First time Interracial Sex?

Question

Dear White Guys, How was your first experience dating or having sex with a Black Girl?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Dated a gal that i had met through work. She was not a colleague but worked for a lobbying firm that worked with my office. To me she was an extremely attractive woman and she had the most infectious laugh.

We dated about three times and had sex on the night of the third date and she stayed the night at my place. It was excellent sex, this notwithstanding that it was our first time together, and seeing her naked the first time - probably needless to say - gave me an instant erection.

Things were great and even though interracial dating was not then as common as it is now we were both extremely comfortable with each other and it really caused no issues. I was pretty sure that I was falling in love and she asked me to move in with her - which surprised me a bit, but she liked her place and it was bigger.

Then she got pregnant. I was a little surprised at first but was then over the moon with happiness. I wanted that baby and she did too.

Then she began to have second thoughts and told me she was thinking of having an abortion. I begged her not to and even told her that I would adopt the baby and she would not have to be responsible for him/her or see us ever again.

She seemed to relent after a bit and then one day I went to her house with more of my stuff. I kissed her and she did not respond. Then I bent down to her tummy - as was my habit - and said "Hi baby. This is your daddy and I love you."

She stopped me. Told me to forget as she had an abortion and wanted me out of the house. We argued - though less than you might expect - I grabbed my stuff, went out to my car and cried.

To this day I miss that baby - and my current girlfriend and I have been together for 11 years and have three children now - more than words can say. I only wish I could hold him/her and tell him/her how sorry I am that I failed as a father. It hurts to this day.

Afterward I dated a Japanese woman and one other African-American woman and we had good relationships and generally good sex. I enjoyed it but the relationships did not last. I blame myself as I ran hot and cold and it took me a long time to get over what happened. (In the Japanese woman's case, it actually ended because she decided to move back to Japan.)

In all three cases, the relationships were great and the women impressive. However, in all truth, try as I might - and I do try - I can never fully forgive the first woman for what she did to my baby.

AL2000 · Accepted Answer

First time interracial sex was with a friend of a friend who introduced us we hit it off pretty good and eventually ended up being sexual together for a while, dating. I was the first white guy for her she told me. Quite frankly she was amazing and while I didn't want to dwell on what was different then white girls I had been with I had noticed some, her scent was different, more of a natural sweetness, which also felt with her hair texture upon feeling it with my hands, but didn't comment upon how it felt as I heard black girls are sensitive about their hair. Her lips were fuller and kissing them as they were juicer and deeper the kiss. Curvy body made it great to feel, her Her vagina was pinker then I've seen as the skin contrast of the darker labia was very sexy along with being a lot wetter then white girls I have been with. Skin texture was different and felt different on mine during sex/ Also she was a lot more assertive in taking the lead and showing me what she liked in terms of her pleasure, guiding me to positions and had no trouble giving me lots of foreplay good long blowjobs and would keep my hands going to places. I am a redheaded guy, so our skin tones are such a contrast especially when I am inside her. She was wonderful and admitted she was nervous at first as

White-American89 · Answer

I've only dated 3 black girls. The first one was a bit high maintenance both emotionally and finacially, was far too much hard work & was the only woman I ever feared. She was always starting drama, could be pysically abusive, talking during movies but she knew how to take a D. I didn't dump her but let her think she dumped me for I heard she trashed her exes place when he dumped her.
The 2nd black girl was fun to be with, she wanted to get married and have kids but it was too soon for me, we had a real connection. She was very religious and very traditional, she was a great cook. Sex was great. We dated for about 2 years and went our separate ways. She's married with kids and very happy, which makes me happy because she deserves it.
The 3rd girl was a girl from Nigeria, her skin was dark dark black, like coal but darker espicially when the sun came out, in all our photos she was either so dark that you couldn't see her or I was too bright you couldn't see me. She was very tall for a woman we dated for about maybe 8 months. She was a bit of what you call a high flyer and once she finished college she moved on. Probably the single smartest person I ever met in real life. The sex could have been better or at least more frequent, she was always busy studying.
I dont think there is much difference dating black women than white women, just avoid the nutjobs.

Steve7111 · Answer

Having sex with a black girl changed my life. I grew up in a small town in northern England in the 1970's and 80's and never met a black person till I went to college, although obviously I'd seen black people on tv and found a few black celebrities very attractive.

Then when I went to college I met this girl called Juliana, who came from Ghana. She was very dark-skinned, tall, slim, absolutely gorgeous, and to my amazement, she was really into me as well. The first time we had sex totally blew my mind. I know it was all psychological. Physically, it felt no different at all to having sex with a white woman, but the racial element supercharged it for both of us - the contrast of our skin tones as we explored each other's bodies, teasing her big dark nipples, feeling completely intoxicated and overwhelmed by her blackness as I slid inside her and she wrapped her legs around my waist.

The race thing was never a problem for us. Me being white was as sexy to her, as her being black was to me, but we embraced that and had an emotional connection as well that was just as strong. After we graduated, she had to go home to Africa and I didn't date anyone else for about a year.

My first girlfriend after Juliana was a very pretty blonde girl and she was lovely, but sex with her was just never as intense. I quickly realised what the problem was - she wasn't black.

I know this is all psychological, and I'm not trying to tell anyone else how they should, or would feel. It's just me. Sex with black women is, for me, just better. After Juliana I did go back, but not for long. I've only ever been with black women since and have been married to my wife for nearly 20 years now.

JimboGB · Answer

From my personal experience, the black girls I have been with had thicker lips than average, which accentuates the caressing sensation during a blow job. That isn't strictly associated with black women but those with thicker lips. Also in my experience, black women use their tongue more.

Thicker arse's, thighs and hips in general and to my surprise tight pussies.

The smell is different for sure than other races of women also and seem to have a high pain threshold.

Honourable mention, Spanish girls are hands down the horniest I've come across.

Anonymous · Answer

I lost my virginity to my black girlfriend. I've had sex with a number of black women and, yes, had good experiences.

Anonymous · Answer

I never dated a Black woman, but I have had sex with some of them. I'll never forget the first "booty ride" I had on a Black friends with benefits I found on Plenty of Fish. She had a nice combo of big, soft booty and tight pussy and it felt AMAZING to hump her in prone bone position, keeping my pelvis pressed up against her booty whilst pushing against the cushion with as I thrust and having my hands in her long, curly hair. She loved it. We had four runs at that in one hour, and I cummed inside her each time. It was fun ;o)

SkipStop · Answer

I'm a virgin but do have a thing for black girls. So I am curious. I don't expect there to be that much of a difference physically. Every girl is different, right? I just know that on average black girls have thicker skin, lips and butt.

goaded · Answer

A black girl from where? Nigeria? England? Scotland? New York? Brazil? Los Angeles? South Africa? Jamaica? They'll all be different; even ignoring their individuality, they're from different societies.

QuietRunner · Answer

well, she was shaved, skin felt really smooth and silky.

I love the physicalness of it, her ass was so sexy, I wanted to cum on her, and in her and she let me.

It was loud, sweaty, and so passionate.

Really physical

Whitewolf24 · Answer

There's really no difference, I will say that she was more sensual than most of the white women I've been with. Most experiences are different with every girl regardless of race.

bananathunder · Answer

was pretty much the same physically... I've slept with a couple black women and not much different besides the contrast of skin colors

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