This is entirely within your control
1. Stop looking under rocks! I'm a VERY nice guy! I may not be the best-looking guy in the world, although I've heard a number of women say I'm good-looking! Well, if that's the case, why am I not surrounded by women every day? Why is it I've spent nearly al my life completely alone? Women have told me hundreds of times in the past 30 to 40 years that they're looking for the exact kind of guy I am! Sweet, affectionate, kind, caring, loving, romantic, helpful, funny, smart, talented, etc., but EVERY SINGLE TIME, they go after some pretty boy that treats them like shit and beats the hell out of them, then they come to ME and cry on MY shoulder about how he mistreats her!! I don't mind helping her though this "crisis" at al but, they never listen to my advice and, even if they do, (leave him), guess where they go? CERTAINLY not into MY arms!! They find ANOTHER abusive pretty boy!!! And the whole pattern starts all over again!! "There must be something WRONG with me that I keep ending up with assholes instead of the nice guys that I want!" Yeah, there IS!! And I've heard PLENTY of WOMEN say THIS: IT'S THAT YOU CAN'T SEE THE GOOD ONES WHEN THEY'RE RIGHT UNDER YOUR VERY NOSE!!!Just because it's a pretty package doesn't mean its contents are gonna be good!! And vice versa!! It works that way for guys, too! I just heard yesterday about a guy that married a beautiful girl and she ruined his entire life by lying her ass off telling everyone he raped her when he did no such thing!!2. I just said that in my comment above.3. They all want Prince Charming but end up choosing the evil Black Knight.4. See numbers 1 and 3.
Thank you for your reply to my comment and putting in effort in your reply. I know it must have taken time. But look I have no answers for you. Everyone is different and both genders can go through rejection, being alone and having to go through painful things. I wish I can say do x or do y or change things for you but sadly, I cannot 😢
That's okay, I didn't expect you to.Take care!!
You may not like what he has to say but it holds truth
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Do U think my boyfriend was attracted to me?
@PrincessJasmindaaa: I assume he was, or he would not be your boyfriend
I thought I had miss right, too, but after 5 of our 10 years together, she started to show her true colours. Sadly, it took the rest of that 10 years for me to find out exactly what was going on!! Not only had she been lying to me and stealing from me, she was also cheating on me!! So much for loyalty and implicit trust!! That was 18 years ago. I've been alone ever since. NOT because I haven't been trying!!
Literally this lol
@YvanKarma thanks man
It's not very comforting to know that someone would settle for you just because you have a hole.
It has to be the right hole. Haha! Not just any hole.Dudes have holes. I wouldn’t go after a dude.It have to be the special magical hole.With all the right qualities.But serious. Dudes are easy. Yes, some just want the hole. Some want all the holes.
you're an idiot, you don't even know what the word means
Do u think my boyfriend was attracted to me?
Yeah... he must have
what is ur pfp 💀
My profile picture is pfp
Come on! You're at a sexy weight.
@Twenty2 omg you can’t see the big belly lol
Nope! Can't see any belly
@Twenty2 check out my posts
Lol your done talking to me now that you saw my belly huh
I am talking to you on your question.
@Twenty2 lol see
@Twenty2 be honest you wouldn’t date a girl with a belly like this
Maybe I would! I am more into chubby myself so I just might.
@Twenty2 well you seem to be treating me different since seeing my weight gain
I didn't treat you differently. I said you were at sexy weight before, now I think you have sexy boobs because of that sexy weight so you're still sexy.
@Twenty2 well what about my big belly I have now
I dont care about it! It doesn't matter. I think you have made this stigma in your head that you are ugly because of your belly.
@Twenty2 well I’ve had guys poke it and say it’s gross
Everyone is different. If you treat everyone in a certain way because certain guy or guys treated you a certain way then that's wrong. Grow up!
@Twenty2 your right well if your nice to my belly then I’ll talk to u
It’s just u commented to lose weight and that made me sad
I commented because it's unhealthy. We should always try to be healthy. I personally want to be fit again. I gained some weight too. But that's unhealthy. Do I care for looks? No. But is that unhealthy? Yeah. Should I lose weight? Yeah. You're good looking. But that's unhealthy. I know that because I am the same way.
@Twenty2 well it’s the first thing u said so
@Twenty2 thanks for saying my belly is unhealthy
@Twenty2 I did grow up that’s why I’m fat
You're fat because you don't want to grow up and realize that you need to change. You want people to accept you the way that you are. You're not ready to change yourself. You just want to bitch about how this world is cruel to your belly without doing anything about it.
@Twenty2 well I want a guy that’s nice to my belly
You look beautiful even with your belly 😊
Sis girl to girl stop looking for validation from others. The only opinion that matters should be yours please don’t base your self worth off of others opinions. You’re beautiful.
@thotianaaa honestly I was thinking about losing weight before I got on here and now I’m not
do whatever makes you happy and what you thinks best :)
@thotianaaa after all the good attention I’ve gotten from this site I’m gonna stop worrying about losing weight. I gained 70 lbs in the last year and it has been bothering me but this site has helped me a lot with accepting and embracing my weight gain.
@thotianaaa nice tummy by the way
good and thanks girl :)
@thotianaaa also pof and bumble have helped too
that’s good. stay confident 💕
@thotianaaa yup guys like the extra chub
But what if guys keep looking but never approach?
Could be any number of reasons. Hard to guess without being there..
EXACTLY!! Girls have it SO easy!!! You want a guy, just go up to him and start talking. guys LOVE getting attention from girls and will probably start thinking in terms of potential romance right out of the gate!! Guys have LOADS of barriers and issues and past boyfriends and mistrust and parental and social guilt they have to plow through before they can win a girl over!!