Girls, you ever dated a guy but also had a friend that you just couldn’t help but be sexually attracted too?

[LaurenMeadows]

I feel horrible cuz I absolutely love my boyfriend. Been dating for 2 years, but this guy who is my best friend’s-best guy friend comes over with her frequently, lately.

She and Him are both very attractive but are like brother and sister so it’s like he’s free to flirt with but I feel bad cuz I’m in a relationship...

I never post on here cuz I never really need to but i don’t wanna tell anyone bout this. But should I feel slutty that I can’t help but check him out but he does have a very noticeable bulge that I literally can NOT-NOT stare at secretly😂😂😂. I don't know I feel horrible cuz I find myself secretly excited when my girl tells me she’s coming over with him. My boyfriend hates how we always hit it off. And you can tell he sees something that is cause for jealousy to an extent that makes me hate him for it. But it’s my fault at the same time cuz what he senses is not just paranoia. He’s never even hinted at anything like hooking up but he told my girl he thinks I’m adorable and would totally date me but he doesn’t even try cuz he’s actually a gentleman. I don't know but I’m losing my mind and I really just wanted to vent so if this ever is found then ohhhhh well I can’t tell anyone and this fucker has me feeling some kinda way.

[bxtterflytattoo]

When I was in my last relationship, I started to feel more attracted to one of the guys who was part of my school's theatre program with me. I also felt guilty because I started to unknowingly flirt with him, yet my boyfriend at the time was very much "head over heels" for me. When I think back to that, I realized the reason that was happening was because my boyfriend and I at the time were going through a rough patch and we started to realize we were two different people. And spending more time with the guy from theatre than my boyfriend is also what caused me to feel more attracted to him. I think it's good that you know that your boyfriend isn't blind to what is going on. But you also need to think for a second that is what you're doing is okay? Because so far, it doesn't, and you're just putting you relationship to fall. I think what you need to do, you need to think do you still like your boyfriend just as much as you did from the moment you guys started talking or even more? And maybe something isn't being communicated between you two, that needs to be spoken.

[Anonymous]

Well for starters take your picture off of here so you can’t be recognized! lolol anyways, I’ve been in this situation before and actually f^cked the guy, and after a while he ended up ghosting me so it came out to be totally not worth it, but it was fun while it lasted.

[Anonymous]

Going through that right now. I have a boyfriend but I’m attracted to my first love as well. I feel bad but me and my boyfriend just started dating a few months ago so I’m sure the love will get deeper.

[LaurenMeadows]

Ahh it’s so sad! I feel like I’m cheating and I’m not but fuck me this isn’t fair looollll

[Opinion Owner]

I know right ugh lol

[Secret6620]

Omg yessssss... It happened in high school... Lol🎀

[LaurenMeadows]

Lol what would you recommend? Gimme your gut instinct?

[Secret6620]

The guy who you think about the MOST! The one who consumes your thoughts a majority of the time... If it's STILL both... Maybe a poly type of relationship would be better

[LaurenMeadows]

I hate to say this... but it’s not who it should be. 😑😑 Ughhhhh this feels like a karmic trap. But it’s purely sexual. I don't know. Thank you sooo much for the wise words I truly appreciate! Much love ❤️❤️

[LaurenMeadows]

Def can’t do poly. My boyfriend would never be down. Sex isn’t really that great to go through all the troubles. I feel so slutty but I think I just want a good ****! 🤤🤤 looool jk

[Anonymous]

Yes been through that a couple of times. I even had to end a relationship with one guy while dating another.