Why so many ugly guys cheating on their pretty wives/girlfriends?

[Anonymous]

why they did this? I have seen several pretty women are always being cheated on many times. some of them no longer dare to get marry and seem traumatized by this.

[AmandaYVR]

If you think external beauty is what keeps guys... you have a lot to learn about relationships.

You sound a bit like a woman from another bygone era. Except those women knew how to take care of other things - the house, the kids, provide all the comforts inside the home, and be a submissive, catering, wife. That time is gone.

Beautiful, or hot - they're fleeting. And they're just one small piece of the pie. In fact, there is no pie anymore. Cause girls don't feel they have to contribute much to the men. They think it's up to the guys to prove their worth.

Most cheaters don't do it chronically, or with every partner. It's not true, 'once a cheater, always a cheater.' There are many factors at play, and most people who have had a partner have any involvement with someone else (I phrase it like that because there is no one, unanimously agreed-upon definition for 'cheating anymore - some believe watching porn is cheating, for instance), don't want to talk about anything except how wrong that other person was. It's a great way to retain their image of being 'the perfect partner', and an angelic victim.

Humans are more than "ugly" and "pretty." Some are ugly on the inside, which negates their external advantages. It doesn't matter how good looking someone is, if they have nothing of depth to say, or are nasty, or self-serving, people don't stay with them.

But also, some guys cheat, repeatedly, no matter who they've got in their bed. Those guys should never get married. They're selfish, and they want their cake and to eat it too. They're unappreciative of their partner, the life they built together, and don't value their partner as they should. But it has likely nothing to do with being "pretty."

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

This ☝️

[AmandaYVR]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 Thanks.
Hey did you change accounts?

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

Deleted my previous one. Had intentions of leaving for good, but I missed it.

[AmandaYVR]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 Ah I see. Well you're in good company with that. I know so many who've done the same. Thankfully, for me. Would have lost some good friends.
You're good for gag. A sensible voice of reason.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

That's nice to hear. I think the same of you. I should have contacted you sooner.

[AmandaYVR]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 🤗 Well thank you. I'm glad you made your name recognizable. Makes it easier.
(And no malfeasance/shiftiness, or trying to avoid a harasser. Just a change of heart. Perfectly understandable.)

[Flower7]

Those guys have over-inflated self esteem. Ironically, part of that is probably because they were able to date someone who was so attractive. Now they think they can get anybody.

[drakethibault1]

I don't want to sound rude, but I know this for sure. Unattractive men (who are ungrateful) want to prove themselves that they are alpha beasts. People say that they never stop being manwhores and will continue cheating or having sex with multiple women. I mean I understand when you have lots of women when you are in college, because reasons are obvious. But when you are married, I think it is expectable to be somewhat degree a decent husband ( No one is asking you to be an ideal husband).
Therefore, we understnad that unprepossesing men get beautiful women to prove that they are somebody ( in the eyes of society) and then they demonstrate they can act hard. But tbh they do that not only with women, they act like this in general with all people.

[K-I-S-S]

I mean they can't be that ugly if they have somebody to cheat with.

A lot of people are just shitty.

And men who cheat are weak. Wanting options is great, but let your partner know beforehand, when starting that relationship, this playing around is a pussy/beta move.

[MzAsh]

Being pretty doesn’t mean they’re respected.

[normalice]

Probably they imagine there is less pressure to perform if the girl is less attractive. I refer to this as a guy's "eyes are bigger than his balls."

[madgoat]

Perhaps they rely too much on the physical attributes and too little on their personality.
Perhaps they choose poorly their partners.

[Michael49]

Why do people cheat in general? I will never understand it. If they’re not happy just split up. Don’t care who is pretty or ugly cheating is whats ugly

[fred_durst]

these ugly guys are selfish , but they have power to do that ( money , social status , etc)

[Medhat-M]

They think of them as trophies.. Once they got them that's it.. And it will boost their confidence to go for another one

[KrakenAttackin]

Probably because the beautiful women treat their men like dogs.

[chriscdi]

I know I be seeing it, that sucks smh

[anylolone]

Same reason why ugly women cheat on pretty dudes.

[In_Trance]

Because it has nothing to do with aesthetics