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How can I attract a bougie guy?

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“Bougie” in this case meaning classy, educated, and earning an average or above average salary.

I only seem to attract low-class men who are work minimum wage jobs.
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For the record, I have a master’s and make close to six figures, which is why I want to date someone in a similar status. I could understand the criticism of me being “shallow” more if I only had a GED and worked a a waitress at a local diner. People tend to gravitate towards people whom they share a common background and socioeconomic status with. Why is that so wrong?
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For the record, I’m using “bougie” as sarcasm. My culture would consider these standards “bougie”.

Rather than criticizing my “shallowness” for simply wanting to date someone with a similar lifestyle and mindset, please answer the question.

For the person who told me, maybe I just think that I’m high-class. Never said that. However ever, I do carry myself with a certain level of decorum and would rather not be in a relationship with someone who is ghetto or trashy.
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