What’s the most common reason a girl can’t get a boyfriend?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Personally, I'm 22 and I've never had a boyfriend. I've always struggled with myself and my body, been overweight and severely obese my whole life. I'm starting to emerge and get our my bubble only now after losing 50 lbs. But trust me it's not easy, I don't love myself and I find it difficult to be able to someone. I've always said that in order to have a relationship with someone you have to take care and love yourself first. I'm so used to live under my rock that I'm honestly terrified at the thought of being with someone. I once tried but it made me feel so vulnerable, I'm just so used to have my space and my own company that I don't see anyone else in my life. Sometimes I feel like an alien and tell myself it's not normal at this age but I'm not gonna force myself to date any guy just because. Plus, I've never taken any risks either. All the guys who have approached me only wanted sex and I'm not that kind of girl. I've been raised with great values by my parents, I know what I want and I will not settle for less even if that means waiting forever.

XRabbitHeartX · Accepted Answer

-looking in the wrong places -expecting men to just knock on their door and not making a effort to initiate -unrealistic expectations about romance or love  -choosing to date the wrong type of guy

Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

She lives a sheltered life and never goes out or to where single people could meet her.

She is unfriendly and isn't cordial when people try and talk to her.

People don't find her attractive.

A really obese person will have a hard time finding someone attracted to them. Their mathematical rates for potential suitors go down.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

- Demanding a higher Social Market Value guy then her own SMV.

- Isn't outgoing enough and/or doesn't make her interest known to the guy.

- Doesn't leave the house enough and go places where single men might be.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Is she actually TRYING TO or is she just sitting around waiting for Prince Charming to show up and sweep her off his feet? As far as I can tell, there's NO REASON a girl can't get a guy other than an unwillingness to try! Most guys would LOVE to have a girlfriend. It SUCKS being alone al the time!! Problem is, they're a bit too "scared" to after them because, from past experience, either the girl is already taken or just flat out doesn't like him! So, rather than get shot down AGAIN, they just don't bother. Where is it written that a girl can't try to get a guy? When my aunt & uncle were young, back in the `30's or `40's, they met at a bowling alley. She was with her friends and he was with his and they both just happened to be playing each other. She met my uncle and shortly after told her friends, "I'm gonna marry that guy!!". She went after him and got him!! They both died a few years ago in their early 90's exactly 1 year apart. Had she not tried to go after my uncle, who knows if he would've ever gotten married?
Another factor is that there are now 3 girls for every guy on the planet so, there's GONNA be twice as many single girls as there are mated girls.
Lastly, we have this insane bullshit called, "Political correctness"!! You can't even LOOK at a girl half the time without her thinking he's thinking about raping her or without her thinking he's making her out to be a sexual piece of meat! It's scaring the shit out of guys and they DON'T want to be seen r thought of as a pervert when they are CLEARLY NOT and they DON'T want to end up in court or jail just because she THINKS him saying hello to her was a perverse sexual come-on!! How would girls like it if the tables were turned?

Love2Jackit · Answer

Arrogance when a girl is stuck on herself. That's makes a guy not want 2 go out with her. Reason he knows she's going 2 be hard 2 please. Really he knows it's going 2 be all about her. Meaning you will come 2nd 2 her. Shew will always demand 2 come first.

JoseJr · Answer

Usually ask why too much out of a guy when nobody (including her) are perfect. As she wants a tall... handsome... wealthy... educated... well versed... etc etc... just unreal expectations, if the guy doesn't meet all of those are requirements then she will ignore him

yeeesh · Answer

1. She's insecure and/or looking for the wrong things
2. She has high standarts and doesn't settle for less than she deserves
3. She has unrealistic expectations. It's hard to find the line between knowing your worth and being unrealistic.
4. She's busy and/ doesn't socialise
5. It's just a coincidence, doesn't matter if she's busy or anxious, confident or insecure, maybe the right person didn't cross her way yet.

EpicDweeb · Answer

Cause she's looking for all the wrong things. Whether it be "the spark" or some idealized picture of perfection, she's looking for the wrong things and approaching a relationship poorly... that or she's so eager to find/get a boyfriend she's just really flirty and guys just see her as someone hey can't trust in a relationship.

Diana7 · Answer

I’ve been single a good while but it’s easy to find a boyfriend. The thing that’s hard is finding that special someone. So I guess as others say pickiness etc. but I’m getting older so I can’t hold out for my one true love for much longer probably. At the same time, it would destroy me to be with someone I wasn’t in love with. Rather be alone.

hellacray · Answer

Common reason?

I'd just say she's unhygienic or ugly.

Cause I've seen guys go out with girls that treat them like trash. So if you're hot, with a crappy attitude you'll still get dates.

Not so sure if you're ugly or got a funky smell with some nasty greasy hair.

Anonymous · Answer

Thinking she is a Kate Upton and only wanting to date the 'perfect' guy.
If she is rude.
If she is 'too independent' or 'hangs out with a lot of guys'
If she likes living a 'party life' because we guys like girls who listen to us sometimes and has not slept with every damn guy.

If you think you have a shitty personality improve it.
If you think it is because you are shy then it is not your fault.
Just open up a bit and let your shield down a bit so guys can approach you.

hahahmm · Answer

Not having a great persona (lity). If all you seem to offer are looks that’s a dime a dozen really. There’s always another who looks the same or better out there.

Otoh with a great personality you could have plain looks & have almost any guy.

rufurrealz · Answer

i would say... pretentious, rude, treats people like crap, never says,' thanks, thank you, im sorry, excuse me,'' things like that.

also, bad hygiene. gets around with men. STDs. that's just me, though.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

If she is too opinionated or if she has unrealistic expectations. Gets mad if things aren't "just so" to her liking.

Riggers · Answer

Shit personality, even 1/10s can date 5-10+ guys a month if they wanted to.

Glue-Sniffer · Answer

She is not approachable and has her shields up all the time. Most of the times unconsciously without ever noticing it.

Anonymous · Answer

Overly high standards probably.
Or lack of self confidence.
Even if a girl is unattractive there's always tons of unattractive guys that want love too.
Or even attractive guys who may have a fetish for her depending on her body.

needhelp777 · Answer

Maybe if she truly doesn't love him  Like if she wants his money or just using him

boggboss · Answer

Bad personality too shy bad reputation waits for Prince charming

Finchie40 · Answer

Her personality is crap , has a resting bitch face lol

cavmanier · Answer

I think it's a combo of not meeting enough people for the expectations she has.

stormbreaker06 · Answer

She rejected good men and is looking for a bad boy. But won't admit it because she is going through her own insecurities. So when she dates a bad boy she can blame him for the way she is.

Logorithim · Answer

Bad personality

SEXslave1 · Answer

Believe me. If a woman truly wants a guy she would have one. Dudes are hungry dogs look for fresh meat. Guys are easy. If she is single it is probably by choice.

Anonymous · Answer

Standards are too high. She might be an average 5 out of 10 girl but expects to get a guy who's 8-9 out of 10.

Anonymous · Answer

Physically unattractive  Overweight Looks unclean or like she doesn't take care of herself Gives off unapproachable vibes

SexyAshh · Answer

If she's ugly and dosnt make up for it with a good personality

LuWe22 · Answer

She is very insecure and acts that way. If a cute guy looks her way she quickly looks away. If a guy walks up to her she walks away.

Anonymous · Answer

If they make no effort on there end to get guys and wonder why guys don’t ever ask them out.

Massageman · Answer

Because she acts like a snotty-nosed, creep who thinks she's entitled to everything.

genericname85 · Answer

cause they think sitting around and waiting is all it needs.

whitehide · Answer

Some are looking for prince Charming, but he'd probably never settle for them

BeHappy1985 · Answer

1) She is ugly. 2) She is fat. 3) She is fat and ugly. 4) She wants more than she has to offer.  5) She is crazy.

melodking · Answer

If she's ugly If she has a bad attitude If she doesn't want one

Hawky_ · Answer

Too self absorbed. A lot of girls suffer with that..

Anonymous · Answer

All she has to be is a feminists. No one wants to be with a man hating ass bitch

bulletbob555 · Answer

Bad attitude, unrealistic expectations. Looks aren't a factor except for who you end up with.

ForbesMagazine · Answer

Self-absorbed, a jerk, or just a shitty personality in general.

MedicalAdventure · Answer

I run away from girls who get angry for everything and are selfish

GayHowellMeme · Answer

The most common reason is that she has too small breasts

Anonymous · Answer

Bad personality makes her unapproachable or unpleasant to be with.

Anonymous · Answer

Bad attitude and ugly, doesn’t play well with others

Secret6620 · Answer

She is emotionally unavailable 🖤

Miss_Savanna_Dry · Answer

Being controlling from the start

little_bird1 · Answer

Not attractive enough.

VaIiant · Answer

Horrible personality.

PrudentGuy · Answer

1) too uptight 2) too desperate

ecfresh · Answer

Her physical appearance

imgudluv · Answer

She's not making the first move

Sweatyotterr · Answer

Does that even happen

Browneye57 · Answer

Cuz she's a cunt. Seriously.

Anonymous · Answer

She is anti social... most likely.

DirectMitch · Answer

Because she's a lesbian

DDpsy · Answer

She's fat, ugly and mean.

Amr000gt · Answer

🤔 maybe because she doesn't want to 🤷‍♂️

Clarke498 · Answer

Looks, and a bitchy attitude?

Hikamika · Answer

For me it’s my weight

normalice · Answer

not attractive

Anonymous · Answer

Her expectations are way too high

poko11 · Answer

doesn't go out to meet people

lrichl · Answer

Her looks.

Anonymous · Answer

Reason #1: She's a psycho, self-absorbed bitch.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe needs to change her personality a bit

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