I constantly slap my boyfriend?

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This is the 4th or 5th time I have slapped him. Yesterday, i wanted to show my best friend our new puppy. He said i shouldn't take the puppy out yet and we had an argument and says that it is HIS puppy. This makes no sense. I've payed the vet bills, he payed the price of the puppy. I slapped him last week as well and forgave me easily. I slapped him pretty severely yesterday and he saids we should break up. he's said this before the first and second time i slapped him but he seems calm today and doesn't mind me being next to him. He usually doesn't like talking to me after an srgument and says stuff like breaking up. So i can't tell if he ACTUALLY wants to break up with me. I am a jerk and i can't believe i did this to him but he hurt my feelings yesterday

invalid1 · Accepted Answer

He broke my heart. The poor little guy.
Of course he wants to break up. You hurt him. But since your feelings are hurt for him. And you're regretting. This is a good thing. And this explains why he's still giving you a chance. He believes you're better person than that. So be a better person than this jerk. And Apologize for him. And make sure you love him until he forgives you.
Otherwise you will be the nightmare of his teenage memories. Forever.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

Is he entitled to slap you every time you get him pissed off? Obviously, you are not an adult, but if you were, you could be arrested and go to jail for slapping him.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You need to break up with him and go get therapy. You might end up in jail eventually. Not every guy is going to take this and the next one might just call the police on you. Is this something you got from your parents because if it is don't become a mom before you get this problem dealt with. And if you get with the wrong guy you might just get the snot beat out you.

MajesticTwelve · Accepted Answer

He should have hit you back. On what planet can you just hit people and expect no consequences? You can't do it to a stranger, why is it ok to do to someone you live? Learn your lesson and grow up.

TheOnlyAriii · Answer

This is physical abuse and absolutely not forgivable. Grow the fuck up and learn how to talk instead of needing violence to make a statement.

LordSnuggles · Answer

Seems you have an anger problem. Gotta be honest, you're lucky you're female doing that. Roles reversed you'd be getting so much hate. Probably have the cops on you already.

actually_Megan · Answer

Physical aduse is what you're doing and it's wrong. You should break up with him for his sake. He deserves better. You have some issues you need to get figured out. I recommend therapy.

Somebots · Answer

From the information given by you, it seems this is a toxic relationship. If you physically abuse him, by slapping, I wouldn't be surprised if he wanted to end the relationship.

Giggletr0n · Answer

So you're randomly violent to your boyfriend then? I hope you realise that you're not far off escalating from slaps to punches and as it is you are already skirting the line of what is considered abusive or not.

markscott · Answer

Having your feelings hurt is no excuse for physically assaulting someone.

Anonymous · Answer

So whats the mystery? You are an abusive piece of shit and you shouldn't be having anything to do with boyfriends or dogs. You obviously can't be trusted to care for either.

EmmaMary · Answer

I strongly advise that you seek some anger management therapy, before you seriously injure him.

codycccccccccc · Answer

First legally it Is his puppy secondly he will break up and take his puppy if you don't smarten up

CuriousForever · Answer

Dude no excuse for physical abuse. Especially since he can’t slap you back. It’s basically the ultimate C U Next Tuesday move.

NightFlirt · Answer

Maybe he argues with you because he wants you to slap him.

Anonymous · Answer

I hope he punches you back. You’re really disgusting.

AngelLily · Answer

Ya nothing says like a healthy and non abusive relationship like slapping your So over and over🙄

AcidT0y · Answer

Well if he doesn't break up with you it might be an idea to stop slapping him...

Nachowedgie · Answer

So you're an abusive piece of shit, he deserves better

Anonymous · Answer

I think what you're doing is wrong and I'd leave if you kept doing that to me

KaitieSearching · Answer

What makes you think you have a right to hit him?

nerms123 · Answer

You’re abusive. Break up and get help.

Fuentes · Answer

Your abusive id punch you

GreenGold1992 · Answer

poor guy

Joker_ · Answer

Slap him more

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