I agree most men like bigger women. However if someone is mainly attracted to bigger women should not be developing relationships with women that weigh 125...
Agreed!Probably it is a communication issue anyway. Sometimes two peoples interests / expectations on life diverge and the one who notices that first is scared to admit it. Admitting that a relationship has become unstable because of different development trajectories of the partners is a big deal for some people: When we are younger, we often have the concept that, once we have found the "right" partner and invest effort and care in the relationship, we will happily grow old with them. But this is not how things work, from what I have seen. Sometimes two people have to follow different paths in life and the one who notices first and is scared to admit it might be tempted to cheat when he should have split up instead in a "clean" way.Of course, there is always also the "asshole" explanation. Some people are selfish assholes. You may not notice for a while, as they appear to care about you as long as you suit their needs, but then...A possibel special-case of the "asshole" scenario are men, who are cheating but are actually happy with the relationship and love their partner. They may have a very strong urge to act out on, some fetish they dare not tell their partner about or that the partner does not like. This can actually keep a relationship alive but needs a very liberal arrangement and a lot of forgiveness on the woman's side.Final note: Sexual attractivity ("beauty") is not such a big factor in overall attraction once a relationship has become stable. Maybe for very young, unexperienced men.But that "big" thing is less about absolute wheight than about proportions - hourglass shape. Any woman that has most of her fat-tissue on her butt/hips has a good chance of matching that preference, independent of her actual weight.
I think it goes both ways. I've seen some pretty hot guys with stable lives get cheated on with scrubs.. homeless convicts... ridiculous
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Lol ok. I weigh 125... hoe he cheated with was something over 200. And ps... my pic is real. It is a real question. Truth is... most men downgrade when the girl they r cheating with.. is to remain a secret. Question is y...
Did you ask him why ma'am? Obviously she is fulfills a need for him or was this just a fling?Talk with him. Worst case is the relationship is over best case y'all reconcile.
Yes I asked him. He can't give me a reason. Just says he's loves me and dont know y he did it. It was multiple flings with anything that would speak to him. He definitely wants to reconcile. I just dont trust him so I'm trying to understand so that I can trust him. But a lot of people on here just blamed me. Acting like they know me or something. Terrible shameful
Funny cause the guy that did it.. doesn't blame me. He blames himself
I'm not blaming anyone just trying to assess the damage and situation. It sounds like he has a lust problem but if as a man he cannot give an account for his actions. How can it be saved?What I mean is "I don't know" is not a reason that's something little boys say.I mean there is a reason behind this. There is something missing but until he is completely honest with himself and you totally what can you do?In other words if this was one time maybe that would fly but it's been multiple so he is consisious of what he is doing.Does he want to be a swinger or single or have side women?I ask because has he stopped? What is the plan the next time a woman says hello or he see a woman entering Lane Bryant?How will he resist?Sidebar: as an older man you have to go out of your way to step out on your lady.
His excuses make no since. I do believe it's a lust problem or sexual addiction. I've gotten him to tell me some things as we have been long time friends. I want to help him. But at the same time... not trying to hurt myself u know
Did you noticed... a lot of men on here just blame the woman that got cheated on. Its hysterical lol
In a twist of irony from both directions, if men cheat, apparently it is her fault. If she cheats, it is his fault. Neither which take ownership of their i discretion and general low character. Me, I enjoy my integrity too much to screw around on the side. It easier just to end things of I wanted to become a philanderer.
I do like how u blame a mans decision to cheat on the person he cheats on lol. And u must like the little cubbies too since your so offended lol. by the way ol dude is begging me back always... so honey I'm aware his issue isn't me. But thanks for your attempt to insult me because I have self confidence. I bet your a case of dont know his ass from a hole in the ground lol js
You're exactly right I know nothing but I do know you make a perfect candidate for a slave to leash collar. wait... not leash... The chain and choker I've been wanting to bust that out.. I'll have a barbecue in your honor chain you out in the middle of the yard well let's just say my BBQs somebody's Boston butt is going to get eaten. Oh and don't forget to tell your friends I'll put your f****** name on it before I send it
Lol. Like I said on ur post... ur a silly one... well all I know... is if I was with u i would get u to lick up my cooch after some dude nutted up in it lol. Then blame u saying ur a douch is y I did it lol. Happy snacking u nut case.
Good thing I'm hungry and not allergic to nuts 😘😏😏😏😏
Lmao ur funny as hell. Lol I actually like it
I can't believe you wasted your time trying to make any sense of what I wrote I got unfiltered unedited mouth use voice chat so it just comes out and I hit send I read it 5 minutes later I don't know what the f*** I said what we talkin about... Oh yeah pictures yeah I'll their name on it before I send it I use a marker can be any color so what the f*** was we talking about... That wasn't it was it okay have a good day
It actually took 2 seconds of wasted time to read ur message. Man u r crazy. Talk about my attitude... damn from the looks of it your highly sexually frustrated. Especially heinous attitude towards women... sorry one must have cheated on ya and broke ur heart. Yea didn't have enough time to waste decifering ur last message... but how bout u just go back to your own post to look a fool. Thank u :)
And people talked about us having multiple personalities talking to ourselves I know she's crazy yeah but you like crazy I'll f*** I do once she likes knives she might like my play adding with it I don't know they might hear you on that the whole site knows you're an idiot wrapped in a moron covered and stupid sauce.. you member that doctor give you a doctor's people are starting to look at you the f****** looking at you dude shut up... Just let me do the talking okay I got this handled watch this...'Excuse me, fo you have any Hey Poupon?"
Ok weirdo... blah blah blah talkingbout your ass behind a screen. Lol. Ur talking to urself. I got shit to do... and it's better than this so have fun with it little boy lol. Maybe u should be doing the same as me... and work on getting laid... peace it's been real... entertaining that is lol
And thank you that got me to the finish line right there.
That's interesting. Please elaborate... why keep her as a girlfriend if she isn't giving him what he wants...
Some guys want to try something new, be it a kink or frequency or even just want to vent. Their girlfriend might be more conservative or scared or bitchy and they would rather do it with someone else rather than fight with their girlfriend. They are still in the relationship because of their history or they live together or they made promises.
Honestly I think men... might assume their girlfriend isn't into certain things so instead of just being real about what they like... they go find someone they could care less about to bust it out on.
Sometimes. Other gfs say no sex on their period, no anal sex, no bondage... what should a guy do when their girlfriend has already said no?
I dont know just know I never said no to any of that and still got cheated on. I guess the question is more about y a guy does it... without blaming the person he does it to.
I can't disagree lol
Hmmm I'm not sure... why have someone has a girlfriend... if they have a bad personality or treat someone bad... im a pretty lady... independent... raise my children with zero help. . Stay postive... loyal faithful... honest... a hell of a cook... and home maker while doing a mans job working for myself. I'm pretty sure on a personal note. That's not a valid reason for men to do that. And no I'm not talking about booty calls... I'm talking about kids around eachother types of relationships... the girls cheated with r the booty calls. So yea I'm not sure I understand.
See I don't personally know you , my answer was pretty general. You think you have a good personality and desirable quality. The the term good personality is very subjective and varies oi person to person. May be the other girl have something which you don't have and that trait can be considered as bad by general society but he finds it a desirable quality. It actually depends on person. May be she is better at sex than you to him or others... That doesn't mean you are not enough... Find someone worth your while
Or he got board with you...
he's still chasing me tho... so I wasn't the problem lol. And it was one night stands so not better at sex if he has no knowledge before hand. And comes back to me. But yes maybe I should just give someone else a chance... cause I can't trust him.
Honestly the only time I have was to b vindictive.
then don't ask why guys do itAND SHAME ON YOU
Lol I said y I do... now I wanna know why guys do... that cause me to have to teach them a lesson.
Y do you cheat... asshole lol
Guys do the same REASONS (with an s), as women mightif you are a cheater, you are pathetic
Yes. My ex cheated on me with fat ugly girls.