Guys, men getting dressed and leaving bedroom immediately after sex?

Xper 4 Age: 42

Just wondering why if a guy says he wants to date with potential relationship (not a casual thing) why would he just immediately get dressed and leave bedroom back to the tv or something straight after sex instead of laying, cuddling and talking getting to know the girl more and building a bond? Wouldn't you want to build a bond and maybe have a second round? What kind of men do this? I'm curious as if a guy does this to me I immediately freak out thinking i was used for sex and I want him to leave and I block his phone number and ghost him. ESPECIALLY if the sex was quick and all about getting his own interests met and not mine. I'm wondering basically was the guy only after sex or just not an affectionate type?

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Xper 6 Age: 23

+1 y

It’s the busy season at the business factory, maybe. Or he’s the guy who cries after sex?

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- Belleevans
  
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  no and no. the last one sat on my couch for an hr before leaving. without any affection. I was in shock at what just happened
  
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- Azazeres
  
  +1 y
  Man, that’s fucking heavy. A lot of dudes are just shit nowadays though. Doesn’t mean the good ones don’t exist.
  
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- Azazeres
  
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  To answer (one of) your question (s), it’s a shitty man who’d do that.
  
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- Belleevans
  
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  ok thanks so it's not just me over reacting then. thankyou. maybe he just pretended to want to date me to get sex. he denied the allegations but now you say that i think im right.
  
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