Am I a “homie hopper”?

[LaCeleste]

I had this makeout buddy... we’ll call him a “friendly friend” that I would hang with all the time (ps we never did anything beyond makeout) and one night we went to the club with all our friends. Where they
Introduced me to this guy and left me with him while they all went to the bathroom. He got my Snapchat and my friends came back and I spent the rest of the night hanging with them and my “friendly friend”.

One of of friends got really drunk and kissed me. I pushed him off of me. And it prompted me to talk to my friendly friend and kind of define the relationship. We never talked about being exclusive and I needed to know if I should feel bad for what happened. He told me he wasn’t jealous and that we are just having fun and hanging out. We like each other sure but he is not in a position where he feel alike he can commit to anything rn. Which was fine with me

The guy I met hit me up and asked tobhabgout. We spent basically the entire weekend and into the week hanging out and going to clubs and just chilling. We kinda really started to like each other but because of a difference in religion I decided that i wouldn’t rather not be in a committed relationship with him because it’s somethjng that is very important to me.

This guy then turns around and tells me that if I go back to hanging out with my friendly friend then I’m a homie hopper. But they are only acquaintances and he was the one who came and “swooped in” when he knew I was kinda with that guy. Come to find out he says that my friendly friend basically passed me off to him and told him to go for it. Yet somehow IM the homie hopper?
This doesn’t make sense to me.

[ScholaryTeen]

So, we in the trades refer to that new guy as an "asshole".

There is nothing wrong with being promiscuous, and it seems you and your "friendly friend" have a reasonably healthy relationship with good communication. As such, it would be a shame to let this new person's words get between you two.

Put bluntly, the new guy didn't get his way so he is insulting you and throwing a metaphorical tantrum.
As such, he is being immature and will likely become a poisonous person in your life if you do not cut ties with him.
However, your "friendly friend" seems like a reasonably well-adjusted guy comfortable with his position. I don't think you should allow this to negatively impact your friendship with him.

[humanearth]

I just read what you wrote and I am lost to. It don't make sense to me either. The best I can think of that he was jealous in some form, But jealous of what though. It kinda sounds like a jealous thing. Sorry. but that's all I get

[Anonymous]

i dont need to read the whole thing. if you've hooked up or done anything sexual with more than one guy from the same friend group, then yes, you're a homie hopper.

[Anonymous]

You a slut yer like the girl that fucks the whole football team no shame own it we need those type of dirty girls

[LaCeleste]

Lol I’m a Virgin