Why are some of the hottest women single?

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lernulo · Accepted Answer

Wooooaaaaa what a double morality see here...

Two days ago, I saw a post which said... Why there aren't single guys good.
And all said, if he doesn't get a girl, it's because he isn't good..
Now, we see that if a hot girl is single, it's because men aren't able to approach her...

Can I laugh a bit?

OK, said it, I will give you the same list I have wroten on the other place, but with differences for the part of the question.

1. She could have been work focused and didn't give time to dating.
2. May be she doesn't believe on single pair, and prefer sporadic relations.
3. She may have had bad experiences and hasn't passed them yet
4. May be she has high standards (instead of good standards) and any man looks good to her
5. May be she is on an environment which doesn't allow her to have social life
6. May be she delayed too much the compromise
7. May be she used the single until 30 theory, and after she weren't able to love
8. May be she has something really disgusting

To the answer, are there good women single to 30 answer is yes, of course, to the question why are they still single, it includes the fault on her factor.

Its the difference.

Didi1337 · Accepted Answer

Imo: guys like to rank things for some reason, and those without confidence often dont dare go for "higher ranked women". 2. Personality has soooooo much to say, and no offense to beautifull women out there. But the prettiest have more insecure or bitchy attitude, then those a bit more average. From my perspective and experience, its usualy the normal looking girls that are most down to earth and happy, but if we go to girls feeling like they look bad its quite changing. Some are super bitchy cos they kinda hate life and them selves. Some are super kind, often cos they have been bullied or been trough stuff that made them learn how much a nice attitude can do for a person, even on daily basis. But then again, personality is what, 50% surroundings, 50% how we are born right? Something like that. But also what you think is the "hottest" someone else thinks is "ugly". So it all depends on the person watching as well. I've never cared much about looks, tho i do prefer a more natural look, no makeup kinda thing. But I've been with all kinds of girls, popular and unpopular, big and small, skinny and fat. Only thing i care about is 2 things. 1. Personality. 2. If i got feelings for the person or not.

AlienParasite · Accepted Answer

1. She's focused in career so she doesn't have time to date even if she tried
2. She doesn't have good personality or skills to be proud of and her looks don't compensate her lacks and flaws
3. Her personality is not that bad but the main flaw is that she doesn't often hang out or do activities, or that she's either too shy or has social phobia. It's hard to meet someone who's most of the time at home.
4. There's the possibility she's not that hot.
5. There's the possibility she's so hot to make many guys feel she's out of their league or that she already has to be with someone.
6. She fears commitment.
7. She doesn't like commitment.
8. She's lesbian and has a bit more struggle to date.
9. Nobody seems good enaugh yet. She has high standards and prefers to be single than lower them, specially if she's aware she can do better due to good looks.
10. She lacks of interest in sex or any relationship (so called asexual behavior).
11. She doesn't want to date because she has had bad experiences in the past and prefer to be single.

I think that, if we want, we can think of some other possible scenarios, but it's enaugh with the ones I mentioned.

btbc92 · Accepted Answer

They are single because people judge them harshly for being 'hot'. They're human like everybody else, and many assume they're taken when it is not true. That their whores, when it may NOT be true. Or they get hit on all the time and it scares away other men. Which is NOT ALWAYS THEIR FAULT. They always get the short end of the stick most of the time. And the guys are often shallow anyway. There are bad girls and there are good girls. Not every girl that is 'hot' is bad, slutty or taken. These guys don't bother to get to know these girls. They just judge. And then get upset when she finally does get somebody, but then he's supposedly less attracted than her and him combined.

Logorithim · Answer

It's either (very) temporary or they haven't been approached by men who meet some very lofty standards.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I would say - they enjoy their freedom and don't want to be tied down because they view the interaction as a heavy sacrifice and not just as a pleasurable experience.

anniisa · Answer

High standards because they already know they're pretty good looking to begin with and expect more.

JackSmy · Answer

I think that it is because most guys are intimidated by their 'social status' and the perception that they are 'HOT'.
Doesn't bother me!! I have talked with many, that I saw most avoid, because she was 'TOO HOT'. All the guys just stop, as I approach, because I came to the bar, near her for a drink, and I see her, and say 'hello'. Physical beauty and 'hotness' isn't any big deal to me, and I don't care, and I am not interested in dating her, or anything! I just talk to her, because I am there, and she seems lonely, and nobody is talking to her. Sometimes it is a 20 minute conversation, other times, just a few minutes, but it FREAKS out my guy friends! :)
She's a person, like anyone else!! I talk to her, like a person!

simplyaramdomgirl · Answer

Most of the time it's for one of three reasons.
1. She likes being single and doesn't want to be tied down by a relationship. She has many guys around her and she doesn't want to be exclusive to just one.
2. She has emotional baggage that she hasn't dealt with. She's not over an ex, a guy toyed with her, etc. and she isn't ready for someone new.
3. She is afraid to put herself out there. Many girls say that they aren't interested in dating or that no guy is up to her standards because they're terrified of getting hurt. It takes someone very brave to show their true self and feelings to someone else. Some people are either too scared to do so or don't even know how to do it.

stayceee · Answer

1st we are single by choice. If I am single and I get approached all the time. It’s because I have trust issues with men, I’ve had my heart broken very bad and I am scared having to deal with that again, I understand not all men or women are the same but until a men shows me different my point of view will change. So far the guys I’ve met and gone out on dates have seem to be so nice towards the beginning until they want sex!! Once that’s given it’s like thank you! See ya when I see ya. So I’m not dealing with that. You either act like a grown man and stop the high school games.

Anonymous · Answer

Because why have 1 boyfriend when you can have dozens. Being an attractive woman means constant male attention. Attractive women get asked out on dates often, receive gifts often, they always have someone to talk to or keep them company, and there’s always some guy who wants to have sex with them. I’m not even hot, but back when I was single I was being wined and dined by a different man every day. It’s a fun carefree lifestyle. You don’t have to pay for anything and you get to just enjoy yourself. I didn’t get into a relationship for a while until I met my boyfriend. He was the only one I actually had a real emotional connection with. So I traded my dozens of lovers for a real emotional connection with one guy.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Possibly because:
1. They know that they are "hot", so it makes them vain and conceited and leads them to treat any man they come across like a lump of dung. Men get the message and avoid them.
2. The reality is that what is pretty costs a lot to maintain; and in today's economic and social climate, no man has the time, the patience, or the resources for it.
3. Being conscious of their figure, they may want to keep it for as long as possible and a relationship with a man would involve sex which would tie them down and change their figures forever, especially if they get pregnant; so they choose not to be with any man.

HomoFuge · Answer

Multiple reasons:
1) They haven't found someone they genuinely like yet.
2) They aren't ready for a relationship and would rather play the field.
3) They have high standards and aren't willing to lower it for any old fuckboy or creep that pays them attention.
4) They are just happy being single.

Anonymous · Answer

Because a lot of loser men are single. If you're aware you can get a high standard-man who treats you like the queen you deserve to be treated as you don't settle for some little boy who thinks McDonalds is okay for a date and who is terrified of saying what he feels and has nothing in his life together or any real hobbies. Eventually a real man does come along and yes it's worth staying single for. A real woman is also not pathetically desperate for a partner but has strength and confidence in herself.

Aidelwaish · Answer

Many factors.
1. Personal choice (brokenheart/trauma/ focus on career)

2. Unfinished personal/internal problems (family or career or ex problem. Find peace first, then open heart).

3. Sometimes being pretty doesn't mean knowing how to socialize well. Dont know how to carry themselves around people.

4. Pure unpleasant attitude/personality, i mean like being very harsh too straightforward.
But usually women can still fake it in front of guys, just to attract. But some cannot.

winterfox10 · Answer

I'm sure it's a combination of feeling like everyone wants to use them, other people feeling like there is no way that the hot woman would date them, and people thinking that all hot girls are high maintenance.

Plastic-Me · Answer

Because less guys approach them? I’m not saying I’m the “hottest” out there, but heads do turn. My friend who’s absolutely stunning also rarely get approached. Once a guy told me that a lot of men don’t want to be in a serious relationship with a woman that is too attractive because it makes them insecure and always worry.

CubsterShura · Answer

Because: News Flash: Looks aren't everything!

You could be the most physically attractive woman on earth but have a bitchy attitude and then no one will want to come near you. You could be the most plain or even below average in appearance but the way you carry yourself could be enough for men to wanna approach you.

amyadmsmsms · Answer

My mother told me men are less likely to take a woman who dresses like a stripper or in revealing clothes seriously.

Maybe that is why some hot women are single. They care too much about looks and looking sexy instead of personality or proper relationships

yeneiri · Answer

Coz most of the hot girls have a high standard that they believe that they deserve. It is actually fine coz that shows that they love theirselves. That's way better to be with the guy who is not deserving of their love. :) They're just being smart and wise.. 😉❤

Sensmind · Answer

Simply put each of us has our own criteria for picking people and criteria imposed upon us for being picked so it is no surprise that SOME people could still be single - For hot women it could range from mean that she is extremely fussy and high maintenance about who she picks to kind, where she is insecure thinking guys are only interested in her for looks or sex.

namino · Answer

I think because she do not find person who make her feel decide to settle and do not find person who make her wanna build her relationship and progress relationship. And also be single is already happy and do not wanna fulfill with other half cause she can be completely by herself.
And i think she scares about hurt and fail relationship that she take long time to heal and get well again.
We all need healty relationship, not toxic relationship with full of pain more than hapiness.

GraveDoll · Answer

Mostly toooo many choices and
Yet most the choices have no real desire to learn anything about you as a "human"

This werid invisible fight of Having to. go. out your to. prove your. more than just a pretty face.

Commitment is a fearful thing. A werid disconnect from the world in general trying to find a place to land.

djmzes · Answer

Simple Just cuz she is hot does not mean she worth to be someone partner.

Razor27 · Answer

Their beauty makes them visible to everyone... But not their beautiful heart, there is an saying, all the stones are thrown on the trees with fruits. People create image for such as they are spoiled the grapes which i can't eat are sour... And at one point cause of people's point of view they too start acting like one... In the end everyone needs love... Beauty of body fades with age and beauty of heart grows with age. From the most beautiful heart to seek heart for love, with love in return...

Anonymous · Answer

I think very attractive people usually fall into one of two categories. They’re either very self-absorbed (leaving little room for an S/O) and high-maintenance, or they’re shy. The first two qualities would likely drive their S/O away, and if they’re shy it’s unlikely they’ll ask people out.

Nik1hil · Answer

Hot girls are Bang Material..
But relationship takes a lot more..
No Guy will be in relationship with REGINA GEORGE..

What guys consider a relationship material is TAYLOR SWIFT..
But REMEMBER!
TAYLOR SWIFT before RED ALBUM...

Before she shook it off.
Although I know she is A+ grade B¡t¢h..
I am talking about the image of herself she projected on the society..

Fooled a Million people and stormed there hearts..

Prof_Don · Answer

Prolly not asked out enough by decent guys. Usually only the douchbag player types are the ones that approach this type of gal most of the time.

Maximilian294 · Answer

Because the only guys who approach really hot women are the douchebags where she'll get sick of rather quickly. Good guys usually assume she is already dating because she is so pretty and why would a hot girl like that have a hard time get a boyfriend (well because everyone thinks that way) or guys will think they aren't good enough for her.

blondfrog · Answer

Because they have really high standards. Respectfully and understandably so. When you have the gene lottery on your side you're the one calling the shots not others. Same thing in the animal kingdom. Most animals choose their mates even ones with multiple mates.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know that I'm one of the "hottest", but I'm considered attractive from what I've been told. I am single by choice because I just have a lot on my plate and don't feel like dating at the moment. I am focused on my career and trying to get my life going in the direction I want right now.

crazy8000 · Answer

Attitud, people think's they aren't good enough, thing's she wouldn't be in to someone like them, think's she is already taken/in to girl or what ever, she gives shitty signals, gives to good signals, she's picky/a sexual/closed/dead boring/nothing to offer but her shallow stuff/wants to be alone.

It can be a lot of thing's.

SexyAshh · Answer

Insecure women feel the need for constant reassurance with a boyfriend.

Im secure and know im attractive and can get any man i want. I have impossibly high standards and if one isn't met i keep going onto the next one.

Never settle!.

TripleAce · Answer

Usually its because they have this specific type they feel they deserve
And most of the times. Women over estimate their worth in the dating world

She’s single for a reason. Cause those ‘guys’ aren't as interested as she thinks they should be

Upgreyedd · Answer

The Cinderella effect, most of the people dont like to get rejektion, especialy not from the hottest at the Floor. Everyone see what you're doing because everyone is watching here because she's hot as you said. Most men think already they got a friend or a simply to shy and go on a girl who "looks easier to get".
If you have this problem you should try to start the conversation to avoid the first shyness, you will see the most will be happy surprised.

alice55 · Answer

They're picky, they aren't interested in long relationship, they have nasty personality, they're weird, they're awkward, etc..

JDavid25 · Answer

Because they are human and may have quirks some people don't like or get also.. Or maybe they wanna focus on themselves.. Or maybe they have other things wrong wit them..

ChurchOfIron · Answer

'Cause most guys are pussies and assume the hot chicks are out of their league or are definitely already taken.

PondyPand · Answer

One, being hot doesn't make them relationship material. Second, being hot doesn't mean they have to be in a relationship.

rickdecker · Answer

Well they know how to avoid feeling like used idiot. Better single than sorry but I believe they are not interested in people that just browse things like they were in a bookstore and then waste 3 to 5 years of their life. Such women are very rare in my opinion

MissDawn7961 · Answer

Because they are very selective ( and should be ) in who they date and are still single for they have not found the man they want to settle down with yet ! Thanks

Vetinari · Answer

Could be a couple of reasons

1 they may have unreasonable standards / always on the lookout for better options

2 guy may just assume she's out of their league and if he does ask her out won't bother to put much effort into a "guaranteed" no

3 some times an attractive woman will assume sex/her appearance is the only thing she needs to bring to a relationship and all effort should come from the man. This makes me lose interest fast

Cuppo_Mode · Answer

Becouse they reject every one, just look a keano Reeves, he is super handsome, he helps people, no one has dated him though, people think he is too good for them and yeh, but hey, were all breath taking

CarpetDenim · Answer

They want to be thots instead of committing to someone

Ultimate_Gohan · Answer

Hot women dont usually have anything more to offer than their looks.

codycccccccccc · Answer

Simple math the hostest girls make up around 2.1 % of the bell curve of all females so if they want a equal guy they can only look at 2.1% of the population or around 147 000 000 world wide or about 2 for ever square mile on earth

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe she thinks she is hot, maybe her mom , friend told her that she is hot but not all people think the same and have the same taste. I mean i had a friend in class from highschool that thought of herself hot as Adriana Lima or even more, i found her cute but i stop liking her when i heard that. Not to mention that nobody in highschool found her attractive except me. She never had a boyfriend so far.

FreshOutaIdeas · Answer

Why have some of the greatest men in history died lonely? Coming from a man who loves chasing women...

nicks939s · Answer

One reason could be because if a woman is really hot us men can find it hard to have a conversation with her so we go for average, but would happily go for hot if you get what i mean

motownplayer2000 · Answer

It's probably because they have turned down guys that would be perfect for them, for guys that they think are perfect for them. Then complain that guys ain't shit, or too selfish, or it's all about them. I really don't have sympathy for those women

Clearblueskye · Answer

Because average men are intimidated by their looks.

ImagineSketchy · Answer

They have high standards? They aren't particularly lovable and are high maintenance. They may not have an interest in being with anyone. Etc.

Anonymous · Answer

Because they’re tired of men just trying to sleep with them. 🙄😴 boring!

Dav1ss · Answer

Because they are confident they can get a man if they want one and they have better things to do

Warmapplecrumble · Answer

They might not be that hot to people seeking relationships

Cap_T · Answer

Too much dick heads hurt them and they reach there limit they gave up on men

Anonymous · Answer

because so far, no guy is good enough for them in their minds. The ones that say "nobody ever approaches me" are completely full of shit. Guys talk to them 24/7. Those guys just aren't "Mr. Perfect", so they don't count. lol

Anonymous · Answer

I will say that creeps seem to make more attempts than genuine nice guys. For me it's not so much about looks, I need someone who could make me laugh. Personality lasts longer than looks.

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

The only guys who have the balls to approach them are the creeps who just don't give a shit about the woman's feelings or experience of a situation.

Landshrk0068 · Answer

Personality, or I should say lack of personality. They rely on their looks for everything and fail to develop a good personality.

AmeerX · Answer

You are saying it like they grow on trees😂. It is not true at all or is it? Anyhow, on a serious note, I think the real reason is I like plain jaine simple girls.

Shuri · Answer

Men do not approach anymore and if you approach then you’re seen as desperate or easy. Basically we are single because men don’t know what they want or what to do.

ZeussLightningBolt · Answer

Because guys won't ask them out, because they all assume she has a boyfriend just because she's hot

MollyTheOriginal · Answer

They probably aren't, but if they are, then likely because they're focused on more important things and just aren't looking to date at the moment.

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