If a girl has never approached you is that valid enough reason to assume they don’t want you?

[Anonymous]

If a girl has never approached you is that’s valid enough reason to assume they don’t want you

I mean even if a guy doesn’t really talk there would have to be something that would cause the women to gravitate towards him if she wanted him also doesn’t that make you an incel

[VanillaSalt]

Women don’t approach... you gotta grow a pair and all them to their face.. yo I couldn’t stop myself from looking at you across the bar and wanted to get a better look... my name is... it’s all about getting to to hold a conversation


Worst that happens she says no...

[Asker]

That’s the thing I’m too afraid

[VanillaSalt]

Lol bitch

Your gonna be alone for the rest of your life if you don’t grow a pair. Learn to care less... how does it hurt you if she says no? Embarrassed? Every man not in a suit carrying a black credit card gets rejected. The chad that played as the quarterback in high schools getting turned down right now.

Your not trying to date her your trying to talk to her. You wanna know if she’s worthy of your time and efforts. If she says no she’s not worthy move on.

Him: hey mind if I join you
Her: yes go away
Him: fair enough have a nice night.

He walks back his table and drinks again... he don’t care because he’s alpha... he knows there’s 10 more like her here tonight and every single one of them gonna reject him. Until one doesn’t.

[WindAtMyBack]

Doesn't mean that at all.

Guys are mostly expected to make the first move. If they don't that doesn't mean anything. When girls don't make a move it means even less.

[Asker]

But I would never approach

[WindAtMyBack]

Then don't expect anything to happen. If you are waiting for them you might be waiting forever. It would be far better if women did approach, but they don't. Should and shouldn't doesn't matter. It only matter actually happens.

If you approach, the odds of getting somewhere are far higher than waiting for her to approach. If she doesn't it definitely does not mean she isn't interested.

[Asker]

Dude I am gross looking women will automatically jump to an accusation I’m sexually harassing her

[jennifer_bloom]

I don’t notice certain guys but if they make them self known by chasing they all of a sudden distinguished themselves from the pact

[Sapioit]

Yes. They wanted equality, and now they have it. If they want you, they better hit on you.

[Asker]

Yep definitely never happens

[Sapioit]

Then they don't want you enough.

[Sapioit]

You might want to say mention to her friends, especially if she happens to hear it, that you expect girls to hit on guys if they like them, and if they don't, it's because they don't like them enough to date them.

[Asker]

Now they stare a lot I just had 3 girls stare at me

[Sapioit]

Maybe they expect you to hit on them. Who knows, maybe it will work for you.

[Asker]

But I’m way across the street lol

[Phil2213]

It depends on the person and circumstances. Some people have a level of shyness or social awkwardness that precludes them from sharing their feelings. Also, there are traditional feelings that a male should be the social aggressor in relationships.

[Asker]

Yeah my social awkwardness is really bad

[Xylem1992]

No you can't tell untill you're in the same circles

[Asker]

Why though

[iambae]

You're the man! You do the approaching!

[Asker]

So women can humiliate me

[smellfarts]

Yeap pretty valid.

[Asker]

Also it makes me an incel correct

[Asker]

Cause I never approached them

[In_Trance]

If you say so