Nope. It's only about 10% in young men. That number rises in 40-50 year old men, but typically it's still less than half of guys in relationships/mirage.
I am not fussed about sex that much so me dropping my girlfriend for someone hotter wouldn't really make any sense since all i care about is personality and my love for them.
No. Some of us actually experienced how it feels when the parents try to hide that the relationship is gone. And slowly explain to us on what will happen... during the separation. The ones that have felt that will remember that and have to make that "decision" when they get the chance to cheat. When I get the chance to cheat, I will remember what it did to my parents. And reflect on how my parents ruined my childhood. And how it will ruined my childrens life, if I make the wrong decision.
Imagine this: you are in a relationship or married, all happy, good, sex is great, love is in the air, awesome. Then you go on a long business trip by yourself somewhere very far away, and by chance meet this beautiful, interesting woman who wants to sleep with you for one night. She is also very persistent in seducing you, doing it practically perfect. You know 100% that if you go for it no one will ever find out and you will never see her again, it goes with you to your grave. Okay, you imagined that? If you are human, you would get at least a little turned on and would think the offer is tempting. It will just be one night of good pleasure, not much different then jerking off to porn. No one will know. And it doesn't mean that you don't love your partner or that anything between the two of you will change. Why would you turn the offer down? Unless you want to prove something to yourself (like a protestant, you know when they protest to eat, they don't eat even when no one is watching because they want to prove something and they want results and hope that things will change if they suffer and end up in hospital because they are starving). There should absolutely be no reason to turn it down. There are only three reasons why people don't cheat: 1. Afraid to get caught and hurt/lose their partner 2. Afraid to catch feelings and want more of it (afraid they won't feel the same for their partner anymore) 3. Not attracted to a person making advances
Well in this case you can dismiss all three reasons. You can fuck the shit of that woman and go back to your partner as if nothing happened, living happily ever after.
What about my pride? What about that reason? I think men lick the floor women walk on way too much! So if I cheat on my girl I would be letting myself get influenced by her women charm! I refuse to let that happen! As a men I have too much pride for that. I would also be breaking a promisse I made to my girl? Is that all my word in worth now? Is that all I am worth? Nah! I would lose my pride, my honour, my self respect and most importantly the love of the woman I asked to marry me!
It has nothing to do with loyalty. Loyalty is when someone is expecting something from you. The beautiful paradox is that it can't hurt them if they don't know. If you really love them, that night would mean nothing to you and it would mean nothing to them either if they don't know. Loyalty at its finest.
If I really am loyal then I will stay loyal even if she never found out. Being loyal is not just when someone is looking. That is the opposite of loyalty.
I've never thought of cheating but tbh I've never had the chance, but I've made the right chouce through many hard temptations and i know i would be able to make the right one on something like that too.
Someone I know was cheated on by their wife of 5 years. He had young kids with this woman. Ruined his whole life. Happened to 3 other people I know too. Do all women cheat given the opportunity?
Once married, forever married, that'a my rule... I'll never cheat even if no one knew... No need to cheat when a girl loves her man from all her heart... I'll always be loyal!
I would never cheat on my boyfriend. When you're really in love with someone you don't have the desire to cheat. I've never even fantasized about other men because I love him.
Yes all men would cheat. The issue you're having is you're using a female metric to judge men. Men dont really have a "dream girl" mentality. Yes we want hot women but having new hot women is better
It depends on his level of honor and the status of his current relationship. If he’s not happy with his current relations and a hot girl comes along showing interest hard to say no to that.
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Nope. It's only about 10% in young men. That number rises in 40-50 year old men, but typically it's still less than half of guys in relationships/mirage.
*50-60s
Of course not.
I don't see the point in cheating if i am ready to settle down with a person i love and if i didn't love her i wouldn't be with her.
I am not fussed about sex that much so me dropping my girlfriend for someone hotter wouldn't really make any sense since all i care about is personality and my love for them.
No. Some of us actually experienced how it feels when the parents try to hide that the relationship is gone. And slowly explain to us on what will happen... during the separation.
The ones that have felt that will remember that and have to make that "decision" when they get the chance to cheat. When I get the chance to cheat, I will remember what it did to my parents. And reflect on how my parents ruined my childhood. And how it will ruined my childrens life, if I make the wrong decision.
All these guys are saying no because they didn't have an opportunity.
I believe 9/10 would, same for women. We are terrible creatures.
You are wrong. We are loyal for the most part.
@ThisIsMyOpinion You know that's a lie, lol.
Imagine this: you are in a relationship or married, all happy, good, sex is great, love is in the air, awesome. Then you go on a long business trip by yourself somewhere very far away, and by chance meet this beautiful, interesting woman who wants to sleep with you for one night. She is also very persistent in seducing you, doing it practically perfect. You know 100% that if you go for it no one will ever find out and you will never see her again, it goes with you to your grave.
Okay, you imagined that? If you are human, you would get at least a little turned on and would think the offer is tempting. It will just be one night of good pleasure, not much different then jerking off to porn. No one will know. And it doesn't mean that you don't love your partner or that anything between the two of you will change.
Why would you turn the offer down?
Unless you want to prove something to yourself (like a protestant, you know when they protest to eat, they don't eat even when no one is watching because they want to prove something and they want results and hope that things will change if they suffer and end up in hospital because they are starving). There should absolutely be no reason to turn it down.
There are only three reasons why people don't cheat:
1. Afraid to get caught and hurt/lose their partner
2. Afraid to catch feelings and want more of it (afraid they won't feel the same for their partner anymore)
3. Not attracted to a person making advances
Well in this case you can dismiss all three reasons. You can fuck the shit of that woman and go back to your partner as if nothing happened, living happily ever after.
What about my pride?
What about that reason?
I think men lick the floor women walk on way too much! So if I cheat on my girl I would be letting myself get influenced by her women charm! I refuse to let that happen! As a men I have too much pride for that.
I would also be breaking a promisse I made to my girl? Is that all my word in worth now? Is that all I am worth? Nah!
I would lose my pride, my honour, my self respect and most importantly the love of the woman I asked to marry me!
It has nothing to do with loyalty. Loyalty is when someone is expecting something from you. The beautiful paradox is that it can't hurt them if they don't know. If you really love them, that night would mean nothing to you and it would mean nothing to them either if they don't know. Loyalty at its finest.
If I really am loyal then I will stay loyal even if she never found out. Being loyal is not just when someone is looking. That is the opposite of loyalty.
Its possible, not all guys cheat. But an unfortunate number do
Loyalty is important to me. I don't care if she's my dream girl and there's 6 or her. If you don't have loyalty you ain't got shit.
I've never thought of cheating but tbh I've never had the chance, but I've made the right chouce through many hard temptations and i know i would be able to make the right one on something like that too.
Someone I know was cheated on by their wife of 5 years. He had young kids with this woman. Ruined his whole life. Happened to 3 other people I know too. Do all women cheat given the opportunity?
Once married, forever married, that'a my rule...
I'll never cheat even if no one knew...
No need to cheat when a girl loves her man from all her heart...
I'll always be loyal!
Nah, I wouldn't. I'd be extremely tempted and most likely turned on, but I value my honor, morals and principles above all else.
But no mean do all mean cheat if given the opportunity. If that were the case, then almost all men would cheat over and over and over again.
If you ask a question like this with the word "all" in it, the answer is almost always no.
Very few men cheat.
Self experiences are a small selection of the entire population.
I don’t understand that phrase “all men cheat” because man can only cheat with a woman, right? So if all men cheat then that means all women cheat
I would never cheat on my boyfriend. When you're really in love with someone you don't have the desire to cheat. I've never even fantasized about other men because I love him.
As a man who hasn't cheated just because I was given the opportunity on multiple occasions. I'll have to say No. Not all men do that.
Oh please, learn about men before asking silly questions.
I'm really sorry that happened to your mom and traumatized you but it's definitely possible to find someone who wouldn't cheat on you
I would not, no. I've had more than a few chances to help women step out on their men before. These were HOT women too, like the kinds men drool over.
Yes all men would cheat. The issue you're having is you're using a female metric to judge men. Men dont really have a "dream girl" mentality. Yes we want hot women but having new hot women is better
It depends on his level of honor and the status of his current relationship. If he’s not happy with his current relations and a hot girl comes along showing interest hard to say no to that.