Am I considered a "Hoe" for this?

[Anonymous]

So I liked this boy and we "talked" but he ended up playing me.

Now fast-forward His friend asked for my number (this guy asked my friend who is also his friend for my #) and I didn't think much of it so I said "yea" and he texted me and I texted him back and he never replied. After this, he started to act funny towards me. like for example he would be nervous around me he'd show up at places I'd be at school and he was considered a shy guy. But what I noticed, is that he would act like he's not interested in me around his friends which included the boy that I liked. But when he was alone without them, he acts shy and He would always stare at me when I'm not looking a lot too.

Now fast-forward to the end of the school year I was in the cafeteria and I was talking to my friends and then suddenly the guy I use to talk to, the shy guy, and another one of their friends walked in and sat down at a table adjacent from us. I didn't pay any mind to it at all. Until suddenly I saw him and his friend pointing at me and laughing at me. The guy who acts shy around me started to blush and I heard the words "No bro, no bro'' whiles the guy I use to talk to was just sitting there with no engagement in the convo between them. And after that, they were staring at me Now after this, some time had passed and it didn't bother me until the guy I "talked to" started shading me online by saying "You're a hoe for messing with my friend" W I never even spoke to him!. I'm afraid that he is messing up my character and who I am because I take pride in my character and I don't want anyone referring to me as a "hoe" or a chick who 'homie hops".

here are my theories:
1: The guy I used talked to set him up to see if I"d mess with his friend (Hence him not replying to my text)
2: Or He probably liked me fr and didn't tell his friends and his friends probably sense that there was something going on between us or they noticed how nervous he was around me.

What do you think?

[btbc92]

Sweetheart, I'm sorry you just need to ignore them. You're not having sex outside of marriage and you're not having sex with these random boys. So therefore you're not a whore. Do you need to tell that individual he's needs to stop defaming your character because he doesn't know anything about what the heck is going on and you're not having sex or fooling around with anybody. And none of them like you they don't need to be around you. You are free to choose what kind of person you want to be with and if you given them a chance and they chose to be here a certain way that is not your fault. They just trying to act like they're adults and they're not. So don't get yourself caught up in adult situations. I highly suggest that you please save yourself for marriage and don't be having sex with guys that you're not married to. If dating and being interested in guys on new levels is distressing for you you do not have to be dating at your young age. Be a kid, grow up, learm about yourself and interests, focus on family and friends. Not those guys.

[Asker]

Thank you for this! And I'm indeed saving myself for marriage for both religious reasons and personal reason

[btbc92]

No problem. The next time any of those guys want to try something, just laugh at them because what they're saying is hypocritical, you're not doing anything, and unless they can prove it, their words don't mean anything because you didn't do anything. A lot of them don't even know half of the stuff they talkin about. And if any guy is quick to believe the rumors that those types of voice saying, do not type of guy doesn't deserve you either.

[humpbackjack]

I’m sorry you’re having to deal with immature idiots but that’s what most boys your age are like. I wouldn’t let it get to you and definitely don’t let them see it bothering you and eventually they’ll get bored and move on and any real friends will know the truth and any that don’t forget them cause they don’t matter anyways. Of course you could put him on blast with the truth cause odds are he’s trying to make it seem like or maybe he’s even told people that there was more to it then there actually was but be prepared for him to act like an even bigger jerk really the best advice is to ignore them

[slatyb]

He "played you" ? How did he do that? Do you mean you had sex with him but he left you? Did you want to have sex with him? If not, why did you? If you did, then didn't you get what you wanted?

[Asker]

no, I didn't have sex with. we didn't have anything like that. while we were 'talking" he popped out with a relationship so I left.

[Wise4myage]

No sex or sexual acts took place, so what makes you think your behavior was whorish?

[Asker]

cause "I messed with his friend". That's what he's saying

[Wise4myage]

Well, what does 'messing" mean?

[Asker]

liked were im from

[Anonymous]

Nope. You're not a hoe unless you're having sex with several people.

[Luckycharms12]

You are a kid not a hoe

[Asker]

xD I guess you can say that.