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I don't know I’m 5’5 so it’s extremely difficult to find anyone to date because girls don’t want guys with bad genes girls have it way easier you guys get to pick and choose who you want to date while I have to literally take whoever would accept me
I personally like short guys more and some of my friends do too (I’m 5’3)
Because women do have it easier. The market is skewed in favor of them, many women do not date, so the supply is far below demand, simple as that.
Nobody is lying. What's your problem anyway?
Women have it easier because all they have to do is say 'yes'. Dear god child, you're dense.
The blonde-with-blue-eyes thing is a myth from the 1950's.
Nah, it’s still prevalent today. Those are the only physical traits men find attractive. Blond hair and blue eyes or you are out.
@Vonnieboo01 Just not true. A lot of men prefer brunettes, or Asians.
Ah Yeah? Then why do so many women have a different experience and get treated better when they diy their hair blonde! Men asked them out more and were nicer and more helpful toward them. The blonde halo effect is real. Plus blue eyes are also a plus in both situations, men with blue eyes prefer women with blue eyes to pass their genes as if dark eyes was a disease , and brown eyed men are also attracted to blue eyed women cause they find that exotic, but blue eyed men never found dark eyes exotic. If being blonde wasn’t a plus then trust me, you wouldn’t see the majority of women destroying their hair to lighten it. That’s a truth men will never admit cause they fear to be seen as racists, but the truth is, men are the ones who instaured these Eurocentric beauty standards
Plus 99% of the female sex symbols have light eyes, while most male sex symbols have them dark, Clooney, nick Bateman, Orlando bloom, johnny deep, Shawn Mendez, Justin Bieber and many others! These men are famous and adored despite not having light eyes, while the vast majority of the women sex symbols would never be where they are today if they eyes were brown or hazel.
The blonde with blue eyes always works bro...
that's just personal preference, i like blondes but i like redheads more. or very dark hair and very light skin is a nice combo too
The blonde part is not true. Men have less options when dating but I do agree that it might be harder sometimes for men to commit
Because you women *do* have it easier in dating. Women have been proven to be much pickier and demanding.
Even a really hot guy is going to struggle vs the average woman.
I don't know who hurt you but you know that, deep inside, everything you just said is very far from the truth, from reality and that you are just feeling bitter.
I will admit my wife is a 5ft5, blond really pretty girl. But don't think for a second that I married her for that! I love her so much for who she is. She is the most amazing person I ever met.
men have it infinitely harder in dating than women, its not even a question
Because we do. Even though most of us aren't aware of it.
True. However men love to complain, especially those guys who don't invest a minute per day in their physical appearance
Men complain? MEN complain? Holy shit. You have to be a female posting as a male.
If you're a girl redo your profile as one
Have you talked to your doctor about adjusting your meds?
Lemme ask you, who has a harder time with college applications. The student applying or the college choosing if they want to accept them or not?
Women are the more selective sex. This stems from our biology. For this reason, women have more options than men, thus creating a larger pool. Your logic is flawed.
Hooooooo boy, what a pile of double standards that was to read.
Not even gonna touch on this one, just gonna swipe left on that shit.
men are always expected to be the one to ask and get rejected 98% of the time , girls can just wait for people to come to them
I think everyone is convinced that the opposite sex has it harder, and trying to convince them otherwise comes across as being whiny.
Because they do. She can reject any guy she wants. She can ignore his texts whenever she wants. She decides if they have a second date or not. She decides whether they have sex or not. Etc.
Don't believe me? Lookup a video called "Tinder Experiment: 18 Yr Old Woman Tries Being A Man" on YouTube. The metoo movement alone tells you enough there already that they have it easy.
ty for pointing out the dark side if metoo movenent.
@magiusX26 Anytime man
Men have think that women have it easier because they do. The salmon are at an advantage to avoid getting caught than the fisherman is at catching them.
Really this isn't even a debate.
Lol bs. Men have it much harder. Lool up the 80-20 rule and female hypergamy and you will understand.
Nope, average looking men don't get women who are better looking than them. Men either date at their level or below. Women either date at their level or above
Yes most men are better looking than their wives. I think men are better looking in general.
@Sarahr123 That's usually the case, or he's just smarter and richer. It's either or.
Yes or he’s smarter and better looking and richer. I never cared for money as I’m a simple person and I have been told I’m very intelligent too by many many people and that will always hold more value than any compliments on my physical appearance. On the physical side I have a good height, I have a slim hourglass figure, I have a tiny 23 inch waist, big beautiful eyes, heart shaped face, long and thick tresses but I have never criticised any men on their appearance. It always seems to be the less attractive women who are quick to judge men and call them ugly and whatnot. I always have and always will believe that men on a whole are more beautiful than most women.
@Sarahr123 You seem like a sweet person, don't give trash people your time.
Cause men approach women. So their options are out on the table.
Where as most if not all women do not approach men.
So there is unkowns
Neither has an easier time... attractive people have an easier time
everyone else just has to deal with this fact and hope they find somebody... reality is some people never will
Wow. You're either very, very stupid or you haven't been on one date in your life. Or both, ofc.
i think its cuz sex is more important for men and since women get more sex, they think they have it better.
Oh god. Are you- are you a rare female incel?
its not rare we call them feminists tho
😂😂😂 They're not entirely rare but yep! Favorite comment lol
@007kingifrit yup not rare AT ALL.
I can tell you of my experiences in the last few years if you care to listen.
Create a male profile and find out.
Perfect idea!
Well it's hard to find a partner for anyone that lacks empathy and is dismissive for other people's problems.
Let's see. Men are expected to be the ones to take the initiative and ask the woman out. They are expected to pay for everything on the date.
Why are gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men 17 times more likely to get anal cancer than heterosexual men?
Okay that was funny, not going to lie, but I'm sorry what does this have to do with the question? lol
Viruses cause cancer.
You poor delusional thing, I don’t mean that in a nasty way, but you have no idea if the reality.
Because women are normally always in the position of accepting or declining, responding or ignoring in just about every step of the beginning
Those ugly men you see with pretty women is because of 1 thing: money, honey!
😂😂😂😂
Why is it that incels of both sexes think it's always the opposite sex that has it easy and it's all their fault why they can't get laid?
Women can't be incels.
@frostwalrus Of course they can be. That's like claiming no guy can be an incel since he could hire a prostitute.
@DCooper Your analogy is nonsense.
Watch this video then get back to us
https://www.youtube.com/embed/E4zMSUEQrTQBecauae if a woman opens her legs a guy will be there.
i agree it is easier for me , all i have to do is pay then i get blowjob , i am too lazy to bother knowing her as person
Because in comparison to us... You have it easier. Period.
can't even get a text back. Got my shit together aswell.
Seems I'm an ugly fucker who hasn't had a date in 8 years
But yes men do have it soooooo easy
Because they do, they just have to offer and lots of guys can go gaga and drool
Humans always think others have it better. Hence anti BLM assholes.
-not be hideously ugly
-not be an asshole
-not be socially retarded
-slightly taller than you
-graduate degree
Yeah we have unrealistic standards 😒
Why would a degree be relevant?
That's pretty dumb tbh.
I dont i just think i have it a little bit harder than cis people
Also women have it hard and i get that
Same reason why women think that men have it easier in dating
Because woman can open her legs to any man she wants to fuck and the man will be happy to accept. That's pretty much the just of things.
Sex and dating aren't the same thing.
It really depends on the individual. But girls get more attention though.
you are so beyond clueless and misinformed
You guys are fucking liars: www.google.com/.../...ue-eyes-graduate-degree.html
ah. a biased report. good job trolling. my more extreme prefferance would be an Asian, woman with black hair and green eyes ir better yet with a slight irish red mixed in so that there are some coppery strands and higher chance of emerald green eyes.
as far as normalized srandards for dating versus fucking:
dating : almost anyone (since fucking us off the table by your thinking) because "dating" is just hangung out together.
fucking : had a friends with benefits that i lowered my standards on and just was not appealing enough to maintain an errection.
good news though. since you seem to not be blonde, you have debunked decades of "blonde jokes"
I have blonde hair and hazel eyes but I have been rejected countless of times cause despite having a pretty face and a great body I don’t deserve commitment for not having blue eyes
It happens to countless of non-blue eyed women but men constantly deny it, out of the fear of sounding shallow and racists.
that is your biased opinion. if it were even half true then most people by now would have some type of blue eye coloring do to genetics but alas, the most common eye color is still brown.
oh yeah. by your supposed standards from us men, i should have a thousand women beating down my door yet i got none.
the biggest problem you seem to have is believing there is an universal standard from either gender where there definitely is no universal anything.
The title of that article says "PERFECT WOMAN" perfect is NOT the standard!
whenever women claim they have disadvantage in dating it's because they compare themselves to the creme de la creme ALWAYS!
what makes you think the article you link is right? it is lying to you
That's true. All men have to do is be rich. But it's hard for women to find such a guy.
We do have to be more than that.
And you think you’re not retarded? lol
I hate this! Why do we socially awkward people have to suffer so much!
We're the most oppressed people in society
madam, how much do you weigh?
women can just ask for a shag
Probably because they do.
Because on average, you do. That's probably why.
Agreed !
Yes. But men will never admit it
They have it easier in sex not dating.
Lol, nah fam, I like Brunettes😂
It sounds like you've had some bad experiences.
I don’t think women have it easier.