He cheated, but why don't I care? (Page 2)

Question

Ok so I recently started dating this guy. I didn't really want to have a monogamous relationship to begin with but he really wanted to date so I said fuck it I'll give it a shot. Mind you, he's my first boyfriend. Things where going great but the sex started to get boring, and his drive was low. We talked about an open relationship but decided not to do that, since he didn't like the idea of me sleeping with someone else and I was happy with our current arrangement. We didn't have sex for two days, and then he started asking about reconsidering the open relationship and sounding really upset, so I new something was off. He finally stopped bullshitting and said that he had fucked his ex. side note I get a hall pass since he cheated. The fucked up thing is is him cheating doesn't really make me feel heart broken or make me want to dump him. I basically said "wow really? You could do better." Is there something wrong with me...

MikeTheGreek79 · Answer

Probably cause he didn’t cheat with a better looking woman or you like the abuse.

Anonymous · Answer

So just have fun and keep it casual and then move on.

Arielbubble · Answer

I don't see it as cheating anymore in a relationship. And it makes me feel so much freed n relaxed.

Juxtapose · Answer

You just don't find sex to be a big deal, no biggie.

CT_CD · Answer

Some people are secure enough in themselves to know what works for them.

Sabretooth · Answer

you said that you didn't want to have a monogamous relationship to begin with-clearly this situation revealed otherwise.

berwise13 · Answer

I feel the same way & I've been married 23 years if im not doing it for you find someone who can. I may want to watch & take notes.

Anonymous · Answer

Damn! You're what's known in the lingo as, "a keeper!" ;-)

currentlyalone · Answer

Everyone deserves a second chance. But if there is a next time clothes on the lawn

juliapanan · Answer

This is sad :( ... maybe you dont love him anymore?

Anonymous · Answer

“Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and whoever marries a woman divorced from her husband commits adultery.

Scaramanga · Answer

You don't care 'cause you're not that into him.

capncool · Answer

Sounds like you don't really care about him

Eryxx · Answer

You aren't in love with him.

Metallsturm · Answer

Perhaps you're into cuckqueaning?

lokeshdh00 · Answer

You never felt him perfect for you , so he was

thottttiana · Answer

You never liked him to begin with.

kreamykraemez · Answer

to early in the relationship maybe

Under_Maps_OF_twigs · Answer

You can't cheat if you're not married.

Feminist_Slave_ · Answer

Because you women are superior than men.

Tomblebee · Answer

You whipped.

Feminist_slave · Answer

Because you are superior and males are loser.

garybcfc123 · Answer

She wants rid of him!!!

ElloElloElloEllo · Answer

im wayy too selfish to not feel anything

eagle1951 · Answer

you need too see someone

Marinepilot · Answer

You're not right.

Coachtom · Answer

Mr Johnson May talk

Anonymous · Answer

Voted b

He cheated, but why don't I care? (Page 2)

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