criminal activity.

[Wammu]

That's not a bad boy, that's a menace.