Would you date someone who is a person of few words?

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JohnAlaska43 · Accepted Answer

No did that once will never do that again. She never really talked and when she did everything was mean spirited.
She never said anything kind. She was angry all the time and threw books at you if you interupted her reading. I know this isn't everyone who speaks less but I prefer my so to hold a conversation.

young_old_soul · Accepted Answer

I have, and since I'm quite a motormouth, it can be a bit difficult to hold a balanced conversation. Though people like that are the best listeners.

midnightmoon05 · Accepted Answer

communication is one of the key factors in a relationship. Its okay to be togehter at times and not talk much.. those are special moments.
however, if one party is so quiet that it gets dull, not sure how to build a relationship.
so prob. not

StingRayxoxo · Accepted Answer

Yes, as long as it wouldn't stand in the way of me learning and understanding them.

fonduegirl · Answer

That's no problem w me. I speak little myself. I know how that works. people blabber all the time how I should say something but I'm at loss of words. I can be outgoing, I can be chatty and flirty but... I need someone to have comfortable silence w.

Come to think of the downsides, there might be miscommunication issues between us. Both of us are good listeners, so the balance won't be maintained.

I think I'll rather befriend this person😂 first to see how it works...

Plus I think a man of few words is very common...

CubsterShura · Answer

Yeah. But what's necessary though, is that he can tolerate someone who is not a person of few words. I'm very very talkative, I was called radio in school. He has to deal with that lol.

thegirlfromthething · Answer

I guess so, but it would be hard. I’m already reserved so I prefer outgoing, chatty people to balance me out. I talk a lot around people I really like, so I guess there would still be balance but I’d feel bad if I did most of the talking.

OnlyYouKnowThat · Answer

Yes that would be great but finding a woman of "few words" is like finding a four-leaf clover.

puck17 · Answer

Personally I need to be able to have great conversations with someone that I'm dating, so I don't think it would be a very good match for me to date someone who isn't very talkative.

amy_rose_1418 · Answer

To other people yeah but if he was like that to me I dout it because it would lessen the connection in my opinion at least.

sassygirl13 · Answer

It gets boring sometimes but that's what friends are for. He doesn't have to be the one to chat all the time to. I like chatty people in general.

coolbreeze · Answer

The quiet ones you have to watch out for because they can be very sneaky.

Jean-Marie_Céline · Answer

If I was into her, yes.

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

No. I'm a person of few words so I need a chatterbox SO to keep the conversation going

LuWe22 · Answer

Nope. Talk to me. Tell me about yourself. And joke and flirt with me. If I have to force you to talk where is the fun?

Anonymous · Answer

I always said no but ironically I’ve started to fall for someone with this problem.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

depends on how few of words they use cuz if they can't say much I feel they are not my type

Hurdleez-Swampede · Answer

No. I want a woman who knows how to carry conversation.

spartan55 · Answer

Last night it was Miss Humorless... now it's the Low Talker. 😁

Bismarck_96 · Answer

If she’s this kind of quiet (🔪🔫) then I would 🙌🏻

chico800 · Answer

I'm one myself, so I'd rather not. Someone has to do the talking.

PeacefulRainDrop · Answer

Yes that be far less bullshit

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Yeah. Stupid people tend to talk a lot of nothing.

the_face_of_god · Answer

No, I'm straight. Women never shut up.

ZeussLightningBolt · Answer

Absolutely not I can't stand introverts

Lance1965 · Answer

Yes I could but I find silence awkward.

Gabriella90 · Answer

As long she talks when it’s important.

solbane · Answer

yep, just to listen to what they might not say

Belle_xo · Answer

Yeah i would

Anonymous · Answer

i do. he communicates through touch, and i like it

heybooitsme · Answer

nope

Wowgirl30q · Answer

Sure

ChiTown33 · Answer

Sure

DakotaNorth · Answer

Yes.

name_is_eric · Answer

That would be ideal.

BronzedAdonis · Answer

Yes.

ivanhunterjo · Answer

Yes, I would

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