When I met my future wife for the first time, we had a similar connection.
We met through a pre-internet dating service. She was the sixth woman I had met through that service.
We talked and talked effortlessly. She gave me a kiss in the parking lot before we parted.
I had more dates lined up and might have gone ahead with those. And if I had and time went by, I might have been afraid to call her again for fear that she would be upset that I hadn't called back sooner.
But two days after our date, she took a chance and called me. She said some friends had offered her two tickets to see the Rolling Stones and Red Hot Chili Peppers and wondered if I was interested. Of course I was!
So we did that. At the concert, she placed her hand trustingly in mine. We continued to date exclusively after that. I proposed a year later and we got married a year after that.
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I understand you dilemma.
While its good to be open and Frank,
I see the problem here is that u don't want to sound cock thirsty.
I think from a girls perspective, you could just send him a text saying hey, you looked great in your outfit that day , very few men care to make sure they look clean and will groomed up.
And wait for him to respond... You can take it from there.
Am sure if he doesn't really back or doesn't ask you out again he is not into it.
No worries either ways move on. 😄😄
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He already said he wants to see you again. You don't want to wait for him to ask for the second date?
Absolutely. Even the playing field. If you’re playing the field he should be allowed to as well. You date multiple guys. He dates multiple girls. Who doesn’t love a challenge? May the best man/woman win.
If we aren’t in a relationship I’d be open to a girl dating other guys but I’d want to know too so I’m not investing everything into this one girl who isn’t doing the same for me. I wouldn’t hold it against her. I wouldn’t give her all of my time and effort. Here’s the catch. If I find a girl who I REALLY like and she’s not dating multiple guys and wants me to stop? The first girl is out of luck.
So just make sure you’re choosing the right guy. If he’s monogamous and has a pair he won’t stick around for a girl who’s dating another guy UNLESS he’s allowed to date other women. And there’s no guarantee he’s the type to do that. He might prefer dating one girl at a time. Just be open and honest with him.Five fuckin hours and the only thing he got was a grandma's hug. You can say that you had a blast with all that free attention you got from him. What he would say about that date if a friend asked would be something along the lines of "OMFG it was horrible man. I wasted five fuckin hours of my life with that bitch. I gave her all this attention, made her feel special, wasted money and all I got in return was a hug. Next time she should just come over to my place, fuck and get out of here"
you could say that you want to meet him again, if you don´t want to ask for a second date. If we you want to be more on the safe side, you could tell that you would like to have a second date with him. That doesn´t make you look needy if that what hinders you, by doing so you would still show him that you like him and you´re interested in him.
Sure, why not. I get the impression current times confuse certain men or how or whether to move forward with someone leaving a bit of initiative up to women - which I have a feeling confuses certain women just as much too. So again, why not? Go for it...
Go for it , hopefully you'll pick a winner and not a guy out just wanting some.
Hope it goes well if you go for a second datei think from that he was expecting the text conversation to continue... i bet he is left wondering the same as you, if you really liked each other. anyway no harm can come from asking him if he wants to see you again
Ask him are we gonna hang out again? done because this is what you wanna know
YOU SEEM TO BE A GOOD GIRL BE STRAIGHT FORWARD SO YOU WON'T GET HURT!!!I would wait and play the game You ar beautiful and if he can't get his act together why should you waste time Sounds if he wanted to see you what conversation facilities has got
Mmmm mentioning a second date right after the first is a little too soon.
I do think you should bring up the next one, if he brought up the first but i wouldn't do it right away
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