I am on the volleyball team at my local college, so I understand when teammates slap me on the butt when I made a good play. It comes with the game. I wonder why my boyfriend always slaps my butt. He does it at least 5 to 6 times a day. During sex he slaps my butt so much that it stings, and it turns red. He said he wants to spank me with a paddle. Why does he do this? I am confused.
Touching your ass gives him a boner. Thats normal relationship stuff (though he's being a bit too rough).
Having your volleyball team slap your ass is really fucking weird though, why is that more normal to you? To me it's super cringey.
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Simple answer. Because it’s hot, it’s sexy. You must have a nice ass. It’s a turn on. I bet he gets really excited watching you play w those shorts on. That’s about the only reason men watch women’s volleyball. I mean they may be good but chances are most men don’t watch it for the game.
My boyfriend once did it in the mall around people while we were walking it left me surprised i blushed and stared at him then he replied i can't control myself 😅😅😅your post reminded me of that incident
He probably likes it or thinks you like it. He shouldn't be doing stuff like that without asking if you're okay with it
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feels nice and looks nice. that's pretty much all there is too it. it's like you probably like touching his body in some place in sort of a rough way during sex.
It's a form of control and love he is showing towards you but if he hurts you tell him to stop.
Its more like enjoying that booty anytime he can... whilst sex or not whenever he can't keep his hands to slap that butt
You have a nice butt. One of many female traits a guy loves. Slaps, grabs are signs he's really into you.
Because you’re literally nothing but a piece of ass to him.
You have a nice butt.
because he likes your ass. i'm surprised he hasn't stuck his tongue up your rectum and and anus sphinxter and licked inside your rectum and anus
I do this with my girlfriend it's because I just like her ass.
He really likes your butt.
Cause you need discipline Katie.
He loves your ass, hehehe.
He probably loves touching it
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