Wooooaaaaa what a double morality see here...
Two days ago, I saw a post which said... Why there aren't single guys good.
And all said, if he doesn't get a girl, it's because he isn't good..
Now, we see that if a hot girl is single, it's because men aren't able to approach her...
Can I laugh a bit?
OK, said it, I will give you the same list I have wroten on the other place, but with differences for the part of the question.
1. She could have been work focused and didn't give time to dating.
2. May be she doesn't believe on single pair, and prefer sporadic relations.
3. She may have had bad experiences and hasn't passed them yet
4. May be she has high standards (instead of good standards) and any man looks good to her
5. May be she is on an environment which doesn't allow her to have social life
6. May be she delayed too much the compromise
7. May be she used the single until 30 theory, and after she weren't able to love
8. May be she has something really disgusting
To the answer, are there good women single to 30 answer is yes, of course, to the question why are they still single, it includes the fault on her factor.
Its the difference.
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Imo: guys like to rank things for some reason, and those without confidence often dont dare go for "higher ranked women". 2. Personality has soooooo much to say, and no offense to beautifull women out there. But the prettiest have more insecure or bitchy attitude, then those a bit more average. From my perspective and experience, its usualy the normal looking girls that are most down to earth and happy, but if we go to girls feeling like they look bad its quite changing. Some are super bitchy cos they kinda hate life and them selves. Some are super kind, often cos they have been bullied or been trough stuff that made them learn how much a nice attitude can do for a person, even on daily basis. But then again, personality is what, 50% surroundings, 50% how we are born right? Something like that. But also what you think is the "hottest" someone else thinks is "ugly". So it all depends on the person watching as well. I've never cared much about looks, tho i do prefer a more natural look, no makeup kinda thing. But I've been with all kinds of girls, popular and unpopular, big and small, skinny and fat. Only thing i care about is 2 things. 1. Personality. 2. If i got feelings for the person or not.
1. She's focused in career so she doesn't have time to date even if she tried
2. She doesn't have good personality or skills to be proud of and her looks don't compensate her lacks and flaws
3. Her personality is not that bad but the main flaw is that she doesn't often hang out or do activities, or that she's either too shy or has social phobia. It's hard to meet someone who's most of the time at home.
4. There's the possibility she's not that hot.
5. There's the possibility she's so hot to make many guys feel she's out of their league or that she already has to be with someone.
6. She fears commitment.
7. She doesn't like commitment.
8. She's lesbian and has a bit more struggle to date.
9. Nobody seems good enaugh yet. She has high standards and prefers to be single than lower them, specially if she's aware she can do better due to good looks.
10. She lacks of interest in sex or any relationship (so called asexual behavior).
11. She doesn't want to date because she has had bad experiences in the past and prefer to be single.
I think that, if we want, we can think of some other possible scenarios, but it's enaugh with the ones I mentioned.
They are single because people judge them harshly for being 'hot'. They're human like everybody else, and many assume they're taken when it is not true. That their whores, when it may NOT be true. Or they get hit on all the time and it scares away other men. Which is NOT ALWAYS THEIR FAULT. They always get the short end of the stick most of the time. And the guys are often shallow anyway. There are bad girls and there are good girls. Not every girl that is 'hot' is bad, slutty or taken. These guys don't bother to get to know these girls. They just judge. And then get upset when she finally does get somebody, but then he's supposedly less attracted than her and him combined.
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It's either (very) temporary or they haven't been approached by men who meet some very lofty standards.
I would say - they enjoy their freedom and don't want to be tied down because they view the interaction as a heavy sacrifice and not just as a pleasurable experience.
High standards because they already know they're pretty good looking to begin with and expect more.
I think that it is because most guys are intimidated by their 'social status' and the perception that they are 'HOT'.
Doesn't bother me!! I have talked with many, that I saw most avoid, because she was 'TOO HOT'. All the guys just stop, as I approach, because I came to the bar, near her for a drink, and I see her, and say 'hello'. Physical beauty and 'hotness' isn't any big deal to me, and I don't care, and I am not interested in dating her, or anything! I just talk to her, because I am there, and she seems lonely, and nobody is talking to her. Sometimes it is a 20 minute conversation, other times, just a few minutes, but it FREAKS out my guy friends! :)
She's a person, like anyone else!! I talk to her, like a person!Most of the time it's for one of three reasons.
1. She likes being single and doesn't want to be tied down by a relationship. She has many guys around her and she doesn't want to be exclusive to just one.
2. She has emotional baggage that she hasn't dealt with. She's not over an ex, a guy toyed with her, etc. and she isn't ready for someone new.
3. She is afraid to put herself out there. Many girls say that they aren't interested in dating or that no guy is up to her standards because they're terrified of getting hurt. It takes someone very brave to show their true self and feelings to someone else. Some people are either too scared to do so or don't even know how to do it.1st we are single by choice. If I am single and I get approached all the time. It’s because I have trust issues with men, I’ve had my heart broken very bad and I am scared having to deal with that again, I understand not all men or women are the same but until a men shows me different my point of view will change. So far the guys I’ve met and gone out on dates have seem to be so nice towards the beginning until they want sex!! Once that’s given it’s like thank you! See ya when I see ya. So I’m not dealing with that. You either act like a grown man and stop the high school games.
Because why have 1 boyfriend when you can have dozens. Being an attractive woman means constant male attention. Attractive women get asked out on dates often, receive gifts often, they always have someone to talk to or keep them company, and there’s always some guy who wants to have sex with them. I’m not even hot, but back when I was single I was being wined and dined by a different man every day. It’s a fun carefree lifestyle. You don’t have to pay for anything and you get to just enjoy yourself. I didn’t get into a relationship for a while until I met my boyfriend. He was the only one I actually had a real emotional connection with. So I traded my dozens of lovers for a real emotional connection with one guy.
Possibly because:
1. They know that they are "hot", so it makes them vain and conceited and leads them to treat any man they come across like a lump of dung. Men get the message and avoid them.
2. The reality is that what is pretty costs a lot to maintain; and in today's economic and social climate, no man has the time, the patience, or the resources for it.
3. Being conscious of their figure, they may want to keep it for as long as possible and a relationship with a man would involve sex which would tie them down and change their figures forever, especially if they get pregnant; so they choose not to be with any man.Multiple reasons:
1) They haven't found someone they genuinely like yet.
2) They aren't ready for a relationship and would rather play the field.
3) They have high standards and aren't willing to lower it for any old fuckboy or creep that pays them attention.
4) They are just happy being single.Because a lot of loser men are single. If you're aware you can get a high standard-man who treats you like the queen you deserve to be treated as you don't settle for some little boy who thinks McDonalds is okay for a date and who is terrified of saying what he feels and has nothing in his life together or any real hobbies. Eventually a real man does come along and yes it's worth staying single for. A real woman is also not pathetically desperate for a partner but has strength and confidence in herself.
I don't know that I'm one of the "hottest", but I'm considered attractive from what I've been told. I am single by choice because I just have a lot on my plate and don't feel like dating at the moment. I am focused on my career and trying to get my life going in the direction I want right now.
Many factors.
1. Personal choice (brokenheart/trauma/ focus on career)
2. Unfinished personal/internal problems (family or career or ex problem. Find peace first, then open heart).
3. Sometimes being pretty doesn't mean knowing how to socialize well. Dont know how to carry themselves around people.
4. Pure unpleasant attitude/personality, i mean like being very harsh too straightforward.
But usually women can still fake it in front of guys, just to attract. But some cannot.I'm sure it's a combination of feeling like everyone wants to use them, other people feeling like there is no way that the hot woman would date them, and people thinking that all hot girls are high maintenance.
Because less guys approach them? I’m not saying I’m the “hottest” out there, but heads do turn. My friend who’s absolutely stunning also rarely get approached. Once a guy told me that a lot of men don’t want to be in a serious relationship with a woman that is too attractive because it makes them insecure and always worry.
Because: News Flash: Looks aren't everything!
You could be the most physically attractive woman on earth but have a bitchy attitude and then no one will want to come near you. You could be the most plain or even below average in appearance but the way you carry yourself could be enough for men to wanna approach you.My mother told me men are less likely to take a woman who dresses like a stripper or in revealing clothes seriously.
Maybe that is why some hot women are single. They care too much about looks and looking sexy instead of personality or proper relationshipsCoz most of the hot girls have a high standard that they believe that they deserve. It is actually fine coz that shows that they love theirselves. That's way better to be with the guy who is not deserving of their love. :) They're just being smart and wise.. 😉❤
Simply put each of us has our own criteria for picking people and criteria imposed upon us for being picked so it is no surprise that SOME people could still be single - For hot women it could range from mean that she is extremely fussy and high maintenance about who she picks to kind, where she is insecure thinking guys are only interested in her for looks or sex.
I think because she do not find person who make her feel decide to settle and do not find person who make her wanna build her relationship and progress relationship. And also be single is already happy and do not wanna fulfill with other half cause she can be completely by herself.
And i think she scares about hurt and fail relationship that she take long time to heal and get well again.
We all need healty relationship, not toxic relationship with full of pain more than hapiness.Mostly toooo many choices and
Yet most the choices have no real desire to learn anything about you as a "human"
This werid invisible fight of Having to. go. out your to. prove your. more than just a pretty face.
Commitment is a fearful thing. A werid disconnect from the world in general trying to find a place to land.
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