I mean, maybe, but you're entitled to that. But I don't think it's shallow if it matters. Maybe it's shallow if it's the most important thing or more important than other things like character, personality, values, etc. But you're also human. It's hard. I'd say your end goal matters too.
I'm fat but a lot of people tell me I'm beautiful and I know I am as well. I have preferences too and I've never dated anyone I don't find attractive, whatever that means for me. (And I'm quite picky.) I don't consider myself shallow as a person because I know myself and anyone else who knows me knows that makes no sense. I thrive in depth beyond what most people are comfortable with. I also just like being physically attracted to the person I'm with. The exterior doesn't matter to some. I have friends who literally do not care about their partner's looks, barring terrible grooming and hygiene. They are all about the person. I love that so much about them and want to celebrate that pure "I only see the person" lens. It's beautiful. I just personally need both. I will compromise a little if he has the other really important qualities though. It's a spectrum, and I'm sure you're that way too - there's a range of what you like, not a perfect specific rigid model.
I'm very sexual and visual. (Yes, I sound like a man lol) But what two people, who care about looks, prefer can vary wildly. One guy may not be into me at all because I'm a plus size woman, but a lot of other men stare and tell me, "Damn. You're gorgeous." Likewise, I have a friend who will tell you without any hesitation that she has "dated down in looks before and is over it." The men she finds to be delicious are not my cup of tea at all and it's the same for her. Our preferences couldn't be more different but we both view our ideal men as the hottest. So everyone likes different shit, it's fine.
I would just say be aware that if you focus too much on looks, it will be harder to find the package that also has all those other things you want too. That's where I compromise a bit, because looks are the bare minimum. Hotness doesn't impress or intimidate me. What else are you bringing to table? Are you bringing intellectual compatibility? Great conversation? Depth and self-awareness? Compatible values? How do you treat other people? What's your relationship with your family like and how do you view and treat women? When you have a lot of deeper priorities, like myself, you might end up compromising on looks a little. Not to say you have to date anyone you're not attracted to (this is arguably a very bad idea), but it keeps you from jumping at the hottest guy. So many hot guys really think they're it just because of their looks and alleged sexual prowess. I've turned down really hot guys like this. Being conventionally hot isn't nearly enough at this point. What else? I think keeping that question in mind is good for thinking of what you bring to the table as well, any areas for growth or self-awareness, if a serious relationship is what you're after.
Yes and no.
Depending on how attractive are you? are you fit? Or chubby?
Most better looking guys go after nice figures rather than just a cute face. ( for the most part)
Most people attract people around their own level of attractiveness.. because most people know when someone is out of their league..
But of course not always...
I felt somewhat the same way as you before... only ugly unattractive guys would go for me... makes you feel ugly lol because again, most people attract their own level of attractiveness... but again not always... and I don’t believe that that always falls under “shallowness” it’s simply preference in most cases.
I am extremely picky.
And now I feel strange because the guy I am with is super attractive that I feel HE is out of my league, lol I can’t be live he is with me.
I believe that if tooooo much time passes, and still no luck, then that’s when it’s time to lower standards a bit.. or have a reality check And try to better yourself if you want something better for yourself. Men like slim or rather fit bodies rather than pug chubby appearances.. especially the more attractive ones.. if they are attractive, they rarely ever lower their standards.
You have a right to your selection process same way I have right to select what I eat. If I don't like the options, I don't eat. If I get hungry enough, everything starts looking good...
but if it doesn't work, then you have to learn that your criteria need to evolve... and they will somewhat as you suffer. This is almost standard female/human development. You have to uncover why you are attracted as you are and learn to value people differently. Many females are attracted to the same subset of males, in general, and a lot of them are not worth having... but they all want them... so they become spoiled brats with more than one GF/wife/or just no commitment at all.
Why would a guy who can get 10 like you, maybe even more attractive, settle and accept you... when he can get a fresh one every other day, since he's in high demand, and it costs him nothing since he's not committed?
so if you are cursed, it's because of your female hormones...
There is a problem that guys aer out of shape... that's their issue and it's a problem. Short... can't do anything about that. Your other option is to move to a more "target rich" environment, as they say in the military...
Normally I would say this is shallow since a relationship is much more than about looks which even apparent in scenario with your question itself. However based on the definition of shallow, if it's really important to you then it's not trivial.
On that note however, you will have to be responsible for your preferences and choices for better or worse (rather than it be completely unlucky although some that may be a factor as well). And understand what comes with the territory of them.
I'm not going to advise you pick someone for their character over their looks since as you seem to have stated that is important to you however I would recommend first considering most of your suitors regardless of looks and then boiling them down based on how much they seem to care about you and what dynamic you have (whether it is complenmentary or things in common) and there you may have a much better ratio. I'm no expert by any means but I know for a fact that relationships are a ratio of give and take. I think men and women just generally react to this differently.
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I selected yes but only because by definition it is. But I tend to think everyone is shallow, people think oh you're only shallow because you like tall/thin/generic model type people. But really if you like anyone based on their appearance whatsoever then you're at least somewhat shallow and it's not a bad thing. I also think people tend to ignore than attractive people can have quality personalities, i've been lucky enough to date people who were super attractive and had great personalities (in my opinion). I don't get people who take pride in dating someone solely on personality and that they're not really into the looks side. I mean imagine dating someone who had no physical attraction to you... that would suck especially if either party wants a sexual relationship. Plus really it's settling, I could have settled if I wished but what is the point if I want to get married eventually? I'm just wasting everyones time or by choice living in regret of what could have been. I'd rather just accept that i'm shallow or super picky...
I feel like this question would have received totally different results if a guy had posted it, but ultimately you can have whatever standards you want. You shouldn't be expected to settle for somone you don't want but you also shouldn't expect sympathy if you struggle to get guys who have"
better than what you have" to commit to you.
I hope you realize that the fact you can easily find hot guys that want to sleep with you even tho you aren't equally as hot is a privilege women have that men generally don't. Lots of guys wish they could have that "problem".
The fact the hot guys only want sex from you shouldn't come as a surprise. Beauty isn't in the eye of the beholder as much as people claim so chances are that guy you think is hot has LOTS of other women who also think he is hot. Why would he want to forgo all his other options to commit to a girl who in your terminology "has less than what he has"? Perhaps he has the same mentality as you and doesn't want to settle for someone who isn't AT LEAST equally as valuable as he is.
"I feel like this question would have received totally different results if a guy had posted it"
I might have to disagree with you a bit here. I think the question would have different results *from women* if a guy had posted it.
I'll tell you what I believe would get a very different result. If the asker, male or female, said he/she is ugly. Most people seem to have not thought out that same forces in evolution that make unattractive people unappealing to us normal people are also equally at work with the unattractive. In fact very few people I've encountered on GAG seem to realize this.
As for "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" being less subjective as people think, I'm very inclined to agree with you and there are studies that back this. But even more interesting, and I feel people deny this more vehemently, is "ugly is in the eyes of virtually everyone." Studies showed that that which is overall scored highly in terms of beauty also seems to have less agreement, or a wider variety of opinions. However, that which scores overall lowly in terms of beauty has near universal agreement.
I have my own theories as to why this is denied, but I'd be curious to know what you think, bandit. Why do people deny the objective component of attractiveness?
After seeing this I conducted an experiment as a man. Got same results
What do you consider short? Iv'e always considered around 5'9 to be the perfect height (serious) . Taller than most women, but not so much that it becomes an inconvenience.
If your not attracted to someone because their fat or ugly facially, then i suppose that makes sense. Also, maybe its possible that the guys your interested in are a bit above your level.
Keep in mind that we generally value ourselves more than other people value us. Those guys you think your too good for might have a high opinion of themselves.
I'm only 5'6, but I've never felt inferior because of my height. Why should I? Sure im short but im not a midget, and i dont deserve to be treated as less attractive just because i dont reach this conventional 6 ft+ standard that no one has control over anyway.
So yeah, i consider myself just as worthy of the same quality women that the "tall guys" are getting.
No one is perfect. Its okay to have likes and dislikes but maybe you should keep an open mind.
Its very possible that your only interested in guys that are more attractive than you are. Its called hypergamy. Most women are hypergamous by nature but a lot of women aren't capable of pulling this off.
I mean...
I personally wouldn't settle for a woman that i thought was less attractive than i was.
You're looking for the perfect guy. Sex is important but it shouldn't be the end all be all. Yes, you should be attracted to the person you are in a relationship with but just remember we all age. What if you age faster then the guy or man you are with? Does that mean he should leave you? Does it really matter if a guy is 5'10 compared to 6 ft 8? I know why girls/women like taller guys/men, it's a "protection" thing. But no offense but height doesn't determine real strength. I know guys who work out like crazy but if it meant war broke out he would cower away like a puppy. I can't tell you what you can or cannot like. It's fine to have "preferences". Me for example, I'll even give an example with celebrities.
I may find someone like former WWF Chyna as beautiful
or someone like Emma Stone...
https://www.youtube.com/embed/N8HqyuLBqnUTwo completely different types of women. One stronger, the other more feminine/petite and that's ok women come in all shapes and sizes and that's cool I am not a picky person.
Listen, I don't care if you want a perfect ten, I think its stupid but its your right to want that. However what I do have an issue with is you playing victim, you wanted 10s great, don't bitch and moan that your alone because the only reason why your alone is because you have decided to have incredibly strict standards, you have made these a priority in your life instead of the persons character (and by no means am I saying that attraction isn't important but its not the only thing), you have decided that height is vitally important etc. so this is not you being cursed, this is you making a conscious decision to be alone, don't play the victim you don't have that right.
I know you were just what you want out of life everybody has what's has a certain things they want from there another it's not being disrespectful it's getting what you want but I'll tell you this everybody if somebody can't do any everything for you or tries to change you makes you pick and choose family or friends then they're they're not for you your best friend your wife or your husband should do anything in my ex-wife if I am very straight ask me to have a guy f****** in the ass I would for her that's what a bestie is somebody that loves you for everything and anything
The intimacy and affection in any given relationship is not a compromise worth taking since it's essentially just a property of attraction/chemistry, which both are inlaid into the groundwork's of necessity of want and desire and need for a relationship to work. It's not a measure of how shallow you are, but how happy you see yourself being in giving yourself to that person and making them happy as well. If your smile or your happiness is ultimately a projection based on how you think others will feel about your relationship then you have no defense to ward off those to govern your joy, which dismisses the power you have in choosing the best person for the job. And you resign from being in control of it or obtaining it at all.
You’re waiting around for guys to approach you, that’s why you’re failing.
We are not animals anymore, where the male is supposed to bring you gifts and shit. If you want someone you’re going to have to go get him yourself. It’s time for women to step up. We are not animals anymore. It’s not a man’s job to chase you down. It’s not a man’s job to protect you from leapards and opposing warring clans and shit.
We’re all humans and we all have to live our own life. If you want a certain type of man you’re gonna have to go pursue him yourself rather than waiting around like you’re still an animal.
Call it whatever you want, shallow or not shallow. The thing is you have probably a concept of male beauty very restrictive that reduces your chances to find a partner. On the other side you are not attracting the type of guy you like, or you are only attracted to fuckboys. Two options: analize if there's anything you are doing wrong not to attract them (or make them fall in love in case the want to fuck but not to be your partner) ooor check out your concept of beauty and see if there's a way to expand it.
Everyone has their standards. If yours aren't being met, why try to force it? Try switching up tactics instead. You aren't cursed, just what you're doing right now isn't working. It could be that your standards are too high, dating shifts some from early to mid 20's. A lot of people are being taken off the market.
All the best guys and gals are in highest demand, so they get snatched up first. Think of picking for a baseball team, only there's a couple hundred thousand baseball teams picking.
This comes as no surprise because women are naturally more picky then men. But again attraction isn’t a choice. Dating someone you don’t feel the spark for isn’t fair to you or them. Just don’t assume they are okay with the friend zone though. If you take that route SPEAK UP EARLY about how you feel. You got to be respectful to all men whether you are attracted to them or not.
You are only shallow and/or a hypocrite when you hold men to higher standards than you hold yourself to. Not saying you are like that but I’ve met too many women who are.
See this is something.. You will have to be dealing in daily basis and it's totally okay to know what you want it have a personal preference..
People might call u a lot of things like u are being judgmental or shallow but in the end of the day. It is you who will have to go back to ur man and be in bed with him for the rest of ur life everyday.. And if u are not happy and compromising over what others think is fair or right.. U can't ever be happy. So u do u. Girl.. If u have a preference find that man.. Don't settle for others. But also dnt go around breaking others heart.. Clear them first what u really need..
And if u want to settle and compromise on some things. It should be ur call.. Not what others think..
I'm sure it'll be tough being the guy. But truthfully guys do it too. You need to find someone sexually attractive to be in a romantic relationship with them. Heading into a relationship otherwise is not truthful against either of you, and it will manifest. If it is weight for example, you cannot ask someone to be someone they are not. If it is something they cannot change, well even worse to head into a relationship. Unless you think you can get over it and the pros outweigh the cons, and you can still be intimate without this affecting your relationship. If you're in a relationship with someone, you should be honest with them and ask them to shave the beard, or excersize a little more.
Fat and ugly OK, I understand, but short stature is stupid, height has nothing to do with attractiveness (it depends on the type of height you mean), but what is your height? Are you short too?
I do not know if you are shallow, but I know that women here are hypocrites, when a man asks why he does not have a sexy woman they get angry and answer that it is his personality, maybe it sucks and he is superficial and advises him to approach any woman, but... you are a woman and, of course, you can have the standars that you want and demand everything in a man... but look yourself first in a mirror, maybe you are also ugly or short
It makes sense when you look at what girls find attractive and why. Height is associated with strength, athleticism and a better ability to defend. Right or wrong. That's largely what it's about. Height for a girl is a physical trait that makes them feel more safe. It's like if you're out for a walk and you have a pitbull or a rottweiler on a leash vs having a border collie or a beagle. The more physically capable one makes you feel safer if shit hits the fan. Knowing nothing else about them.
It sucks, because that height doesn't necessarily mean those things objectively speaking and it's not something you can control. But that's how it works. So who are we to say, your facial symmetry makes sense but height is stupid? Neither one is in your realm of control. Neither necessarily indicates anything of substance. But one is shallow and the other isn't? How does that work? We're simply talking about what gets you going sexually. Nothing wrong with girls getting turned on or off by height. Just sucks if you don't fit the one that benefits you. Thankfully height isn't nearly as important as other areas. It's just a superficial standard
Hey. You have preferences. There's not a thing wrong with that unless your standards are crazy high. I mean, if you refuse to date anyone who doesn't look like a movie star, you might have a long wait. But you're not shallow for having reasonable preferences.
I was gonna say no you're not shallow until you threw in that "only wants sex" thing. Now it's obvious that you're shallow because you expect a guy to promise you the sky right out the gate! Commitment is not something that can be promised in advanced. That's why there are hookups, breakups, and divorces. That's just life. What you want is a fantasy. You are unwilling to accept a future of uncertainty or a man with the freedom to change his mind, both of which are in fact inevitable parts of life. THAT is what makes you shallow, not your criteria for physical attraction. Physical attraction is natural and out of your control, unlike your mindset.
You are not unlucky as well ñeeding tó try to be more receptive to the where you are not running into the type you don't want and go to the place where the more attractive people are you may know that already but it doesn't hurt to go over it with you and you will find your right Man, It took awhile for me but I did Marry a beautiful and sexy girl with a great personality to boot and tomorrow night is our anniversary and we are going to dinner with our friends to a fabulous Restaurant and enjoy ourselves
Imagine if you weren't attractive and men did that to you. Just because you were born attractive purely by luck of birth doesn't mean you should exclude men based on attractiveness. Something they had no control of. Just remember you will age too and all you will have left then is your personality..
The same applies to men dating only attractive women.
I judge people on who they are because often the most attractive people are often narcissists. It happened to a woman friend of mine. She dated on attractiveness and ended up in a very abusive relationship. He was charming at first. Six months later it was a different story..
Don't date guys that you're not physically attracted to. You are just wasting your time. I have tried going out with guys that I wasn't physically compatible with. We ended up just breaking up anyways. If you have a feeling, that physicality is gonna be an issue, then it won't work out long term
I don't think you're shallow but why should you just date someone for the sake of it. You should date someone you like and find attractive. They say love grows but we don't have to have arranged marriages anymore. We are given the freedom to choose. I don't see men dating women they don't find attractive.
Personally I don't consider that it is shallow, everyone has what's called preferences as long as you can accept then you're also not someone that others might want to date, that they might and will find reasons to not want to date you.
That they will find things about you they cannot tolerate or want to deal with then it's all good
No you are not. However, I hope your personality standards are also equally high as the physical beauty ones.
You will be seen as shallow only if you give importance to physical beauty standards and totally ignore and compromise on the personality aspect. If you are giving importance to both then that means you are a very intelligent person.
Of course you need to date someone you are attracted to.
But you expections could be too high?
You will see that some guys than didn't seems so Wow at first sight have a charms or a little something after you see them more often.
Do you actually make a "move" to the guys you do like?
Nah, but have you thought about actually approaching the guys you're attracted to yourself? Or are you just waiting for some perfect guy to think "oH hEy MaYbE i ShOuLd TaLk To ThIs RaNdOm GiRl WhO hAs GiVeN mE nO rEaSoN tO."?
If you feel like you can get better, just go for better.
Yes or no But we’re all a little shallow I don’t want to take the girls and stuff but stomach pants and have a large bulge in there pants
There is absolutely nothing wrong with haveing a type and you should not feel pressured in dating someone you find ugly just because your afrade to be considered shallow I would be more hurt if I was with someone and found out she was not attracted to me than if I asked a girl out and she said no
I think there’s a fine line between preference and rude materialism. It’s okay to like tall guys and not short guys. Like people understand that. But there’s totally a way to take that too far. I really have 5’1 girls telling me that I’m not tall enough for them. Like... bruv these are people I don’t even care about. Like did I ask you. Did you really have to share your rude opinion.
Here's the difference between 'preference' and 'shallowness':
Preference: I prefer men of height 6ft and above.
Shallowness: I don't wanna be with a guy under 6ft, not even a chance.
True. Aside from a few concrete requirements like faith/religion, compatibility in future goals (especially regarding having children), otherwise I am quite flexible on other stuff.
I don't think it shallow to have physical preferences. However I did once meet a lady on tinder whose profile gave no real clue to how big she really was. Had I known, I might well have skipped meeting her. However, she was brilliant company and we had great fun. Don't disqualify people for superficial reasons.
Did u date her?
Girl, SAME!! I don’t think it’s being shallow. I just can’t seem to meet any decent men. 😞 Where are all the attractive, nice, straight, single men? You must live where I live.
Think of it like this... if you date a guy you know you're not attracted to from the start, but what to "see" if something might happen, you're MORE shallow for wasting his time, and your own. Stop the guilt... if you're not attracted in ANY way from the start, forget it. There's got to be something, or you're wasting your time, and his.
Shallow? Yes. Do I blame you? No. I'm shallow too. Have all the requirements you want, but never lie to yourself about your own worth or contributions in a relationship. If you're going to demand more, you'd better be bringing more. Or stay alone forever.
Yeah pretty much. Its like you have a checklist of what you want. doesn't work like that. Genetics. You can't help how you look. You are born and grow to an adult. Now the tricky part is maintaining your health.. remember its more important to have a sharp mind more so than sharp looks. That stuff fades. People behavior personalities dont usually change over the course of your lifetime.
Average to good are quite good enough. If you take care of yourself, and look strong and healthy, that's far more sexy... I've only been out with one guy who looked like a Greek God... sort of Brad Pittish... A second one was fairly pretty. I've been considered cute to pretty.. Pretty average.. Attractive is a different thing... You can be average but attractive... The looks personality combo is what sells you. So you can't rate looks alone. They have to work in conjunction with personality, brains too.
@Screenwriter you always have something to say don't you?
No. Only on issues I think are important and where I feel I have some experience. What, you tired of hearing from me?
@Screenwriter just awful convenient.
Not sure what you mean by the convenient comment...
@Screenwriter that you find a post of mine and say something. Convenient.
Well, sometimes I do and sometimes I don't... I'm not looking for your posts, but for posts that interest me. Seems like yours do...
If you had a post that said, "How do these shoes look, or does "he" look like someone you could love or what movie star does he look like, I would not answer them... because those are all rather vapid questions.
@Screenwriter fair enough I guess for someone whose not interested. Whatever.
So, if a guy who is hot, that you would want to have sex with him, you get disappointed, when he only wants sex with you?
And do not tell me, that you want hot and tall men solely for their character traits as a husband and father.
I voted yes, but I don't think that being shallow is really a bad thing. You can choose to pursue and be with whoever you what as long as it's legal.
I'm a virgin who ONLY wants to be with another virgin, and I'll admit that I'm a bit shallow, but it's what I want and who I choose to love is up to me and me only.
Depends, if you want a ripped guy over 6ft tall with a handsome face then you probably want to look like a model yourself.
Buy if you're just a regular somewhat attractive girl why not date a guy who's a bit above average and does sports/works out.
Do what you like but try to evaluate where you stand. Your approaching 30 apparently so it won't be long before the good looking, fit, and tall guys are way above your league, because as a woman youth gives you a big fucking boost.
Does he have to have all the sixes?
Six figures, six pack abs, six ft tall. If so you have to lower your expectations or you're gonna be alone in life. The people who you attract are a reflection of your attractiveness and its not only physical it has to do with your attitude it could even be emotionally. If you can't attract the type you're attracted to its your fault. You got some work to do
Depends.
If you get drawn to someone but your countiose values say you aren't because they doesn't fit in to some made up standard that is influenced from outside of your unconscious brain.
You are shallow.
majority of humans in western society are shallow no matter gender.
Those that have that survival strategy of belonging to a pack are usually shallow because of fit in effect.
That's your problem
As long as you don't try to irrated & instigate drama against done ugly person then you can believe ' do as you wishI live by some females who are just as superficial as you but they know IDGAF about their shallow ideologies & this they leave me alone because they lack any power they could have over me if I truly cared
It's not shallow, but I'm a really big fan of living up to the standards that I place upon others. I like in-shape, toned, athletic women; so I make sure that I can live up to that standard myself.
Dam I guess I'm out of the picture then yet sweet angel I'd have the most purest love for you I was bought up Norwegian Viking way since 6 Mont's old I build houses do part time healing massage free um however that has nothing to do with the fact I feel attracted to you yet I'll be put in the bin aye lol
It’s only wrong if you don’t meet the same physical standards that you’re expecting.
Besides height. If one of your standards is wanting a guy who is fit, and you’re overweight. It’s hypocritical. And it’s gonna be extremely hard to find.
I mean, that is your life and your standards and you are free to have them, but some people want more than they can have and end up alone so there's that.
If you are only looking to feel attraction to that person then no, you are not shallow, it's only natural. But if you do feel attracted to the person and don't want to date them because they're too short or not pretty enough then that's shallow af
No you’re not. I completely understand and have been there myself. You are just more picky because you don’t want to date just anyone. Be patient and kind to people and I’m sure you’ll eventually meet Mr. Right.
Is absolutely normal. Everyone has some requirements they want their future partners to meet.
The only thing I'd day is to make sure your requirements are normal and down to earth cuz if not it's gonna end up bad for you
No, but don't don't expect a hottie if you are not one.
Who cares? I am the same way I refuse to settle for someone that does not fit my attractiveness standards, but I am attractive too so it's not unrealistic.
are your standards unrealIstic? like describe what you like
Shallow? I'd say yes as you haven't discussed anything but the guys looks. However, you are 100% within your right to not pursue/date someone if they're not your type and/or not attracted to them.
Not sexist at all... we ate all entitled to search for mates who we deem dateable. The problem is, if you keep attracting the wrong people maybe it's time to re-evaluate your standards.
Physical preferences are inherently shallow by nature, but everyone has them. Humans are not perfect, virtuous creatures (assuming such a thing would even be objective at all, which it isn't).
The fact that you say you ONLY attract men you're not attracted to suggests that you are to shallow. Cause odds are one passable would have hit on you by now.
Saying my standards are too high?
Not if you're ok with it. It's only a problem if you complain about it as though rhe world owed you something. I'm single, i refuse date someone i'm not attracted to. Am i too shallow? maybe. But which is worse to date someone you're not really attracted to only to break it off with them later. Or just reject them from the start? I say the former. At least you aren't leading someone on and wasting their time.
No, that's not shallow. If you based your decision on their possessions, such as money, that's shallow. I wouldn't date anyone that I wasn't attracted to either. Not attracted, no interest in them. But also how do you know they're only interested in sex? Have they stated that? If so, yeah that would be a turn off to me as well.
No more than guys are... it’s ok to have standards and want to be attracted to the guys you date.
Just haven't found your Mr. Right. He is out there.
Dont change what you values for what your looking for in your Mr. Right.
You know what you want.
I wouldn't say you are shallow, but your standards might not be realistic for your level of looks, or personality. It is hard to tell without knowing you.
Typically hypergamous women I hope your genes never pass on. Guys quit chasing women this is what happens they with become entitled as fuck. Guys need to ignore women period
No should be able to get back what you put in and find your equal eg when someone's obese that's what they will attract. So this is when you truly have to look at yourself and go am I matching what I want? And if not lower your expectations.
No so long as your fine if a guy doesn't want to date you for the same reasons.
You should put your white privilege to the side and embrace a man of colour so that you don't seem to be racists towards other men. That you have embraced the Woke culture and the lefts hard core progressive ideals in breeding out the white race.
How do you know I’m white?
I think he's being sarcastic. he's probably one of those fools who actually think that there is a race war going on.
@Ummmmmmm222 bingo pure sarcasm.
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