I stutter. Is this unattractive? I've never had a girlfriend?

[vindwal]

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

It’s alright, not a huge dealbreaker for most women but I understand why you might be self conscious about it.

I used to sometimes make grammatical errors when I talk to people because the words were coming out of my mouth fast but not as accurate in proper order , etc etc.

So what I did is start practicing speaking by myself such as something as expressing an opinion on a topic so you can comfortable with my talking to the point I’m constantly complimented on it.

Try it and be patient and keep your chin up king

[GlitterFairy16]

I have a stutter too but went speak therapy and it's almost unnoticeable now. When im nervous my stutter starts to come out so when im around someone i really want to impress i just want to die inside, especially if it's someone im really attracted too.
I had people in the past make fun of me for it and it just made me not want to say anything and feel really shy around people i liked.

My boyfriend has none me since childhood and even before i was dating him. He was patient with my stutter and says he actually finds it cute and teases me about it but in light hearted way, cute way.

I guess what im trying to say is not everyone will be so understanding but eventually you will find someone who will love you for you and even your imperfections and if someone doesn't love you for who you are that's no ones issue but there's.

[GlitterFairy16]

speach therapy *

[mrfoox]

I stutter when nervous too. I don't think it's unattractive, and I'm sure many agree. I guess one could argue depending on how extreme the stutter is some would find it annoying, but mostly I'd say it's not a problem for most. If someone can't look past your stutter then they can't be able to like you for you anyway and so they're not the right one for you.

[EmbraceThePain]

Well, I don’t see it as something that turns on women, but if you’re wondering if this is the cause of you not having a girlfriend then rest assured as this is most likely not the reason for that.

[Desconhecida]

I have a cousin with the same problem who got cured with treatment.

[Blacksnake285]

You changed your pic and put on makeup because I called you butt ugly.🤣🤣🤣

[Desconhecida]

Who are you?

[Smoke-n-Growls]

I don't find it unattractive.

I was once interviewed by a really hot guy with a stutter and his stutter didn't change that he was a damn handsome and highly competent man.

I'm almost glad I turned down the offer, cause I'd have had a huge crush on him while I worked for him.

It might pose some trouble in terms of getting into a flow of conversation, but I think if someone can't deal with listening attentively to their date, you shouldn't be dating them anyways.

If you're feeling unconfident, perhaps it's worth looking into treatment? But if you're not having issues with that, do what makes you happiest.

[YourGirlGigi]

No. I know a few guys that do and have girlfriends. One just recently married. Just take your time speaking. Don't get overly excited or nervous. That's what I noticed with my friend. He takes his time to speak. If a female can't accept you, then she's not the one for you. You must have confidence that you are awesome no matter what other's my think. There's couple of females out there for you. It just a matter of time that you will meet them.

[SphynxUK]

My ex husband has a stutter.
Obviously I noticed it on our first date, and it didn’t make any difference. We have a 25yr and a 16yr.

We’ve been apart for 5.5yrs now, and he has had no problem finding women to date. He find them online, text, then calls them, video chats and then meets.

You are you. anyone worth their salt will think the same.

[TaniaUncensored]

I knew a guy in highschool who stuttered. He was well-liked and you know what if he would have asked me out I would have said yes. It was not his fault and he did his best to do everything he could to control it. Wish I knew more but I have heard there are ways to manage it.

[Anis09]

Stuttering does not define you as a person, or your physical appearance. I think that attraction is more related to how you are on the inside (kind, respectful, considerate, empathetic), which are characteristics that a girl will appreciate.

[just_a_potato]

A speech impairment shouldn't be a reason you'd be unattractive, only absolute idiots would go off your romantic potential based on something like that. You'll be fine :)

[thehotshotgirl]

It could be but you should speak slow and calm. It isn’t noticable that way and it would feel a lot better

[silvermoon84]

Unfortunately, some might find it unattractive but those aren’t the girls you want anyway. It’s not a deal breaker for me personally though.

[Redsmartie7]

My ex boyfriend had a stutter with everybody and he later on dropped the stutter when he was super comfortable with me. He has a bit of a stutter with other people still. I found it extremely cute and never admit to him he had a stutter... it didn’t matter to me. I loved him. The right girl will love it

[jessicasissy]

I've dated both girls and guys with a stutter, if anything it made them cuter when it happened because they'd blush a little and it would make me want to take them into my arms and shower them with love

[Cherokeehp]

I don’t think it’s unattractive, unless it’s like extremely severe. I’ve met dudes with stutters and I still thought they were attractive.

[Futron]

if a girl thinks that's unattractive, she probably isn't worth your time anyways. I think stuff like that is cute.

[dublin_sexyeyes0]

Sadly some people might see it that way. Thankfully not all. Im not sure how yours is but i got rid of my stammer when a teenager by talking more slowly.

[Bandit74]

Realistically it is probably something that works against you/lowers your desirability but it's unlikely to be a dealbreaker if everything else is ok.

[lilyanony1]

Just get it corrected, speech therapy is a brilliant thing. And your confidence will improve dramatically

[OddBeMe]

It could be distracting for first impressions, just being honest. I bet you can find someone despite it. But have you been to therapy for it? Some famous actors had this issue and they learn to sing their words. King Speech that shit!

[sensible27]

The bigger question is why are girls saying it's cute... omg this reminds me of my) highschool days... oh no... god... help save...

[victorvolf]

The reality is women like men who are sure of themselves. Stuttering gives the impression that you are not, so it makes you less attractive.

[hotfirework]

No, if anyone has a problem with it, let's face it, are they really the right girl for you?