I am 30, is it bad, normal, weird or what, if I am only attracted to younger men, but I've never even flirted with a male in my life?

[Anonymous]

I have never had a boyfriend or even an eye contact with a male up until now... but I am only ever attracted to boys, ages 17 to 20 :( when I see a boy that age, my heart starts to beat hard and I can't control it? Is it because I have never had a man in my life? Or is it like a reverse lolita syndrome or something? It's not even sexual, I don't have the urge to have sex with them I just get so excited and weak, it makes my heart soften and break when I see a young man who still shimmers with his beauty of youth and innocence :( Is it bad that I still hope I can be lovers (non-sexual) with a boy that age?

[abc3643]

Your desires are actually commonplace among women so do not be hard on yourself.
I am a little concerned as to the reason why you are attracted to them. Part of me would instinctively ask "Aren't you attracted to their growing virility and masculinity?" After all, boys that age are really just walking erections.

[abc3643]

I don't think it's bad though. Your attitude seems in the right place.

If you want and it makes you feel more comfortable, you can PM me and talking in private.

[Asker]

it doesn't even come to my mind unless someone mentions it. if I wanted to get horny, I would look at older men with shaved heads and hairy chests. my attraction for boys has nothing to do with sex

[abc3643]

Maybe it's a maternal thing...

[Dinosaursandanime65]

I don't see. anything wrong with it. All I see. is people. burning in a huge fire with no way out. HAH heh heh!

[jaylovesfood1998]

I think its normal a lot of older woman are attracted you younger men but what I think you should do is our yourself out there I can guarantee you will have lots of young men ready to talk to you

[tHISpLACEiSbONKERZ]

Where were you when I was 17-20 ? Just smash as many as you can. No one cares, they'll be happy you'll be happy, its a win win.

[Anonymous]

I feel the exact same way except I'm a dude so its a huge problem. I don't think its weird

[Anonymous]

First relationship until 30?