When it comes to dating... Is being a VIRGIN a red flag? (Page 2)
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At a certain point, yes. If a guy was over 25 and still a virgin (not by choice) I would be turned off.
I wouldn't hold it against them. It's hard to reach that level of intimacy. I would respect it more than someone who took the easy road & banged a hooker
It would be if they were saving themselves for marriage (bc I don't plan on getting married), but other than that, it's not a big deal to me.
Nope.
I've never dated before, am a virgin and would prefer a virgin.
Same here
Lmao Dchrls78104 is a troll
@Aswanggirl 😂😂😂
Maybe if the other person is expecting sex on the first date or something. In all ages virginity was a virtue. Now with the casual sex culture it is keep away from this one, she is a virgin. But on the good side, she isn't going to have STD's or HIV either. Without the expectations of sex being in the way, she would probably be more fun too.
Very few men will confess it's their first time, most over exaggerate their sex experience. So I'd consider his honesty refreshing but I'd want to know why he held back so long
Or maybe he wasn't holding back.. maybe he just couldn't close the deal with the women he has been with.
Might be the case if she keeping her virginity too but sex isn't too hard for guys to find if they look for it
What if the guy is highly intelligent , good looking , rich , kind and people always get intimidated by him and always say you deserve someone better
@Manab Also true and sad. And for those dishonest males, maybe he is to shy to tell it or feel "low-ordered" or intimidated by others being a virgin in that high age.
Does it matter? Yes
Is it everything? No
Is it a red flag? Depends on the girl and how she views you.
If she thinks you would of had sex, but couldn't then it will be seen as a red flag. Because maybe other girls saw something she missed about you. If she thinks you've just decided to remain a virgin or invested your time elsewhere. She may feel you're uptight, but it won't be a redflag.
Not a red flag for me. I would just be curious to know why and how can a women be a virgin around 30+
So would many people.
No. I was 18 when I lost my virginity and EVERYONE in my family constantly talked about it but I didn't think anything of it. People are all different. Some people never have sex. Some people don't have sex the first time until their late 20s or 30s. No red flag to me
If you're a woman it's seen as like some stupid "purity and moderation" thing, so it's actually seen as a positive.
If you're a man, it signals to other women that since no woman picked you yet, you're probably not worth picking. Some men say women can "smell" virginity, but I find that women are usually just superficial and playing to probability. My advice is just to avoid talking about it. Don't lie, but no need to tell her.
I swear to god, woman are picky as hell. No wonder birthrates are declining
I could not resist upvoting you 😀😀😀😂😂😂
And no wonder there are kissless virgin guys way in their 20s.
Hpyergamy ladies
Hypergamy*
@up_64 What the f? She is really right about it. Adopting more than ever had an own child given birth to. Reminds me always for #Idiocracy.
@up_64 Ah, never mind. I misunderstood your comment.
That would indicate that they are religious and that religion is important to them. That would be the red flag for me. As I am not religious. Now if they close to my age, a virgin, but religion is not important. Then I would be interested to know why they are holding out? I don't think I will meet anyone like that. And if I do, and everything clicks and she checks all of the necessary boxes. Then intamacy will fall into place as well. (eventually).
If I were dating, being a virgin would make her more attractive.
When you reach a certain age, like 30, at first it would be weird. It's kind of suspicious. But if they explain to me it's cause they're waiting till marriage, they don't feel ready, etc. I'd understand.
It is understandable. I'm dating such a woman, she will be 29 when I visit her the first time. :-)
Why would it be? It’s their body, they have a right to decide who enters and who... um... exits?😂
I really need writing skills
Excuse getting this straight, "enters"?
I hope it's not. Because I'm a virgin and if it is a red flag, I'll have to join the Forever Alone club! 😅
Good luck and don't turn desperate! I was that a a bit and ended up cheated by a hooker. :-(
Aw friend I'm sorry that happened. Thank you, I'll be careful. 🙂
Yes, thank you.
No. I am Virgin and just waiting for right time. Jut because I went through lot of shitty relationships. I kept my virginity for my until the right guy come along.
If a person has kept his/her virginity, its respectable.
And would sure love to date one. Dating is not always about romancing, its also about knowing a person.
No.
I don't have a preference at all. I never judge anyone based on their virginity. Everyone have their reasons and lifestyle.
Yes. It's a big red flag because:
1. apparently nobody else wants to fuck her either.
2. she's got weird religious views concerning marriage, sex & abstinence.
3. she's been waiting for her white knight to come along & you're it.
1. Not true, every woman can get laid. They just have a low self-esteem.
2. True, these reasons are stupid enough, denying sexuality to a human but raping children.
3. That is also some true with some humans (both sexes). They should come over it and fix it.
So, being a red-flag, is depending on the woman's (for us males) personality and reason why she stayed virgin for a long time. I don't see it as red-flag when she has good reasons, like not falling in love with males who are overly polygamous, not open with their emotions and not into licking pussy.