Is it reasonable to be depressed if you can’t get laid or a girlfriend?

[Raven_II]

Especially if you are attracted to her, and find her cute. Basically if you are not good enough for that, would that depress you?

[Passinggas]

As soon as I realize something is out of reach I move on to the next. Love sick attraction infatuation is nature's built in mental disorder that is trying to force you to do something that is not in your current capacity and thus in will cause internal turmoil that leads to depression. The key here is “current” because you are highly dynamic and ever changing so that if you move on and focus on other things this girl of your obsession might someday come to you but by then you won’t care about her anymore.

[burlen]

Of course it is reasonable to be depressed when things are not going in the way you want.

Everyone experienced some form of depression. Depression becomes a problem when it interferes with your life, especially in the long-term.

Understand that nobody can make you good or bad enough, only you can. There is always somebody for everyone. You just need to keep your head high and searching for that special one who will treasure you for who you are.

[Raven_II]

I drink alcohol every night just to cope

[burlen]

Do you think alcohol is the solution to depression? Do you know alcohol provides a temporal escape from the depression, and does not solve the underlying problem you are facing?

[BrookieCookie0422]

I have felt depressed for that reason. I think it is reasonable. But it doesn’t mean you need prescriptions or therapy sessions. You need a change in your life.

[Raven_II]

You’ve felt that way? Why? Do you maybe wanna talk in PM?

[Annexo16]

It might make you upset but you won’t be literally depressed. If that’s what you’re asking.

[Raven_II]

I am depressed because of it.

[Annexo16]

Feeling sad and being depressed are completely different.

[SexyAshh]

Id assume yes. But you're probably shooting too far above your league.. like most guys do

[Raven_II]

I don’t think I am. I personally think I am an attractive guy.

[SexyAshh]

Well you may not have the confidence to match

[the_imperfectionist]

Yup, people get depressed for less anyways.

[GuidoThePizzaMaker]

I dont let stuff like that effect me anymore. It might bum out a younger me.
You need to channel those feelings into something positive. Those feelings of desire are good!
But dont let it guide you somewhere bad.

Make a list of what your short comings are.
For me it was
Not having a job
Not having a car
Not having my own place

It took me 1 year to get all those things and I got a girl no problem! Be patient, you are 18, just start working and grinding right now. so by 23 you will be slaying!

[Raven_II]

I have a car and a job

[GuidoThePizzaMaker]

You missed the whole point. Good luck kid.

[TripleAce]

Ya it's normal... I mean you have to understand that say in 5 years... I guarantee it not something you'll even remember or think much about

its always that way, right now it seems like its you whole world... it seems like things will never get better
They do, you will completely heal from this

[Fanme]

People can get depressed over anything. But there's no point really.

[WintersDaughter]

You can be sad, but not depressed.

That situation is depressing though. Talk to her, see if she likes you.

[Raven_II]

No it’s over. It doesn’t matter I am ready to give up on life

[WintersDaughter]

Well, don't do that. There's plenty of women you can get with.

[Raven_II]

I really can’t. I have already attempted suicide so I don’t care anymore

[Raven_II]

I am not good enough for any girl I have accepted it now.

[Mädchen]

Depression is an illness. You could be hugh hefner and still be depressed. Reason and logic don't have much to do with it.

[Hans222]

Yes but only temporarily, life is life and love needs to come from 2 sides.
There's a good chance that next week you'll meet someone and there'll be a mutual click.

[Lilypad1223]

No, there is more to life than getting laid. You’re putting the Pussy on a pedestal.

[Raven_II]

I still wanna have sex though

[Lilypad1223]

Being depressed isn’t going to make you more desirable. Either make a move or find someone else that’s more interested in you.

[Raven_II]

“Make a move”

I’ll pass. I’m done. I am just gonna give up and accept I am not attractive enough.

[Lilypad1223]

That’s probably not you’re problem. You just need to be confident, even unattractive people get into relationships. Giving up is not the solution.

[Sweatyotterr]

Means you are a desperate fool guys need to quit putting women on pedestals there is more to life the pussy quit letting women control your mind it’s pathetic

[Gosselinfan]

Guys need to stop thinking with their dicks

[Sweatyotterr]

@Gosselinfan I just hate how men like this give girls validation, guys just need to get a damn pocket pussy they sell em at Spencer’s

[apple24]

Nope. You should think about yourself not on getting laid. But if it really cripples you hire a prositute.

[spesh]

i dunno what depression is, im guessing some kind of sad feeling where u wanna kill urself?

[spesh]

i wouldn't know because i never have feelings or emotions, im jus going by what people tell me about it and what i read online

[Gosselinfan]

Honestly for me, guys who just want to get laid are unattractive there’s more to a girl than just getting laid

[spesh]

like what? her shitty personality? yeah right... no girl has a good personality they're all shit, and personalitys suck anyway, why would u wanna talk to someone? thats boring,
sex is the best thing a girl can offer

[spesh]

excuse the guy for being realistic and admitting what most guys won't, that he only wants a girl for sex, im telling u thts the only thing any guy wants from a girl,
its jus the 1s who seem like they dont or say they dont are jus pretending and saying that to seem more deep and likeable, u know why? so they can get in ur pants easier

[ROCKS128]

These days any major or minor reason is possible to depress someone.

[zagor]

Not if is because just one girl you like wants nothing to do with you. Find another one.

[AuroraRoseat]

Nope. more fish in the sea/

[rmjay84]

You're only 18. So i think not.

[Gosselinfan]

I agree you’re too young to really understand life and love

[coolbreeze]

Yes it's possible