
Why are models so hard to date?


Mmmh... first it’s untrue. Candice swanepoel is a V’s model and she’s dated an average guy and she’s richer and younger than him. ( he cheated on her).
Adriana Lima waited mariage to have sex and she married an ugly guy who’s also less rich than her but he also cheated on her.
And even if they are picky it’s totally their right since they have many options and they attract a lot of good looking rich guys
I guess that you’re a troll or a girl who want to make girls that are prettier than you look like bitches , while I bet that if you looked like a model you would only date billionaires lmao
@nathanp97 that wasn't for you sorry, it was for her
Nathanp97 so just because a girl isn’t funny or brillant enough it gives a man the right to cheat on her?
So a woman should be hot as hell to attract a guy, but to keep him she should also be smart, funny, seductive and have a fart that smells like strawberry, just so that an average looking guy won’t cheat on her?
by the way one of my best friends is a model and she also have an applied scientific degree. You say that hot chicks lack kindness and personality, but guess what? Ugly chicks can also be like that if not worse. You’re just doing the same thing as the fox that tries to eat grapes from a vine but cannot reach them. Rather than admit defeat, he states they are undesirable.
No, it doesn't give him the right, but it does make it more likely to happen. I'm not saying that women need to be all those things. All I'm saying is it is easy to be attacked to a person's looks, but if you can't have fun and intellectual conversations with them it gets boring, and the guy might seek it from someone else.
I never said all models or good looking people are stupid. The majority of models aren't or never tried in school, so it can be hard to hold a conversation with them. Especially if they care a lot about fashion and makeup, because most guys can't relate to that.
I know "ugly chicks" can be worse or just as bad. I never said they were.
I'm basing it off of Instagram models, that model show my mom watches, and the really beautiful girls from my highschool.
I'm not saying they are undesirable, just not for me. I want someone who is funny, smart, and doesn't mind getting down and dirty (eg. Covered in mud, not sex things lol). Looks are nice, but they aren't super important. If a girl is a model and is all those things, great, but if they were all those things they wouldn't be interested in someone like me. I know what I like and often models dont fit, and models would also likely ownly date other people they and extremely attractive, so this conversation is kinda irrelevant because they would likely date other models, that are a lot like them personality wise.
@Dali-chan I'm not against them, I'm a model too. Am just stating a point which you can't deny for a fact that majority of models are proud
Well if you know you can do better... then why not? Why settle for less? Yeah, a little of it is pride, but in that case it's not a bad thing. It's just a matter of not settling for less than you can have.
I'm probably going to sound like an ass, but from what I've seen models tend to lack intelligents and a sense of humor. They often care way to much about fashion and their looks, so when you say they can do better I disagree. In many cases them doing better is finding someone who lacks the same thing they do, because it is hard to find someone who is intelligent and funny, who would marry model, at least for the long term. Lots of models get cheated on, which really doesn't surprise me.
@nathanp97 Well it all depends on who the other person is that doesn’t get the model. When saying someone is “better,” you’re making a comparison. And a lot of times you are right, but a lot of times you are also wrong, since there are guys who are good-looking, intelligent, confident, and have a sense of humor. My boyfriend is an A+ in all of those areas (okay, maybe a B in humor but I don’t really go for humor), and I’m not even a model 😂 so since I can have him, why would I settle for less?
Because they don't want less than they are capable of getting 🌹
Thanks for the MHO 🙂
1. They're at the upper end of the looks spectrum, and generally only date other people at that end of the spectrum.
2. They're usually insecure.
3. They travel a lot and have a weird schedule.
4. They are flighty and fickle.
Not necessarily true, I bet there are plenty of models in Ukraine who would date an average looking guy. haha.
too much maintenance. These girls have the entire world telling them how great they are. The ego. And men know looks fade. Who whats to deal with that after they hit the wall.
I am and always will be an Instagram Model. I feel their pain. LOL
@Imcmullan Ha Ha thanks!
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A bitch can't be that fun if on a Friday night she can't eat a slice of pizza with you.
(I'm 100 per cent just being a generalizing asshole)
in my opinion MEN think models are hard to date because they're unattainable and only date millionaires. The more likely reality is that models are hard to date just because their work schedule is so volatile, they can be on a plane to another country for a shoot with only a few hours' notice from their agent. They also feel pressure to maintain a certain look, so much of their "free" time is actually spent on activities that help maintain their looks (eg: going to the gym). Most models I've met have been most responsive when just addressed like a normal girl and not put on a pedestal. They work too hard to then hit the bar on Friday night and have guys gawp at them thinking they some sort of goddess. They're judged on their looks for a living, so in dating they want connection and romance just like any other girl. Some are sexually promiscuous and so have plenty of male attention to choose from, but very few of those men actually value her as a person and only want to tell their buddies they "fucked a model".
They're not hard to date, that implies they're in demand.
They're not.
Most people know models don't have their own life. They are at the beck & call of the modeling agency meaning they have odd schedules, often traveling, etc. Doesn't make one highly desirable as dating material when 80% of the time you're not there.
Because of above - and fact they are often under tons of pressure to maintain looks, weight, etc. - a lot of models display neurotic behaviours & high levels of anxiety, depression, etc. Half of them looked stoned out of their minds because they are.
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Most people know that models are not that intelligent. There has maybe been a few models who have achieved more than being an object to stare at. There is an old saying of how beauty without brains / spirit / personality is not important.
You gotta remember theyre beautiful, at least in theory. Most have been their whole lives and hence are used to special treatment. Beacause of that their attitude is that theyre better than most women and deserve more. There are tons of women model worthy that aren't models. There can be many reasons as to why but i bet the most prevalent one would be that they didn't like the whole concept of just being pretty and wearing clothes all life while men drool over them and judge them. Models on the other hand love the idea, evidenced by the fact that they went into modeling.
They are accustomed to attention from lots of rich men, so if you have an income of less than seven figures you are generally SOL. No worries. I see girls almost every day who are far prettier than almost any model. And most of these girls are not snobbish.
Have you tried to date a model?
I think many feel that they are only appreciated by their looks, and as someone who gets praised by it they look for other qualities, like "personality", rather than an physically attractive person that goes according to their society beauty standards.
I dated a model. She was pretty easy to get. Hard part was trusting her. When she always has dudes taking photos of her in underwear and modelling lotions/make up and stuff her whole skin is exposed. Also she wasn't exactly famous, so a lot of the photographers, executives, tried taking advantage of her. Not only that but everyone stares at her, guys make moves constantly, she gets 100's of dm's all the time. I broke up with her, because it was too much for me. That industry is nasty. Also we had a different vision for the future.
A lot of them have men hitting on them constantly, so there is the whole "why would I be impressed by someone like you," factor. I think there is also a general feeling that they a little bit scared of people trying to use them. Everyone wants to get something out of the pretty girl; whether it's sex, a favor, social stature.
LOL,
models.
How useless.
Since they are half naked all the time, always gone traveling and are super vain, only foolish guys long for their ilk.
I went to a college football game yesterday, I saw hundreds of gorgous 20 year olds who would are endlessly more attractive and better than those pretentious walking sticks.
That's easy they hard 2 date. Cause they are always in the public eye. Always have men wanting 2 be with them. Never having any privacy. All those things combine with most models. Always thinking they are better than everybody else. Models are women who are hard 2 please.
people go for "the best they can attract" naturally. as a model you can litterally attract anybody so you can set your standards super high. that's just the nature of human mating behavior xD
Because they are full of shit and think they are better than others. 😑😑😑
They're not! They're insecure about their looks and are paranoid about assumed flaws. Men feel they're unreachable and don't ask them out. They rarely date because of this.
So, ask away! You never know and you might find a reason for your opinion!
Just wait until they reach the big ThreeZero. Not so long ago we saw one of those hot models and Leonardo DiCaprio's ex ending up homeless at 27 because she couldn't get a job. The wall approaches much faster for those narcissists.
Cause they’re beautiful and most are at least semi-famous. They do like British aristocrats though...
I've never met one. I mean I met a few girls that I found out later on that won pageants, but I don't think they're actually models since that's not their career.
But I can kinda see why it would be difficult. Their standards are probably off the charts.
I never found it that hard but you need to realize is models put thousands of dollars and hours of pain and suffering into getting to wear there at so they want the same from you
I've dated a model pretty bland and unaware of the world around them because theyre models they travel a lot so you never see them they don't really have a personality from what I can tell from her. And are a bit unaware of the world and stuff like travelling enjoying food which they can't even do. Dating a model is pretty boring fullstop.
prob get a lot of offers so feel they can be choosy. maybe insecure?
problem may occur because of their busy schedule and shoots and one more issue is they look extremely pretty and date people who are nothing in the look spectrum with compare to them
That's not true, I have dated several models and had great relationships with them. The only reason the relationships didn't continue was a bad set of circumstances in both our lives that led to breaking up. Unfortunate, life can be unfair that way. But, nobodies fault.
They have high standards. Good for them! They earned it.
My Opinion, They won't date with anyone, espechially if they are looking to be very famous.
My Middle eastern opinon, they are full of them selves and won't look for you, even if you are hansome and kind; they will look only for rich people in middle east.
Pick one (:D)
they are likely very insecure because they have had everything handed to them in life, (oh your so beautiful let me just do that for you, or your miss USA? please come right on in, no questions asked) stack that on top of being eyeballed by every guy that sees her and you got yourself a woman who has no idea how to act around people who are legitimate
by the way I'm curious about the title thing, what are you talking about here? a doctor, a knight?
if because each of them have like at least 5 million women and men hardcore jealous for the girls and at least 2-3 million men that all wanna bang them...
wouldn't know maybe cuz they starve them selves so much
their arrogant and foolish-kinda reminded about what 2 Timothy 3:1 says-a lot of the words there describes them.
"Why are models hard to date?"
Because they're women.
"But what about MALE models?"
Men competing with each other to be the most womanly.
Because they receive 1000x+ more attention than any one person could ever give them so maybe royalty or famous can compensate for some of the attention deficit over ordinary.
Can't say they are. Buddy of mine works in an agency for modelling. Usually casting for all sorts of advertisement. Let's just make it short and say 99% of these girls have massively low self-esteem
Because they can and so can you. theyre women like everyone else.
They want to marry rich. What else?
They don't talk to you unless you have 30mil in your bank account.
They get lots of invitations and can take their choice. If you don't stand out in some way, why would they choose you?
Cause a lot of men want them so they are gonna up their game.
Because the glue that you use on them gets brittle and then a wing or door falls off.
I've never found that problem with them. They've always been the easiest to date for me. But usually I only date them after a breakup or if Im single and bored
Because they are passed and used up pieces of garbage.
They literally get paid because they look good, so they're going to most likely have a very pompous attitude when it comes to dating.
Maybe because their inflated ego put theirselve out of the sexual market and nothing is good enough for their massive ego
It's hard to get any free time with them while they're so busy dating themselves.
Both of my ex’s modeled. They’re normal people just like you and me.
Because wake up it's the real world you would be lucky to just date your high school crush these days
Status hunters. have nothing to offer on a personality level that are quite even for them.
mental issues. unrealistic views of reality.
who cares? they can't be good partners anyway with their weird lifestyles. i think it's good that they don't date average people
Because they don't lead a normal day to day average Joe existence. There struggles are different from normal people.
they have right to dat whoever they want, they have earned it. my dream is to date a model. for me only models have amazing body.
I disagree with your least sentence cause I know a lot of girls in real life who have amazing bodies despite that they aren’t paid to be that way and it’s not their main job to be fit. However I greatly agree when you said that these models have the right to date whoever they want, cause I bet that the asker is just a jealous average looking girl who want to brague that models are ugly on the inside so that she will feel better about herself lmao
Maybe because usually the first thing someone wants to do when they date a model is fuck.
I find this point of view to be bullshit, I've dated 4 models, one of which was Miss Poland a few years back. It might be hard if you're an ugly dude, but in this case it is hard no matter if she is a model or not.
They are way to picky yes I know that they need to get to know us ordinary guys they just choose not to
Because they have so many options.
Probably because they're beautiful, that limits the amount of men good enough to be with them.
Why do so few people own Bentleys, Rolls Royces, Ferraris, or Lamborghinis?
They need to be careful of people they can’t trust
It's when looks and status is more important then love.
Cause they wanna maintain their social and economic status
Honestly it's just better to not date them at all.
it's easier to date someone with a similar lifestyle and requirements.
They think other people's opinions.
Their not hard to date here in America
Coz we have to match there standards
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