Guys, say you meet your near-perfect dream girl. Which one of these would be the biggest Dealbreaker for you to lose all interest in her?

[MCheetah]

Which one of these would be an instant dealbreaker for you in an otherwise ideal woman?

This is based off a real-life story of mine. I found out a gorgeous redhead girl I was dating was a feminist (I'd say "radical feminist," but that'd be redundant). She also wasn't heterosexual nor monogamous, I later found out, and I was super-pissed at her for lying to me/keeping it a secret. To be fair, she asked me out, so it's not like I pursued her, at first.

SEXUALITY: She's not straight/queer.

RELATIONSHIP: She's not monogamous/*is* monogamous.

POLITICS: She's far-left/far-right/not into politics at all.

FAMILY: She has kids/doesn't ever want kids.

RELIGION: She's super-religious/an atheist.

LOOKS/HEALTH: She starts to gain weight/lose too much weight/is unhealthy.

OTHER: (Please explain.)

[hellionthesagereborn]

Monogamy is very important, I don't want some one who is going to try to sideline me for some one else but still expect me to follow my traditional role as a man and take care of her. Most people can't handle a relationship with one person so why so many try to open the relationship up is beyond me. So that would be the biggest deal breaker.

Second would be her politics. I don't have an issue with some one not agreeing with me, I do have an issue with someone deciding that I am an evil racist piece of shit that doesn't deserve to live just because I don't agree with them. So if they were far left I would not want to be with them.

Third would be her being bisexual. I have seen to many people trying to get their "fix" in relationships or hearing of them cheating because they just couldn't live without sex with the other gender. I'm not playing that game.

[Dchrls78104]

All would be deal-breakers, but I ESPECIALLY could not live with a dyke or bisexual.

[ScootaBootaBee]

Honestly, I've done the poly thing and eventually it blows up Everytime. Almost every open relationship or swinger couple has it blow up at some point and it's just dependant on the strength of the relationship if it continues or not

I want my partner to be with me. And only me. And I them. I don't want to be sitting at work worrying and wondering if she's fucking some guy in my bed. Or during a meeting wonder if any of these guys may have seen my girl named or fucked her without telling me.

[bluetoblack99]

Almost all of those are deal breakers which makes this question confusing.

The number one dealbreaker for me is she doesn’t respect me. EVERYTHING boils down to that. Everything.

But the problem is women will shit test guys they are interested in. So how do I figure out if it’s a shit test OR she doesn’t respect me.

[Anonymous]

Those are all deal breakers, but you touched on the biggest one for me in your question... being a feminist. I have dated a feminist and I will NEVER date one again. Ever.

[madprofessor]

Dated one of them alphabet soup ladies, hard pass.

[Nalix]

While all of these could be major deal breakers, some are easier to change than others, assuming she's otherwise perfect. Helping people change usually isn't worth the effort, and it's not good for either of you.

[Anonymous]

A and potentially E. Don't forget the other option, taken! lol That's been the case with every one I've met. They aren't available!