Is it okay for someone in a relationship to check another guy/girl out? (Page 2)

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I work with this guy who is in a relationship. He’s very friendly and he helps me a lot. Every now and then I’ll catch him staring at me. He complimented me and told me I had a beautiful smile. He likes to watch me do stuff. He just got into this relationship about a few months ago but he’s always been like this (still is). Let’s say I’m doing something like cleaning up, he’ll lean back and just watch me. He mostly stares at me from behind when he thinks I can’t see him. He was in the breakroom talking about the cute girls at work with another coworker. I was making coffee and when I turned around to a sec, he was watching me while he was talking about the cute girls. He didn’t say anything about me tho lol :p  There maybe one creepy time I was standing behind him towards the left facing the opposite direction. He was sitting down on FaceTime with some guy and as soon as I turned around, his front camera was on me/my butt. He didn’t even bother to hurry up and take it off me. My face was all on the camera lol. This was during his relationship.

bambin0 · Answer

Clearly what he's doing is not just checking you out lol

Ashleyyyyysimpson · Answer

Its a natural thing for the opposite ssex to check out each other even checking out the same sex but thats it, any more than that is just flirting and attempted to find new target.

elly91 · Answer

It's human. Eyes were made for looking. So I don't see it as an issue nor is it something people can help but doing in general..

morganlove · Answer

I would normally say yes but this has gone to a point of overboard. I can appreciate a nice ass without becoming a stalker.

ask4any · Answer

Well maybe he's not as much into this relationship as you say he is. He's obviously got eyes for you and for good reason. Does he act this way with only you or other office girls too?

Rcw720 · Answer

He sounds like a total creep and is in the wrong, but over all no it's normal to look and see people as attractive. The big thing is not to let it go any where.

Lellamarye · Answer

He may not be in an open relationship, and the way that you talk about him i think you are a little bett more intristed about him.
I really don't know about how time do you know each other bot maby he may feel someting for you

TacosRAwesome · Answer

It's fine by me, as long as he doesn't try to test drive the other person.

themaker39 · Answer

Just as ok as pushing an old lady down the stairs because you felt the smell of food downstairs.

veebee14 · Answer

No no no , because that’s how the “temptation of cheating “ comes into the equation.

speedover2019 · Answer

Do you what you want, feeling guilty means you are doing bad, feeling good while doing is good for you, don't ask people's opinion, it varies person to person what they have experienced till date, evil is there because good things are there, enjoy!

jjhere38 · Answer

The guy sounds like a creep. Innocent glancing is fine but that guy is just being creepy.

Prof_Don · Answer

Sure. Just don’t do so in front in front of your partner.

DWornock · Answer

That is natural for guy. Sex is fun and a relationship is a relationship. Having sex doesn't change his relationship feelings.

Minato157 · Answer

It’s nothing that we can control that much. We don’t need to look all the time like that tho.

Julian608 · Answer

I was in a non serious relationship and I wasn't interested in other girls. He's the kind of guy who will change after he gets what he wants

KillianK · Answer

I would do it as a way to flirt with my partner. Saying that "it's strange; no matter where I look, I can never find a person more perfect than you."

thewilddude420 · Answer

If your attached to someone, you can look at the menu. Just can't order anything. Or your girl is checking out other girls a d then pointing them out.

hussy12313 · Answer

No... Its totally wrong... Or may be u r just not into ur relationship... Means u dont know the meaning of it either

steve99 · Answer

If he's like that whilst in a relationship, I feel sorry for his partner as this person would be hard to trust

Anonymous · Answer

Admiring something visually pleasing is perfectly normal. I can drive a bugatti and still admire a lambo. Doesn't mean I want to trade in the bugatti and get a lambo.

Gstacy1989 · Answer

If he isn’t happy with his girlfriend he should get rid of her

Jamie05rhs · Answer

That dude is trippin'. He needs to figure his shit out. Either he's with his girlfriend or he isn't.

DocSamson1 · Answer

It is natural to look. It's built in to all of us. It's not natural to act on it. That is never okay.

GhostlyCactus · Answer

Yea with how much he's checking you out there is definitely a lust for you which shows if given the chance he'd cheat on his girlfriend with you

GreenGold1992 · Answer

Check out but not act out on it and never check out others in front of your guy/girl.

RudeBoy718 · Answer

You human aren't you? Why people think cause am in relationship am in jail?

OddBeMe · Answer

Window shopping is something we all do. Especially with scantily clad individuals.

Agem123 · Answer

No, it's not okay. Now what? You'll start looking at him?

Anonymous · Answer

It's natural we are human we like to look at the different shapes and sizes people come in. Although you have to respect the fact you are in a relationship. Kinda seems like you liked the attention. Should've told him to keep it professional.

skew21 · Answer

for most of us, men and women it a genetic imperative.

vikingred99 · Answer

I don't see an issue with looking at someone. As long as you don't act on it

aguyintheworld · Answer

Yes as long as that's all it is and not in front of your significant other

Rosalyna_Ray · Answer

There are open relationships out there... you'll never know till you ask.

I_Wolff · Answer

Yes. Only if I'm the one doing the checking out, of course!

Seaan · Answer

Depends, my mrs often points out another females nice arse, think its person dependant.

berwise13 · Answer

I think its normal look at the buffet all you want just dont touch

cavmanier · Answer

What he was doing wasn't okay.

Creepazoid · Answer

yes but not like that.

R_Cakes91 · Answer

He sounds like a pervert.

Pamina · Answer

Of course, why wouldn't that be okay?

Anonymous · Answer

It does depend... but in this circumstance it's definitely not okay.

ecfresh · Answer

Yes, you can look just don’t touch

Avicenna · Answer

Discreetly, and not verbally

Thatsamazing · Answer

... This stupid shit again? Seriously?

winterfox10 · Answer

Nope. It's a bad idea. Just asking for trouble

Dchrls78104 · Answer

No; it would be a serious issue for me.

standardguy · Answer

He is doing it too intensively.

Rajzzz · Answer

No... Not at all... Never...

MrHealthyHabits · Answer

Sounds kinda creepy tbh

Sabretooth · Answer

no, but it cn happen-it should be corrected.

anuragk033 · Answer

He's an asshole

preston27 · Answer

I appreciate all wemon

GirlFromPlanetEarth · Answer

No Unless only for curiosity

Jessijo95 · Answer

Look just don't touch.

emir69 · Answer

Hot girls is only girls

RussianThor · Answer

Communication in a relationship

Nelle93 · Answer

Eyes are for watching 😋

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Negative ghost rider

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on the situation

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