Looks matter the most, and when it comes to personality women just prefer narcissistic assholes.
"women rated male characters designed to capture high Dark Triad facets of personality (narcissism, psychopathy, Machiavellianism) or a control personality. Physicality was held constant. Women rated the high Dark Triad character as significantly more attractive [d = 0.94]" https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886913012245
Its true you can still get laid with shitty genetics... i had a friend in high school that looked like the mad magazine dude but he managed to pull tons of hot girls because he was a funny mother fucker and was hilarious to be around... but looks will not hurt your game in the slightest... looks id say are a close second... if not a tie to money
I think anyone who thinks looks are the most important thing in a relationship is not worth being with. Such a person most likely doesn't even know what true love really is. These also aren't the types suitable for marriage.
No, they're not! BUT it does factor in for me (& i'm sure some others as well since you're attracted facially 1st before you actually get to talk to him)
Looks are very important but only initially... I feel like the more time you spend with someone you don’t really see their looks as much anymore but their personality, humour and passion shines through. But to say physical attraction is not important is a lie. That’s the hook but the sinker is everything else that goes along with it
Not the most important, but they are more important than people lead on. Men and women. Looks are subjective. There has to be something physically attractive that all of us find attractive before we thinking about being with that person. Then that's when more important things like character and personality take over. If it weren't, people wouldn't get "friendzoned" nearly as much.
To me they’re the first thing I notice. If there isn’t something striking about your looks, I might not talk to them cause if I think our future sex life would stink, why would I —- know what I mean?
sigh, The "mangina" of GaG, once again desperately looking to curry favor with the women here.
"Date Coach"? You should be ashamed of yourself... all of your takes consist of the same message: "Men, no matter what you've experienced in regards to women, you are wrong. Women are justified in what they do... no matter what it may be and you need to just shut up and take it."
Do you even think about the men, you've messed up with your crap. You have decent average guys blaming themselves for women rejecting them because they didn't hit the genetic pick-6.
This question is just more of your like gathering, pandering bullshit. You certainly know that the women are going to lie and the men like you, always eager to stab their fellow men in the back, will rush to lie as well.
If karma exists at all, you and those close to you will have unfortunate accidents that occur in the near future. those things happen sometimes.
No they're not. They're important but compatibility is the most important. A hot chick/dude with your desired features is no good if she/he treats you like shit.
They do matter, I get complicated sometimes, sometimes I'm called ugly, it's just depends on the person but I say it matters to the majority but it varies
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Looks matter the most, and when it comes to personality women just prefer narcissistic assholes.
"women rated male characters designed to capture high Dark Triad facets of personality (narcissism, psychopathy, Machiavellianism) or a control personality. Physicality was held constant. Women rated the high Dark Triad character as significantly more attractive [d = 0.94]"
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886913012245
Its true you can still get laid with shitty genetics... i had a friend in high school that looked like the mad magazine dude but he managed to pull tons of hot girls because he was a funny mother fucker and was hilarious to be around... but looks will not hurt your game in the slightest... looks id say are a close second... if not a tie to money
You see, looks are very very important...
But the thing is, there are so many other things WAY more important than appearance.
I think anyone who thinks looks are the most important thing in a relationship is not worth being with. Such a person most likely doesn't even know what true love really is. These also aren't the types suitable for marriage.
A real BIG meat stick most important to me!! He gots ta be able to PLEASE a woman!!
LOL oh boy... you just triggered half of GAG guys Ha
I get what you're saying... I have some beef jerky at home and in my car. ;)
No, they're not! BUT it does factor in for me (& i'm sure some others as well since you're attracted facially 1st before you actually get to talk to him)
Looks are very important but only initially... I feel like the more time you spend with someone you don’t really see their looks as much anymore but their personality, humour and passion shines through. But to say physical attraction is not important is a lie. That’s the hook but the sinker is everything else that goes along with it
Not the most important, but they are more important than people lead on. Men and women. Looks are subjective. There has to be something physically attractive that all of us find attractive before we thinking about being with that person. Then that's when more important things like character and personality take over. If it weren't, people wouldn't get "friendzoned" nearly as much.
To me they’re the first thing I notice. If there isn’t something striking about your looks, I might not talk to them cause if I think our future sex life would stink, why would I —- know what I mean?
Of course they are not. Looks is like... the last thing. Because that in the picture, looks not good if that's "looks".
The last thing? Child Please!
I suppose this child is surely different.
sigh, The "mangina" of GaG, once again desperately looking to curry favor with the women here.
"Date Coach"? You should be ashamed of yourself... all of your takes consist of the same message: "Men, no matter what you've experienced in regards to women, you are wrong. Women are justified in what they do... no matter what it may be and you need to just shut up and take it."
Do you even think about the men, you've messed up with your crap. You have decent average guys blaming themselves for women rejecting them because they didn't hit the genetic pick-6.
This question is just more of your like gathering, pandering bullshit. You certainly know that the women are going to lie and the men like you, always eager to stab their fellow men in the back, will rush to lie as well.
If karma exists at all, you and those close to you will have unfortunate accidents that occur in the near future. those things happen sometimes.
No they're not. They're important but compatibility is the most important. A hot chick/dude with your desired features is no good if she/he treats you like shit.
Looks get you the application form, personality gets you the job.
I like that!
Looks aren't the most important, but i wouldn't want to spend my live with someone i didn't find attractive.
I agree!
They aren't important. You can be hotter than a habanero but be a complete piece of shit.
I'll take a cute woman with a badass personality over a 10 with a shitty personality.
They do matter, I get complicated sometimes, sometimes I'm called ugly, it's just depends on the person but I say it matters to the majority but it varies
Looks alone won't make me fall for him, and neither will his personality if I find him really repulsive physically.
It all has to tie together.
Looks fade, bodies get old. I want to be with a good man.
I couldn't care less, he's attractive to me, he doesn't have to be attractive to everyone. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
They help in getting your foot in the door, but your personality is the meat and potatoes.