Is it considered cheating if I take off my wedding ring in bars, just to get free drinks? (Page 2)

Question

All of my married friends do this, but I kind of feel like it's wrong. I really want to go out and have fun with them, but I just can't afford it right now.

Cactusqueen · Answer

Ask your husband. If you don’t even feel comfortable asking how he feels about it that should answer your question

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Ehhh I don't know. I wouldn’t say it is...

Unless you end up kissing any of these men or worse go back to their place. (Obviously)

It’s more along the lines of just disrespectful towards your husband

Fiiggy · Answer

Not cheating but it's just wrong. You're probably not a good person though and very dishonest. It's likely cheating on your husband is just around the corner. Why don't you ask your husband for cash to go drinking?

Billlewis · Answer

No, I don't think so. And you wouldn't have to take off your wedding ring if I were there, because I enjoy spoiling married/attached women;)

PondyPand · Answer

I would value my relationship more than free drinks, regardless of its cheating or not, which personally to me it would class as it.

BlueDream · Answer

If you can't afford it then maybe you shouldn't go. Don't involve such valuable jewelry as a way to get free drinks.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Depends if your husband knows about this. If he doesn't, it's kinda cheating. Decieving towards other men and a very selfish act.

AynonOMouse · Answer

Yes, it is cheating. They are flirting and leading people on to use them. I knew 3 women from one of my old jobs that used to do that all the time. I consider them all to be immoral cheaters.

McKellar · Answer

I don't know about the cheating part exactly,.. but you will confuse a lot of men if you get the wrong message across & they don't know much about you. If you flirt with them while you are still married,.. than yeah, I wouldn't do that.

Surely · Answer

Depends on your SO. He may view it as such.
But, you might be getting yourself into something you don't want to be in.
Some guys may figure they spent their money on you, so you belong to them for the night.

alice55 · Answer

For me it's cheating if you hide it from your husband. And I don't really understand why you would go to a bar without your husband anyway...

purplepoppy · Answer

No but repaying the free drinks with blow jobs is slightly cheating

adamjanovic · Answer

As long as you don’t have sex with someone else, I suppose it’s not cheating.

Olivia0192 · Answer

It's not cheating but nasty as a person. Don't give guys false hopes. Just for the sake of free drinks? Come on!

SarahsSummer · Answer

it’s all about morals. Sometimes you need to stand for something or you’ll fall for anything.

TonyBologna25 · Answer

That’s not cheating, but it’s not cool at all. I’m sure your husband rather pay than to have other men trying to impress you. Not cool at all.

OGxtra · Answer

That sounds like your cheating to get free drinks ! Isn't too that the question? Or do you want an opinion about whether or not it's improper to do that?

pleasestopthis · Answer

Well you're implicitly telling guys you're single, and you're lying to them to get favors from them. While not cheating per se it is still a shady move.

letssee89 · Answer

In my opinion, it's not cheating, but it is wrong. Taking off the ring signifies to guys that you are not otherwise attached, so they try to catch your interest by buying you a drink.

0112358 · Answer

Cheating no, being a lying manipulative asshole, yes.

MrMilti · Answer

Would you tell your husband, that you took your ring off? I guess, you already know the answer.

R4vedave · Answer

It's not cheating but it's pretty shitty, childish behavior

YellLow · Answer

Imagine your husband does that, how would you feel about it?

Glue-Sniffer · Answer

That's very cheap. And disgusting. But that is only my opinion.

EmmaMary · Answer

That's just so despicable, just how low can you possibly stoop in life?

CubsterShura · Answer

Do you think it's cheating if your man took off his wedding ring and bought other girls free drinks?

anonbrunette99 · Answer

This is quite sad.. i don’t think your partner would approve but hey it’s your life.

Texaskid1 · Answer

Your friends are all cock teasing skanks. Get new friends now.

AntiHunger · Answer

Yeah that’s considered cheating. How would you like it if your spouse did the same thing? It would look like they are flirting with other people.

Peanut127 · Answer

Are you poor? Bc your heart may be if your wallet isn't

Kdude010 · Answer

Yes. Obviously. Are married women still that immature that they want to appear single only to get "free drinks" ?

DeviloftheValleys · Answer

not cheating, but it's fraudulent and false. you're lying to the men who buy you stuff. if you're married, stand buy that decision or get a divorce.

Bman4907 · Answer

if you feel in your gut that it's wrong, then it is wrong. Personally, if I found my wife doing that, I would be a little heart broken. Please have a little respect for your husband.

Nitnit2585 · Answer

I bet your friends will be sooo mad if their husbands do something similar. You are right : it's a bit weird.  You may search for other ways to have fun.

Grobmate · Answer

You feel like it is wrong... hmm maybe because it is!

Browneye57 · Answer

Disgusting behavior. Where did you come up with this bullshit?

elite665 · Answer

No your just getting free stuff lol as long as it does not go any further

TheLawAroundHere · Answer

Yes!!! Im of the opinion that you might as well blow him right there at the bar.

Brad23203 · Answer

No (to cheating), but it would make you a POS in my book. What if you were in a bar and hitting on a man, took him home only to find out he was a she. Same difference. Lies are lies no matter how you sugarcoat them.

Avicenna · Answer

It's definitely wrong, but I wouldn't call it cheating.

CasaNorba · Answer

wouldn't say cheating unless you pay back those losers with your sacredness. oh well, you dont sound like the type that pays back either way

jamesgoldman · Answer

I found my opposite... I wear a wedding ring in bars (when I rarely visit them) to get people to avoid me

ChillMatic · Answer

Getting free drinks don't equal cheating. It doesn't show loyalty of respect for your marriage but it isn't cheating.

Twalli · Answer

It may feel bad to the guys buying you free drinks but if you never promise anything to them or flirt with them it's fine. If you're still unsure ask your husband if you can.

TheAteam1978 · Answer

No! I lost 5 wedding rings inside strippers but never cheated (my hand did) and chicks dig married guys (Hmm) so you will still get the drinks if you wear it

admles · Answer

It's wrong, and tbh, if I ever found out a fiance or wife of mine was doing this, we'd be having a long, long talk to try and find a good reason for me not to dump her ass.

Mel90s · Answer

Perhaps ask hubby how he feels about that. If you can't be honest and tell him, because of fear of disappointing him maybe then you know it's wrong. I wouldn't like it done it to me, but everyone's different..

needsum1helpplz247 · Answer

In all aspects about cheating I view it like this. If your not caught and end of the day still fully love and value more than the person u cheat with or w. e than its not cheating at all. But if your confronted specifically about it fess up.

Massageman · Answer

If you sole purpose is to score a few drinks, then it isn't cheating, it's simply fraudulent.

MackToday · Answer

It's pretty weird I can't imagine this unless they're all drunks who will do anything for booze.

JSWise143 · Answer

Maybe, but it's definitely rude, hurtful and disrespectful. Why be married if someone could just pop their ring off. Especially for some alcohol.

sp33d · Answer

So, if you saw or heard about your husband doing that, you'd be totally cool, right? ... Right? Didn't think so.

gaurwaith · Answer

a little bit, it's highly unethical, and if enough people realize you do it, you may start getting drinks poured on you, instead of bought for you.

Splintercell · Answer

What impression are you sending by taking off the ring? Your leading the guys on, even if the drinks are free.

Femalesinquiremales · Answer

I wouldn't consider it "cheating" but I'd divorce a woman for doing that scummy shit anyway. I don't want a slimey cumbucket for a wife

crazy8000 · Answer

That's low and some sees it as cheating. Personal would I question everything with our relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. Not just removing your ring, but being on your own at a bar!

ryudomasters · Answer

This is very low, your husband and hell as well society deserves better if you do this

GennySanders · Answer

Tf you doing at a damn bar if your married first of all. Point blank pathetic & trashy so

codycccccccccc · Answer

Its fraud your using miss information for financial gain

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