I’m really attracted to my coworker but he has a girlfriend. What should I do? (Page 2)

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I can tell he’s attracted to me too. He’s always looking over at me and messages me after work for hours (nothing flirty or inappropriate). We get along really well and have so much in common. We’re also hanging out outside of work for the first time next week. Only thing is, he has a girlfriend. Should I stop talking to him or should I tell him how I feel? Or should I keep being friends even though I have these feelings?

OnlikeDK · Answer

Need to know if he's stringing you along on the backburner in case his current falls apart. If he's interested hed have to get rid of her first you dont wanna play games

DanOh2018 · Answer

Gotta reach out and take what you want sometimes. All's fair in love and war.

ZELLxoxo · Answer

Who is being controlling? What's happening? What's the situation?

Kdude010 · Answer

Keep it strictly professional. I would have reported it to HR if it came to anything else. If I were doing the same to a female coworker, pretty sure she'll do the same.

buttcrackjoe · Answer

Some say if they ain’t married its fair game but feign ignorance he has a girlfriend to not look like a homewrecker

Budvizer · Answer

Inner office relationships are generally not a good thing. It more than often gets you into trouble and in many cases fired.

Browneye57 · Answer

He'll do the same thing with you.  Don't shit where you eat.

Anonymous · Answer

The worse you can do is ruin his relationship. Stay away from him. If he really wanted to break up with his girlfriend he would have by now.

g0sunnyg0 · Answer

Go for it.. I had a unhappy marriage and fling with coworker just helped me get over it

Browniegold · Answer

Depends how serious they are! If he’s cool and they are more casual I’d say be careful if they are serious than no way

ErikKantor · Answer

Oh... I ain’t touching this one. Maybe you, him and his girlfriend can arrange a “cozy” triple date, who knows what might happen...

JayB95 · Answer

Keep talking. If u find out they brake up, gun it. If u r positive he feels the same

BringCow · Answer

Kill her, and wear her skin. Maybe he won't notice the difference.

GeanieJ78 · Answer

Relationships inside the workplace typically are not a good idea...

partyroy15 · Answer

Ask his girlfriend if it’s ok that will soon clear things up

_SOARER_ · Answer

He needs to be the one to make the move, and end things with his woman

AaronDavis · Answer

🎵Forget about the boy.  Forget about the boy.  Forget about the boy. 🎵 Move on to the next one. But you can be friends with him.

seniorghostman · Answer

Keep being friends just don’t blur lines and remember he has a girl so you keep yourself in check. Nothing wrong with being a homie

Anonymous · Answer

Do you mean the imaginary girlfriend that he didn’t move in with? Is this the same guy who said he’d never lie to you? Call the police!

Guanfei · Answer

Nothing. Either he's single, or you're not allowed to make a move.

Pete671 · Answer

How would you feel if you were his girlfriend?, sounds like a bad idea to hang out tbh,

heyclosethedoor · Answer

Let them be... 6 years is a long time i think you should be fine

wild_dragon · Answer

Just leave him, let him be happy with his girlfriend.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Be a good friend and resist homewrecker tendencies!

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds like he just thinks you are friends... don’t be a home wrecker and don’t embarrass yourself, just be normal and go on being his friend...

MegaBrumak · Answer

You should respect that he is in a committed relationship and keep a safe distance

Anonymous · Answer

He has a girl you dumb bitch! How would you feel if you were her?

markscott · Answer

Turn your attention elsewhere.

Pamina · Answer

You move on, what else?

HannahTanner · Answer

Nothing, he has a girlfriend

abby712 · Answer

Suck his dick after work.

taleets · Answer

You can’t do anything since he has a girlfriend

R_ūshī · Answer

Don't be attracted to him. Simple🤷‍♀️

ChillMatic · Answer

Leave your coworker the he'll alone!!!

Midnight_Kiss · Answer

Nothing, he has a girlfriend.

morganlove · Answer

He would like an excuse to break it off with her.

Iron_Man · Answer

Let it go my friend let it go

Jessetipo · Answer

Leave him alone respect your self

redted · Answer

Do absolutely nothing and find another guy

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

"he has a girlfriend" You dont

TonyWilliams · Answer

Wait for him, I guess?

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Work your vagina magic on him.

Koreantransgender · Answer

Well, he is takeen. Move on

neb34 · Answer

And you dont think you can take her?

Jlegacy · Answer

Leave him alone.

Avicenna · Answer

Remain professional

Anonymous · Answer

so, he's cheating, basically

Anonymous · Answer

You should stay the fuck away

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Leave him alone.

CT_CD · Answer

Seduce him

mayur955 · Answer

Forget.

GaylaD · Answer

Kill the bitch.

janet31w · Answer

Tell him your mind

Luke7i · Answer

Blow him

arnoshahrier · Answer

Go for it.

Agata91 · Answer

Cool

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