Do you think approaching beautiful women is waste of time?

[Anonymous]

In today's age pretty girls get thousands of messages in social media, they get all the attention. They are one swipe awayfrom hooking up with model look like dudes. Even if you are really handsome guy there are always someone better than you, richer than you etc. So building relationship and keeping that kind of girl interested became extremely hard. So why bother?

[crazy8000]

Hope you realize that most of those girl/guy's shallow, have a image to uphold since they aren't really that person they try to appear to be. also insecure.

Apart of that.
When it comes to it.
Does she do what you say she does she is a waste of time. since she isn't ready or open for anything more than geting entertained, tops a fuck for now.

If she is one of those few that can be something you doesn't need to worry if you are the right person since everyone else doesn't exists as more then just friends.

If you really want to attract. stop caring about those girl's shallow games and don't give her those stereotypical validation and approval, even stop automatically qualifie girl's in general un less they really have show that they have what you consider quality traits both physical and personality wise.
Let her work to show it without falling for easy physical and sexual tricks that many females do to not put any effort. Have an attitude that physical beauty is common and not special unless she has what's needed from her inside.

With other words. Standards.
Learn this that it's as easy to get pussy as dick when you let go of stereotypical beliefs that thing's is that isn't really are that way.
Also " Just because it's easy to get some ass doesn't mean we want to get fucked by any of them or for that matter fuck any of them"

The funny thing is that most of those that appear to want to have those girls aren't gonna go through with more than just some texting.
This doesn't people realize. not even those female's.

An other thing is that very few of those get approached IRL due to how they look to start with since people thing's they are already taken or to good for her or that she gonna find him unatractive.
An other thing is that they have signals that doesn't make her attractive.

You have an other aspect.
Physical beauty isn't special anymore. pretty common. that makes those desperate, makes them do more extreme thing's to get the same status from others, especially males.


Bottom end. stop doubting and be insecure that you aren't good enough.
It isn't the meaning that males are there to please female's.

[ZackBan]

Well personally I think your question also speaks to the self confidence in a man. Like can I beat all the competition or not?

Well the answer is absolutely.
First of all a trap most men fall for is caring too much about a girl's life, sometimes even more than she does. It doesn't matter how many guys are approaching her, when you have an opening to take your shot you take it, thats the moment where only you and her exist, if she likes it it will become a regular thing.
And most importantly, realize that when it comes to approaching a woman who is a stranger you have a vast catalogue to chose from, so don't sweat too much over that one girl who already found someone better, just keep flipping pages until one of them sticks.

[MissDawn7961]

no but just think , is she beautiful on the inside and will she make men wait on her to put on her makeup while you starve or will she ask you what you want her to wear so you all can go on your marry way and eat? if not then maybe find another girl to date ! thanks

[jennifer_bloom]

Its not a waste of time - I find the dumb ones care about looks and the smart ones care about personality

[lowell2593]

Just because a girl is attractive does not mean she is shallow and constantly engaging in egoic encounters. But they certainly do exist in both genders. But you are correct in saying keeping someone interested in money and cars isn't worth it. Being accepted for being yourself is the only way you will have a healthy relationship. Striving to up keep an image is exhausting. Social media does make some people more narcissistic for sure, but there are plenty of people who aren't. Focus on what you want and let all that go. Stay positive and just be yourself. Stay open to the fact that there are plenty of women who are genuinely good people.

[MissDawn7961]

well stated , thanks

[Yuri1970]

Not a waste of time. Sometimes you learn what they're about, sometimes not. Overall, you learn something about yourself; What you really look for, what you want to avoid, and who you want to be. You'll be able to integrate new things to be more social and how to present yourself to others. You'll figure out what your niche is, and will find beauty in those cliques. On the flip side, don't be afraid to step out and try new things. You may be surprised you also fit into new cliques.

[Anonymous]

U think they’re always with model like dudes. Wtf are u? Living in a cave i presume? I’ve never seen a hot girl with a hot guy. And if she is there, then she’s there for his money. Women go after decent dudes instead of the really good looking ones. Why? Because they’re less likely to cheat. Men on the other hand are clowns. We see a hot girl and we don’t even give our self a chance. I don’t see why men suffer from this bs either. At the end of the day she might FEEL ego boosted that some ugly dude approached and gave her attention. But the guy should FEEL more confident and he should be ready to be approach other women.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Social media is irrelevant. Most of the guys messaging her get ignored anyway, they all use the same lame openers and bland profiles. The top 1% of guys with model good looks may get lucky on Tinder, but the platform is tilted towards that instant gratification. It scratches a very particular itch, but it doesn't form really human connections like approaching a woman IRL can.

[Passinggas]

Without context it is an almost certain sharp stick in the eye. Let them take the initial chance with all the rape, harassment, and hate-crime laws being pursued on their behalf. If a woman picks you up that puts you on top, if you beg one to fall for you, then your soul is sold.

[winterfox10]

I don't think it's a waste of time at all. Beautiful women get hit up constantly, but that also means that that they get sick and tired of it. If she is interested and genuinely likes you, she's not going to care about all the other guys trying to get her attention.

[Liam_Hayden]

Nope. Yeah, she might get lots of hits from losers online but a lot of these girls get virtually ignored by normal men when they go out because those guys assume that they will get rejected, so they do not even try. Some of them barely date because they are sick of the Chads and Tyrones who only want to slam and jam, but decent guys are afraid to ask them out.

[NYCstreetPhotog]

Nope, not a waist of time. THERE ARE NO LEAGUES! The only thing limiting anyone is the way they themselves think and feel, you have absolutely no control over the other person, so you have no idea how they will actually react, unless you do it!.

[Wheelindealin1]

Not at all. Just understand that most women know what they have. The ones that act like it will show and you know that you don't wanna approach them. The ones that have class etiquette and are respectful, those are the ones you should try approaching. One thing I've learned is that you will find beautiful women everywhere that you go. What separates them is the personality

[MissDawn7961]

you got that right , thanks

[arabgoddess]

Yeah I seriously feel girls put it out there like it is and it becomes an addiction and they can't commit because they still want that continuous attention!

[TheCure]

Absolutely. Majority of beautiful woman are arrogant with terrible personalities. I prefer plain or women who dont know they are beautiful for this reason.

[OBanana]

No, but its a waste of time to approach the popular on insta high maintenance girl.
I know very like veeerrryy attractive girls and they are nice.

[Guffrus]

This

[4799175]

Never waste of time... But what's your idea of beauty.. ? That's something you need to figure out for yourself. When we know then going after what we adore is simple?

[Avicenna]

If you're talking about approaching them in person, it is never a waste of time. Online? Yeah, complete waste if time.

[Kaneki05]

I never approch any girl there all too pretty for me

[Nevada_rose]

If she doesn’t stay interested because someone else is more handsome or rich she is shallow and you didn’t want her anyways

[Anonymous]

u dnt need to be rich have sex with girls. u might need financial stability for relationships. u can work minimum wage and still pull 8s or 7s if u have game. and if u want to only be in relationship with 10s, then yes u need money, looks, and success. but for average looking girls u can still have a great relationship if u find a girl that u can connect with.

[blutwolfe]

No they have problems too and are human like us, but I will say trying to get one to stay in a relationship with you is hard lol

[Anonymous]

Great attitude. Even better for eliminating yourself from the competition, now other guys have one less guy to compete with.

[Asker]

So what?

[MEWHITEMANMEBAD]

Yes guys are just being desperate and chasing like pathetic loser and making fools out of themselves