Guys, Why is he being nice to me all of a sudden? What does it mean?

[Anonymous]

My ex crush that i’ve been on a few dates with and kissed is all of a sudden acting very nice twoards me.. and i don’t get it. He’s talking to another girl now and has been texting her for weeks and just a week ago he was acting very mean and bitter twoards me, until a few days ago when he kissed me and huged me like he really missed me... after that kiss he’s been acting super nice twoards me like very nice i have not seen him like this since i first met him when we were dating..

[ShiftAC]

He grow tired of the current girl.

Maybe she's a needy girl. He started to be missing you cause he knows you better than the girl.

He thinks he understand you. But he doesn't. He treat girls like snacks. And hoping for a chance to hook up or come back with you.

But the final goal is to have minimum responsibilities.

He thinks his heart is telling him to do the right thing by treating previous girls nicely.

But thats not how break-up can be easily solve.

I dumped my ex before and i felt the more I treat my ex nicely, the more i felt that im putting her in an agonizing pain cause she knows im a douche that im a traitor for leaving her.

It is stupid to keep emotions hanging. Fuck that.

[Asker]

I was actually the one who didn’t want him at the time i wasn’t sure about how i felt and i was acting very hot and cold, he thought i was playing mind games with him. And then he started to get really mad at me and then started talking to this girl, and then this whole thing happend

[ShiftAC]

Well young love is newly fresh.

It happens. Girls playing with love. Guys playing with love.

Play along, feel annoyed if you need to. It's weird and just go with the flow. Do what your heart tell you to do and not your mind.

If you like him as he return to you then embrace him, you might get cheated but well, i got that too. I think many people have.

OR, ditch him completely, and know someone who you are more honest to.

[Asker]

But do you think he still likes me? Or why else would he kiss me and act so nice all of a sudden?

[ShiftAC]

He still likes you. Probably

He is conflicted. But he still likes you.

[Asker]

But he’s kind of acting more like a friend now except that kiss and hug, it’s very confusing..

[ShiftAC]

Then i guess he feel guitly about himseld if he ever falls in love with you. So just want to backoff every now and then so you dont see him as a total traitor.

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[ShiftAC]

Sigh* like he still have feelings.

That kiss and hug is the sign of him missing you

They werent meant to be falling in love with you all over again

It was just... He misses that time with you, to feel your warmth. He just wanted to feel it one more time.

Then he is committed to be just friends. Hope so.

[Shy_Steve]

It sounds like he is in love again so its nothing to worry about.

[Asker]

In love with me?

[Shy_Steve]

Could be with you or that other girl.

[outside_Toronto]

Doesn't mean anything