What do you think about easy-to-get girls?

[Skyler_]

I consider myself as easy to get. I’m usually the one who makes the first move and ask the boys I like out. But I’m not sure if it’s a turn-off cuz maybe I’m TOO easy to get

What do you think about easy-to-get girls?

[Anonymous]

It's a mix. It's a turn off if you are looking for a relationship. But a turn on if you are looking for a hookup or something along that line. If a girl is to easy it makes a guy think he can get what he wants out of her easily, in most cases that is sex. And guys like easy sex. But in doing so you don't go through the phases of building attraction so the guy doesn't actually have any interest in you for a relationship. And odds are if you give up sex early he will never see you as relationship material, just someone he can turn to for easy sex.

[StephenCF]

I wish I knew more girls like you, Skyler_ 😓 Though I like a challenge in most things, desperate times in the field of romance call for desperate measures, & I could do with easy girls to get started, because the hard-to-get ones just won’t give in to me

[Skyler_]

Awww hope u find someone who is right 4 u x

[electroon]

I just started to make the first moves on guys, and from what I understand, guys still like the chase. But it shouldn't stop you from making the first move.. if you truly want a quick answer, ask away and be clear. I think guys like the chase, but not games.

[sarahburberryy]

You are just a dope, confident , open-minded woman. U ARE SUPER WOMAN.. There u have it :p LOL

[Skyler_]

Oh wow thx😅

[PrincessGrail]

Don't be too easy or they won't like you as anything more than a hookup

[JonRock]

I would prefer this personally. It gets tiring having women expect me to constantly dominate them or 'take control' this is probably based simply on my appearance which is tall and muscular but it's only superficial and shouldn't always be Interpreted as me being the aggresso. So yeah do what you do and enjoy your youth.

[SarahsSummer]

well, guys do tend to enjoy the thrill of the chase to some extent so there's that. Plus many guys tend to be insecure and are thrown off as to why a woman may pursue them. That said, If I like someone and he hasn't made a move, I will.

[Luzonensis]

Perfect way that.

[Dri11]

I think it's good cause it also means that you're maybe the type of girl which voices stuff that you like or you don't like. Personally I'm quite laid back in terms of relationship cause I don't want to mess up with anything. I like easy to get girls Aude they will communicate with you and it makes relationship less confusing.

[MusicMayhem]

Depends on the context that you meet them though I've usually found they were either desperate for dick and ghosted you after getting what they wanted, or had undesirable qualities about them, hence why they had to take an active role in pursuing guys cause the guys wouldn't take an interest in them otherwise.

[CherryRoseChampange]

I think you're more down to earth than necessarily "easy." When I think easy girls, I think girls who will fall for anybody with a nice smile and takes whatever comes to them. And I'm sure you have standards, just because someone's nice doesn't mean they're always fit for you.

So simple stuff like that, I think you have that kind of common sense. Therefore, I'm gonna just call what you have down to earth and upfront.

[No_Archons]

Easy to get, easy to lose.

Those who are interested in investing long term into a relationship will probably not be interested in investing in you. Honestly, whatever guys you end up with will probably be not so serious and kind of the pump n dump types.

If one is planning to spend the rest of their life with only one person, it makes sense to not be easy to get

[dmmmmm01888]

Men get bored once they get them because there is really no chase. It's never good to appear desperate nor is it good to appear stuck up or not interested. I believe it's best to just be yourself and if they can't accept you for you, well then, they are not worth it then.

[Pulimuli]

I love them and they are the only ones i get with. If they play hard to get ill just assume they aren't interested and move on with my life.

If you want to be with someone you shouldn't make it difficult

[Dolemite510]

It depends, if a girl Is going out with a new guy every night of the week and she puts out super quick with every guy then that’s kind of trashy. But if she has the occasional date where she doesn’t wanna waste time and wants to get laid that’s perfectly reasonable.

[puppycheese]

Personally, I like that in a girl. Someone who is upfront about what they want and doesn't play games. If the girl acts like she's not into me than I'm not going to ask her anywhere because I would feel like I'd be bothering her. If you were going to ask a guy out there is nothing wrong with that. A girl asked me out before in college and I thought it was awesome until she didn't show to the movie.

[Luzonensis]

Great as long as you don't switch it up on the same guy.. leaves us confused with mixed signals.

[Jaffacakemucher]

It is definitely a turn on the girl asking the guy out. I'd be really into that. But sometimes it might be a slight turn off if it is too easy

[Secret6620]

No offense to you I just don't respect them. I feel like it makes guys think that all girls are easy and we are not.

[crazy8000]

Only go for female's that are like that. the rest is low quality for me.
Life is to short to play games be close hearted, scared for feelings.

[TheSikuu]

The right guy won't give a shit.
I think it's pretty cool that you're willing to make the first move.

[Alyssa_K]

Honestly, it makes us women look bad and men will think that all women are easy to get, which I know some of us are not, some girls are very smart nowadays.

[JohnAlaska43]

I dont really think they exist. They are as hard as hard to get girls. If we guys can't fullfill their needs they aren't at all easy.

[Unit1]

That's my personal preference. No beating around the bush. No stupid games. No time wasted and just straight to the point.

"Hi! Wanna go on a date?"
"Sure! Let's go"

Win-Win!

[I-Wondoer]

You are perfet, you just go for what you want without all those my games.