Boyfriend compares himself so much?

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For the past year, my boyfriend has been in such a toxic mindset - I imagine this is who he always as, I just didn’t know.

Anyways. He told me that last November he found out how much money his friend makes (his friend didn’t go to college and does phone line work - of course he makes a ton of money with that job). Anyways, my boyfriend has since then, been comparing his who life to that friend - compares himself to the amount of girls his friend gets, the activities he does, everything! It’s odd he compares himself to this guy, considering he is a cheater.

Anyways. My boyfriend compares himself to everyone else as well. It’s becoming really toxic and hurtful to me and the relationship. Especially when he talks about how he never got girls (so, basically... i mean nothing).

I don’t know what to do. He’s in therapy, but, it’s like this issue isn’t being addressed.
Boyfriend compares himself so much?
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