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Guys, Are quiet, nerdy women a turn off?

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  • YHL6965
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    Well, if they are too quiet and it prevents any meaningful conversation, yes. Otherwise, I have absolutely no problem about this. I LOVE when I can nerd out with someone about something. I also prefer a quiet girl 100 times over a loud girl.

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  • MannMitAntworten
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    A turn off? No. However, they are neither a turn on either as the ‘quite’ aspect can often keep them unnoticed.

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      Quiet*

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  • MangoB83
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    Oh. But the quiet nerdy ones are always the most easygoing and fun. You can just hang out and it’s fine because they’re really introverted. They don’t have to flaunt the fact that they’re sexy either. They just know they are.

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  • serious
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    5.8K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    No, I don't think so. They won't be a turn off as long as they are intelligent and assertive enough.

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  • DiegoO
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    Guru Age: 36
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    I don't care to date quiet women's, I am quiet my self. What worries me is the origin of it. It's only part of her personality? Good, it's part of a major insecurity? No good.

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  • winterfox10
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    Master Age: 33
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    No, not a turn-off at all. My only thing is confidence. She has to be confident.

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  • Iron_Man u
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    Yeah they're boring as heck.
    And you never know if they're having a good time or not out on a date. They're all like Adrian from the Rocky movies super shy and always have a nervous or depressed look on their face

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  • hellacray
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    Guru Age: 36
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    2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    It could be if they look like one of them fedora wearing fat guys.

    If they're in shape and takes care of their hygiene I don't see why it would be a turnoff.

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  • theChineseWASP
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    Xper 7 Age: 36
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    It depends but generally for me yes. I like extroverted people.

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  • broken_heart_at_48
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    Not at all. It might be harder to break the ice with them but for me personally I think they can be pretty hot and a lot of guys feel the same

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  • ecfresh
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    Yes. If she can’t communicate and just sits there it’s not attractive. She can’t just be quiet.

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  • lopaDope67
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    Xper 4 Age: 25
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    No, as long as they are a little bit confident it's cute. It's better than a girl that's too out going

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  • Cryptic-Game
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    1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Not really. The quiet part can be a problem but I can encourage her to talk more.

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  • Browneye57
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    Master Age: 69
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    6.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Of course. Social skills are learned. You can work on yours.

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  • ChiccyNugs
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    Xper 2 Age: 27
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    Eh depends on more factors but based on nerdy and quiet alone not for me at least

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  • Aiko_E_Lara
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    Nope. I like them. They're quiet unless we relate. I'm actually a nerd myself only I don't wear glasses.

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  • COMMODOREII
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    Aren't they usually the wild scary ones in the bed? 😗

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  • Vitaminbcex
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    Xper 4 Age: 40
    +1 y

    Not at all am, am, am, am 😄. Im quiet too i get exhausted from just thinking Oooof😪.

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  • Avicenna
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    16.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Nerdy women are a turn on- I love them.

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  • ArrowheadSW
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    Master Age: 53 , mho 41%
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    Actually I am kind of attracted to it.

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  • KrakenAttackin
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    Master Age: 46
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    4.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    No, I think nerdy women are pretty awesome.

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  • NewZion
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    Xper 7 Age: 35
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    To me, they are. But other guys are into them.

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  • skittles2017
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    Yoda Age: 37
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    Kind of... sorry.
    How are you?

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  • PrinceNeo
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    Xper 6 Age: 27
    +1 y

    The exact opposite actually

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  • ItsTheNephilim
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    Master Age: 25
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    No, not at all.

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  • chriscdi
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    Master Age: 25
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    not to me

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  • coffeewithcream
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    +1 y
    513 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    No, they're cool.

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  • Dchrls78104
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    Master Age: 48
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    4.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Not for me.

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  • Physics-Man
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    Not at all!

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  • In_Trance
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    15K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    no they're not

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  • Anonymous
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    Not in the least bit

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